Embedded Commands - a double-edged sword. For awareness and intent to have the Hundred Monkey Effect. If you don't take care of your Subconscious Mind, someone else will like to take care of it for you!!!
The key to success with others is knowing how to communicate with them. Whether you
are a real estate investor, work at a fast food restaurant, or are a doctor, or work in a
corporation, without good communication skills people won’t like you. Have you ever
met someone and didn’t like them, but you didn’t know why you didn’t like them?
Subconsciously you did not like their communication skills.
And, as there is a demand, there is a supply of courses to train people to be more
effective in such skills. Courses such as Hypnotic Communication, Hypnotic Marketing
Skills, Hypnotic Writing, etc… are now getting popular, and it is not cheap. Basically, all
these courses are build around the corner stone – “Embedded Commands”.
Well, of course, it would be good if all these people use the tools in a good way…
But, to whose good way?
Just like all the politicians’ world peace.
Whose world peace has more peace?
Any way, by knowing there is such thing, the intention is just to point out and raise the
reader(s) awareness to process and filter those embedded command more effectively...
Or, you might find it effective in getting things done , or to “drive” others too .
How to use EMBEDDED COMMANDS:
The following 7 pages are model examples of how to use the Embedded
Commands. The REAL INTENTION(S), highlighted in Bold, are actually
embedded in a very casual messages.
On the surface, the messages are very neutral. So the reader/audience will not
have any strong emotion or object the writer or speaker. When the emphasis
messages will slip through the logical mind and go direct to the subconscious
mind, and stay there to be part of the personal belief system. Which will affect
the action in doing certain thing.
When doing this in writing, the writer will usually choose a slightly different
font or size to emphasis on those words, while in speaking, the speaker will
choose to speak louder or a faster paste to emphasis on those words.
I'm wondering if... Maybe you'll _____. You probably already Don't _____ too
I'm wondering if you will stop Maybe you'll direct some unusual know... quickly.
smoking this afternoon. I'm embedded commands to
wondering if that comfortable your friends while you play You probably already know many This phrase has the implication that
feeling if your feet will spread up "Embedded Command" Cards. ways to feel good without what I suggest will definitely happen
into the rest of your body. I'm Maybe you'll dream of smoking. And what do you do in anyway, and all I really care about is
wondering if you can pretend you've new ways to say things tonight. response to this statement? You when it happens. And if you are
never smoked in your life, and Maybe you'll spot the might try to think of the things that I resisting me, your internal response
imagine what it is like to go through embedded commands in these say you know, and of course, you may well be: "Oh yeah, who says I
a typical day. I never told you to do sentences. are likely to find them if you think can't do this quickly! I'll show you!"
anything, I was just wondering... long enough! If I wanted you to isn't that great? Don't stop
really search for those answers I smoking too quickly. Don't go into
could say: On a deep level, you a deep trance too quickly, just
probably already know how useful relax and listen to my voice for a
indirect communication can be. while.
Can you imagine...? One can, <name>, You might notice the A person might,
You probably already know that _____. feelings ... as you ... <name>, _____.
people are more likely to do what
they are more familiar with, and that By adding the person's name at the You might notice the feelings directs Say the name close to the second
imagining something is a great way beginning of the embedded attention to internal body half of the sentence, and it becomes
to create familiarity. Can you command, you will make it much sensations, which is good for a personal embedded command. A
imagine what you would do on an more powerful. One can, Eve, feel hypnotic inductions. As you provides person might, Sarah, take the
airplane if you really enjoyed good for no reason at all. One can, another opportunity for an indirect lessons from that situation and let
flying? Can you imagine all the Greta, enjoy the experience of suggestion. You might notice the go of the old emotions. A person
situations where you would use hypnosis without knowing exactly feelings in your feet, as you relax might, Allen, find some good
this language pattern if you what is going to happen. One can, them completely. You might notice reasons that make losing weight
practiced it and really knew it? Joe, let the eyes close just the feelings of comfort as you compelling.
because it feels good. Who can? ... begin to relax your whole body.
One can. We're not talking about
One could _____, You can _____, You can _____, can I don't know if
because ... because ... you not? _____.
