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Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares about having the perfect first kiss. Even when one is not a teenager anymore, the experience of a memorable and perfect first kiss with your beau does not really fade away. No matter how anxious one feels, that kiss with somebody special is always something great to anticipate. Created by Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. Hire her at http://www.ErosCoachig.com
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We were riding on a downward escalator when two men who looked like a couple came towards us on the side of the upriding escalator.
I nudged my date to get his attention and to take note of the two men. When he ignored me, I nudged him again.
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Him: "So what? So what if they're gay? Leave them alone. Let them lead their lives."
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I did it without any thought. I did it because I've had people do that to me as if it's a joke.
Why would being gay be a joke?
Even if they were dressed funny, it's not right to make other feel uncomfortable. But of course, their lives are not a joke to them.
Making fun of others is not funny. It's rude and cruel.
Those two men would have wanted to go about their day without having people point, stare, laugh, mock, or talk behind their back just as I wouldn't want to happen to me.
So why did I do that to others?
When did I become the bully?
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I encourage you to work through your LGBT bias and ignorance if you can as I have been. LGBT people aren't people from an alien planet. ❤
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Sexual orientation or gender identity does not make one any less than heterosexuals nor dangerous.
Nobody should be made to feel as such.
🌈 LGBT people come from families just like heterosexuals.
🌈 LGBT people want, need and deserve love from their families just like heterosexuals.
🌈 LGBT people do express love and do support their families just like heterosexuals.
🌈 Some LGBT people can and do stay in committed relationships and marriages just like heterosexuals.
🌈 Some LGBT people can and do want to have children just like heterosexuals.
🌈 Some LGBT people might choose to use birth surrogates just like heterosexuals.
🌈 Some LGBT people might choose to adopt children just like heterosexuals.
🌈 Some LGBT people can and do make good parents just like heterosexuals.
🌈 Above all else, LGBT people are people.
The ability to lead our lives the way we want is part of being part of any independent state.
Just as heterosexuals want to have the freedom to eat, live, breathe, work, love, and mate so do our LGBT friends. 🌈
Love is Love
Finally! 😍 Singapore’s Prime Minister announced that the government will repeal Section 377A! Homosexuality has been a long-standing issue, and this historic news is a huge win for the LGBTQ+ community.
Love is Love ❤
Many years ago when Pink Dot Singapore was in its first few years, I asked a friend if he was going.
He shared that he was just about to donate towards Pink Dot when a friend asked him, "Would you support Pink Dot if your child was gay?"
He revealed that question made him pause and think about whether he should support Pink Dot because apparently it's one thing to support others yet another when it directly affects him or his family.
I didn't say anything then but I do wonder to this date what I could or should have said.
Perhaps I should have asked:
"Do you think being LGBT is a choice?" and left it as it was.
Maybe I could invite him to consider:
"The same reasons you would support Pink Dot would be the reasons you would support your child."
Or maybe something more vague like:
"Love is love. Does it matter?"
Would your stance be different outwardly (others) vs internally (at home)?
What would you have said?
Do you identify as an ally?
Do you proactively educate yourself on how to be one?
Created by Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. Hire her at http://www.ErosCoachig.com
Everything You Need to Know About Vulva Self Examination
Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares everything you need to know about Vulva Self-Examination.
What is a Vulvar Self-Exam?
A vaginal self-examination is a way for a woman to look at her vulva and vagina.
Created by Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. Hire her at http://www.ErosCoachig.com
What You Need to Know about Sexual Harassment in Singapore
Research has shown a quarter of Singaporean women and one in ten men have experienced sexual harassment, while only half reported the incident or even mentioned it to another person.
If you are a victim, it’s important not to let any feelings of embarrassment or fear of repercussion prevent you from seeking help and justice. While sexual harassment is not explicitly defined by the law, it is covered by the broader Protection from Harassment Act.
Created by Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. Hire her at http://www.ErosCoachig.com
Demystifying Tattoos
This is a collaboration between Social Media Personality Jane Surin and Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching.
Getting a tattoo is like purchasing art, and it could also be an extension of themselves. Also, the type of work or how largely it spans all over the body can also be an attention grabber to some. Drivers behind the fascination of acquiring a tattoo may fall into four main groups, namely healing, affiliation, art and fashion.
Why We Shouldn't Judge People with Tattoos
1. Having a tattoo is never a factor of intelligence, worth, or value.
2. Tattoos are beautiful and considered art.
3. A tattoo shouldn't stop you from getting a job because it doesn't stop your performance.
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Sex Toy Review: Twirling Fun by Satisfyer
Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee reviews Twirling Fun by Satisfyer.
As somebody who works with Vaginismus clients since 2009, I was very excited when I first saw then was able to test this vibrator.
It is smaller than one smallest finger/ bullet vibrator. The body is rigid. This vibrates but the vibration isn't too strong - can also be used on/off.
Created by Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. Hire her at http://www.ErosCoachig.com
Everything about Dating Violence
Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares everything about Dating Violence.
Dating violence is a pattern of assaultive and controlling behaviors that one person uses against another in order to gain or maintain power and control in the relationship.
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A Glossary of LGBTQIA + Terms You Need to Know
Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares a Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms you need to know.
June is Pride Month. LGBTQIA+ is an inclusive term which stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex and asexual.
Created by Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. Hire her at http://www.ErosCoachig.com
5 Masturbation Myths
What do medical professionals and sexual health authorities have to say about masturbation?
The general consensus is that solo sex can have a positive impact on one’s emotional, physical and sexual health.
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13 Reasons Why Masturbation is Awesome
Masturbation is defined as the stimulation or manipulation of one’s own genitals, especially to reach orgasm.
Even though masturbation has been found in all societies, regardless of cultural attitudes and values, there’s still a lot of negative connotations around it.
Hence, I’d like to begin demystifying this sexual act by sharing some benefits of masturbation.
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10 Signs Youre an Amazing Sex Partner
Are you good in bed? Have you been told? Or do you just know?
I just released this piece for Honeycombers Singapore! Here are 10 signs you're good in bed!
https://thehoneycombers.com/singapore/how-to-know-you-are-good-in-bed/
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Why Did I Become a Sexologist?
If there is one question I am asked almost every time I meet somebody new, it is this: "Why did you become a sexologist?"
I knew as a professional sexologist, I would have the unique expertise that would allow me to contribute to the well-being of men and women - including helping them develop an understanding of their sexuality and better express themselves through sex and intimacy.
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Stay Relevant - New Words from My 2021 You Should Know
New Words from my 2021 You Should Know
1. Extra
2. Salty
3. AF
4. Body Count
5. Dope
6. Snack
7. Look fly
8. Cancel Culture
9. Shut up
10. Woke Culture
11.Get out
12. Toxic Positivity
Which of these words are you familiar with?
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7 Sexy Valentine's Day Ideas
As appeared in Bustle
7 Sexy Valentine's Day Ideas
1. Sex Toy Shopping Spree
2. Sensual Spa Night
3. Role Play
4. Explore Erotica
5. Blindfolded Taste Test
6. Camping
7. Play a Sex Game
Read more and get new ideas here https://buff.ly/3JhboBt
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