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Why I Am a Male Feminist
By: Byron Hurt
Posted: March 16, 2011 at 12:24 AM
The word turns off a lot of men (insert snarky comment about
man-hating feminazis here) --
and women. But here's why black men should be embracing the
"f" word.
When I was a little boy, my mother and father used to argue a
lot. Some mornings, I would
wake up to the alarming sound of my parents arguing loudly.
The disagreement would continue
until my father would yell with finality, "That is it! I'm not
talking about this anymore!" The
dispute would end right there. My mother never got the last
word.
My dad's yelling made me shrink in fear; I wanted to do
something to make him stop raging
against my mother. In those moments, I felt powerless because I
was too small to confront my
father. I learned early that he had an unfair advantage because
of his gender. His size, strength
and power intimidated my mother. I never saw my father hit
her, but I did witness how injurious
his verbal jabs could be when they landed on my mom's psyche.
My father didn't always mistreat my mother, but when he did, I
identified with her pain, not his
bullying. When he hurt her, he hurt me, too. My mother and I
had a special bond. She was
funny, smart, loving and beautiful. She was a great listener who
made me feel special and
important. And whenever the going got tough, she was my rock
and my foundation.
One morning, after my father yelled at my mom during an
argument, she and I stood in the
bathroom together, alone, getting ready for the day ahead of us.
The tension in the house was
as thick as a cloud of dark smoke. I could tell that my mother
was upset. "I love you, Ma, but I
just wish that you had a little more spunk when you argue with
Daddy," I said, low enough so
my father couldn't hear me. She looked at me, rubbed my back
and forced a smile.
I so badly wanted my mother to stand up for herself. I didn't
understand why she had to submit
to him whenever they fought. Who was he to lay down the law
in the household? What made
him so special?
I grew to resent my father's dominance in the household, even
though I loved him as dearly as
I loved my mother. His anger and intimidation shut down my
mother, sister and me from freely
expressing our opinions whenever they didn't sit well with his
own. Something about the
inequity in their relationship felt unjust to me, but at that young
age, I couldn't articulate why.
One day, as we sat at the kitchen table after another of their
many spats, my mother told me,
"Byron, don't ever treat a woman the way your father treats
me." I wish I had listened to her
advice.
As I grew older and got into my own relationships with girls
and women, I sometimes behaved
as I saw my father behave. I, too, became defensive and
verbally abusive whenever the girl or
woman I was dating criticized or challenged me. I would belittle
my girlfriends by scrutinizing
their weight or their choices in clothes. In one particular college
relationship, I often used my
physical size to intimidate my petite girlfriend, standing over
her and yelling to get my point
across during arguments.
I had internalized what I had seen in my home and was slowly
becoming what I had disdained
as a young boy. Although my mother attempted to teach me
better, I, like a lot of boys and
men, felt entitled to mistreat the female gender when it
benefited me to do so.
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After graduating from college, I needed a job. I learned about a
new outreach program that
was set to launch. It was called the Mentors in Violence
Prevention Project. As a student-
athlete, I had done community outreach, and the MVP Project
seemed like a good gig until I got
a real job in my field: journalism.
Founded by Jackson Katz, the MVP Project was designed to use
the status of athletes to make
gender violence socially unacceptable. When I met with Katz, I
didn't realize that the project
was a domestic violence prevention program. Had I known that,
I wouldn't have gone in for the
job interview.
So when Katz explained that they were looking to hire a man to
help institutionalize curricula
about preventing gender violence at high schools and colleges
around the country, I almost
walked out the door. But during my interview, Katz asked me an
interesting question. "Byron,
how does African-American men's violence against African-
American women uplift the African-
American community?"
No one had ever asked me that question before. As an African-
American man who was deeply
concerned about race issues, I had never given much thought
about how emotional abuse,
battering, sexual assault, street harassment and rape could affect
an entire community, just as
racism does.
The following day, I attended a workshop about preventing
gender violence, facilitated by Katz.
There, he posed a question to all of the men in the room: "Men,
what things do you do to
protect yourself from being raped or sexually assaulted?"
Not one man, including myself, could quickly answer the
question. Finally, one man raised his
hand and said, "Nothing." Then Katz asked the women, "What
things do you do to protect
yourself from being raped or sexually assaulted?" Nearly all of
the women in the room raised
their hand. One by one, each woman testified:
"I don't make eye contact with men when I walk down the
street," said one.
"I don't put my drink down at parties," said another.
"I use the buddy system when I go to parties."
"I cross the street when I see a group of guys walking in my
direction."
"I use my keys as a potential weapon."
"I carry mace or pepper spray."
"I watch what I wear."
The women went on for several minutes, until their side of the
blackboard was completely filled
with responses. The men's side of the blackboard was blank. I
was stunned. I had never heard
a group of women say these things before. I thought about all of
the women in my life --
including my mother, sister and girlfriend -- and realized that I
had a lot to learn about gender.
Days after that workshop, Katz offered me the job as a mentor-
training specialist, and I
accepted his offer. Although I didn't know much about gender
issues from an academic
standpoint, I quickly learned on the job. I read books and essays
by bell hooks, Patricia Hill
Collins, Angela Davis and other feminist writers.
Like most guys, I had bought into the stereotype that all
feminists were white, lesbian,
unattractive male bashers who hated all men. But after reading
the work of these black
feminists, I realized that this was far from the truth. After
digging into their work, I came to
really respect the intelligence, courage and honesty of these
women.
Feminists did not hate men. In fact, they loved men. But just as
my father had silenced my
mother during their arguments to avoid hearing her gripes, men
silenced feminists by belittling
them in order to dodge hearing the truth about who we are.
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I learned that feminists offered an important critique about a
male-dominated society that
routinely, and globally, treated women like second-class
citizens. They spoke the truth, and
even though I was a man, their truth spoke to me. Through
feminism, I developed a language
that helped me better articulate things that I had experienced
growing up as a male.
Feminist writings about patriarchy, racism, capitalism and
structural sexism resonated with me
because I had witnessed firsthand the kind of male dominance
they challenged. I saw it as a
child in my home and perpetuated it as an adult. Their analysis
of male culture and male
behavior helped me put my father's patriarchy into a much
larger social context, and also
helped me understand myself better.
I decided that I loved feminists and embraced feminism. Not
only does feminism give women a
voice, but it also clears the way for men to free themselves from
the stranglehold of traditional
masculinity. When we hurt the women in our lives, we hurt
ourselves, and we hurt our
community, too.
As I became an adult, my father's behavior toward my mother
changed. As he aged he
mellowed, and stopped being so argumentative and verbally
abusive. My mother grew to assert
herself more whenever they disagreed.
It shocked me to hear her get in the last word as my father
listened without getting angry. That
was quite a reversal. Neither of them would consider themselves
to be feminists, but I believe
they both learned over time how to be fuller individuals who
treated each other with mutual
respect. By the time my father died from cancer in 2007, he was
proudly sporting the baseball
cap around town that I had given him that read, "End Violence
Against Women." Who says men
can't be feminists?
Byron Hurt is an award-winning documentary filmmaker and
anti-sexist activist. Follow him on Twitter.
http://www.bhurt.com/
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Journal of Men’s Studies
2017, Vol. 25(2) 150 –167
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The WiseGuyz Program:
Sexual Health Education as
a Pathway to Supporting
Changes in Endorsement
of Traditional Masculinity
Ideologies
Caroline Claussen1
Abstract
Given the growing interest in the impacts of gender ideology on
adolescent boys’
well-being, there is a call for programs to support the
development of healthy and
positive constructs of masculinity. The WiseGuyz program at
the Calgary Sexual
Health Centre is a sexual health and healthy relationship
program addressing the
need for interventions that promote positive and healthy
constructs of masculinity
identified in the literature. Using the Male Role Norms
Inventory Scale–Adolescent–
revised (MRNI-A-r) standardized scale and focus groups, data
were gathered from 52
adolescent boys enrolled in the WiseGuyz program. Results
suggest that participation
in the WiseGuyz program lessens boys’ endorsement of
traditional masculinity
ideologies, as indicated by changes in the MRNI-A-r and focus
group data.
