Refrain from correcting your husband. What men hate is being corrected. Keep your point of view in a polite and calm way as much as possible. Refrain from mentioning or citing examples of in-laws or husband in an argument. This will alienate you from both husband and in-laws. Most importantly, in whichever way possible, do not opt for separation. It is important that both you and husband stay with each other. Once there’s physical distance, the emotional distance grows further often causing permanent damage to the relationship. Do not let your husband walk away from you nor should you leave the husband’s house.