1. The document provides 10 suggestions for creative ways to ask women to be bridesmaids, including making them a simple bridesmaid card, "proposing" to them with a scrabble tile ring, baking them homemade goods with a photo, giving them a fortune cookie with a message, or making a mixed media canvas with a request.
2. Other ideas are writing them a poem expressing how special they are and asking, giving them a re-wearable gift like a tank top or scarf to remind them of the wedding, treating them to dinner where the topic will surely be the wedding, or providing a "bridesmaid survival kit" with supplies to help them through the big day.