It is always a better idea to try and settle your divorce outside of a court room. Here are a few reasons why you should consider doing so. You can avoid the cost of a trial, which can get very expensive. You also will be in more control about the outcome and you are able to increase the chances of compliance. The costs of post-divorce litigation can become very large, you can avoid this entirely. Lastly, you can preserve a good relationship with your ex-spouse, which is ideal if you have children together and will need to be in communication with them regarding parenting responsibilities.