Because is the magic word, Here's that because word again. Can you not is such a great way to I don't know if you're going to like
because it lends emotional credibility You can just use it and discover end a statement. It turns it into a this game better than any other
to whatever goes before it. One how powerful it is, because you question which is less threatening, learning game you've ever played. I
could use the word 'because' after can pretty much say anything you and it's so confusing to try to don't know what things in particular
important suggestions, because want after it. You can believe it disagree with. You can appreciate you will enjoy the most. I really don't
you enjoy trying new things. One works, because it is such a nice my point, can you not? You can know if this experience is going to
could let this learning go to a way to keep talking and keep the relax into that chair, can you change your life. Don't ask me, I
very deep place inside, because suggestions coming. You can even not? You can allow new answers don't know.
you may not be completely aware of use it in everyday conversations, to come to you, can you not?
how important it is yet. because people love to hear
reasons for things.
You might notice One doesn't have to, People don't have to, You may not know if
how good ... feels, <name>, _____. <name>, _____. _____.
when you ... One doesn't really have to, does People don't have to, but they do When I wonder whether you know
one. It seems so formal and anyway, doesn't it seem like that? something, I presuppose that
The hidden assumption is that what detached and impersonal, (your And when I use your name, it makes something exist and is true. You
I'm suggesting feels good, and the name here), or does it? One doesn't it so personal. People don't have to may not know if this is going to be
when you part further assumes that have to, Betty, close your eyes as respond favorably when you use fun. You may not know if you're
you are going to do it! You might we begin. One doesn't have to, their names, but you know (your going to enjoy this SO much that
notice how good your eyes feel Jose, relax deeper and deeper name here), they sure do. People you'll have to write me and tell me
when you close them and they with each breath. don't have to, Marilyn, listen about it.
stay closed. You might notice how carefully to everything I say.
good your arms feel when you relax
them as they rest on that chair.
It's easy to _____, is A person may not You are able to <fact>, <fact>,
it not? know if _____. _____. <fact>, and _____.
Is it not is another one of those For added fun a person can change You are able to enjoy being at your When you start off saying a string of
endings that softens a statement the subject of the sentence halfway work, because you have a great facts, the other person internally is
into a question. And it's a bit through to you, it's mildly confusing, sense of humor. You are able to thinking yes, yes, yes ... yes, and
confusing to disagree with, is it not? and it underline that you aren't really relax your hands completely. It's they get into the habit of agreeing
It's easy to go into a trance, is it talking about a person in the another truism, I'm just observing with you, then you hit them with your
not? It's easy to discover abstract anyway. A person may not the obvious. You are able to re- suggestion. You've made yourself
something special deep inside, is know if you're going to have a read this to make sure you get comfortable in that chair, I'm going
it not? And if I say that something is meaningful experience. A person it. to talk for a while, you can listen to
easy, you will probably try doing it to may not know if your arm will the words I say, and drift off into a
see if I'm right. slowly raise up automatically. deep state of relaxation.
A person is able to ... once told me, ... said, "_____" If you _____, then ...
_____. "_____" Quote somebody else and put your This is a cause and effect
message in the quote. Through the statement, but it doesn't have to
What do you do when I comment on Quote someone else and put your years again and again my students make too much sense. In order to
what other people are able to do? message in the quote. The nice have said, "Quotes are one of the verify that the then part is true, the
You probably check to see if you thing is that they said it, you didn't. most fun way to deliver indirect person has to do the if part, which is
can do it too. A person is able to My babysitter once told me, "Close messages." In fact, one of them what you want. If you imagine
eat less food, and enjoy it even your eyes and go to sleep or I'll once said, "If you can't use quotes yourself in your favorite place,
more, when you can savor each whack you in the head!" to deliver a message, you must be then you will feel feelings of
mouthful of food and chew it brain dead!" But that was him, I comfort in your body. If you rest
slowly. wouldn't say such a thing. your hands on the chair like this,
then you'll be ready to begin.
When you _____, Will you _____ now, You don't have to A person may
then ... or will you _____? _____. _____, because ...
