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Women and Leadership 
Executive Presence 
andrewbryant 
author | speaker | coach
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“This is me”
the ability to 
influence yourself, 
to achieve 
your 
objectives. 
To get a free chapter click 
www.selfleadership.com/free 
“This is the book I wrote 
with Dr.Ana Kazan”
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“What is 
‘Executive Presence? 
AND 
Is it different for women? 
“These are 2 questions I 
hope to answer”
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26% of what it takes to get 
promoted. 
Centre for Talent Innovation
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Executive Presence 
- the ability to project gravitas, confidence 
and poise under pressure. 
In addition: appearance, 
speaking skills, assertiveness 
and the ability to read an 
audience or situation 
contribute to a person’s 
perceived executive 
presence.
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“Hi, my 
name is…” 
“My value to 
my 
organization 
is…” 
“How well you can do this 
gives us a quick sense of your 
executive presence and where 
you can improve.”
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Women are more likely to 
discount themselves
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STOP Discounting 
1. Accept that you are 
valuable 
2. Appreciate your 
strengths 
3. Acknowledge the past 
and move on 
4. Authentically Speak up 
“Check out this article on 
my Linkedin for the full 
description.”
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Humility 
“Having an accurate, neither 
overestimated nor underestimated 
view of your own abilities.”
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“How do your see yourself?”
“What are you saying to yourself?” 
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WHOSE? THOUGHTS 
FEELINGS 
WORDS 
ACTIONS 
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“It’s time to take ownership!”
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Establish 
Boundaries 
For yourself and others
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“Get help if you 
need it.”
16 
Confidence 
“Access the feeling of 100% certainty 
about something you are competent 
to do – transfer this feeling to the 
thing you want to be confident in.”
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Increase your S P A C E 
Subtly 
“By subtly increasing the 
space you take up, you 
send a signal of 
confidence.”
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Gather your thoughts 
and 
Get to the point
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“Frame your message for 
maximum impact.”
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Get what 
you want by 
making 
other people 
feel special
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“What is 
important to 
you?” 
“Ok, well this is 
what is important 
to me.” 
“Let’s 
collaborate so 
that we both get 
what we want!”
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“Hi, my 
name is…” 
“My value to 
my 
organization 
is…” 
“Now do this again 
and notice the 
difference.”
Thank You 
andrew-bryant.com 
selfleadership.com 
@selfleadership

Women, Leadership and Executive Presence

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    1 Women andLeadership Executive Presence andrewbryant author | speaker | coach
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    the ability to influence yourself, to achieve your objectives. To get a free chapter click www.selfleadership.com/free “This is the book I wrote with Dr.Ana Kazan”
  • 4.
    4 “What is ‘Executive Presence? AND Is it different for women? “These are 2 questions I hope to answer”
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    5 26% ofwhat it takes to get promoted. Centre for Talent Innovation
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    6 Executive Presence - the ability to project gravitas, confidence and poise under pressure. In addition: appearance, speaking skills, assertiveness and the ability to read an audience or situation contribute to a person’s perceived executive presence.
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    7 “Hi, my name is…” “My value to my organization is…” “How well you can do this gives us a quick sense of your executive presence and where you can improve.”
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    8 Women aremore likely to discount themselves
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    9 STOP Discounting 1. Accept that you are valuable 2. Appreciate your strengths 3. Acknowledge the past and move on 4. Authentically Speak up “Check out this article on my Linkedin for the full description.”
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    10 Humility “Havingan accurate, neither overestimated nor underestimated view of your own abilities.”
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    11 “How doyour see yourself?”
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    “What are yousaying to yourself?” 12 12
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    WHOSE? THOUGHTS FEELINGS WORDS ACTIONS 13 “It’s time to take ownership!”
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    14 Establish Boundaries For yourself and others
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    15 “Get helpif you need it.”
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    16 Confidence “Accessthe feeling of 100% certainty about something you are competent to do – transfer this feeling to the thing you want to be confident in.”
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    17 Increase yourS P A C E Subtly “By subtly increasing the space you take up, you send a signal of confidence.”
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    18 Gather yourthoughts and Get to the point
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    19 “Frame yourmessage for maximum impact.”
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    20 Get what you want by making other people feel special
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    21 “What is important to you?” “Ok, well this is what is important to me.” “Let’s collaborate so that we both get what we want!”
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    22 “Hi, my name is…” “My value to my organization is…” “Now do this again and notice the difference.”
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    Thank You andrew-bryant.com selfleadership.com @selfleadership

Editor's Notes

  • #2 Welcome to a journey to lead your life. Firstly, let me congratulate you on making a choice, a choice to invest time and energy into you self. And let me reassure you that investing in your self is not selfish because when you live your life authentically you will be able to engage in healthier relationships with other and contribute more to you community and the planet. I have been studying and writing about self-leadership for many years, and this program is the fruition of that work and I believe that it will give you the tools and strategies to lead your life and positively influence others. But you must remember there are many roads to the truth and all we have are maps, and as you realize if you have the wrong map it can be hard or difficult to find your way. I tried and failed to find my way in the past because I had maps that were given to me by parents, school and religious institutions. I had to change my mind and my maps many time to find a way to lead my life. Realizing that you have been living with your maps for a short or a long time and that maps aren’t reality I invite you to step back from the maps that you have inherited and to navigate your own life. I don’t want you to blindly adopt my map, because it’s just a map and sanity is recognizing that the map is not reality. You are most likely here, like me, because you are curious about change. Perhaps everything is going well for you but you recognize that some things just don’t fit. Or perhaps you want to get away from what you are doing now and make a radical change. Some of you know what you want but have not been yet able to achieve them, And some of you are already where you want to be and are here to reinforce what you know. Wherever you are coming from and wherever you are going I welcome you to lead your life.
  • #4 Tonight I want to pose the question - Are you a leader or a follower? Do you have the makings of an entrepreneur or will you spend you life in a meaningless pursuit of the comfort zone?
  • #8  Lets get to know a little bit more about you – Please introduce yourself and share: Name Location and Role Management Experience Tell us something about your name. What do you want to get out of this program? Facilitator should flipchart the expectations and use these in future exercises and discussions
  • #9  According to authors Katty Kay and Claire Shipman in their book The Confidence Code, women tend to struggle with a lack of confidence disproportionately. When something goes wrong professionally, women blame themselves while crediting others when things go right. Kay and Shipman also found that women are more likely to be perfectionists and hold themselves back from asking for a raise or even answering a question until they’re 100% sure the outcome will be as they predicted. So what gives? Why are we so hard on ourselves? Whether it’s gender bias, always having others tell you “no,” or the sickening feeling of inadequacy, eight women leaders below reveal what holds them back--and what they do to keep going regardless. What Holds Her Back: The Voice In Her He
  • #12 It’s time to level the playing field.
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  • #14 RESPONSIBILITY
  • #20 Eloquence frames your content, because all content needs context. Human beings are meaning making machines and as your mission is to make meaning for your audience. We frame the content with Why the need to listen to us, what is important about the information, how it will impact them and what to do next. With framing allows you to take any content and make it meaningful. Let me have a couple of volunteers. And now Ok you are about to speak
  • #23  Lets get to know a little bit more about you – Please introduce yourself and share: Name Location and Role Management Experience Tell us something about your name. What do you want to get out of this program? Facilitator should flipchart the expectations and use these in future exercises and discussions