This poem is dedicated to the speaker's mother and what they learned from her about love and caring for others. The speaker learned from their mother how to care for others during difficult times, such as by bringing flowers or food to the hospital or for grieving families. The speaker learned the importance of attending viewings and funerals even if they did not know the deceased, in order to offer sympathy and support to the living. They learned that the small acts of kindness are what matter most during times of loss, not so much the words but showing up and offering help.