1. SERMON NOTES May 20, 2012
DR. ROB RENBERG, PASTOR
10:45 a.m.
Pastor Rob Renberg
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MAY 20, 2012
7 “Keeping Marriage Pure” 10 Commandments for Family Values
Exodus 20:14
#7 “Keeping Marriage Pure”
"Thou shalt not commit adultery." Exodus 20:14
Exodus 20:14
I. THE PROBLEM: What Causes Affairs? “Adultery is a trap…” Pr.22:14 (GN) PLEASE NOTE: NEXT SUNDAY WE WILL BEGIN OUR SUMMER
Unmet needs Unfulfilled expectations Unresolved conflict Undeveloped self-worth SCHEDULE WITH THE MORNING SERVICE AT 10:00 A.M.
II. THE PREVENTION: Six Steps...
1. Make a Commitment to ______________________________
"Be faithful to your own wife and give your love to her alone." Pr. 5:15 (GN) Special Guest
2. Magnify ______________________________ (Prov. 6:26,32) Pianist Troy Shoulders
3. Maintain My ____________________________ (1 Cor.7:2-6)
4. Manage My ______________________________ ( James 1:14-15)
How Affairs Develop
1st Accepting ______________________in my mind. 14461 James Street, Holland, MI 49424
616-399-4410
2nd Emotional _______________________ involvement parksidebible@sbcglobal.net (e-mail)
www.parksidebiblechurch.com (website)
3rd ______________________ involvement
4th ______________________ the affair Our Mission: Learning from God’s Word…
Growing in God’s Grace…Reaching with God’s Love!
5. Maintain Proper ____________________________ (Eph.5:3)
6. Minimize the ______________________________ (1 Cor.10:12)
MINISTRY TEAM:
III. THE PATHWAY BACK TO PURITY Pastor: Rob Renberg - 738-7840 (pastorrobjr@parksidebiblechurch.com)
Youth Pastor: Matt Amundsen - 786-2699 (pastormatt@parksidebiblechurch.com)
1. Acknowledge ____________________ (Ps. 51:1-4)
Church Secretary: Judy Timmer - 399-4410 (parksidejudy@sbcglobal.net)
2. _____________ the relationship ____________________ Elder of the Week: Rick Taylor - 392-6349
Deacon of the Week: Barry Dekker - 786-3296
3. ________ _______ _____________ with the person from now on.

2. Information For Your First Time At ASSISTING IN WORSHIP TODAY
Parkside Bible…
USHERS GREETERS
1. WE ARE HAPPY TO HAVE YOU WITH US TODAY. PLEASE FILL OUT A WELCOME Owen Smith Mike VanderToorn Brian & Hannah Hodgson (Front Door)
CARD LOCATED IN THE PEW. RETURN YOUR COMPLETED CARD TO THE Ryan VanderHaar Eric VanderToorn Casey & Angi Fogerty (Welcome Center)
WELCOME CENTER TO RECEIVE YOUR GIFT & WELCOME PACKET. Sub: Daniel Furbush
For prayer requests or decisions, please check the appropriate box on the back.
INFANT NURSERY
2. WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO USE OUR NURSERY & CHILDREN’S MINISTRIES. (10:45 a.m. Age Birth-2)
Our children’s programs provide a warm, nurturing & well-supervised program for your Lisa Kimbel, Amy Renberg
Sarah Schultz
child. Your child will be much happier with our trained volunteers than in the worship
service and sermon presentation. Lessons are taught at an age appropriate level utilizing
music, games, drama & multimedia & other methods. CHILDREN’S CHURCH LIBRARY
(Dismissed from Service-Age 3-Kindergarten) Gwen Lawton
Gwen Klemm & Family
3. PLEASE DO NOT FEEL OBLIGATED TO PARTICIPATE IN THE OFFERING.
The offering is for regular attendees who consider Parkside Bible their church home.
As our guest, we only ask that you turn in your welcome card, or bring it to the FINANCIAL TEAM PRAYER PARTNERS
Welcome Center behind the fireplace for a gift. Rick Taylor-Elder Dirk Bronsink
Barry Dekker-Deacon Randy Riegler
Craig Dykstra Don Lawton
Doug Dibkey
ASSISTING IN WORSHIP NEXT SUNDAY
This Week Coming Up USHERS GREETERS
Daniel Furbush Ryan VanderHaar Burt & Elaine Taylor (Front Door)
Today 3:00 pm Softball Practice @ Wendt Park May 27 10:00 a.m. Service Time Change Mike VanderToorn Eric VanderToorn Al & Ethel Riemersma (Welcome Center)
Today Quad Cities Youth Meeting following service May 28 MEMORIAL DAY
Tonight 5:30 pm VBS All-Staff Meeting June 1 9:15 am Circle of Moms
Tonight 6:30 pm Sr. High Youth Group June 1 7:00 pm Stamp ‘N Scrap
Mon. 7:00 pm Board Meeting June 1 7:30 pm Church Softball Game @ Helder Park INFANT NURSERY
Mon. 7:00 pm Volleyball at the Church June 2 6:00 pm Pig Roast/Auction Youth Fundraiser (10:45 am Age birth– Age 2)
Wed. 6:30 am Men’s Prayer Group June 3 9:30 am Financial Team Meeting Joe & Kara Taylor, Marti Dibkey
Wed. 5:00 pm Parkside Men’s Golf League June 10 10:00 am Grad Sunday
Wed. 6:30 pm Jr. High Youth Group June 18-22 Vacation Bible School!
