1. Why Parents Must Be Their Children’s Guidance Counselor
If you’re a parent and you’re relying on your child’s high school guidance counselor
to help your son or daughter navigate the college admissions process, your kid is in
big trouble. It’s estimated that the average high school college guidance counselor
spends less than 38 minutes with each student. That’s barely enough time to
research one or two schools, let alone figure out how to get into them. If you want
your child to get into a great college or university, you’re going to have to take
matters into your own hands.
Here are a few steps to help you guide your child right into their dream school!
First, set the path by making sure your child is taking the most challenging course
load possible. College admissions officers want to see that your child is
progressively taking on more and more academic responsibility. During your child’s
freshman and sophomore years, the standard curriculum is fine, but by their junior
and senior year, admissions officers like to see that he or she is enrolled in AP and
Honors classes. Most college admissions officers care more about these classes than
a student’s GPA. If your child isn’t enrolled in any of these classes, call the school and
find out how to get them in. Different schools have different procedures for moving
students around, but most will try to accommodate a child committed to getting into
college. It’s definitely worth the call.
Second, stay on top of deadlines. Most high school juniors and seniors have packed
schedules and are being pulled in a hundred different directions. This makes
important deadlines easy to miss. To keep from overlooking important steps, create
a college calendar. Add important SAT and ACT registration dates, college fairs and
tours and application deadlines. Turbo Admissions by TAP Into College has
published a copy of our College-Bound Junior and College-Bound Senior Checklists.
These lists help students and parents stay on track by giving important SAT and ACT
test dates, college application deadlines and a host of other important milestones for
college-bound juniors and seniors.
Last but not least, help them choose the right school for them. There are thousands
of colleges and universities across the country and picking the one that fits your
student the best is the key to a happy and productive college career. Since you know
your child better than they probably know themselves, don’t be afraid to add your
two cents. Well, your two cents plus the thousands of dollars you’re going to be
paying in tuition.
Oh, and remember, the best way for you to help your student is to stay positive push without being pushy and help them to help themselves.