2. When your phone notifies you…
You may be responding too quickly, not realizing how
you’re removing yourself from the present moment.
Take three deep breaths and center yourself, then
experience a moment of presence before you pick up
your phone. Pay attention to how it feels to pause
first, then answer.
3. If you feel an impulse to check your
email…
When you first think about checking your email, tell
yourself to pause for 1-2 minutes before you open it—or
take ten soothing breaths. If this feels challenging for
you, make yourself aware of your breath and sensations
of the moment. Mindfulness of your emotion,
impatience or anxiety, may help you reflect on what it is
you’re looking for in your email. Be present first, then
open your email. You may see over time that you are
impulsively checking your phone less.
4. If you’re checking social media…
Ask yourself: How do I feel when looking at friends’
Facebook posts or Tweets? Pay attention to each
thought that comes to mind during your visits. Do you
feel judgment or jealousy? What annoys you,
entertains you, scares you? Think about how you feel
before and after you check your social media.
5. When working at a computer…
Ask yourself: Do I feel rushed, pressured, calm, or
nothing? Pay attention to how you pace your
breathing while on the computer. Does it change with
each shift in website, or task? See how you can help
yourself breathe easier while doing your online work.
6. Checking your mobile device…
When you feel the impulse to check your phone, with
or without a notification ding, how do you feel? What
are you thinking or doing when you experience these
impulses? Pay attention to how your phone enters
your mind. Be aware of how your energy shifts before
and after you check it. How do you feel when you see
there are no new notifications? Keep in mind that you
have control over your impulses.
7. Three Ways to Stay Mindful:
1. Use digital to your advantage. The Soul App has a BPM monitor which measures heart rate and
helps to guide you to relaxation when it senses that you need to slow down and breathe.
2. Be aware of everything. Awareness allows us to make conscious choices about how we live, how
we expend energy, and how we use our time.
3. Practice daily affirmations: An example is this “I allow myself to breathe easily and effortlessly
as I check my phone. I’m aware of my self while on the computer. I am aware of my body in this
moment.” Doing so, while breathing deeply, will help you be more mindful every day.