CHILDREN’S CHURCH LIBRARY
5/20 Angie Fogerty (Age 3-Kindergarten) Ginny Tennant
5/20 Harold TerBeek Sabrina & Katie Preikszas
5/20 Bonnie Alcala Jessica Furbush
5/21 Ross DeHaan
5/21 Sharon Van Houten
5/21 Ben Schaap FINANCIAL TEAM PRAYER PARTNERS
Jay Riemersma-Elder
5/22 Stephanie DeHaan A.J. VanKampen-Deacon No Prayer Partners Today
5/22 Jean Foulkes Kevin Mason
5/22 Lynn Volkers Brian Mokma
5/20 Kurt & Michelle Postma
5/23 Jerimiah Amundsen 5/22 Doug & Marti Dibkey
5/25 Beth Brown 5/25 Keith & Jill Welch
5/26 Mary Walters
5/26 Ron Kooistra

3. New Prayer Requests:
t Pray for healing for Larry & Angie Rees’ son, Steven
upcoming events!
from Texas, who developed a very serious infection in 10 COMMANDMENT FOR FAMILY VALUES SERMON SERIES “Family Values”
his knee that was replaced 4 months ago and had the is the new theme of the political arena, and we hear the phrase everywhere. But
knee removed last week. He will be receiving IV whose values do we follow? Do the Democrats or Republicans have the corner
on what values we should follow in our country and homes? Pastor Rob will
antibiotics for 2 months before the knee can be
continue today with #7 of this 10 week series that harkens back to the original
replaced. design for “Family Values”...The Ten Commandments. What stands the test of time?...the
t Pray that the severe rash that Diane Cartwright has is from an allergic foundations of God’s plan and design for the home and society set forth in the most famous
reaction to meds rather than something more serious and that it will clear up. 10 statements of all time.
t Pray for our Vacation Bible School 6/18-6/22, to be a successful outreach
“WEDNESDAY MEN’S GATHERING” Join Pastor Rob and other Parkside men
event for our church.
for a time of devotions, praying together, talking about life and enjoying a good cup
of coffee! Stop by the church from 6:30-7:30 a.m. on Wednesday mornings.
Continued Prayer Requests: Come when you can...leave when you must.
t For healing for Fay Griffin’s sister, Barbara, who had brain surgery on FINANCIAL TEAM MEETING All members of the church Financial Team are asked to attend
4/13 and is still in intensive care in Alabama and for Fay who is staying at her a meeting on Sunday, June 3, at 9:30 a.m. in the Board Room.
sister’s bedside;
t For healing for all who have had recent surgeries & illnesses;
t For the homebound: Maureen Cooke, Mary Carmichael, Judy Blauwkamp, VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL ALL STAFF MEETING TODAY!
5:30-6:00 P.M.
Kay Everett, Ann Bouman, and Nelvie VanKampen;
t For all who have lost jobs and that employment opportunities will arise; If you signed up to help in any way with our VBS, please plan to
t For healthy marriages and renewal & restoration of troubled marriages; attend this very important meeting. We will work through the
schedule, location, safety and daily teaching point.
t For safety and spiritual, emotional and physical strength for our military
troops and missionaries around the world. Please bring your completed “Emergency/Health Form “ to the meeting.
If you need a copy, you can pick one up on the VBS table in the
fellowship hall. Youth helpers under 18 need a parental/guardian
Church Families of the Week: signature on the form. If more than one family member is helping
with VBS, we just need one form per family.
♥ Burt & Elaine Taylor ♥ Al & Ginny Tennant
♥ Joe & Kara Taylor, Aidan, Kallie, Kenzie and Elise ♥ Harold Ter Beek Note: Trek Guides will meet with Hannah from 6:00-7:00 p.m. and those working on the
♥ Rick & Sally Taylor, Kyle and Becky ♥ Ida Mae Ter Beek Bible Game will meet with Linda B. from 6:00-6:30 p.m.
♥ Mike & Ella Ten Harmsel, Sarah ♥ Greg & Laurie Teusink Questions...talk to Ria Nieboer (786-3372)
GGF Sister Church of the Week:
† Georgetown Bible Fellowship in Hudsonville, Pastor Robert Davis Morning Worship Time Change
next Sunday!
Missionaries of the Week: Service will begin at 10:00 a.m.
♦ Chuck & Joy Befus, Missionaries to Costa Rica
Apartado 809-4005, San Antonio de Belen, Costa Rica
rather than 10:45.
Email: cjbefus@gmail.com

4. VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL
Monday, 6/18 - Friday, 6/22
9:15 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.