Keywords
adolescent boy’s programming, sexual health education,
masculinity, evaluation
The health and well-being of adolescent boys have been a
growing area of concern,
with researchers suggesting adolescent boys are at risk
academically, socially, and
emotionally (Kindlon & Thompson, 2000; Pollack, 2006; Watts
& Borders, 2005).
Psychological and sociological research suggests that intense
pressure on boys to
1University of Calgary, Alberta, AB, Canada
Corresponding Author:
Caroline Claussen, Department of Sociology, University of
Calgary, 2500 University Dr. NW Calgary,
Alberta, T2N 1N4, Canada.
Email: [email protected]
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conform to masculine norms emphasizing physical toughness,
absence of emotion,
self-sufficiency, and heterosexual dominance may contribute to
boys’ worsening aca-
demic achievement, increasing rates of suicide and distress, and
propensity for vio-
lence (O’Neil & Lujan, 2009; Pollack, 2006; Tremblay &
L’Heureux, 2012; Watts &
Borders, 2005).
Increasingly, there is a call for programs and initiatives that not
only engage adoles-
cent boys in masculinity issues but also promote positive
constructs of masculinity
(Kaufman, 2001; O’Neil, Challenger, Renzulli, Crasper, &
Webster, 2013; Wolfe &
Jaffe, 2003). Unfortunately, recent research identifies a lack of
gender-specific pro-
gramming for adolescent boys (O’Neil et al., 2013; O’Neil &
Lujan, 2009), particu-
larly interventions focused on promoting healthy and positive
constructs of masculinity
(O’Neil et al., 2013; Tharinger, 2008).
This article addresses the noted gap in the literature about
gender-specific program-
ming for adolescent boys that focuses on healthy masculinity by
exploring preliminary
findings from WiseGuyz, a sexual health and healthy
relationships program offered in
Alberta, Canada. The following sections will overview current
considerations of ado-
lescence and masculinity, and explore the need for programs to
address the influence
of traditional masculinity ideologies on adolescent boys and
their relationships and
sexual health. Preliminary findings are presented from the
WiseGuyz program evalu-
ation, and the implications of those findings for gender-specific
sexual health pro-
gramming for adolescent boys and further research are
considered.
Adolescent Boys and Masculinity
According to Connell (2005), masculinity can be defined as a
social and cultural struc-
ture that influences men’s identities and practices. Hegemonic
masculinity represents
the most socially dominant masculinity, and is often positioned
as an idealized mascu-
linity that is largely out of reach for many boys and men
(Knight et al., 2012; Tharinger,
2008). Pressures to conform to the prevailing hegemonic
standards have detrimental
effects for many boys and men. Boys face an adolescent culture
of cruelty (Kindlon &
Thompson, 2000), violence from other boys and men (Abelson,
2016), emotional iso-
lation (Way, 2012), and detrimental physical and mental health
outcomes (Courtenay,
2000, 2003; Knight et al., 2012).
Research suggests that as many boys enter middle to late
adolescence, they begin
to more strongly adhere to gender stereotypes and norms (Chu,
2005; Kimmel, 2008;
Pollack, 2006; Way, 2012). As demonstrated by Niobe Way’s
(2011) extensive research
on boys’ friendships, starting at age 15 and 16, boys become
less emotionally articu-
late, more distrustful of their male peers, and generally
disconnect from others in
attempts to become independent and self-reliant. As many boys
move into later ado-
lescence, the struggle to prove manhood and rigidly adhere to
the prevailing hege-
monic standard intensifies (Cote & Allahar, 1996; Kimmel,
2008).
In recent years, however, the notions of inclusive masculinity
(Anderson, 2013,
2016; McCormack, 2012), socially just masculinity (Knight et
al., 2012), and positive
and healthy constructs of masculinity are found in the literature
(Englar-Carlson &
152 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2)
Kiselica, 2013; Kiselica & Englar-Carlson, 2010; O’Neil, 2010;
Zeglin, 2016). This
body of literature brings attention to the ways in which boys
and men are actively
resisting (and in some cases, changing) idealized forms of
masculinity.
Inclusive masculinity has emerged from studies that suggest
adolescent boys are
moving away from rigid hegemonic standards toward a
redefined and softer form of
heterosexual masculinity (Anderson, 2013, 2016; McCormack,
2012). Although
promising, these studies have been conducted primarily in the
United Kingdom, and
might not translate to the Canadian context. Furthermore, the
literature on inclusive
masculinity is countered by other, more recent literature
suggesting the continued
existence of hegemonic masculine norms on adolescent boys’
lives (Reigeluth &
Addis, 2016).
In their study of how young men talk about sexual health,
Knight et al. (2012)
found support for instances where masculinity discourses
provided opportunities for
more socially just interactions. “Manning up” was enacted by
using one’s personal
power to help others (Knight et al., 2012, p. 1257). They
suggest there are instances
where hegemonic masculinity can be disrupted, and reinstated
to create another, more
socially just masculinity (Knight et al., 2012). The authors
suggest further research is
needed examining interventions that attempt to produce more
socially just masculini-
ties (Knight et al., 2012).
Positive and/or healthy constructs of masculinity have recently
been examined by
several scholars as a way to address the existing, problem-
focused knowledge base of
the difficulties and deficits experienced by men (Englar-Carlson
& Kiselica, 2013;
Kiselica & Englar-Carlson, 2010; O’Neil, 2010). In addition to
the suggestion that
some masculine norms be considered (or developed to be)
adaptive in some contexts
(Englar-Carlson & Kiselica, 2013; Kiselica & Englar-Carlson,
2010; Zeglin, 2016),
emphasis has been placed on boys’ strengths and the capacity to
empower themselves
(O’Neil et al., 2013). These particular aspects of positive
masculinity, the emphasis on
boys’ strength, and the capacity to empower oneself are
particularly salient for gender-
specific programming seeking to support boys in being
conscious, critical, and self-
aware of the traditional masculinity ideologies contributing to
the development of
their identity and relationships.
Gender and Sexual Health
Interest in the impact of gender ideologies on adolescent boys’
well-being has been
echoed more broadly by those in the field of sexual health
promotion. Although there is
an understanding that gender plays a key role in sexuality, some
researchers suggest that
gender influences on sexual health have not been considered in
a substantive way
(Carmody, 2009; Saewyc, 2012; Schalet et al., 2014; Tolman,
Striepe, & Harmon, 2003).
Gender ideologies influence not only how youth view
themselves but also how they
view and interact with others (Schalet et al., 2014). Sexual
experiences may be viewed
as achievements or accomplishments to impress and maintain
status with peers as
opposed to building intimacy and connection (Knight et al.,
2012; Schalet et al., 2014;
World Health Organization, 2000). Traditional masculine norms
tend to prescribe
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heterosexuality, high sex drive, sexual prowess and initiation,
and total lack of emotional
engagement in relationships (Hall & Applewhite, 2013; Knight
et al., 2012; Pleck,
Sonenstein, & Ku, 1993; Schalet et al., 2014). Although societal
norms about idealized
masculine behavior affect a broad range of men, the literature
suggests that those adoles-
cent boys who adhere most strongly to traditional beliefs about
masculinity (e.g., tough-
ness, heterosexuality, high status, etc.) are most at risk of
negative consequences such as
depression, poor academic achievement, and engaging in unsafe
sexual practices (Pleck
et al., 1993; Schalet et al., 2014).
Sexual Health Education Programs
Research in the area of sexual health also suggests gender plays
a prominent role in
adolescent responses to, and engagement with, sex, sexuality,
and relationship educa-
tion (Buston & Wight, 2006; Hilton, 2007; Measor, 2004). The
literature identifies the
tendency for school-based sexual health education to be focused
on girls and young
women while appealing less to boys and young men (Buston &
Wight, 2006; Hilton,
2007; Saewyc, 2012; World Health Organization, 2000). Most
school-based sexual
health programs focus on offering information around fertility
and reproduction (e.g.,
menstruation, physical development, etc.), and equipping girls
and young women to
be the gatekeepers in sexual matters (Meaney, Rye, Wood, &
Solovieva, 2009; Quinlan
& Bute, 2013; Saewyc, 2012).
Some studies of sexual health education indicate that boys want
more content on
communication (particularly around discussing sexual issues
with girls), dealing with
feelings and peer pressure, and pornography (Buston & Wight,
2006; Hilton, 2007).
