This document discusses building healthy relationships and outlines God's design for relationships. It explains that healthy relationships are based on closeness with God, and learning to trust, love, and care for others from Him. It describes Satan's strategy to deceive, distract, divide and destroy relationships. The document provides guidance on overcoming sinful behaviors and attitudes that can damage relationships, and emphasizes relying on God and living according to His word to grow in healthy relationships.

1. BUILDING HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS

2. “Since we do not know of
ourselves what we are, we can
learn it only from God.”
-Blaise Pascal
(1623-1662)

3. PART 4
 REVIEW & GOD’S DESIGN
 SATAN’S ‘DECONSTRUCTION’
 THINGS THAT GET YOU STUCK
 HOW TO GET UNSTUCK
 NEGAHOLISM
 THE MIND OF CHRIST
 THE ATTITUDE OF CHRIST
 THE KEY TO EVERYTHING

4. REVIEW 1
 ALL HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
HINGES ON THE CLOSENESS &
HONESTY OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP TO THE ONE WHO
MADE YOU & SUSTAINS YOU
EVEN AT THIS MOMENT.

5. REVIEW 2
 AS YOU LEARN TO TRUST HIM &
LISTEN TO HIM & LOVE HIM WITH
ALL OF YOUR HEART, YOU LEARN
TO GENUINELY CARE ABOUT
OTHERS.

6. REVIEW 3
 BENEATH THE SURFACE
 UNSAFE PEOPLE
 BLINDSPOTS
 DISTORTED THINKING
 ‘SEE’s’
 IDENTITY SCALE (RT)
 THE UNAVOIDABLE CHOICE
 HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

7. DESIGN
TO LOVE GOD
TO LOVE PEOPLE

8. Mark 12:30-31
“Love the Lord your God with all
your heart and with all your soul
and with all your mind and with
all your strength…Love your
neighbor as yourself.”
-Jesus

9. WHAT REAL LOVE
ISN’T
 IMPATIENT
 UNKIND
 RUDE
 ENVIOUS
 PRIDEFUL
 SELFISH
 EASILY ANGERED
 UNFORGIVING

10. ‘DECONSTRUCTION’
SATAN’S BASIC STRATEGY
DECEIVE
DISTRACT
DIVIDE
DESTROY

11. THE POISON THAT IS
SIN
 FEAR
 HATRED
 ANGER
 SUSPICION
 DISTRUST
 UNFORGIVENESS
 BITTERNESS
 REBELLIOUSNESS
 DECEIT (LYING)
 ENVY
 MALICE
 SELFISHNESS
 RUDENESS
 ARGUING
 GOSSIP
 SLANDER

12. ‘UNSAFE PEOPLE’
 DEFENSIVE INSTEAD OF OPEN TO
FEEDBACK
 RESIST ANY FORM OF CHARACTER
GROWTH OR MATURATION
 DEMAND TRUST vs. EARNING IT
 WON’T ADMIT FAULTS
 BLAME OTHERS INSTEAD OF
TAKING RESPONSIBILTY
 STAGNATE INSTEAD OF GROW

16. STUCK?
 WHAT GETS HUMANS ‘STUCK’?
 WHAT HAS GOTTEN YOU STUCK?
 WHAT IS A ‘BLIND SPOT’?
 COULD YOU BE STUCK & NOT
REALIZE IT?
 WHAT ARE SOME CLUES?

17. JOHN 8:32
“The TRUTH will set you
free!”-Jesus

18. THE TRUTH
“Apart from Me you can do
NOTHING.”-Jesus
(John 15:5)

19. 1 JOHN 2:3-6
“The one who says, ‘I know Him’, but
does not do what He commands is a
liar, and the truth is not in him. But if
anyone obeys His word, God’s love is
truly made complete in him. This is how
we know we are in Him: Whoever
claims to live in Him must walk as
Jesus did.”

20. GALATIANS 5:19
“The acts of the sinful nature are obvious:
Sexual immorality, Impurity,
Debauchery, Idolatry, Witchcraft,
Hatred, Discord, Jealousy, Fits of Rage,
Selfish Ambition, Dissensions,
Factions, Envy; Drunkenness, Orgies,
and the like…I warn you that those who
live like this will not inherit the
Kingdom of God.”

21. COLOSSIANS 3:5-10
“Put to death, therefore, whatever
belongs to your sinful nature: Sexual
Immorality, Impurity, Lust, Evil Desires
and Greed, which is Idolatry…Now you
must rid yourselves of all such things
as these: Anger, Rage, Malice, Slander,
and Filthy Language…Do not Lie to
each other, since you have taken off
your old self with its practices, and
have put on the new self…”

22. 2 PETER 3:11-12
“What kind of people ought
you to be?
You ought to live holy and
godly lives as you look
forward to the Day of God…”

23. HOW TO GET UNSTUCK
 Galatians 2:20; 5:22-26
 Ephesians 6:10-18
 Philippians 2 & 3
 Colossians 3:12-17
 2 Peter 1:3-11
 1 Thessalonians 5:10-24
 Romans 12

24. PROVERBS 11:28
“THE RIGHTEOUS WILL
THRIVE (GROW) LIKE A
GREEN LEAF.”

25. JOHN 7:38
“WHOEVER GIVES ALL
HIS LOYALTY TO ME
(PISTIS), STREAMS OF
LIVING WATER WILL
FLOW FROM WITHIN HIM.”
-Jesus

26. HOW TO GROW
“Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead,
and Christ will shine on you. Be very
careful, then, how you live—not as unwise
but as wise, making the most of every
opportunity, because the days are evil.
Therefore do not be foolish, but
understand what the Lord’s will is…be
filled with the Spirit…speak to one another
with psalms…always giving thanks to God
the Father for everything…”Ephesians 5