This is the Power Point I used at the 2013 Parenting @IBC conference.

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Connecting While
Correcting

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Sharing control proves that you are in
control

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The question you have to ask yourself
is this the hill you want to die on
today?

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What do you have in your toolbox?

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A real choice is when two equal but
different options are presented

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Teaching your children the power of
compromise is groundbreaking

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Sharing control proves that you are in
control

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A redo is an opportunity to teach your
children about grace and repentance

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Even consequences are an opportunity
to connect

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Parenting is often about building walls
when it should be about building
bridges

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What is the IDEAL response?

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If you want to change or reinforce a behavior
the response must be within 3 seconds

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When you interact with your child be
close, look them in the eye and talk to them

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Deal with the issue don’t preach a
sermon

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Correct action makes correct body
memory, create motor memory for the
right thing

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You response needs to be specific to
the behavior you are trying to change

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Questions?