Additional findings suggest that boys value and desire explicit
and specific informa-
tion on sex, and feel that sexual education programs should be
offered to boys early in
their teen years (as opposed to waiting until later adolescence;
Buston & Wight, 2006;
Hilton, 2007).
Given that boys have often been largely overlooked by school-
based sexual health
programs (due to the framing of sexual and reproductive health
content as the primary
concern of girls and young women; Quinlan & Bute, 2013),
there is an urgent need for
school-based programs to not only provide the sexual health
content boys want and
need but also integrate curriculum that supports exploration of
the ways in which tra-
ditional masculinity ideologies increase sexual health risks
(both for boys themselves
and for their partners; Aggleton & Campbell, 2000). Research
highlights the need for
comprehensive sexual health education to challenge highly
gendered expectations of
intimacy and include strategies that help students reflect on and
challenge these beliefs
(Carmody, 2009; Keel, 2005; Schalet et al., 2014).
Conceptualization and Implementation of WiseGuyz
Although teen pregnancy rates have fallen significantly in the
past decade (McKay &
Barrett, 2010), reported rates of sexually transmitted infections
(STIs) have risen and
are highest among youth and young adults (McKay, Bissell, &
Sex Information and
154 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2)
Education Council of Canada, 2010). Alberta-specific data point
to adolescent boys as
being the fastest growing group for STIs (Government of
Alberta, 2011). These facts
prompted a local community-based organization, Calgary
Sexual Health Centre
(CSHC), to further explore this phenomenon and review how
boys have been served
by sexual health programming. Their investigations aligned with
other research iden-
tifying the lack of focus on boys in current iterations of sexual
health programming
and available resources (Buston & Wight, 2006; Hilton, 2007;
Schalet et al., 2014;
World Health Organization, 2000). This re-examination of
current sexual health pro-
gramming prompted the organization to investigate available
sexual health curricula to
address the lack of focus on boys. Although there was a boys-
only sexual health pro-
gram identified (Gruchow & Brown, 2011), the organization
decided to develop its
own program to incorporate curricula that would address gender
influences on sexual-
ity and relationships.
Theoretical Foundation
WiseGuyz is a participatory school-based program that
strategically targets boys in
Grade 9 (ages 13-15). There are several reasons for the focus on
these particular boys.
In Calgary, many youth start high school in Grade 10, switching
schools in the pro-
cess. As such, many of the boys are on the cusp of a significant
transition in their lives.
Research suggests that early adolescence is a key time to
address topics such as gender
socialization and sexuality because there is a natural curiosity
at this age (Wolfe &
Jaffe, 2003).
Since its inception, there has been a focus within WiseGuyz on
the importance of
understanding masculinity ideologies and the influence they
have on adolescent boys
in relation to their sexuality, sexual health, gender equity, and
relationships.
“Masculinity ideology” refers to “internalized beliefs regarding
culturally defined
standards or norms for males’ roles and behaviours” (Levant et
al., 2012, p. 1).
Masculinity is viewed as a cultural construction that is
internalized from the surround-
ing culture (Levant et al., 2012; Pleck et al., 1993). Social
interactions act as either
punishment or reinforcement of masculinity ideologies, thereby
informing, encourag-
ing, and constraining boys and men to adhere to the culturally
prevailing masculine
norms (Levant et al., 2012). With regard to sexual health, for
example, Knight et al.
(2012) found that masculine discourses and codes acted to
filter, censor, and govern
men’s sexual health talk with each other. Furthermore, they
found that sexual health
disclosures (both in the moment and in the aftermath) risked
invoking a subordinate or
suspect masculine status (Knight et al., 2012).
The WiseGuyz program educates boys to be conscious, critical,
and self-aware of
the masculinity ideologies contributing to the development of
their identity and rela-
tionships. Through the pathway of sexual health education,
WiseGuyz seeks to change
the set of beliefs and expectations about what adolescent boys
are like and should do
with regard to sexual relationships. By critically examining
(through group-based dis-
cussions) the dominant forms of masculinity, WiseGuyz seeks
to counter damaging
influences and stigmatization of sexuality, gender, and
relationships that can result in
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negative peer and dating relationships and unsafe sexual
practices (Hurlock, 2013;
Kirby, 2007). This program evaluation is guided by the question
of whether WiseGuyz
can change boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity
ideologies.
General Method
Overview
As part of a larger community-based research project examining
the impacts of the
WiseGuyz program, this study specifically focuses on whether
WiseGuyz is effective
in changing boys’ endorsement of masculinity ideologies. The
hypothesis is that there
will be a significant difference between pre-test and posttest
endorsement of tradi-
tional masculinity ideology average scores. Qualitative focus
group data are discussed
as they support quantitative findings.
Curriculum and Delivery
There are four core modules facilitated over 14 sessions that are
90 min in length,
occurring once per week. As a result of school holidays
affecting scheduling, these
sessions occur over an 8-month span. The sequence of the
modules plays a critical
role, given that each one builds into the next. The four modules
are (a) human rights,
(b) sexual health, (c) gender, and (d) healthy relationships (see
Table 1 for more infor-
mation on sessions within each module). Each module
incorporates key activities
designed to support boys in critically examining the dominant
forms of masculinity.
For example, in the Gender component, facilitators use the
“Gender Box” activity.
This is designed to get the boys thinking about gender
socialization and gender roles.
Facilitators ask them to list pressures or stereotypes about being
a man or a woman.
The group compares the lists and discusses how the pressures
and stereotypes set up
power dynamics, gender inequality, and can lead to bullying,
harassment, and vio-
lence. Facilitators also work with the boys to explore the
insults, put downs, and “gen-
der policing” words people use to essentially tell someone to
get back in the box or to
perform their gender better (Reigeluth & Addis, 2016).
The WiseGuyz program was piloted in September 2010 and,
since then, a total of
218 participants have completed the program. Since 2010, the
program has been
implemented in six public junior high schools in Calgary. The
program participants
join voluntarily after receiving information about the program
through teachers,
administrators, and presentations by WiseGuyz facilitators in
the school.
Sample
Data from 52 boys in 2014 were collected in all participating
schools (three). Boys
ranged in age from 13 to 15, with the average age of the boys
being 14.5 years. Of the
52 boys, 74% were Caucasian and most identified as
heterosexual (10% of the boys
identified as not sure with regard to their sexuality, and 4%
answered they would
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rather not say). Although more than half of the boys had begun
dating (52%), only 6%
stated they were sexually active.
Procedure
Ethics approval was obtained from both the University of
Calgary’s Conjoint Faculties
Research Ethics Board and the Calgary Public School Board.
Informed consent was
obtained from both the boys and their parents prior to data
collection. Demographic
and pre-test data were collected at the first session of
WiseGuyz, and posttest data
were collected at the final session of WiseGuyz at the end of the
school year (June).
Focus group data were collected at the end of the school year
after the final session of
WiseGuyz. Data collection included the WiseGuyz Intake Form,
the MRNI-A-r
(Levant et al., 2012), and the Sexual Health Practices Self-
Efficacy Scale (Koch,
Colaco, & Porter, 2010), as well as focus groups with a sample
of boys in the program
(N = 15). For the purposes of this report, only data from the
Intake Form, the MRNI-
A-r, and focus groups are reported.
Measures
The MRNI-A-r. This instrument was chosen as a result of the
WiseGuyz developmental
research conducted by CSHC, which pointed to the need for the
program to engage
adolescent boys in critically thinking about and discussing the
construction of mascu-
linity ideologies to better understand sexuality, sexual health,
gender equity, and
healthy relationships. The instrument is used to assess
WiseGuyz participants’
Table 1. Module Content.
Module name Session Content
Human rights 1 Program Introduction and Rapport Building
(Hang-Out)
2 Values
3 Equality, Equity and Human Rights
Sexual health 4 Male and Female Anatomy
5 Pregnancy, Birth Control and Fatherhood
6 Sexually Transmitted Infections
Gender 7 Gender Socialization
8 Gender in the Media
9 Gender and Sexual Diversity
10 Gender-Based Violence
Healthy
relationships
11 Healthy Decision Making and Boundaries
12 Consent and Communication
13 Emotions and Stress Management
14 Conflict Resolution and Healthy
Relationships Review
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Table 2. Focus Group Question Guide.
