Since I started managing natural hair in early 2011 I have learnt that there is only one rule: YOU are the QUEEN of YOUR KINKS, CURLS & COILS. Consider any tips you hear from others as mere suggestions; if you try them and they don’t work for you, ditch them and try something else! Sometimes two people will appear to have the same type of hair but their hair will react completely differently to the same product. For instance, some hair types remain curly even after the application of a relaxer whereas other hair types become are bone-straight.