Do you find yourself having a worthwhile goal, work on it for a while, and then see no change? Do you try again and still see no real results? Have you contemplated giving up or simply settling? If you're heading in that direction, there may be some hope for you. You don't have to lose your motivation and abandon your goals even though you think you've failed, because you actually didn't fail yet. Failure comes when you decide not to do anything about that goal. Failure is not being stuck in your current situation but giving up any attempt to make visible progress to hold on to.