1. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
001. Do I allow my child to
teach me something?
001

2. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
002. Do I forget to encourage,
when my child do a good job?
002

3. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
003. Do I show too much
affection in public?
003

4. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
004. Do I allow my child to
take some risk s?
004

5. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
005. Do I respect my child’s
privacy ?
005

6. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
006. Do I say ‘ Yes’ more than
‘No’?
006

7. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
007. Do I take my child on
errands with me when she
wants to go ?
007

8. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
008. Do I set the limits on
television viewing and
browsing ?
008

9. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
009. Do I help my child to
develop a skill or talent that
will last lifetime?
009

10. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
010. Do my family activities
really make my child feel
close to everyone?
010

11. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a
day for 100 days…….
011. Do take time to explain
things to my child?
011

12. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a day
for 100 days…….
012. Do I show the pictures
of my child to everyone I
meet, in a way it boosts her
confidence?
012

13. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a day
for 100 days…….
013. Do I keep my word to my
child?
013

14. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a day
for 100 days…….
014. Do I ask forgiveness of
my child sometimes?
014

15. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a day
for 100 days…….
015. Do I always give her what
my child keep asking from
me?
015

16. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a day
for 100 days…….
016. Do I make sure that I
listen to my child’s answers
when I ask her questions?
016

17. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a day
for 100 days…….
017. Do I realize that listening
is one of the best ways to
show my child , I love her?
017

18. This is how I brought her up !
I am sharing one question a day for
100 days…….
018. Do I get worked up, when
my child , spend lot of time on
the phone with her friends?
018

19. 019. Do I compare my child to
her classmates / peers/friends
with her friends?
They are all different and unique and
wanted to be treated as themselves
019

20. 020. Do I buy my child clothes
that are in fashion and
contemporary ?
020

21. 021. Do I set high moral
standards for my child?
021

22. 022. Do I tell my child the
importance of road safety?
022

23. 023. Do I keep telling my child
that I love her and proud of her?
023

24. 024. Do I facilitate my child how
to act around elders?
024

25. 025. Do I ever put my
child down, especially in
front of her friends?
025

26. 026. Do I encourage my
child to earn her own
money?
026

27. 027. Do I keep pushing my
child to learn how to express
herself in words, both written
and spoken, as it really help
her to think better?
027

28. 028. Do I play with child?
028

29. 029. Do I discuss movies
with my child, after we see
them, as it teaches her to
analyze and evaluate things?
029

30. 030. Do I tell my child that
her fears are silly?
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030

31. 031. Do I keep encouraging
my child to follow her
dreams?
(Her dreams are different
from mine)
031

32. 032. Do I encourage my child
to think before buying
anything and not to buy
anything quickly?
032

33. 033. Do I encourage my child
to be honest?
033

34. 034. Do I keep changing the
rules?
034

35. 035. Am I aware that
nagging doesn’t work in the
long run?
035

36. 036. Do I know that my
child can’t always get good
grades – sometimes she
gets nervous and makes
mistakes?
036

37. 037. Do I model and teach
my child to be kind?
037

38. 038. Am I aware that it is
not right to correct the
mistakes of my child in
front of her friends?
(Let us save our criticisms to
discuss in private)
038

39. 039. Am I aware and make
my child aware that
arguments are a natural
part of the family?
039

40. 040. Do I begin my
sentences with ‘ When I
was your age….?
040

41. 041. Do I have at least one
meal as a family each
day….?
041

42. 042. Do I tell my child
about our family history….?
042

43. 043. Do I tell my child when I
am in a bad mood or having a
bad day….?
(that way she won’t me so hurt
if I say something dumb)
043

44. 044. Do I set good examples for
my child when it comes to good
habits?
044

45. 045. Do I remember that my
child can’t read my mind?
045

46. 046. Do I remember that my
child may need rules, but not
too many?
046

47. 47. Am I aware that, when my
child is with her friends, it is
not good to try to hang out
with them?
( I and my child can spend time
together later)
047

48. 48. Am I aware that,
occasionally, my child still likes
to be kissed by both of her
parents?
048

