1. Area: All over the globe, Marriage Court Personals
Presented by:
Muhammad Jehangir Khan
NED UNIVERSITY OF ENGINEERING AND TECHNOLOGY,
KARACHI. PAKISTAN

2. MARRIAGE LAWs & DIVORCE CONSULATION

3. Current Conditions
 As from the graph shown the ratio of Marriage to
Divorce is much getting higher…

4. Reasons
 Couple has conflicting personal beliefs
 Couple’s marital satisfaction decreases
 Desertion
 Adultery
 Cruel treatment
 Bigamy
 Imprisonment
 Spousal Indignities
 Institutionalization
 Irretrievable Breakdown of some kind

5. Adverse Effects
 Child is divided into two family.
 Nourishment of Child is not done and many times the
child is caught in illegal actions, due to insufficient
love from parents(many criminals)
 The breaking of heart cause as much hurt as physical
hurt
 Physiological problems development in families.

6. Remedies
 Understand
 It is essential to understand the conflicts that arise in your marriage in order to save your relationship and rebuild the bond you once had with your partner.
Unresolved disputes tend to create tension, and if allowed to prolong, would create the distance, which ultimately would lead a couple to feel detached from
each other
 Stop
 If you are truly fed up and you want the arguing to stop, all you have to do is just stop. A simple push on the stop button and an admission that “hey, we have
to stop arguing,” is necessary. The issue is not about who’s right or who’s wrong anymore. Do you really think that your pride and anger weigh more than
your relationship? If your partner can’t seem to give up, then learn to compromise. That doesn’t make you less of a person. It simply shows how mature you
are to be willing to swallow your pride for something more important.
 Check list
 When it comes to making a list of reasons why your marriage is experiencing difficulty, the simplest way is to do it in stages. At the start, it is going to be very
emotional and painful. It will involve being entirely honest with yourself about how you think your spouse has failed you and about the hurtful or nasty
things your spouse has done. No matter how difficult it is, you can only move on to stages of healing after identifying these issues.
 Work it out
 Let your partner know how you feel. Just tell them how you feel about not being informed. You can say, “I feel that you don’t respect me…” instead of directly
saying “You don’t respect me…” By doing so, you are not accusing the other, but you are just letting your spouse know that you are hurt by the behavior. The
advantage of stating what you feel is that the other person is not entitled to refute what you feel; they can only listen.
 Compromise
 In any relationship, compromise is a fundamental act that binds a couple in harmony. When two entirely different people come together in a relationship, it
is the blend of two cultures. Each one has a different family background, educational attainment, beliefs, needs, and ethical standards. When living together,
couples need to make compromises as a part of their everyday life because marriage is a give-and-take relationship.
 Accept
 Having a positive, healthy relationship involves the understanding that plenty of things in your marriage will never be perfect. You will need to accept these
imperfections and move on from them.
 Rebuild
 Repairing the damage that has been done would require forgiveness and self-reflection, as well. This may not be easy to do, but the process eventually gets
manageable and easier in time.
 Move forward
 There are times when the conflicts and weaknesses in the marriage become so overpowering. Remind yourself of all the wonderful things in your
relationship. Communicate and compromise, even though it may be difficult at first. Eventually, you will realize that your efforts are very much worth it.

7. Potential Area Working
 Across the globe it is widely known fact that divorce is
getting common. Though orthodox people thought of
it as uncommon and modern people thought about it
as common yet solution(divorce) is still undesirable.

8. Innovation
 This idea is new in a way that no specific NGO or any
governmental organization is working in this perspective and
way for the prevention. Although the Marriage
Counselors(Divorce Prevention, Marriage Counselor and Clinical
Psychologist).
 The Marriage/Family courts are there to handle these problems
but it seems that now they are neither effective nor taking work
in a correct way. From mine perspective there should be a team
of volunteers comprises of old and skilled people which have
sufficient moral and legal authority to discuss these things with
couples with our glitch and also to make these ways from
prevention.
 The Religious Centers of the couples should be made active in
this way for consultation, as they have more moral powers than
the consular in this perspective way.