X3 Pure Couples Chapter 2
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The document discusses principles for couples from a session on respect. It states that a man's top need is respect from his wife, while a woman's top need is love from her husband. It emphasizes that a wife should respect her husband by cheering for him, affirming him, and making him feel respected, as this will draw him closer to her. The homework asks wives to list three ways to encourage their husbands.
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X3 Pure Couples Chapter 2
- 1. Chapter 2: X3Pure Couples Series Session 1 Principle:
- 2. Chapter 2: X3Pure Couples Series Session 1 Principle: • All In
- 3. Principle #2
- 4. Principle #2 • Every man needs a cheerleader
- 5. Principle #2 • Every man needs a cheerleader • Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must also love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband.”
- 6. Principle #2 • Every man needs a cheerleader • Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must also love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband.” • Husbands love your wives
- 7. Principle #2 • Every man needs a cheerleader • Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must also love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband.” • Husbands love your wives • Wives respect your husbands
- 8. Top Needs
- 9. Top Needs • Man’s top need is respect
- 10. Top Needs • Man’s top need is respect • Woman’s top need is love
- 11. Respect
- 12. Respect • A man needs someone to cheer for him, someone to affirm him.
- 13. Respect • A man needs someone to cheer for him, someone to affirm him. • When a man feels like he’s not being respected it will make him angry, make him withdraw or passive.
- 15. Respect Illustration • We all have faults
- 16. Respect Illustration • We all have faults • Men go where they feel respected
- 17. Respect Illustration • We all have faults • Men go where they feel respected • A wife who respects her husband is a magnet
- 18. Respect Illustration • We all have faults • Men go where they feel respected • A wife who respects her husband is a magnet • Respect has to come as an act of the will
- 19. Wives’ Homework
- 20. Wives’ Homework • List three ways you can encourage your husband