I say when X, then Y, and you have Will you do it now, or will you do it This is called a truism. On the A person may get permission to do
to do X and then search for Y in later. It sound like you're getting lots surface, the statement is true, and what I'm suggesting, because I'm
order to understand what I'm saying. of choices. Will you close your can't be argued with. Beneath the giving it to them. Who said my
Pretty tricky huh? When you get in eyes and relax now, or will you try surface lies an embedded because has to make any logical
touch with that loving and to keep your eyes open a little command. You don't have to sense? And besides, the because
forgiving part of yourself, then an longer while other parts of your understand how this works, in clause is an opportunity for another
opportunity will open up for a body relax first? order to use it. You don't have to suggestion. A person may just
deep transformation. Check it out. help me with the dishes. Really. stop drinking, because you can
remember all of your reasons for
not drinking each time you feel an
urge to take a drink.
One may, <name>, You may _____. A person could, You might _____.
_____. You may find this experience very <name>, _____. You might, and whatever you might
valuable. You may get confused do might be even more likely after
One may, Sara, feel comfortable about what used to bother you. A person could, Bob, go to work having it suggested like this. You
imagining standing on that You may want to relax. You may tomorrow with a new outlook. A might want to make this change
balcony. One may, Jerry, forgive like what you se here. You may, person could, Susie, develop a more than anything. You might
someone even if you don't think you go ahead, I give you permission. sense of perspective on this discover that your eyes don't want
want to. One may, Jane, be excused situation. A person could, (your to open.
from the room AFTER you raise name here), write a big check to
your hand. that fun loving "Embedded
Command" Cards team. Heck, it's
a free world!
You could _____. You might want to One might, you Maybe you haven't
You could, of course you could, you _____, ... now. know, _____. ..., yet.
have free will. You could sleep on
it tonight, and call me in the This now is the trickiest part. If you One might, and then again one Maybe you haven't, maybe you
morning. You could let this process slur it together with the rest of the might not, who knows? ... you know! have, I'm just making an
of transformation take place sentence it just adds an imperative One might, you know, just relax and observation, but when that yet
without even knowing how it was quality to the embedded command. let the learning take place on a comes along, there's a strong
happening. Huh? You could just If you pause and then say it, it deep level. One might, you know, implication that sooner or later
let go and relax. OK? OK. becomes a powerful command all on understand how to use this at just you're going to! Maybe you haven't
its own. You might want to close the right times. decided to send copies of
your eyes now. You might want to "Embedded Command" Cards for
let that feeling of comfort move all of your friends... yet. Who
up your arm, ... now. knows? ... There's still time... It's just
People can, you I'm wondering if You may or may not You might notice the
know, _____. you'll _____, ... or _____. sensation in ... while
I'm just talking about what other not. You may or may not notice the you ...
people can do, I'm not talking comfortable sensation in your
about you! You know, that you This or not ending is the greatest hands. So you think about the You can induce hypnosis by
know clause, it seems to imply in an way to dodge resistance. If you see comfortable sensation in your directing attention to various parts of
ambiguous fashion that you knew the other person smiling and hands, and if you feel them you the body, You might notice the
this already. People can, you know, nodding their head, then don't think, "Of course I notice them." If sensations of your shoes on your
find ways to make these changes bother to add the or not, who needs you don't feel them you think, feet, the sensation of the chair
easily and comfortably. it? I'm wondering if you'll use this "Maybe I'm just not noticing them", beneath you, the feeling of the card
language pattern constantly, so you think about it a little more in your hand. You might notice the
(pause, what, no enthusiastic and pretty soon you're feeling sensations in your hands while
agreement?) ... or not. comfortable sensations that you relax and pretend that you
you're feeling comfortable can’t move them.
