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Stay Empty, Stay
Curious
Khuyen Bui
Curiosity (n)
(dictionary) a state in which you want to learn and
know more about something
(my own) the pursuit of Joy in the unknown.
I wasn’t planning on
being here…
“What you love, you will lose…”
then
Where would I be?
Silly visa
issues…
then
Twists & turns
“Seriously, your chasing the next
adventure seems to be an attempt to
escape something. It seems that you
have to be with whatever you have a
hard time being with. Perhaps you
need to pay your debts of gratitude by
serving something there before you can
be released.”
“Choosing Curiosity over Fear”
-Elizabeth Gilbert, author of “Eat, Pray, Love”--your friend here-
Fear of going home…
- Stuck in old patterns
- Unfinished family messiness
Home: what touches you so much that
you want to help transform it.
Making home > going home.
Deep Boredom: a state of existential
meaninglessness. An anti-creativity.
Caution: do not try getting to know
your fear alone at home …
…unless joy is so important that
you dare risking the comfort of
your old self.
Old you
Deep
Boredom
Death
Old you
Deep
Boredom JOY
Curiosity
New You
An (al)chemical reaction
Curiosity and the meaningful life
- Meaning comes from walking the uncertain
path.
- Curiosity: seeking out newness with an eye to
discover meaning.
On
questions
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart
and try to love the questions themselves […] Do not
now seek the answers, which cannot be given you
because you would not be able to live them. And
the point is, to live everything.” - Rilke
Respect the
Unknown
My life =>
LIFE
Stay empty, stay curious.
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Stay Empty, Stay Curious

Editor's Notes

  1. Not everyone has to have this level of introspection, but if you do, your life will have meaning.
  2. I’m actually different enough to handle it.
  3. TALK ABOUT MY DYING LIFE HERE. I’ve got to move. The sign has started way way before. No, I don’t advocate you to follow your passion – I think it’s not a good advice – but I’d advocate you to practice listening to your own little voice. May you have the wisdom to enter generously into your own uneaseTo discover the new direction your longing wants you to take.
  4. No, I don’t advocate you to follow your passion – I think it’s not a good advice – but I’d advocate you to practice listening to your own little voice. May you have the wisdom to enter generously into your own unease - To discover the new direction your longing wants you to take.
  5. Some sorts of dying inside. Something is missing in life. I was ready for a change. Where do you get the courage? Love life enough to say No to anything that doesn’t serve it. How relevant it is to the creative people? Because your life. I have friends who have quit everything to work in a farm… I’m not there yet.
  6. Only then can you craft your own meaning in the world. But curiosity can also find expression in pure forms. And so from time to time, we pack our bags, buy tickets, and head off in random directions, both inward and outward, to potentially unpleasant and unhappy places. And we still enjoy ourselves.