This document summarizes key points from "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens" about being proactive. It discusses that there are two types of people - proactive and reactive. Proactive people take responsibility for their lives, plan ahead, and take action rather than blaming others or waiting for things to happen. While we cannot control external events, we can control how we internally respond to what occurs. Being proactive is the most important habit and allows one to be happy and in control of their destiny rather than a passive passenger in life.
2. Group Members
Name ID
Designation
Chan Sokhoeurn 116286
Leader
An Sreychan 193838
Member
Tao Kress 113149 Member
Ly Oulang 122193
Member
Lon Vorlak 117600 Member
Luy Heang 193614
5. Introduction
Habit 1 says “I am the force. I am the
captain of my life. I can choose my attitude.
I’m responsible for my own happiness or
unhappiness. I am in the driver’s seat of my
destiny, not just a passenger. Even though,
there are two types of people in this world
are the proactive and the reactive.
6. Proactive or Reactive…the
Choice Is Yours
The proactive people are people who take
responsibility, take control of themselves,
plan for tomorrow, and take action. Being
proactive is the most important key of
habits.
The reactive people choose someone to
take the blame, wait for things to happen,
can’t control themselves, and complain
7. Proactive Language
Let’s look at the
alternative
I can take a different
approach
I control my
feeling/reaction
I own an effective
resolution
I choose effective respond
I choose, I prefer
I will
Reactive Language
There’s nothing I can do
That’s just the way it is
That costumer frustrated
me
We don’t allow that
I have to do it
I can’t
If only
8. We Can Control Only One
Thing
We can control: how we respond to what happens
to us.
9. Conclusion
Be Proactive, is the key to unlocking all the other
habits and that’s why it comes first.
You should make choice based on your values, think
before you act, and be happy.
Remember, you are the captain of your life.