1. Why did you decide to join WiseGuyz?
2. What do you remember (what stands out for you) most about
the WiseGuyz program?
(What first comes to mind?)
3. What is the most important thing you learned in WiseGuyz?
(What did you learn about
yourself through WiseGuyz?)
4. Did the program influence your relationships? If so, how?
5. How has WiseGuyz changed the way you interact with your
friends and with other
people in your life?
6. Who in your life do you think has benefited most from
WiseGuyz? (Prompts: If so,
how? Which relationships: friends, romantic, familiar? Did you
meet new friends through
WiseGuyz?)
7. Do you feel your behavior has changed because of
WiseGuyz (Prompts: if so how and if
not why?)
8. Did your understanding/beliefs about masculinity change? If
so, how?
9. Do you think it is important to have a program like
WiseGuyz? (Why, please explain?)
What would you say to the boys in Grade 8?
endorsements of traditional masculinity ideologies. Permission
to use the validated
survey was obtained from the survey developer.
Recent research points to a robust three-factor structure for the
scale, as opposed to
the five-factor scale hypothesized in earlier iterations (Levant et
al., 2012; Thompson
& Bennett, 2015). The three subscales used in the WiseGuyz
instrument include
Emotionally Detached Dominance, Toughness, and Avoidance
of Femininity (Levant
et al., 2012). Boys indicate their agreement with statements
(e.g., “Guys should play
with trucks rather than dolls”) on a 7-point Likert-type scale
(e.g., 1 = strongly dis-
agree and 7 = strongly agree; Levant et al., 2012). A total
MRNI-A-r score is obtained
through the averaging of scores on all 29 items. Higher scores
indicate more agree-
ment with traditional masculinity ideologies, and lower scores
indicate less agreement
with traditional masculinity ideologies.
Focus groups with WiseGuyz. Boys were recruited for focus
groups through a recruit-
ment notice distributed through their facilitators and through a
Facebook group
page that participants of the WiseGuyz program can join to be
connected to alumni
of the program. Three focus groups were held (School A, n = 6,
School B, n = 4,
and School C, n = 5) with a total of 15 participants. A semi-
structured focus group
guide (see Table 2 for focus group questions) was developed
based on earlier devel-
opmental research from the program that qualitatively identified
changes in empa-
thy and acceptance, finding a voice, and being curious and
asking questions
(Hurlock, 2013). Questions were related to participants’
perspectives on the Wise-
Guyz program, the process of the program, and how their
knowledge and behavior
may have changed as a result of the WiseGuyz program. Each
focus group lasted
approximately 60 min. The conversations were audio-recorded
and later transcribed
verbatim.
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Analysis
For the MRNI-A-r Scale, missing data were removed, resulting
in 37 cases with com-
plete data. The analysis was twofold. The first part of the
analysis used a repeated-
measures ANOVA (RM-ANOVA) to determine the effect of
time on boys’ endorsement
of traditional masculinity ideologies. The second stage applied a
repeated-measures
MANOVA (RM-MANOVA) approach to the same data to
determine significant differ-
ences in the three subscales. Significance was determined at the
0.05 level. Data were
analyzed using SPSS Statistics Software (24.0). Unless
otherwise noted, data are pre-
sented as mean ± standard deviation.
For the focus group data, thematic analysis was used, whereby
researchers interpret
raw text data to apply codes and subsequently develop themes
(Namey, Guest, Thairu,
& Johnson, 2008). Thematic analysis was chosen because it is a
flexible qualitative
method that enables exploration of meaningful patterns within a
data set (Reigeluth &
Addis, 2016). Thematic analysis provided the opportunity to
look for patterns in boys’
responses and investigate changes in behavior and beliefs with
regard to masculinity.
Codes were developed for focus group data based on the
patterns of the boys’ responses,
and data reduction techniques were utilized to identify key
themes (Guest, MacQueen,
& Namey, 2012).
Results
As can be seen in Table 3, the RM-ANOVA results showed that
the difference in total
average MRNI-A-r scores between the beginning of the program
(M = 3.18, SD =
1.03) and the end of the program (M = 2.73, SD = 0.95) was
statistically significant,
F(1, 36) = 9.61, p = .004, partial η2 = .211. Power to detect the
effect was .855. These
results support the hypothesis of a significant difference in pre-
test and posttest aver-
age scores on endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies,
thereby suggesting
that the WiseGuyz program is lessening adolescent endorsement
of traditional mascu-
linity ideologies.
MRNI-A-r Subscales
An RM-MANOVA was conducted with the three subscales as
dependent variables. As
shown in Table 4, results show a significant multivariate main
effect for time, Wilks’
Table 3. Repeated-Measures ANOVA for total MRNI-A-r score
changes.
Variable
Pre-program Post-program
F(1, 36) p
Partial eta
squared
Observed
powerM (SD) M (SD)
MRNI-A-r
Score
3.18 1.03 2.73 .95 9.61 .004 .211 .722
Note. MRNI-A-r = Male Role Norms Inventory Scale–
Adolescent–revised.
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Table 4. Repeated-Measures MANOVA Data for MRNI-A-r.
Effect Wilks’ λ F(1, 36) p Partial eta squared
Time .817 8.039 .007a .18
F(2, 35)
Scales .357 31.47 .000b .64
Time × Scales .991 .162 .851 .009
Note. MRNI-A-r = Male Role Norms Inventory Scale–
Adolescent–revised.
aSignificant difference (p < .05) for time.
bSignificant difference (p < .05) for scales.
λ = .817, F(1, 36) = 8.039, p < .05, partial η2 = .18, as well as
for Scales, Wilks’ λ =
.357, F(2, 35) = 31.46, p < .05, partial η2 = .64. Interaction of
scale and time were not
found to be significant, Wilks’ λ = .991, F(2, 35) = .152, p >
.05, partial η2 = .009. This
result suggests the effect of time, overall, is the same across all
three of the
subscales.
Given the significant main effect of time, repeated-measures
ANOVA was run
on each of the three subscales, and the level of significance was
adjusted to take
into consideration the running of multiple ANOVAS (0.05/3 =
0.017). As shown
in Table 5, the greatest average change in scoring was in the
Emotionally Detached
Dominance subscale, improving 16% (M = 2.81, SD = 1.11 at
pre-test to M =
2.37, SD = .85 at posttest, p = .012). Toughness showed an
improvement in scor-
ing of 13% (M = 3.65, SD = 1.07 at pre-test to M = 3.16, SD =
1.14 at posttest, p =
.007). Avoidance of Femininity, which did decrease 11% (M =
3.58, SD = 1.46 at
pre-test to M = 3.18, SD = 1.34 at posttest), was not found to be
statistically sig-
nificant (p = .071).
Focus Groups
Given the call for comprehensive sexual health education to
challenge highly gendered
expectations of intimacy and include strategies that help
students reflect on and chal-
lenge these beliefs (Carmody, 2009; Keel, 2005; Schalet et al.,
2014), the above find-
ings suggesting that WiseGuyz could be lessening boys’
endorsement of traditional
Table 5. Percentage Change in MRNI-A-r Subscale Scores From
Pre-Test to PostTest.
Item
Pre-program Post-program
% changeM (SD) M (SD)
Emotionally Detached Dominance 2.81 1.11 2.37 .85 16
Toughness 3.65 1.07 3.16 1.14 13
Avoidance of Femininity 3.58 1.46 3.18 1.34 11
Note. MRNI-A-r = Male Role Norms Inventory Scale–
Adolescent–revised.
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masculinity ideologies are promising. Focus group data support
and add to the survey
findings by identifying not only qualitative changes in how boys
think about masculin-
ity but also the process by which the program supports them to
do so. In exploring the
boys’ thoughts on the importance of a program like WiseGuyz
and whether or not the
program influenced their behaviors and beliefs about
masculinity, several dominant
themes emerged, which point to both the process and outcomes
of change. Process-
related themes include building safe spaces and unpacking
traditional masculinity ide-
ologies, while opening doors to inclusivity points to the changes
supported by the
program.
