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Marriage and Family Therapists (MFT's) are relationship experts. They work with individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and the elderly, providing support and perspective as patients ...

Marriage and Family Therapists (MFT's) are relationship experts. They work with individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and the elderly, providing support and perspective as patients struggle with life's challenges.

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  • It’s the Most Important Decision You’ll Ever Make. Are You Choosing a mate sets the tone for every dimension of the rest of your life. It determines the harmony Ready For you’ll feel in your family life; the support you’ll give and receive in your work; sexual fulfillment; Marriage? spiritual practice; and more. How Pre-Marital Counseling Can Help Ninety percent of Americans marry, but fifty Most health insurance policies cover the percent end in divorce. In fact, the average service of MFTs so long as the services are marriage in California lasts just seven years. “medically necessary.” This typically includes Seventy-five percent of those who divorce remarry, coverage for face-to-face sessions for a but sixty-five percent of those marriages also diagnosable mental health problem. Such end in divorce. coverage may be limited. Please contact your health insurance company for detailed The truth is that a successful marriage is based information about the coverage available to on both partners having good skills: to manage you and your family. inevitable conflicts; to express admiration and appreciation; to accept influence from the other person; and to nurture love and romance. They have realistic expectations of each other and understand how to interact to keep love coming back. California Association of The best way to ensure you beat the odds and Marriage and Family Therapists ensure a long and satisfying marriage is to explore 7901 Raytheon Road, San Diego, CA 92111-1606 all the issues and get the skills and training you Phone: (858) 292-2638 Fax: (858) 292-2666 need together, before you marry. Pre-marital www.camft.org counseling can help you chart the course. Brought to you by the ™ California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists
  • Offering Extra Support About Marriage and Family Therapists Marriage and Family Therapists (MFTs) are relationship experts. They work with individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and the elderly, providing support and perspective as patients struggle with life’s challenges. Licensed by the State of California, MFTs are psycho- therapists who are uniquely trained and credentialed to assess, diagnose, and treat a wide range of issues so individuals achieve more adequate, satisfying and Ensuring a Happy Marriage What You Can Do Right Now productive relationships and social adjustment. Happily married couples are skillful at sharing dreams, handling conflict, nurturing love, and repairing damage The California Association of Marriage and Family to the relationship. Don’t believe “marriage myths.” Popular myths include: Therapists (CAMFT) is an independent statewide non- “Good luck and romantic love are the keys to a good profit organization made up of over 28,000 practicing marriage;” “Having children brings a couple closer together Marriage and Family Therapists. CAMFT is dedicated to and makes for a happier marriage;” “It’s unrealistic to advancing marriage and family therapy as a healing art, expect people to stay in a marriage throughout a lifetime science, and mental health profession. In fact, CAMFT When You Should Seek Pre-Marital Counseling sponsors TherapistFinder.com so Californians can gain because we live so much longer today;” “Married people access to qualified local experts who can help. 1 When you are young and have never been married. In fact, have less sex—and less satisfying sex—than single people California law requires that individuals under age 18 do;” and “Living together is just the same as marriage.” complete pre-marital counseling before they can file for a marriage license. Mutual expectations, cultural and Studies show these are all untrue. ™ religious differences and feelings about children should be discussed before you marry, not after. Educate yourself about how healthy relationships Seeking a Marriage and Family Therapist or other mental 2 When you have been too long in a courtship. If you have work. Churches, synagogues, and continuing education health professional to assist with life’s difficulties is a sign of been engaged for more than nine years, plan on marrying, programs at local colleges can all recommend books, classes courage and a step in the right direction. Always ask about but haven’t, it’s time to understand what’s going on. or DVD learning on key topics. a therapist’s special areas of expertise (e.g. grief counseling, children’s issues, relationship counseling) before you engage 3 When one partner is “commitment-phobic.” Find out what them to ensure it’s the right fit for you. lies at the root of the fear so you can move forward in your Examine differences in “family of origin.” They will provide relationship or move on. clues to potential areas of conflict to discuss. Since our own TherapistFinder is a California-wide interactive, online directory that is user-friendly and searchable by name, location, 4 When you can’t resolve significant issues. The number one approaches to relationships derive from what we learned and area of expertise. It’s your introduction to one or more predictor of divorce is the habitual avoidance of conflict. from our parents, talk with your partner about how his or qualified psychotherapists who hold a California license. If you aren’t yet married, but already disagree about issues her parents handled conflicts, showed affection and respect, related to money, children, chores, work, sex or a host and shared child-raising responsibilities. Ask about their of other things, now is the time to learn how to address differences. belief systems with respect to money, sexuality, and religion. 5 When you have failed at a marriage and want to try again. Remember love is a verb. Do you make an ongoing effort Every happy, successful couple has as many as 10 areas of “irreconcilable differences,” but they accept and respect to nurture your love for your partner by paying attention them as part of their relationship. to his or her needs?