sensations that I said were there
What happens when Can you really enjoy Some people … You might not have
you _____? …? Who are those some people? The noticed …
first thing a person does is to check
In order to answer this question you Can you really enjoy having your inside to see if they are one of those You might not have noticed how
must imagine what I am suggesting, eyes get heavy and start to shut? people, so give them something often you direct other people’s
which is the reason I ask. Can you really enjoy going deeper you want them to check for. awareness while you are talking to
Remember: in the area of emotions and deeper into feelings of Some people get feelings of them. Directing awareness to
and feelings, people learn just as comfort? Can you really enjoy comfort in this office and want to various parts of the body generally
well by vividly imagining experiences taking a deep breath and relaxing go into trance right away. Some creates relaxation and confusion,
as by physically having them. What deeply? The question isn’t if you people have hidden strengths that both induce hypnosis, You might
happens when you just decide you can do it, or if you will do it, the they discover can help them in not have notice the comfortable
aren’t going to let him bother you question is how much will you enjoy situation very much like yours. sensations of your socks on your
anymore? doing it. Of course, the only way to feet. You might not have noticed the
answer the question is to do it. way the chair supports you…
beneath your legs… beneath your
arms… behind your shoulders…
Try to resist … Eventually… Sometime … Sooner or later …
Try to resist implies that you will try, Eventually everything comes to Sometime, somewhere, there will be Sooner or later you’ll resolve this
but you won’t be able to do it. You pass. Eventually what I want to a person in a situation very much present difficulty, and begin to
can use your voice inflection to direct your attention to will probably like yours who will take a deep enjoy the simple things in life
strengthen this implication. Try to come to pass as well. Eventually breath and just let it go. again. Sooner or later, you’ll want
resist the sensation that your you will develop a deep Sometime, you’re going to feel to close your eyes. Sooner or
hands are becoming so relaxed understanding of these difficult better about this. Sometime you later, you’re going to be able to look
that they just won’t move. Try to events in your life, and you will are going to understand this from back on this and laugh about it.
resist, a deepening sensation of find some hidden value in them. a viewpoint where it all make Jeepers, just about everything
relaxation as you breath. Eventually, indirect language sense. Sometime you might happens sooner or later.
patterns will become second indirectly get a person to imagine
nature to you. Imagine that. a time when they have the
resources you want them to feel.
I could tell you that How would it feel if I wouldn’t tell you to Will you …, or …, or
… but … you … ? _____, because ... …
I could tell you that …, but I won’t, In order to answer this question, you I wouldn’t tell you (here I am telling This is the form of infinite choice,
so you have no reason to resist or have to imagine what I propose, you anyway), and you can’t and I’ll cover all the possibilities so
take offense at whatever I just didn’t which is the whole purpose for disagree with me, because I said you can’t help but do what I say.
tell you. I could tell you that this asking the question. How would it upfront I wouldn’t tell you. And I use And if you get into the habit of doing
experience will give you more feel if you felt comfortable around the magic word because to make what I say, sometime I may begin
confidence and self-assurance, dogs, and you could just go up and another comment, because it lends to actually lead you. Will your hand
but I would rather let you discover pet one. How would it feel if you authority to what I just said, and begin to lift up automatically, or
that for yourself. I could tell you had already made this change? it carries attention away from the will it relax just where it is, or will
this is a great way to avoid embedded command before you you notice certain sensations in
resistance, but you probably consciously recognize it. your hand that you can enjoy.
understand that already.
Embedded Embedded Embedded
Commands - 1 Commands - 2 Commands - 3
An Embedded Command is a In order to be effective, you need You can mark embedded
fragment of a sentence that if to mark your embedded command, commands by changing the pitch or
spoken alone would be a verbal which means that you do the volume of your voice, tilting
command. Examples of embedded something different while you are your head, looking the person in
commands are written in italics in saying the words of the embedded the eye, touching the person,
the commentaries on the playing command. You can practice increasing the pressure of a touch,
cards. An embedded command is a embedded commands by reading pointing at the person, smiling,
powerful way to make a suggestion examples on the cards out loud, pausing just before the embedded
to another person, because people and lowering the pitch of your command, etc. You might want to
won't consciously notice it, but it voice while you read the words in practice all these ways of making
registers and has an impact at an italics. Then try reading the same embedded commands while
unconscious level. sentence, and marking the reading the examples on the cards.
embedded command by touching
the person you are talking to while
you read the words in italics.
By the way, there is also a
“Hidden Message” in the
cover page, and wonder if
you have noticed it?
If not, let go onto the next
slide, and then go back to
the cover page…
This is just a simplified
version as an example of
embedded onto Posters,
TV and Movie Scenes. Hidden Messages