49. 49. Do I make sure that, her
friends feel welcome at our
house?
049

50. 50. Am I aware that I shouldn’t
say things I don’t mean when I
am angry?
050

51. 51. Do I offer choices,
instead of giving orders?
051

52. 52Am I aware that I should
never, never call my child
by her pet name in public?
052

53. 53. Am I aware of the
music my child listen to?
(let us take time to
introduce my child to
other types of music
053

54. 54. Do I teach my child to
read details on the carton,
expiry date and compare
prices before buying?
054

55. 55. Do I read news papers
with my child sometimes
and discuss what’s going on?
055

56. 56. Do I help my child to pick
out good reading materials /
books?
056

57. 57. Do I take my child with
me to work?
(It helps my child to
understand who I am)
057

58. 58. Do I occasionally watch
my child’s favorite T.V. shows
with her?
058

59. 59. Do I aware that pets
teach responsibility?
059

60. 60. Do I make my child
understand that she needs
to work things out for
herself ?
(They can’t always rely on us
to be around to solve every
problem)
060

61. 61. Do I compliment my
child’s friends ?
061

62. 62. Am I sarcastic ?
062

63. 63. Do I teach my child right
and wrong ?
063

64. 64. Do I allow my child to use
my valuable possessions
(like my camera ) ?
064

65. 65. Do I help my child to
learn some world
geography?
(She needs to understand other
people, other places)
065

66. 66. Do I make my child
see, I am helping
someone in need ?
066

67. 67. Do I show my child
how to compete?
067

68. 68. Do I allow my child to
select her own friend?
068

69. 69. Do I give my child
enough pocket money,
so that she can learn
how to spend wisely and
how to save?
069

70. 70. When situation
compels me to fight, do I
remember that my child
is close enough to hear
me?
070

71. 71. Am I over protective?
(If she is not allowed to make
mistakes, she can’t learn from
her mistakes)
071

72. 72. Am I aware that my child
likes the little private notes
of mine, when I sometimes
leave her?
072

73. 73. Do I help with my child’s
home work, when she needs
me to do ?
073

74. 74. Do I remember that, I
should not make any promise
to my child, that I might not
be able to keep ?
074

75. 75. Do I remember that that I
should not punish my child if
she doesn’t do well in school ?
(I should work with her to
improve)
075

76. 76. Do I encourage my child to
ask as many questions ( even
sometimes it annoys / irritates
me)?
(I believe my answers to the
questions of my child is, answering
community) )
076

77. 77. Do I encourage and
facilitate my child to use the
technology gadgets?
(She will be glad later)
077

78. 78. Do I make sure that my
child understand my answer,
when she asks a question ?
(She will be glad later)
078

79. 79. Do I forgive and forget,
instead of bringing up past
mistakes?
079

80. 80. Do I believe my child?
080

81. 81. Do I assist with my child’s
chores when she asks for help?
081

82. 82. Do I help my child to get
organized?
082

83. 83. Do I listen to my child’s
jokes and experiences in the
classroom?
083

84. 84. Do I look at family photo
albums with my child and tell
her about the relatives?
084

85. 85. Do I always let my child win
when we play games or sports?
085

86. 86. Do I shout out to make a
point?
086

87. 87. Do I remember that I
should never call my child
stupid or dumb?
087

88. 88. Do I encourage my child to
exercise regularly?
088

89. 89 . Do I let my child know that
I love her, even when she does
something wrong?
089

90. 90 . Do I set my child
unrealistic goals?
090

91. 91 . Do I understand that my
child just wants to be left alone
sometimes?
091

92. 92 . Do I understand that my
child likes it when I have fun
with her?
092

93. 93 . Do I ask my child’s opinion
sometimes?
093

94. 94 . Do I let myself be a parent
( not a policeman)?
094

95. 95 . Do I remember that
even though my child does
not say it, she appreciates
all I do for her ?
095

96. 96 . Do I ensure not to visit
my child’s school too often,
as it is embarrassing to her ?
096

97. 97 . Do I let my child do the
cash transactions, during
outings and ask her to give
accounts later ?
097

98. 98 . Do I take care of my
child personally, when she
is ill?
098

99. 99 . Do I keep documenting
my child’s accomplishments
and achievements?
099

100. 100 . Do I act in such a way
that makes my child feel
secure?
100

101. 100 . Do I act in such a way
that makes my child feel
secure?
100