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                                                            He will give you all you need from day to day if you live
Objective: To live for God by choosing to find our          for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary
validation and acceptance in Him rather than people.        concern.
                                                                                      Matthew 6:33 (NLT)

•   Name the people in your life you often feel pressured   •   What needs you are expecting others to meet that can
    to please.                                                  only be met by God?


Read:                                                       •   What choices or changes do you need to make in
                                                                order to have those needs met only by God?
Our purpose is to please God, not people. He is the one
who examines the motives of our hearts.
                                                            Read:
                             1 Thessalonians 2:4 (NLT)
                                                            He will give you all you need from day to day if you live
                                                            for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary
•   What motives do you have for trying to please           concern.
    people?                                                                                    Matthew 6:33 (NLT)


                                                            •   Pray together: God, help us to believe you will give
•   What do you fear would happen if you failed to please       us all we need from day to day. Help us choose to live
    them?                                                       only for you and make your Kingdom our primary
                                                                concern.
For Further Study
                                                                     •   When is it good to confront others with their faults? (7:5)
Matthew 7: 1-5
                                                                     •   Why is it necessary to deal with one's own sins first? (7:5)
Open

•   What kinds of things do people criticize you for the most?       Reflect

•   How do you tend to respond when someone criticizes you?
                                                                     When, if ever, should we criticize or judge someone else?
•   What would your friends say is your biggest fault?
                                                                     Why is it that the traits of others that irritate us most are often the
                                                                     very faults that are present in our own lives?
Explore
                                                                     What happened the last time you criticized someone else or
                                                                     judged another's actions?
•   What happens to those who are judgmental or critical? (7:1)
                                                                     What are some of the things that cause us to become critical,
•   In what way will we be judged? (7:2)                             judgmental people?

•   By what measure will we be judged? (7:2)                         How can we become more merciful and nonjudgmental?

•   What kind of faults do we notice in others? (7:3)

•   How did Jesus illustrate the foolishness of the way we find      Apply
    fault with others? (7:3)
                                                                     •   How will focusing on your relationship with Christ make
•   What figure of speech did Jesus use to illustrate how blind we       you less likely to criticize others?
    are to the shortcomings in our own lives? (7:4)
                                                                     •   What issue in your life is God drawing your attention to? How
•   That did Jesus call those who ignore their own imperfections         can you give Him control in this area of your life?
    and focus on the flaws of others? Why? (7:5)

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Ydhwit series 2 small group questions

  • 1. You Can’t Please Everyone - Week 2 Read: He will give you all you need from day to day if you live Objective: To live for God by choosing to find our for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary validation and acceptance in Him rather than people. concern. Matthew 6:33 (NLT) • Name the people in your life you often feel pressured • What needs you are expecting others to meet that can to please. only be met by God? Read: • What choices or changes do you need to make in order to have those needs met only by God? Our purpose is to please God, not people. He is the one who examines the motives of our hearts. Read: 1 Thessalonians 2:4 (NLT) He will give you all you need from day to day if you live for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary • What motives do you have for trying to please concern. people? Matthew 6:33 (NLT) • Pray together: God, help us to believe you will give • What do you fear would happen if you failed to please us all we need from day to day. Help us choose to live them? only for you and make your Kingdom our primary concern.
  • 2. For Further Study • When is it good to confront others with their faults? (7:5) Matthew 7: 1-5 • Why is it necessary to deal with one's own sins first? (7:5) Open • What kinds of things do people criticize you for the most? Reflect • How do you tend to respond when someone criticizes you? When, if ever, should we criticize or judge someone else? • What would your friends say is your biggest fault? Why is it that the traits of others that irritate us most are often the very faults that are present in our own lives? Explore What happened the last time you criticized someone else or judged another's actions? • What happens to those who are judgmental or critical? (7:1) What are some of the things that cause us to become critical, • In what way will we be judged? (7:2) judgmental people? • By what measure will we be judged? (7:2) How can we become more merciful and nonjudgmental? • What kind of faults do we notice in others? (7:3) • How did Jesus illustrate the foolishness of the way we find Apply fault with others? (7:3) • How will focusing on your relationship with Christ make • What figure of speech did Jesus use to illustrate how blind we you less likely to criticize others? are to the shortcomings in our own lives? (7:4) • What issue in your life is God drawing your attention to? How • That did Jesus call those who ignore their own imperfections can you give Him control in this area of your life? and focus on the flaws of others? Why? (7:5)