The person feels anxious about changes and the unknown. They prefer their current role where they know what to expect and can do their work independently with guidance from their boss. They feel pressure from their boss and collaborators to take on new tasks and responsibilities before they feel ready. The constant demands to take care of multiple important things at once and find a new job overwhelm them.
6
Lesson Learned
MGT 3312
The second I turned sixteen, my parents forced me to get a job. I didn’t want a job at the time because I was so busy with school and choir. But I also needed a way to pay for choir, tour, and any activities I ever wanted to do. My parents were done giving me money. As much as I didn’t like the idea, I was forced to accept it. I was able to find a job at TJ Maxx, but I didn’t really like it. The job I really wanted was at Deseret Book. I love to read books, plus they had the perfect hours to fit my schedule and they were closed on Sunday’s.
Of course, I was not the only person that wanted to work there. They get ten to twenty applications a week, and there was some tough competition, and I was still in high school with almost no work history. Luckily, I had a friend that vouched for me and told the manager that I would be a great addition to the staff. It still took me two months to get the job, and I worked very hard for it. I had to call every couple days and bug the manager about my application, and he finally gave me an interview and offered me the job. I was so happy.
I loved working at Deseret Book. I still miss it all the time. I started out working in the Lionhouse Pantry, which was in the back of the store. I would make the salads and bake the rolls. I quickly grew bored of that. What I really wanted was to sell the books. Each shift I would hurry and get my list of things done in the pantry so that I could go out on the floor and sell. They have a program called the Platinum Program, which is just a rewards program. The difference in Deseret Book’s rewards program was that customers had to pay $25 to sign up, so it was really hard to get anyone to do that. Only for me, it was really easy. I was a natural salesperson. I remember one time, a man came in to buy one book for his wife and I sold him the entire set, which was 10 books total, plus a Platinum account. I consistently sold quadruple the number of Platinum accounts than anyone else in my store, including the store manager. I was good. And I knew it.
When I was nineteen-years-old, I finally got promoted to supervisor. I was really excited to finally be rewarded for my success and hard work. I knew I deserved that promotion. But I knew it a little too much. Before my promotion, I had become close friends with my coworkers. When I got promoted, I was arrogant, and I quickly lost their respect and friendship. The girls I had once laughed with and talked to now laughed and talked without me, but would quiet down when I walked up. They may have been a little jealous, but I over-exaggerated their jealousy and made myself believe that they wished they were me. I knew I was the best, and I knew that they knew it.
The power quickly went to my head. I thought I was irreplaceable, an asset that the company would never want to lose no matter the cost. Soon, I was ordering my former friends around, acting like they never did anything good en.
6
Lesson Learned
MGT 3312
The second I turned sixteen, my parents forced me to get a job. I didn’t want a job at the time because I was so busy with school and choir. But I also needed a way to pay for choir, tour, and any activities I ever wanted to do. My parents were done giving me money. As much as I didn’t like the idea, I was forced to accept it. I was able to find a job at TJ Maxx, but I didn’t really like it. The job I really wanted was at Deseret Book. I love to read books, plus they had the perfect hours to fit my schedule and they were closed on Sunday’s.
Of course, I was not the only person that wanted to work there. They get ten to twenty applications a week, and there was some tough competition, and I was still in high school with almost no work history. Luckily, I had a friend that vouched for me and told the manager that I would be a great addition to the staff. It still took me two months to get the job, and I worked very hard for it. I had to call every couple days and bug the manager about my application, and he finally gave me an interview and offered me the job. I was so happy.
I loved working at Deseret Book. I still miss it all the time. I started out working in the Lionhouse Pantry, which was in the back of the store. I would make the salads and bake the rolls. I quickly grew bored of that. What I really wanted was to sell the books. Each shift I would hurry and get my list of things done in the pantry so that I could go out on the floor and sell. They have a program called the Platinum Program, which is just a rewards program. The difference in Deseret Book’s rewards program was that customers had to pay $25 to sign up, so it was really hard to get anyone to do that. Only for me, it was really easy. I was a natural salesperson. I remember one time, a man came in to buy one book for his wife and I sold him the entire set, which was 10 books total, plus a Platinum account. I consistently sold quadruple the number of Platinum accounts than anyone else in my store, including the store manager. I was good. And I knew it.