Building safe spaces. Data suggest that prior to critically
examining how masculinity
ideologies contribute to the boys’ identity and relationships,
developing a sense of
safety with the group is an important pre-condition. Boys
discussed how the program
structure allowed them to feel “safe” and discuss topics
regarding sexuality and mascu-
linity without the fear of being judged. Boys valued the fact that
they could ask seem-
ingly “silly” or uncomfortable questions, and felt that “they
could trust the guys in
WiseGuyz with anything.” As explained by one of the boys
from School B focus group,
. . . you’re in an environment with only guys and you don’t
have to worry that it might
be awkward . . . like another girl [being] in your class, like they
might judge you, and so
being with just a small group of guys you could express more
and talk about more.
Creating a sense of safety within the program appears to be
critically important, as it
supports an environment whereby the boys can begin to openly
discuss masculine
stereotypes, pressures, and expectations. One of the boys in
School A’s focus group
likened WiseGuyz to a “therapy group,” explaining “all the guys
know what you’re
going through and what it’s all about.” The program cultivates a
space where the boys
can talk and connect without judgment.
Unpacking traditional masculinity ideologies. A central focus of
the WiseGuyz program is
to educate boys to be conscious, critical, and self-aware of the
masculinity ideologies
that contribute to the development of their identity and
relationships. According to the
boys in the focus groups, once they began to critically examine
masculinity ideologies,
they began to understand how they were influenced by them.
Several of the boys dis-
cussed the importance of the activities used in the program in
supporting them to think
critically about traditional masculinity ideologies. As described
by one boy from the
School C focus group,
The man box (activity), I found that the most interesting of all
of them [in reference to the
program modules] . . . it stood out to me because I never really
thought about society
put[ting] us in a box . . . .
This awareness that societal expectations for masculine
behavior exist, and that they
are potentially harmful, was also discussed by the boys. They
specifically referenced
damaging discourse and the ways in which language is used to
police masculine
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behavior. As explained by one boy from the School A focus
group, “I’m pretty sure at
one point in every guy’s life they’ve been called a pussy or a
chicken . . . you don’t
realize the destruction that it does.”
In spite of an awareness of the harmfulness of certain
masculinity ideologies, one
of the boys in the School C focus group wanted to emphasize
that “not all things about
masculinity are bad.” His comments serve as a valuable
reminder that there are proso-
cial iterations of masculinity, acknowledged in literature
exploring male strengths and
positive aspects of being a man (Englar-Carlson & Kiselica,
2013; Kiselica & Englar-
Carlson, 2010; O’Neil, 2010).
Opening doors to inclusivity. Boys discussed how the program
allowed them to “see the
world differently,” particularly with regard to the differences
within masculinities.
Many boys discussed how, instead of getting hung up on the
differences between the
boys participating in WiseGuyz, they came to respect their
differences. Focus group
participants discussed how everyone came into the program
aware of the differences
between them, especially in terms of social status. According to
the boys from School
A, some were recognized as “social giants” or as “social
outcasts.” Many of the boys
felt that the program created a sense of “inclusion” for
everyone. This increased aware-
ness of, and respect for, differences between the boys appeared
to translate into under-
standing and accepting a range of masculinities. As one boy
from the School B focus
group expressed,
I mean, everyone’s different, but my brother he’s a bit nerdy.
He likes these video games
and all those things. I used to kind of give him heck for it
because personally, I was never
really into that stuff. But now looking back on it and seeing
how that’s how father-son
things work. Like where they push them to be something that
they don’t wanna be . . . I
looked back on it, I totally changed the way I treat him and
stuff.
Two important points emerge from this participant’s reference:
First, he has reflected
on his own behavior, and the way in which he placed certain
expectations on his
brother. Second, he extends his critical thinking to the father–
son dynamic, acknowl-
edging how fathers consciously and unconsciously shape their
son’s identity and
behaviors.
Another example of boys coming to respect the differences
between each other can
be seen in the following comment from a boy in School B focus
group:
At the beginning of every class we do something called the
check in and you explain what
you did in the past week and the last time you guys saw each
other. And explain anything
that’s been happening or anything you want to talk about. You
go around the circle saying
that. That was kind of a big thing because you kind of learned
more about the other
people who you might not have been as close to. But in our
group a lot, most of us we
knew each other because we were all in like the French
Program, but then there was 2
PLP’s and one English program person and it was kinda
interesting like having, like one
of the guys had autism and it’s really cool to like see how he
learns. Just like, he’s a part
just like anyone else. Just like being a part of everyone.
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In the above quote, the participant explains how the boys in the
program are discerning
social differences among the group, yet these differences are
not separating them.
Instead, they are respected differences. Being able to see
difference in the world and
to understand the power that is at play within difference is
critical to the development
of a more socially just masculinity (Knight et al., 2012).
Discussion
This study, which evaluated the WiseGuyz program, indicates
that a sexual health
promotion program with a central focus on the importance of
understanding masculin-
ity ideologies, and the ways in which they influence adolescent
boys in relation to
sexuality, sexual health, gender equity, and relationships, may
be an effective pathway
for lessening boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity
ideologies. The format of
the program addresses many aspects that have been identified in
the literature, such as
including a focus on feelings and communication, being open to
explicit conversations
about sex, and dealing with peer pressure.
Qualitative data identify important program pre-conditions that
support the pro-
gram outcomes toward lessening boys’ endorsement of
traditional masculinity ideolo-
gies. Findings from the focus groups suggest that developing a
sense of safety for the
boys within the program is one of the most important parts of
the program process,
allowing them to engage with the program content. Building a
sense of safety appears
to be an important pre-condition for boys to successfully engage
with the curriculum
and should be considered when developing other gender-
specific programming.
The changes in MRNI-A-r average scores seen from pre-test to
posttest and focus
group findings on opening doors to inclusivity suggest that this
sexual health educa-
tion program consciously focused on the critical examination of
masculinity is sup-
porting changes in participants’ beliefs about how adolescent
boys ought to behave
and what masculinity should “look” like. The focus on and
inclusion of tools to
address, examine, and challenge beliefs around traditional
masculinity ideologies
address a noted gap in the literature, which identifies the lack of
sexual health pro-
gramming that challenges highly gendered expectations of
intimacy (Carmody, 2009;
Keel, 2005; Schalet et al., 2014). These preliminary findings do
suggest that WiseGuyz,
one example of a sexual health and healthy relationship
program, can lessen boys’
endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies. This is an
important finding, given
that research identifies adolescent boys who adhere most
strongly to traditional beliefs
about masculinity (e.g., toughness, heterosexuality, high status,
etc.) as being most at
risk of negative consequences such as depression, poor
academic achievement, and
engaging in unsafe sexual practices (e.g., having more sexual
partners and less self-
efficacy and consistency in condom use; Pleck et al., 1993;
Schalet et al., 2014).
The significant differences in pre-test and posttest scores on the
MRNI-A-r also
suggest that WiseGuyz may be appropriately timed
developmentally. Given the
research suggesting that as boys move into later adolescence,
the struggle to prove
manhood and rigidly adhere to exaggerated gendered notions
intensifies (Cote &
Allahar, 1996; Kimmel, 2008), participation in WiseGuyz
during early adolescence
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may provide boys with some degree of “inoculation” from this
intensification (Crooks,
Goodall, Hughes, Jaffe, & Baker, 2007, p. 228).
The scoring change seen in the subscales “Emotionally
Detached Dominance,”
“Toughness,” and “Avoidance of Femininity” are suggestive.
Although more recent
research shows boys to be more emotional and empathetic than
stereotypes portray
them to be (Pollack, 2006; Way, 2011), there still exists
tremendous pressure for boys
to adhere to rigid gender guidelines (Kimmel, 2008; Pollack,
2006). It may be that the
WiseGuyz program is providing an opportunity for boys to
question traditional gender
norms and behaviors, particularly regarding the relational
aspects of the boys’ lives.
Both the quantitative results and the focus group data for
WiseGuyz participants sug-
gest there is a definitive change in agreement around emotional
vulnerability. Focus
group findings suggest boys are questioning traditional
masculine norms and reflect-
ing on the impact those norms have on their lives. By providing
boys with a safe and
supportive space to examine gendered expectations around
emotionality and vulnera-
bility, the program is supporting boys in their journey toward
emotionally healthy
adulthood.
