This document explores the concepts of self and identity in anthropological discourse. It argues that anthropology has tended to deny that the people it studies have a self. Instead, anthropology views them as only having an identity, defined as something shared with others rather than individual features. The document presents a case study from northern Pakistan to argue that in order to understand how individuals act with plural, contradictory identities requires recognizing they have a self beyond just cultural attributes. It calls for anthropology to better integrate the concepts of self and identity and recognize the self as a human universal.