When I was nineteen-years-old, I finally got promoted to supervisor. I was really excited to finally be rewarded for my success and hard work. I knew I deserved that promotion. But I knew it a little too much. Before my promotion, I had become close friends with my coworkers. When I got promoted, I was arrogant, and I quickly lost their respect and friendship. The girls I had once laughed with and talked to now laughed and talked without me, but would quiet down when I walked up. They may have been a little jealous, but I over-exaggerated their jealousy and made myself believe that they wished they were me. I knew I was the best, and I knew that they knew it.
The power quickly went to my head. I thought I was irreplaceable, an asset that the company would never want to lose no matter the cost. Soon, I was ordering my former friends around, acting like they never did anything good en.
There is nothing more important than loving our jobs. You should enjoy getting up for your job each day. Nothing good ever happens and nothing good will ever come to you when you are doing tasks and jobs that do not interest you.
There is nothing more important than loving our jobs. You should enjoy getting up for your job each day. Nothing good ever happens and nothing good will ever come to you when you are doing tasks and jobs that do not interest you.
1. „I likethethe job variation.“
„My bossispressuringme... He wants to writemypaperforme, but I wouldlike to
do thatmyselfwith his help and guidance.“
„Sometimes I like to getorders, if I am also allowed to have a saying in what I
do .Then I can just lean back and do nothave to worry.“
„I like to be in themiddelwithpeopleaboveme and peoplethat I canguide.“
„I do notlike to conductnewexperiments, because I want to do everything right
and thatmakesmeanxious.“
„I do notliketheinsecurity and constantchanges.“
„Itisdifficult to tellwhethermybosslikesmeornot, because he isnice to
everyone.“
„Itstressesmetotallythat I have to find a new job. I wouldprefer to
continuewhat I do nowforoneortwoyears.“
„In the last fourweeks I was panicing, because I thought I have to takecare,
takecare of stuff.“
„Itis good to have a timeplan. I am overwhelmedbyhaving to write a
grantapplication and a paper at thesame time and also havingto write job
applications.“
„GettingtheIscholarshipwouldbe such a downgrading. I do notwant to
havelessmoney.“
„I am afraidthatmy job applications will notbe good enough.“
„Job interviewsscaremebecause I am sometimes to
honestforexamplewhensomebodyisaskingformyweaknesses.“
„I am mostproud of myfirstscientificpublicationwhich I wrotewhen I was
goingthrough a difficultphase in my private life and I masteredit, despitethat
and despitethefactthatwritingisdifficultforme.“
„I just likewhat I do currently. I do notwant to bealwayssuccess-oriented,
althoughitisnice to write up yourresults in a publication.“
„...(a collaborator) was pressuringme. He gaveme a
stricttimetablewithexperiments I had to do although I wouldhaveneededthe
time to write job applications.“
„ I like to do common lab stuff, fromwhicheverybodyprofits.“
say
think
feel
•Afraid of novel, unkownsituation,
whichshedoesnotyetknowhow to handel.
•Afraid to benot good enough.
•Needs positive feedback and acknowledgement
•Likes to do whatsheknowsvery well.
•Likes to do thingsherself.
•Feelspressuredby her boss and collaboratores.
•Anxiousaboutchanges in the immediate and
furtherawayfuture.
•Prefers to shareresponsibility.
•Knowssheis good at
whatshedoesand
thatshedeservesappreciation.
•Thinkssheneeds to takecare of
severalequallyimportantthings.
•Thinkssheneedsmore time to
prepare job
applications/somethingnew.
Editor's Notes
Stakeholder:Acreative, talented, youngscientistwhoiscurious and thorough. Shelikes to makenewdiscoveries and enjoysworking in a team. fSituation:Hasobtained her PhDdegree at thebeginning of thisyear and isnowfacingthedescision to eitherstay in academic researchor to applyfor a job outsideacademia. Insight: Needs to find a way of feelingself-secureaboutthe job applicationprocedure.