Self Injury


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The idea that someone would deliberately hurt themselves is difficult of many of us to understand, but self-injuring--cutting, burning, scab picking--are increasingly and on the rise, especially in adolescent girls.
Deemed "the new Anorexia," self-injury behaviors commonly afflict middle and upper class teenage girls with average to high intelligence and low self-esteem. They are the "invisible" kids who get good grades and have nice friends. However, ninety percent of suffers have experienced some type of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse.

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Self Injury

  1. 1. Who Self-Harms and Why?The idea that someone would deliberately hurtthemselves is difficult for many of us to understand, Self-Injury:but self-injuring—cutting, burning, scab picking— Helping Those Who Hurt Themselvesare increasingly common and on the rise, especiallyin adolescent girls.Deemed “the new Anorexia,” self-injury behaviors Most health insurance policies cover thecommonly afflict middle and upper class teenage girls service of MFTs so long as the services arewith average to high intelligence and low self-esteem. “medically necessary.” This typically includesThey are the “invisible” kids who get good grades and coverage for face-to-face sessions for ahave nice friends. However, ninety percent of suffers diagnosable mental health problem. Suchhave experienced some type of emotional, physical, or coverage may be limited. Please contact yoursexual abuse. health insurance company for detailedParadoxically, sufferers say they self-harm to help information about the coverage available tothemselves rather than hurt themselves. The intention you and your not suicidal, but rather relief from bottled upemotions they otherwise can’t communicate or manage.Self-mutilation provides a soothing but temporaryendorphin rush that relieves anxiety. Without propertreatment, this can lead to a self-destructive cycle withan addictive need to cut deeper or hurt more as paintolerance increases. California Association of Marriage and Family TherapistsWhile loved ones may focus on the disfiguring effectsof the self-mutilation, the real focus belongs on the 7901 Raytheon Road, San Diego, CA 92111-1606 Phone: (858) 292-2638 Fax: (858) 292-2666underlying issues that create the anxiety fueling the www.camft.orgneed for the relief that self-injury provides. Brought to you by the ™ California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists
  2. 2. Offering Extra Support About Marriage and Family Therapists Marriage and Family Therapists (MFTs) are relationship experts. They work with individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and the elderly, providing support and perspective as patients struggle with life’s challenges. Licensed by the State of California, MFTs are psycho- therapists who are uniquely trained and credentialed to assess, diagnose, and treat a wide range of issues so individuals achieve more adequate, satisfying andHelping a Loved One What You Can Do Right Now productive relationships and social adjustment.Self-injury is a complex long-term problem and sign ofacute psychological distress. However, recovery is possible The California Association of Marriage and Familyfor those who seek treatment. Those who self-injure are Never set ultimatums. They don’t work. Removing tools Therapists (CAMFT) is an independent statewide non-very secretive, ashamed, and fearful someone will find out for self-injuries, strip searches, and punishments just feed profit organization made up of over 28,000 practicingabout their coping mechanism and remove it. desperation and the cycle of self-hatred that make things Marriage and Family Therapists. CAMFT is dedicated to worse. Remember, self-injury isn’t about you. advancing marriage and family therapy as a healing art,Since self-injury is compulsive and often the only way the science, and mental health profession. In fact, CAMFTsufferer knows to self-soothe, recovery requires the help of a Don’t take it personally. While you may find self-injury sponsors so Californians can gainqualified therapist. It is dangerous to “make” the person stop repulsive or frightening, it is not intended as a manipulative access to qualified local experts who can help.on your own. You can help by learning about self-injury and behavior. Recognize the emotional pain your loved one isshowing that you care about the person behind the pain. feeling. Don’t give advice on how to stop. ™ Encourage expression of feelings. Help the sufferer trustSigns and Symptoms of Self-Injury that it’s safe to let anger and sadness out. Seeking a Marriage and Family Therapist or other mental Unexplained frequent injuries, including cuts (from needles, health professional to assist with life’s difficulties is a sign of razors, X-acto knives), burns, scratches, scab picking, Support the person without supporting the behaviors. courage and a step in the right direction. Always ask about some forms of hair pulling, bruising, punching, and other You can reach out and ask to understand, while still a therapist’s special areas of expertise (e.g. grief counseling, forms of bodily harm, usually on arms, chest, thighs, and places that clothing conceals. setting personal limits (e.g. “I’m not comfortable talking children’s issues, relationship counseling) before you engage while you are cutting yourself because it hurts to watch them to ensure it’s the right fit for you. Excuses if scars are discovered (e.g. “the cat scratched me”) you do that.”) Use loving, caring gestures to lift the mood TherapistFinder is a California-wide interactive, online Wearing inappropriate clothing for the weather to hide of the person you care about, but not to delay or stop directory that is user-friendly and searchable by name, location, injuries self-injury behaviors. and area of expertise. It’s your introduction to one or more qualified psychotherapists who hold a California license. Increasing isolation Offer to help find a therapist who specializes in self- Worry expressed by friends injury. Cognitive-behavior therapy may be used to help Anxiety the individual learn about the triggers for self-harming Depression behaviors and learn healthier coping mechanisms. Post- traumatic stress therapies may be effective for those withThe above symptoms are frequently seen with eating disorders,alcohol and drug abuse, post-traumatic stress disorder, and a history of abuse or incest. Relaxation techniques, andother mental health disorders. in some cases medication, may also prove helpful.