JR. HIGH YOUTH GROUP SR. HIGH YOUTH GROUP
Grades 6-8
Wednesdays 6:30 - 8:00 p.m.
Grades 9-12
Sundays 6:30 - 8:00 p.m.
“God Meets Our Needs”
For all children entering Kindergarten
JUNIOR HIGH HAPPENINGS: through 6th grade this fall
TODAY QUAD CITIES MEETING FOR TEAM MEMBERS ONLY Pre-register today at the VBS Table in the Fellowship Hall!
FOLLOWING THE MORNING SERVICE! Invite the neighbor kids, your child’s friends and relatives
Update-Devotion-Meal-Details about Mission Banquet and help us reach our goal of 100 children touched by this ministry!
THIS WEDNESDAY - Outreach Game Night Dear Parkside Church Family:
GAMES-DEVOTION-FOOD-FUN!
Thank you for all your prayers prior to my surgery and also
for the wonderful meals delivered following my surgery.
5/30 Special Youth Group led by the Youth Leaders Your love and concern are greatly appreciated!
6/6 End of School Bash (Welcome in 5th graders & send off 8th graders)
Deb Hoops
SENIOR HIGH EVENTS:
TONIGHT - Small Group & Dinner Night
DINNER + CHOICE OF BREAKOUT SESSION + GAMES
For the breakout session, you have the choice of a “Creation Forum” with Ken Kruis DATE GENERAL FUND BUDGET +/-
or “Spiritual And Physical Health” with Bryan & Linda Booker OFFERING
Month of April $27,257.70 $25,917.35 $1,340.35
5/26 Service Project
Thank you for your generosity and consistency in giving to the Lord!
6/3 End of School Bash (Welcome in 8th graders)
6/10 Grad Event 6:30-9:00 p.m.
All 8th-11th grade youth are urged to come & celebrate with our graduates!
OUTSIDE OPPORTUNITIES
BARNABAS MINISTRY OPPORTUNITY Barnabas Ministries is offering a short-term ministry opportunity
2012 SENIOR HIGH GRADUATES for women through Summer Girl’s Group. The girls they serve are referred by juvenile court, foster care,
Plan to attend a special grad event on Sunday evening, June 10. counseling, school, etc. The goal is to teach life skills and give them new experiences in a nurturing, safe
(Please bring your Senior Picture in a frame to the church by June 3.) Christ-like environment. All training and instruction is provided. Group Mentors, Transporters and Food
Providers are needed. Contact CJ at Barnabas Ministries at cjbender@barnabasmin.org or call her at
616-748-8435.
YOUTH PRAISE BAND!!! LIFEWALK Can one person make a difference? Yes, you can! Sign up sponsors to support you as you
Immediately following J.H. Youth Group on Wednesday participate in LifeWalk on June 16! Lakeshore Pregnancy Center provides a variety of free services
including: abstinence-only education, pregnancy tests, early ultrasounds, abortion alternative counseling,
June 6, (not 5/30) there will be a short informational
materials assistance and “Earn While You Learn” programs. You can sign up next Sunday at the Life-
meeting for ALL YOUTH interested in participating in a
Walk table in the Fellowship Hall. More information is available at www.lpcenters.com or feel free to talk
Youth Praise Band. Parents are encouraged to attend. to Cris Hoppa.

5. TICKETS GO
ON SALE TODAY! NEW MEMBERS
PIG ROAST
& HAWAIIAN LUAU
auction AND AUCTION
SATURDAY, JUNE 2
6:00 P.M. AT THE
CHURCH TOM ARENS DIANE CARTWRIGHT TODD & MICHELLE CROOK
A YOUTH FUNDRAISER FOR OUR QUAD CITIES MISSION TRIP Please
WELCOME
OUR
$10 PER PERSON FOR TEEN - ADULT NEW
CHILDREN UNDER 12 ARE FREE MEMBERS!
†
If you have an item or could obtain an item for our auction,
TIM & PHYLLIS MARS BILL & ESTHER PEACOCK
please contact Pastor Matt. Thanks!!!
If you or your son or daughter are graduating from college this year,
please let Pastor Matt or Judy know the name, college and degree
attained so that all our graduates can be recognized on
Graduate Sunday, June 10. COMMITMENT
EXPECTATIONS
TOM & VICKI STROBEL RENAE VANDERHAAR
† Assume responsibility for your own spiritual nourishment
through personal and corporate Bible study and prayer.
Congratulations to
Miranda Postma † Participate in weekly worship services on a regular basis.
on the birth of her daughter † Support the variety of ministries of Parkside Bible Church through
prayer and a willingness to serve with your spiritual gifts as God leads.
Analeigha Raelynn † Cultivate the unity and peace of the congregation.
† Respond in a healthy manner to the leadership of the pastors,
Born on Sunday, May 6 elders, and deacons in matters of church policy and discipline.
6 lbs. 9 oz. & 19 inches long † Contribute financially to the church in a consistent,
generous manner through tithes and offerings.
Congratulations also to Grandparents
Angel & Bonnie Alcala! † Share your faith personally with others and represent
Parkside Bible Church in a positive and Christ-honoring manner.