A major focus of the WiseGuyz program is to develop the
consciousness required
to critically examine the constructions of masculinity. Focus
group data highlight how
the boys’ critical thinking about the program’s activities (such
as the man box) extends
to thinking about relationship dynamics that may influence
boys’ identities and behav-
iors. Supporting boys to see the world differently and
understand the power at play is
an important aim of the program.
Furthermore, focus group data suggest that the program may be
encouraging the
boys to be more open to a range of masculinities, as indicated
by their discussion of
respecting each other’s difference and creating a sense of
inclusion for everyone. This
movement toward a more inclusive masculinity warrants further
examination, particu-
larly in consideration of other research that suggests boys are
moving toward a soft-
ened form of heterosexual masculinity (Anderson, 2013, 2016;
McCormack, 2012).
This study is limited by virtue of the research design used.
There is no control
group for comparison, which makes it difficult to say with
complete confidence that it
is the program that is creating the changes in masculinity
scoring in the boys. Future
research on the WiseGuyz program would be well-placed to
incorporate a control
group of boys, which would allow for the investigation of
causal relationships.
Maturation of the boys is another factor at play. This can
include any psychological
and/or physical changes that take place within subjects over
time. Given that the pre-
test and posttest occur over the course of 8 months, maturation
could be a possible
explanation for the survey data findings. However, the
combination of findings from
both quantitative and qualitative data lessens the concern of a
maturation effect having
taken place.
Given the identified lack of gender-specific programming for
adolescent boys, the
findings of this study are promising. The WiseGuyz program
appears to be success-
fully engaging selected boys in sexual health education
programming. Not only are
boys engaged, but they are supported to critically examine
masculine norms at a cru-
cial period in their sexual and relational development. The
program appears to be
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lessening boys’ endorsement of traditional masculine
ideologies. By changing partici-
pants’ beliefs in these ideologies, boys in the program might
feel less pressure pertain-
ing to their sexuality and masculinity as they enter late
adolescence and eventually
adulthood.
Author’s Note
Access to underlying research material: Permission to access
data to be obtained through
Calgary Sexual Health Centre, Calgary, AB, Canada.
Acknowledgment
The author would like to thank Calgary Sexual Health Centre
for providing access to the
WiseGuyz data.
Declaration of Conflicting Interests
The author(s) declared no potential conflicts of interest with
respect to the research, authorship,
and/or publication of this article.
Funding
The author(s) received no financial support for the research,
authorship, and/or publication of
this article.
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Author Biography
Caroline Claussen is a doctoral student in the department of
Sociology at the University of
Calgary, specializing in the areas of masculinity, youth, and
sexuality. Her work is focused on
conducting applied research in community-based settings with
non-profit organizations.
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If Men Could Menstruate
By Gloria Steinem, Ms. Magazine, October 1978
A white minority of the world has spent centuries conning us
into thinking that a white skin makes
people superior—even though the only thing it really does is
make them more subject to ultraviolet rays
and to wrinkles. Male human beings have built whole cultures
around the idea that penis-envy is
“natural” to women—though having such an unprotected organ
might be said to make men vulnerable,
and the power to give birth makes womb-envy at least as
logical.
In short, the characteristics of the powerful, whatever they may
be, are thought to be better than the
characteristics of the powerless—and logic has nothing to do
with it.
What would happen, for instance, if suddenly, magically, men
could menstruate and women could not?
The answer is clear—menstruation would become an enviable,
boast-worthy, masculine event:
Men would brag about how long and how much.
Boys would mark the onset of menses, that longed-for proof of
manhood, with religious ritual and stag
parties.
Congress would fund a National Institute of Dysmenorrhea to
help stamp out monthly discomforts.
Sanitary supplies would be federally funded and free. (Of
course, some men would still pay for the
prestige of commercial brands such as John Wayne Tampons,
Muhammad Ali’s Rope-a-dope Pads,
Joe Namath Jock Shields—“For Those Light Bachelor Days,”
and Robert “Baretta” Blake Maxi-Pads.)
Military men, right-wing politicians, and religious
fundamentalists would cite menstruation (“men-
struation”) as proof that only men could serve in the Army
(“you have to give blood to take blood”),
occupy political office (“can women be aggressive without that
steadfast cycle governed by the planet
Mars?”), be priest and ministers (“how could a woman give her
blood for our sins?”) or rabbis (“without
the monthly loss of impurities, women remain unclean”).
Male radicals, left-wing politicians, mystics, however, would
insist that women are equal, just different,
and that any woman could enter their ranks if she were willing
to self-inflict a major wound every month
(“you MUST give blood for the revolution”), recognize the
preeminence of menstrual issues, or
subordinate her selfness to all men in their Cycle of
Enlightenment. Street guys would brag (“I’m a three
pad man”) or answer praise from a buddy (“Man, you lookin‘
good!”) by giving fives and saying, “Yeah,
man, I’m on the rag!” TV shows would treat the subject at
length. (“Happy Days”: Richie and Potsie try
to convince Fonzie that he is still “The Fonz,” though he has
missed two periods in a row.) So would
newspapers. (SHARK SCARE THREATENS MENSTRUATING
MEN. JUDGE CITES MONTHLY
STRESS IN PARDONING RAPIST.) And movies. (Newman and
Redford in “Blood Brothers”!)
Men would convince women that intercourse was more
pleasurable at “that time of the month.”
Lesbians would be said to fear blood and therefore life itself—
though probably only because they
needed a good menstruating man.
Of course, male intellectuals would offer the most moral and
logical arguments. How could a woman
master any discipline that demanded a sense of time, space,
mathematics, or measurement, for
instance, without that in-built gift for measuring the cycles of
the moon and planets—and thus for
measuring anything at all? In the rarefied fields of philosophy
and religion, could women compensate
for missing the rhythm of the universe? Or for their lack of
symbolic death-and-resurrection every
month?
Liberal males in every field would try to be kind: the fact that
“these people” have no gift for measuring
life or connecting to the universe, the liberals would explain,
should be punishment enough.
And how would women be trained to react? One can imagine
traditional women agreeing to all
arguments with a staunch and smiling masochism. (“The ERA
would force housewives to wound
themselves every month”: Phyllis Schlafly. “Your husband’s
blood is as sacred as that of Jesus - and so
sexy, too!” Marabel Morgan.) Reformers and Queen Bees would
try to imitate men, and pretend to have
a monthly cycle. All feminists would explain endlessly that
men, too, needed to be liberated from the
false idea of Martian aggressiveness, just as women needed to
escape the bonds of menses envy.
Radical feminists would add that the oppression of the
nonmenstrual was the pattern for all other
oppressions (“Vampires were our first freedom fighters!”)
Cultural feminists would develop a bloodless
imagery in art and literature. Socialist feminists would insist
that only under capitalism would men be
able to monopolize menstrual blood . . . .
In fact, if men could menstruate, the power justifications could
probably go on forever.
If we let them.

