In Australia, young men commit suicide at more than three times the rate of women of the same age. Further, mental illness and drug and alcohol dependency is severely affecting men aged 16-24.
In mid-2009, The Inspire Foundation launched the #Manweek campaign to raise awareness of these issues. A number of Australian bloggers supported this campaign, sharing their thoughts,
challenges and experiences with their readers.
Each of these stories was a gift — sometimes painful to write, always astounding to read. They got under our skin, and as the campaign ended, we felt that the campaign had only just scratched the surface.
We wanted to take these stories and share them
with others — with our brothers, fathers and uncles. With our friends and families.
This book is the result. Please buy it for the men in your life.
All proceeds go to The Inspire Foundation.
We think it is the perfect gift.
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The Perfect Gift for a Man
1. the perfect gift for a
Man
30 stories about
reinventing
manhood
A collaborative man book project for The Inspire Foundation
2. the perfect gift for a
Man
30 stories about
reinventing
manhood
All proceeds to The Inspire Foundation
Helping millions of young people lead happier lives
www.inspire.org
A collaborative man book project for The Inspire Foundation
4. What we ask of you ...
Share this book and share your own story
Then tell us ...
www.facebook.com/perfectgiftforaman
www.theperfectgiftforaman.com.au
It will be tough ...
but you may just help someone.
6. Contents
Becoming a man 1
To my son Jorge Albinagorta
Dealing with personal problems Julian Cole
Monkeys with underpants Joel Connolly
By bike or by box Stephen Crombie
Watching my brother struggle to find himself Karalee Evans
At a loss for words Ann Handley
Flower Craig Kirchner
The journey of a young man Scott Middleton
Why some men are so lost Mark Pollard
Respect 27
Mi Raccomando Age Conte
Romeo and Juliet: circa 2009 James Duthie
The legacy of manhood Jeremy LeBard
Grandad still worth gold to me Ben O’Mara
Growing up with Petey Pops Annik Skelton
Fragility 41
The change Stephen Collins
Another word for father Gavin Heaton
The path back Alan Long
Second time lucky David Phillips
Contradictory bliss Dave Relf
The Perfect v for a Man
7. Contents
Fatherhood 57
The dream & the reality Mitch Andrews
From two perspectives Gavin Bollard
Becoming a dad and more of a man Trent Collins
Joys and challenges Tony Hollingsworth
A letter to my boys Darryl King
Loss 71
Before it began Scott Abbot
On being a man and losing a loved one Scott Drummond
An open letter to my dad Edward Harran
Your clarity was alarming Michael Ryan
My current (and greatest) life challenge Joel Pearson
Saying goodbye to the light of the sun Jye Smith
Afterword Jack Heath
Bonus credits
Cover photo Mark Lobo — www.marklobo.com.au
Design Mark Pollard — www.markpollard.net
Section photos Ashley Ringrose (self portrait, p 27) — www.mrtruffle.com
Mark Lobo (Gravity always wins, p 59)
Stephen Crombie (pp 41, 57, 71)
Arty stuff Ashley Ringrose (dicks and balls, p 50)
Genevieve Robey (p 19, 38) — www.genevieverobey.com
9. The Inspire Foundation
The Inspire Foundation was established in 1996
in direct response to Australia’s
then escalating rates of youth suicide.
They combine technology with the direct
involvement of young people to deliver innovative and
practical online programs that
prevent youth suicide and improve young people’s
mental health and wellbeing.
Their mission is to help millions
of young people lead happier lives.
For more information visit www.inspire.org.