This document discusses conflicts that can arise between parents and coaches of children playing sports. It notes that parents often believe shouting instructions or corrections from the sidelines can help their children, without realizing the messages may contradict the coach. This causes children confusion over who to listen to and can lead them to doubt themselves. The document advises that while parents want the best for their kids, they should avoid adding undue pressure and instead encourage children to enjoy their sport in a way that develops them physically and psychologically, focusing on self-improvement rather than just winning.

1. Father coach
Today we'll talk about a situation that is repeated in most soccer fields, basketball, etc.
It isn't strange to hear that fights have occurred between parents of children in the games of
their guys.
We can see these situations increasingly.
These parents believe that
shouting or correct their
children can be a help to
them, not realizing that many
times what they tell you isn't
the same as what says his
coach.
This situation creates in the
child a thought of doubt,
where he don't know who to
ignore, the parent or coach.
Along with this, we also have
to mentioning that all parents want the best for their children, not realizing that the best way
for their children to learn and improve is enjoying the sport that they do.
If parents inculcate them a extra pressure, they reach a higher stage and stop this sport
because they will realize that they can't achieve all the objectives.

2. This is what we call frustration.
We must bear in mind that the psychology that we use on the child will be very important for
the future development of his personality.
If we tell the child that the only thing that counts is winning, there will come a time when if he
don't win, it will not value the work done despite the defeat.
We must inculcate a thought of working and overcoming, in which overcoming mistakes is
valued, and the child can develop both physically and psychologically.