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pproaching females could cause one to feel nervous. Understanding that the
bad approach can destroy a prospective relationship before it even has a
chance to grow can add to the stress one feels at that moment. It can be hard
to compose the ideal first line, staying calm when you express it and sounding confident
without coming off as cocky.
If you would like to approach a lady, here are some steps you can take.
Avoid worrying bout rejection
Avoid allowing this fear to ruin your chances before you even make an attempt. Women
rarely respond by getting annoyed, being rude, or acting offended when they're
approached. You're doing something that is flattering any time you approach them and
will likely give between a neutral and positive reply.
Avoid being sent to friend-zone
When approaching a woman, avoid being thought of as a friend at all costs. If you act all
shy and innocent any time you approach girls, you’re likely headed to the dreaded friend
zone. Do not cover up the reality that what you’re doing is trying to ask her out. Giving
her a compliment or two can be of help, but bombarding her with superlatives is the
quickest way to being friend-zoned. When you say compliments, stay clear of “cute” and
“pretty” and opt for “beautiful” and “gorgeous” instead. If you are approaching a girl for
first time the you can use magnetic messaging free.
Begin a conversation by asking a question
When you're at a bar or club and a girl catches your eye, asking her a random, and
casual question is a good way to start a conversation. For instance you can ask her
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what time it is or what’s the brand of the drink she ordered. If she doesn’t wish to keep
the conversation going after your first question, no problem. You can speak to another
girl without a bruised ego.
Text her
The days of calling a lady and asking her out on
a date are a thing of the past. The lady that you
want to go out with probably receives plenty of
text messages from other interested fellas. You
won’t stand out if you send her canned, boring
and pointless texts. Rather, send her
entertaining and playful text messages that will entice her. Keep your exchanges light-
hearted, so don’t ask a lot of questions. If anything, this will just make her find you too
tiresome to talk to, and might dissuade her from texting you back. Avoid sending
messages that are cheesy and try not to be too available. Don’t text back immediately to
all her text messages. This makes you look more unpredictable and mysterious, which
can add to your appeal. Texting a woman is an art. Guides you can get from the Web
like magnetic messaging can help you learn effective texting strategies.
