Goal!


                   Setting your goals for the future
                             Week FOUR


Ring Toss, DAPPS                                       1
Last Week
• Values
  – Auction
  – The Alligator River Story
  – Card Sort
• Homework
  – Journal: Values




                                   2
Write Your Obituary/Perfect Career
• What is an obituary?
     – It is a death notice of a person
• Remember this is just an exercise
• When you are writing, think about:
     – Values you have
     – What accomplishments you have done or would like
       to do
     – Roles you play in life and the purpose of the roles
     – How you made a difference
     – How you want people to remember you
Workbook – page 36-37                                        3
Ice Breaker


       Ring Toss




                   4
Agenda
• Goals & Motivation
  – What are goals?
  – Why are they important
     • Research at Yale University
• How do you reach your goals?
• How do you motivate yourself?




                                     5
“We…believe that one reason so
                               many high school and college
                              students have so much trouble
                           focusing on their studies is because
                           they don’t have a goal, don’t know
                           what all this studying is leading to.”




Muriel James & Dorothy Jongeward                                    6
Research at Yale University
• Researchers asked members of the class of 1953 if they
  has specific, written, long-term goals.
• Only 3% did.
• 20 years later, the researchers contacted the same
  graduates to see what happened to them.
• The 3% with goals had lives that were measurable
  better that the 97% without goals.
• The 3% who has set specific goals had accumulated
  more personal wealth then the other 97% put together


On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing                             7
How to set a goal
• To be effective, a goal need five qualities
• Remember: “DAPPS” rule
• “DAPPS” is an acronym (word form from initial of names)
     – Dated
     – Achievable
     – Personal
     – Positive
     – Specific
Workbook – page 40             On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   8
D - Dated
• Effective goals have specific deadlines
• Short term goal usually has a deadline within a few
  months or less
• Long term goal usually has a deadline of a year or more
  (sometimes 5-10 year)
• As deadline approaches, your motivation typically
  increases. This energy help you finish strong.
• If you don’t meet you deadline, you have an opportunity
  to examine what went wrong and create a new plan
• Without deadline, you might stretch the pursuit of a
  goal over your whole life time
Workbook – page 40         On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   9
A - Achievable
• Effective goals are realistic
• Example
     – Running the marathon…
         • Practice 1 week before the marathon by running around
           the block
         • Practice 1 year before the marathon with someone that
           have done the marathon
• Set your limit: not too high and not too low
• Ask your self: “Can this be done?”

Workbook – page 40              On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing     10
P - Personal
• Effective goals are your goals, not someone
  else’s
• Ask yourself if your current goals contribute to
  your personal dreams




Workbook – page 40        On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   11
P - Positive
• Effective goals focus your energy on what you do
  want that on what you don’t want
• Translate negative goals into positive goals
• Example
     – Negative: I will stop being late to class
     – Positive: I will arrive on time to every class
     – Negative: I will stop eating junk food
     – Positive: I will start eating healthy food


Workbook – page 40             On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   12
S - Specific
• Effective goals state outcomes in specific,
  measurable terms
• Example
     – Good: My goal is to do better this semester
     – Better: I will achieve a 3.5 GPA or better this
       semester
     – Good: My goal is to play better at basketball
     – Better: I will achieve at least 80% or better on the
       basketball court

Workbook – page 40             On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   13
How to set a Goal: DAPPS Rule
 Dated: specific deadlines for goals
 Achievable: realistic goals
 Personal: effective goals are your goals, not
   someone else’s
 Positive: focus your energy on what you do
   want rather than what you don’t want
 Specific: effective goals state outcomes in
   specific, measurable terms
Workbook – page 40      On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   14
Life Roles
• A life role is an activity to which we regularly
  devote large amounts of time and energy
• For example:
     – College student
     – Parent
     – Significant other
     – Athlete
     – Etc…
• What roles do you play?
Workbook – page 40             On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   15
Life Dreams
• We have dreams in each life role
     – Example
         •   College student – to get a bachelor degree
         •   Parent – to raise and support my children
         •   Significant other – to have a happy and health relationship
         •   Athlete – to participate in the Olympic




Workbook – page 40                  On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing     16
Committing to your Dreams
    Do not doubt yourself, doubting discourages creative
                energies to develop a plan.

  A clear plan helps you stay on track and motivates you to
                       reach your goals.

Visualization will help motivate you to see the end results.

       Visualize your dreams then make them a reality.


Workbook – page 40           On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing   17
18
“The future belongs
to those who believe
in the beauty of their
      dreams.”
            ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
Creating Your Life Plan
• Your Life Roles
     – College Student
• Your Dreams in Each Role
     – Registered Nurse (Associate Degree)
• Your Long-term Goals for Each Dream
     – To become a RN by Spring 2014
• Your Short-term Goals for Each Long-term Goal
     – Pass all my classes this semester with a 3.5 GPA or better (Fall 2010)
     – Register for Credit at Mt. SAC by Winter 2011
     – Register for all my classes that I need to get into the Nursing program by
       Fall 2011
     – Get a 3.5 or better in ANAT 10A, 10B, MICR 22 and English 1A (Fall 2011)
     – See a counselor to put together Educational Plan by Fall 2010 and every
       semester after that
Workbook – page 40                                                                  20
Team Presentation
• Select groups for Student Services Presentation
• All Groups will present on Week EIGHT
• Rules & Guidelines




Workbook – page 41                                  21
Presentation Topic
 •     Admissions & Records   •   Extended Opportunity
 •     Assessment Center          Programs & Services
 •     Associated Students    •   Financial Aid Office
 •     Bridge Program         •   Health Services
 •     Career Placement       •   Learning Assistance
 •                                Center
       Counseling/Advising
       Department             •   Re-Entry Center
 •     Disabled Student       •   Student Life Center
       Programs & Services

