Micah Heumann is an academic advisor at the University of Illinois. The document discusses their experience being an ally and what allyship means. It notes that being an ally is messy and involves dating in high school/college, supporting a chief in college, working with a deaf student, learning from touching a student's hair, and talking with a student about engineering. The document questions if one training makes a person an ally and what truly makes someone an ally. It defines allyship as a lifelong process of building trust-based relationships with marginalized groups, as recognized by those groups, not a self-defined identity.