Help for neglected husbands

1. help for neglected husbands

2. Her husband wrote her a text from work and told her that she loves the children
more than him. It broke her heart. Does your husband feel this way? I believe
most men feel this way. I have even heard women say they will divorce their
husband, but "they will always do whatever is best for their children." They would
NEVER leave their children. Oh, how I wish I could explain to them that staying
married to their daddy, making him her number one priority over the children,
and providing them with a mother and father are what is best for her children!

3. Whenever I have asked women if they are better wives or mothers, they always
answer they are better mothers. Mothers are touched, pulled, and needed all day
long by little ones. They nurse awhile, fix meals, clean, wipe faces, wash dishes,
cuddle, read, and the list goes on and on. These are their babies that came from
their womb. They love them! They would do anything for them. I understand. I felt
the same exact way when I had four little ones.

4. There’s a relationship “secret ingredient” that a man craves in
order to feel intense, committed love. Without it, he will always
keep one foot out the door.
 The #1 reason you’re not his priority anymore
 If he’s shutting you out, here’s what’s missing...
 Why he does the bare minimum (and what to do about it)
 The difference between “like” and “love” (most women miss this)
 Men fall in love with women who have this “secret ingredient”
 The “secret ingredient” to lasting commitment

5. Then Dad walks in the door. "Oh, it's just him. He's a big boy and can
take care of himself. What about me? I sure hope he doesn't expect
anything from me tonight." I'm sure many of you can agree with this
sentiment. You're happy to have your husband around to work hard
and bring home the paycheck but this is about it. Many wives don't
care for their husbands much past this and besides, he does things
that bother you. I'm sure this is why many men don't want many
children. They've already lost their wife when they had their first
child!

6. Boy! I sure wish I had Debi Pearl in my life to set me straight! I
desperately needed a thought transformation since I had such bad
thinking. This is not God's ways for us. We are first and foremost
called to be our husband's help meet. Most husbands work hard to
provide for their families and deserve the respect of their wives for
this huge responsibility God has ordained for them. Men want and
need respect from their wives. God knew this. He created them for it
and this is why He commands it from wives.

7. Instead, when your husband comes home, drop everything and greet
him at the door with a hug and a kiss. All the children will follow your
lead. (Although, they've probably been excited to see their daddy
come home all along and the mother should have followed her
children's lead!) Make sure there is a meal he enjoys prepared for
him and he has a home of peace without strife to welcome him
home. Train and discipline your children so all of the burden doesn't
fall on your husband's shoulders.

8. Listen to him when he speaks. Make sure the law of kindness is on
your tongue and that he knows he is as important to you as the
children you had together if not more. Please, don't neglect your
husband once you begin having children. I understand that it is easy
to do but you must not allow it to happen in your marriage. You two
are one flesh and you'll be together alone for many years after the
children grow up and leave home if the Lord tarries.