     Do you want to do a campus tour next class?
Workbook – page 44                                       22
Homework
• Journal: Goal
• DAPPS Worksheet




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  • 1.
    Goal! Setting your goals for the future Week FOUR Ring Toss, DAPPS 1
  • 2.
    Last Week • Values – Auction – The Alligator River Story – Card Sort • Homework – Journal: Values 2
  • 3.
    Write Your Obituary/PerfectCareer • What is an obituary? – It is a death notice of a person • Remember this is just an exercise • When you are writing, think about: – Values you have – What accomplishments you have done or would like to do – Roles you play in life and the purpose of the roles – How you made a difference – How you want people to remember you Workbook – page 36-37 3
  • 4.
    Ice Breaker Ring Toss 4
  • 5.
    Agenda • Goals &Motivation – What are goals? – Why are they important • Research at Yale University • How do you reach your goals? • How do you motivate yourself? 5
  • 6.
    “We…believe that onereason so many high school and college students have so much trouble focusing on their studies is because they don’t have a goal, don’t know what all this studying is leading to.” Muriel James & Dorothy Jongeward 6
  • 7.
    Research at YaleUniversity • Researchers asked members of the class of 1953 if they has specific, written, long-term goals. • Only 3% did. • 20 years later, the researchers contacted the same graduates to see what happened to them. • The 3% with goals had lives that were measurable better that the 97% without goals. • The 3% who has set specific goals had accumulated more personal wealth then the other 97% put together On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 7
  • 8.
    How to seta goal • To be effective, a goal need five qualities • Remember: “DAPPS” rule • “DAPPS” is an acronym (word form from initial of names) – Dated – Achievable – Personal – Positive – Specific Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 8
  • 9.
    D - Dated •Effective goals have specific deadlines • Short term goal usually has a deadline within a few months or less • Long term goal usually has a deadline of a year or more (sometimes 5-10 year) • As deadline approaches, your motivation typically increases. This energy help you finish strong. • If you don’t meet you deadline, you have an opportunity to examine what went wrong and create a new plan • Without deadline, you might stretch the pursuit of a goal over your whole life time Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 9
  • 10.
    A - Achievable •Effective goals are realistic • Example – Running the marathon… • Practice 1 week before the marathon by running around the block • Practice 1 year before the marathon with someone that have done the marathon • Set your limit: not too high and not too low • Ask your self: “Can this be done?” Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 10
  • 11.
    P - Personal •Effective goals are your goals, not someone else’s • Ask yourself if your current goals contribute to your personal dreams Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 11
  • 12.
    P - Positive •Effective goals focus your energy on what you do want that on what you don’t want • Translate negative goals into positive goals • Example – Negative: I will stop being late to class – Positive: I will arrive on time to every class – Negative: I will stop eating junk food – Positive: I will start eating healthy food Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 12
  • 13.
    S - Specific •Effective goals state outcomes in specific, measurable terms • Example – Good: My goal is to do better this semester – Better: I will achieve a 3.5 GPA or better this semester – Good: My goal is to play better at basketball – Better: I will achieve at least 80% or better on the basketball court Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 13
  • 14.
    How to seta Goal: DAPPS Rule Dated: specific deadlines for goals Achievable: realistic goals Personal: effective goals are your goals, not someone else’s Positive: focus your energy on what you do want rather than what you don’t want Specific: effective goals state outcomes in specific, measurable terms Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 14
  • 15.
    Life Roles • Alife role is an activity to which we regularly devote large amounts of time and energy • For example: – College student – Parent – Significant other – Athlete – Etc… • What roles do you play? Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 15
  • 16.
    Life Dreams • Wehave dreams in each life role – Example • College student – to get a bachelor degree • Parent – to raise and support my children • Significant other – to have a happy and health relationship • Athlete – to participate in the Olympic Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 16
  • 17.
    Committing to yourDreams Do not doubt yourself, doubting discourages creative energies to develop a plan. A clear plan helps you stay on track and motivates you to reach your goals. Visualization will help motivate you to see the end results. Visualize your dreams then make them a reality. Workbook – page 40 On Course 4th Ed, Skip Downing 17
  • 18.
  • 19.
    “The future belongs tothose who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
  • 20.
    Creating Your LifePlan • Your Life Roles – College Student • Your Dreams in Each Role – Registered Nurse (Associate Degree) • Your Long-term Goals for Each Dream – To become a RN by Spring 2014 • Your Short-term Goals for Each Long-term Goal – Pass all my classes this semester with a 3.5 GPA or better (Fall 2010) – Register for Credit at Mt. SAC by Winter 2011 – Register for all my classes that I need to get into the Nursing program by Fall 2011 – Get a 3.5 or better in ANAT 10A, 10B, MICR 22 and English 1A (Fall 2011) – See a counselor to put together Educational Plan by Fall 2010 and every semester after that Workbook – page 40 20
  • 21.
    Team Presentation • Selectgroups for Student Services Presentation • All Groups will present on Week EIGHT • Rules & Guidelines Workbook – page 41 21
  • 22.
    Presentation Topic • Admissions & Records • Extended Opportunity • Assessment Center Programs & Services • Associated Students • Financial Aid Office • Bridge Program • Health Services • Career Placement • Learning Assistance • Center Counseling/Advising Department • Re-Entry Center • Disabled Student • Student Life Center Programs & Services Do you want to do a campus tour next class? Workbook – page 44 22
  • 23.

Editor's Notes

  • #19 VESL Week 4 09/12/12 Michael Ngo