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Why I Am a Male Feminist

  • 1. Published on The Root (http://www.theroot.com) ! Why I Am a Male Feminist By: Byron Hurt Posted: March 16, 2011 at 12:24 AM The word turns off a lot of men (insert snarky comment about man-hating feminazis here) -- and women. But here's why black men should be embracing the "f" word. When I was a little boy, my mother and father used to argue a lot. Some mornings, I would wake up to the alarming sound of my parents arguing loudly. The disagreement would continue until my father would yell with finality, "That is it! I'm not talking about this anymore!" The dispute would end right there. My mother never got the last word. My dad's yelling made me shrink in fear; I wanted to do something to make him stop raging against my mother. In those moments, I felt powerless because I was too small to confront my father. I learned early that he had an unfair advantage because of his gender. His size, strength and power intimidated my mother. I never saw my father hit her, but I did witness how injurious his verbal jabs could be when they landed on my mom's psyche. My father didn't always mistreat my mother, but when he did, I
  • 2. identified with her pain, not his bullying. When he hurt her, he hurt me, too. My mother and I had a special bond. She was funny, smart, loving and beautiful. She was a great listener who made me feel special and important. And whenever the going got tough, she was my rock and my foundation. One morning, after my father yelled at my mom during an argument, she and I stood in the bathroom together, alone, getting ready for the day ahead of us. The tension in the house was as thick as a cloud of dark smoke. I could tell that my mother was upset. "I love you, Ma, but I just wish that you had a little more spunk when you argue with Daddy," I said, low enough so my father couldn't hear me. She looked at me, rubbed my back and forced a smile. I so badly wanted my mother to stand up for herself. I didn't understand why she had to submit to him whenever they fought. Who was he to lay down the law in the household? What made him so special? I grew to resent my father's dominance in the household, even though I loved him as dearly as I loved my mother. His anger and intimidation shut down my mother, sister and me from freely expressing our opinions whenever they didn't sit well with his own. Something about the inequity in their relationship felt unjust to me, but at that young age, I couldn't articulate why. One day, as we sat at the kitchen table after another of their many spats, my mother told me,
  • 3. "Byron, don't ever treat a woman the way your father treats me." I wish I had listened to her advice. As I grew older and got into my own relationships with girls and women, I sometimes behaved as I saw my father behave. I, too, became defensive and verbally abusive whenever the girl or woman I was dating criticized or challenged me. I would belittle my girlfriends by scrutinizing their weight or their choices in clothes. In one particular college relationship, I often used my physical size to intimidate my petite girlfriend, standing over her and yelling to get my point across during arguments. I had internalized what I had seen in my home and was slowly becoming what I had disdained as a young boy. Although my mother attempted to teach me better, I, like a lot of boys and men, felt entitled to mistreat the female gender when it benefited me to do so. http://www.theroot.com After graduating from college, I needed a job. I learned about a new outreach program that was set to launch. It was called the Mentors in Violence Prevention Project. As a student- athlete, I had done community outreach, and the MVP Project seemed like a good gig until I got a real job in my field: journalism. Founded by Jackson Katz, the MVP Project was designed to use the status of athletes to make
  • 4. gender violence socially unacceptable. When I met with Katz, I didn't realize that the project was a domestic violence prevention program. Had I known that, I wouldn't have gone in for the job interview. So when Katz explained that they were looking to hire a man to help institutionalize curricula about preventing gender violence at high schools and colleges around the country, I almost walked out the door. But during my interview, Katz asked me an interesting question. "Byron, how does African-American men's violence against African- American women uplift the African- American community?" No one had ever asked me that question before. As an African- American man who was deeply concerned about race issues, I had never given much thought about how emotional abuse, battering, sexual assault, street harassment and rape could affect an entire community, just as racism does. The following day, I attended a workshop about preventing gender violence, facilitated by Katz. There, he posed a question to all of the men in the room: "Men, what things do you do to protect yourself from being raped or sexually assaulted?" Not one man, including myself, could quickly answer the question. Finally, one man raised his hand and said, "Nothing." Then Katz asked the women, "What things do you do to protect yourself from being raped or sexually assaulted?" Nearly all of the women in the room raised
  • 5. their hand. One by one, each woman testified: "I don't make eye contact with men when I walk down the street," said one. "I don't put my drink down at parties," said another. "I use the buddy system when I go to parties." "I cross the street when I see a group of guys walking in my direction." "I use my keys as a potential weapon." "I carry mace or pepper spray." "I watch what I wear." The women went on for several minutes, until their side of the blackboard was completely filled with responses. The men's side of the blackboard was blank. I was stunned. I had never heard a group of women say these things before. I thought about all of the women in my life -- including my mother, sister and girlfriend -- and realized that I had a lot to learn about gender. Days after that workshop, Katz offered me the job as a mentor- training specialist, and I accepted his offer. Although I didn't know much about gender issues from an academic standpoint, I quickly learned on the job. I read books and essays by bell hooks, Patricia Hill Collins, Angela Davis and other feminist writers. Like most guys, I had bought into the stereotype that all feminists were white, lesbian, unattractive male bashers who hated all men. But after reading the work of these black feminists, I realized that this was far from the truth. After digging into their work, I came to really respect the intelligence, courage and honesty of these
  • 6. women. Feminists did not hate men. In fact, they loved men. But just as my father had silenced my mother during their arguments to avoid hearing her gripes, men silenced feminists by belittling them in order to dodge hearing the truth about who we are. http://www.jacksonkatz.com/aboutmvp.html I learned that feminists offered an important critique about a male-dominated society that routinely, and globally, treated women like second-class citizens. They spoke the truth, and even though I was a man, their truth spoke to me. Through feminism, I developed a language that helped me better articulate things that I had experienced growing up as a male. Feminist writings about patriarchy, racism, capitalism and structural sexism resonated with me because I had witnessed firsthand the kind of male dominance they challenged. I saw it as a child in my home and perpetuated it as an adult. Their analysis of male culture and male behavior helped me put my father's patriarchy into a much larger social context, and also helped me understand myself better. I decided that I loved feminists and embraced feminism. Not only does feminism give women a voice, but it also clears the way for men to free themselves from the stranglehold of traditional masculinity. When we hurt the women in our lives, we hurt ourselves, and we hurt our
  • 7. community, too. As I became an adult, my father's behavior toward my mother changed. As he aged he mellowed, and stopped being so argumentative and verbally abusive. My mother grew to assert herself more whenever they disagreed. It shocked me to hear her get in the last word as my father listened without getting angry. That was quite a reversal. Neither of them would consider themselves to be feminists, but I believe they both learned over time how to be fuller individuals who treated each other with mutual respect. By the time my father died from cancer in 2007, he was proudly sporting the baseball cap around town that I had given him that read, "End Violence Against Women." Who says men can't be feminists? Byron Hurt is an award-winning documentary filmmaker and anti-sexist activist. Follow him on Twitter. http://www.bhurt.com/ http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/hiphop/ http://twitter.com/byronhurt See discussions, stats, and author profiles for this publication at: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/296597224 The myth of pink and blue brains Article in Educational leadership: journal of the Department of Supervision and Curriculum Development, N.E.A ·
  • 8. November 2010 CITATIONS 8 READS 1,739 1 author: Lise Eliot Rosalind Franklin University of Medicine and Science 12 PUBLICATIONS 317 CITATIONS SEE PROFILE All content following this page was uploaded by Lise Eliot on 12 December 2016. The user has requested enhancement of the downloaded file. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/296597224_The_myth _of_pink_and_blue_brains?enrichId=rgreq- 8dd056368770eac6cc1431ba2c1fa277- XXX&enrichSource=Y292ZXJQYWdlOzI5NjU5NzIyNDtBUzo0 Mzg0NjAwNzE4NDU4ODlAMTQ4MTU0ODQzNTU3Mw%3D% 3D&el=1_x_2&_esc=publicationCoverPdf https://www.researchgate.net/publication/296597224_The_myth _of_pink_and_blue_brains?enrichId=rgreq- 8dd056368770eac6cc1431ba2c1fa277- XXX&enrichSource=Y292ZXJQYWdlOzI5NjU5NzIyNDtBUzo0
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  • 11. . _ ISTINGUISHED CHIEV~ENT WARD For Excellence in Educational Publishing Periodicals - Learned Article The Myth of Pink and Blue Brains Lise Eliot Educational Leadership ASCD Neal Goff, President Charlene F. Gay nor, CEO Vi e w p u b lic a tio n s ta ts V ie
  • 12. w p u b lic a tio n s ta ts https://www.researchgate.net/publication/296597224 Journal of Men’s Studies 2017, Vol. 25(2) 150 –167 © Author(s) 2016 Reprints and permissions: sagepub.com/journalsPermissions.nav DOI: 10.1177/1060826516661319 journals.sagepub.com/home/men Article The WiseGuyz Program: Sexual Health Education as
  • 13. a Pathway to Supporting Changes in Endorsement of Traditional Masculinity Ideologies Caroline Claussen1 Abstract Given the growing interest in the impacts of gender ideology on adolescent boys’ well-being, there is a call for programs to support the development of healthy and positive constructs of masculinity. The WiseGuyz program at the Calgary Sexual Health Centre is a sexual health and healthy relationship program addressing the need for interventions that promote positive and healthy constructs of masculinity identified in the literature. Using the Male Role Norms Inventory Scale–Adolescent– revised (MRNI-A-r) standardized scale and focus groups, data were gathered from 52 adolescent boys enrolled in the WiseGuyz program. Results suggest that participation in the WiseGuyz program lessens boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies, as indicated by changes in the MRNI-A-r and focus group data. Keywords adolescent boy’s programming, sexual health education, masculinity, evaluation The health and well-being of adolescent boys have been a growing area of concern, with researchers suggesting adolescent boys are at risk
  • 14. academically, socially, and emotionally (Kindlon & Thompson, 2000; Pollack, 2006; Watts & Borders, 2005). Psychological and sociological research suggests that intense pressure on boys to 1University of Calgary, Alberta, AB, Canada Corresponding Author: Caroline Claussen, Department of Sociology, University of Calgary, 2500 University Dr. NW Calgary, Alberta, T2N 1N4, Canada. Email: [email protected] 661319 MENXXX10.1177/1060826516661319Journal of Men’s StudiesClaussen research-article2016 mailto:[email protected] http://sagepub.com/journalsPermissions.nav http://doi.org/10.1177/1060826516661319 http://journals.sagepub.com/home/men http://crossmark.crossref.org/dialog/?doi=10.1177%2F10608265 16661319&domain=pdf&date_stamp=2016-08-05 Claussen 151 conform to masculine norms emphasizing physical toughness, absence of emotion, self-sufficiency, and heterosexual dominance may contribute to boys’ worsening aca- demic achievement, increasing rates of suicide and distress, and propensity for vio- lence (O’Neil & Lujan, 2009; Pollack, 2006; Tremblay & L’Heureux, 2012; Watts & Borders, 2005).
