Congruence therapy<br />Dr. Bonnie Lee, Ph D.<br />
WHAT IS CONGRUENCE THERAPY?<br /><ul><li>First developed from Virginia Satir’s “Transformational Systemic Therapy” which i...
Circle of Connection:<br />
THE ICEBURG: Four Interrelated Human Dimensions:<br />INTERPERSONAL<br />INTER-GENERATIONAL<br />INTRA-<br />PSYCHIC<br />...
COMMUNICATION<br />There are 5 COMMUNICATION STANCES according to Congruence Therapy:<br />Blaming: accuse, point the fing...
EXTERNAL-what we see<br />INTERNAL- what we can not see<br />
THE HOUSE WITH FOUR DOORS,HOW WILL YOU GET IN?<br />INTERGENERATIONAL: FAMILY OF ORIGIN<br />INTRAPSYCHIC:<br />PSYCHOLOGI...
Where are your clients? (couple, families, parent/child)<br />
Five circuits and recursive loop:<br />These are the circuits that will lead to a cyclic and recursive loop of recurrent r...
Create a ‘self-similar cycle’ of interaction
Function as a closed system
Self-reinforcing
Difficult to exit</li></li></ul><li>A systemic relationship framework for problems<br />Relapse-<br />circuit 5<br />Relap...
Circuit 1:FAULT LINES<br />LIMITED RANGE AND DEPTH OF COMMUNICATION (SEE 5 STANCES)<br />OVERFUNCTIONING OR UNDERFUNCTIONI...
Circuit 2: Pressure Points<br />Life transitions<br />Set-backs and losses<br />
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Congruence therapy

  1. 1. Congruence therapy<br />Dr. Bonnie Lee, Ph D.<br />
  2. 2. WHAT IS CONGRUENCE THERAPY?<br /><ul><li>First developed from Virginia Satir’s “Transformational Systemic Therapy” which is:</li></ul> ...unique in encompassing both the intra-psychic and interactive components of therapy. Much therapy of the past has been focused only on clients’ behaving, beliefs or feelings. This model is focused on bringing about change at the level of being, as well as changes in doing, feelings and perceiving. The process taps the universal yearnings of individuals within their personal family and social systems and helps them work towards a sense of responsible wholeness. This work requires that the therapist develop a high level therapeutic competence and congruence...<br />
  3. 3. Circle of Connection:<br />
  4. 4. THE ICEBURG: Four Interrelated Human Dimensions:<br />INTERPERSONAL<br />INTER-GENERATIONAL<br />INTRA-<br />PSYCHIC<br />UNIVERSAL-SPIRITUAL<br />
  5. 5. COMMUNICATION<br />There are 5 COMMUNICATION STANCES according to Congruence Therapy:<br />Blaming: accuse, point the finger at, attribute<br />Placating: pacify, sooth, appease<br />Super-reasonable:nothing gets to you, turn a blind eye<br />Avoidant:irrelevant, withdrawn, sarcastic, indirect<br />Congruent: attending, awareness, acknowledgement, alignment<br />
  6. 6. EXTERNAL-what we see<br />INTERNAL- what we can not see<br />
  7. 7. THE HOUSE WITH FOUR DOORS,HOW WILL YOU GET IN?<br />INTERGENERATIONAL: FAMILY OF ORIGIN<br />INTRAPSYCHIC:<br />PSYCHOLOGICAL<br />UNIVERSAL-SPIRITUAL—YEARNINGS AND QUALITIES OF BEING<br />INTERPERSONAL--COMMUNICATION<br />
  8. 8. Where are your clients? (couple, families, parent/child)<br />
  9. 9. Five circuits and recursive loop:<br />These are the circuits that will lead to a cyclic and recursive loop of recurrent reactions (chronic) <br />This system is and will:<br /><ul><li>A system that folds back upon itself
  10. 10. Create a ‘self-similar cycle’ of interaction
  11. 11. Function as a closed system
  12. 12. Self-reinforcing
  13. 13. Difficult to exit</li></li></ul><li>A systemic relationship framework for problems<br />Relapse-<br />circuit 5<br />Relapse (circuit 4)<br />Problem , issue and/or situation<br />Family of origin and past traumas<br />Pressure points (circuit 2)<br />communication<br />Fault lines (circuit 1)<br />communication<br />CONGRUENCE<br />CIRCIUT 5<br />Exacerbation circuit 3<br />
  14. 14. Circuit 1:FAULT LINES<br />LIMITED RANGE AND DEPTH OF COMMUNICATION (SEE 5 STANCES)<br />OVERFUNCTIONING OR UNDERFUNCTIONING<br />SEPARATE ACTIVITIES<br />EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE<br />RECURSIVE LOOP LINKS PAST AND PRESENT<br />
  15. 15. Circuit 2: Pressure Points<br />Life transitions<br />Set-backs and losses<br />
  16. 16. Circuit 3: Exacerbation<br />Opens up earlier wounds, over and over again<br />Exaggerates imbalance in relationship (superlatives like: ‘always, never, constantly)<br />
  17. 17. Circuit 4: Relapse<br />‘Nothing has changed in my life’ or ‘we are right back where we started’<br />Fault-lines become engrained and perhaps ‘fissures’<br />Distress precipitates relapse (crisis driven)<br />
  18. 18. Circuit 5: Congruence<br />Attending<br />Awareness<br />Acknowledgement<br />Alignment<br />

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