  • 15. Increasingly, there is a call for programs and initiatives that not only engage adoles- cent boys in masculinity issues but also promote positive constructs of masculinity (Kaufman, 2001; O’Neil, Challenger, Renzulli, Crasper, & Webster, 2013; Wolfe & Jaffe, 2003). Unfortunately, recent research identifies a lack of gender-specific pro- gramming for adolescent boys (O’Neil et al., 2013; O’Neil & Lujan, 2009), particu- larly interventions focused on promoting healthy and positive constructs of masculinity (O’Neil et al., 2013; Tharinger, 2008). This article addresses the noted gap in the literature about gender-specific program- ming for adolescent boys that focuses on healthy masculinity by exploring preliminary findings from WiseGuyz, a sexual health and healthy relationships program offered in Alberta, Canada. The following sections will overview current considerations of ado- lescence and masculinity, and explore the need for programs to address the influence of traditional masculinity ideologies on adolescent boys and their relationships and sexual health. Preliminary findings are presented from the WiseGuyz program evalu- ation, and the implications of those findings for gender-specific sexual health pro- gramming for adolescent boys and further research are considered. Adolescent Boys and Masculinity
  • 16. According to Connell (2005), masculinity can be defined as a social and cultural struc- ture that influences men’s identities and practices. Hegemonic masculinity represents the most socially dominant masculinity, and is often positioned as an idealized mascu- linity that is largely out of reach for many boys and men (Knight et al., 2012; Tharinger, 2008). Pressures to conform to the prevailing hegemonic standards have detrimental effects for many boys and men. Boys face an adolescent culture of cruelty (Kindlon & Thompson, 2000), violence from other boys and men (Abelson, 2016), emotional iso- lation (Way, 2012), and detrimental physical and mental health outcomes (Courtenay, 2000, 2003; Knight et al., 2012). Research suggests that as many boys enter middle to late adolescence, they begin to more strongly adhere to gender stereotypes and norms (Chu, 2005; Kimmel, 2008; Pollack, 2006; Way, 2012). As demonstrated by Niobe Way’s (2011) extensive research on boys’ friendships, starting at age 15 and 16, boys become less emotionally articu- late, more distrustful of their male peers, and generally disconnect from others in attempts to become independent and self-reliant. As many boys move into later ado- lescence, the struggle to prove manhood and rigidly adhere to the prevailing hege- monic standard intensifies (Cote & Allahar, 1996; Kimmel, 2008). In recent years, however, the notions of inclusive masculinity
  • 17. (Anderson, 2013, 2016; McCormack, 2012), socially just masculinity (Knight et al., 2012), and positive and healthy constructs of masculinity are found in the literature (Englar-Carlson & 152 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2) Kiselica, 2013; Kiselica & Englar-Carlson, 2010; O’Neil, 2010; Zeglin, 2016). This body of literature brings attention to the ways in which boys and men are actively resisting (and in some cases, changing) idealized forms of masculinity. Inclusive masculinity has emerged from studies that suggest adolescent boys are moving away from rigid hegemonic standards toward a redefined and softer form of heterosexual masculinity (Anderson, 2013, 2016; McCormack, 2012). Although promising, these studies have been conducted primarily in the United Kingdom, and might not translate to the Canadian context. Furthermore, the literature on inclusive masculinity is countered by other, more recent literature suggesting the continued existence of hegemonic masculine norms on adolescent boys’ lives (Reigeluth & Addis, 2016). In their study of how young men talk about sexual health, Knight et al. (2012) found support for instances where masculinity discourses
  • 18. provided opportunities for more socially just interactions. “Manning up” was enacted by using one’s personal power to help others (Knight et al., 2012, p. 1257). They suggest there are instances where hegemonic masculinity can be disrupted, and reinstated to create another, more socially just masculinity (Knight et al., 2012). The authors suggest further research is needed examining interventions that attempt to produce more socially just masculini- ties (Knight et al., 2012). Positive and/or healthy constructs of masculinity have recently been examined by several scholars as a way to address the existing, problem- focused knowledge base of the difficulties and deficits experienced by men (Englar-Carlson & Kiselica, 2013; Kiselica & Englar-Carlson, 2010; O’Neil, 2010). In addition to the suggestion that some masculine norms be considered (or developed to be) adaptive in some contexts (Englar-Carlson & Kiselica, 2013; Kiselica & Englar-Carlson, 2010; Zeglin, 2016), emphasis has been placed on boys’ strengths and the capacity to empower themselves (O’Neil et al., 2013). These particular aspects of positive masculinity, the emphasis on boys’ strength, and the capacity to empower oneself are particularly salient for gender- specific programming seeking to support boys in being conscious, critical, and self- aware of the traditional masculinity ideologies contributing to the development of their identity and relationships.
  • 19. Gender and Sexual Health Interest in the impact of gender ideologies on adolescent boys’ well-being has been echoed more broadly by those in the field of sexual health promotion. Although there is an understanding that gender plays a key role in sexuality, some researchers suggest that gender influences on sexual health have not been considered in a substantive way (Carmody, 2009; Saewyc, 2012; Schalet et al., 2014; Tolman, Striepe, & Harmon, 2003). Gender ideologies influence not only how youth view themselves but also how they view and interact with others (Schalet et al., 2014). Sexual experiences may be viewed as achievements or accomplishments to impress and maintain status with peers as opposed to building intimacy and connection (Knight et al., 2012; Schalet et al., 2014; World Health Organization, 2000). Traditional masculine norms tend to prescribe Claussen 153 heterosexuality, high sex drive, sexual prowess and initiation, and total lack of emotional engagement in relationships (Hall & Applewhite, 2013; Knight et al., 2012; Pleck, Sonenstein, & Ku, 1993; Schalet et al., 2014). Although societal norms about idealized masculine behavior affect a broad range of men, the literature
  • 20. suggests that those adoles- cent boys who adhere most strongly to traditional beliefs about masculinity (e.g., tough- ness, heterosexuality, high status, etc.) are most at risk of negative consequences such as depression, poor academic achievement, and engaging in unsafe sexual practices (Pleck et al., 1993; Schalet et al., 2014). Sexual Health Education Programs Research in the area of sexual health also suggests gender plays a prominent role in adolescent responses to, and engagement with, sex, sexuality, and relationship educa- tion (Buston & Wight, 2006; Hilton, 2007; Measor, 2004). The literature identifies the tendency for school-based sexual health education to be focused on girls and young women while appealing less to boys and young men (Buston & Wight, 2006; Hilton, 2007; Saewyc, 2012; World Health Organization, 2000). Most school-based sexual health programs focus on offering information around fertility and reproduction (e.g., menstruation, physical development, etc.), and equipping girls and young women to be the gatekeepers in sexual matters (Meaney, Rye, Wood, & Solovieva, 2009; Quinlan & Bute, 2013; Saewyc, 2012). Some studies of sexual health education indicate that boys want more content on communication (particularly around discussing sexual issues with girls), dealing with feelings and peer pressure, and pornography (Buston & Wight,
  • 21. 2006; Hilton, 2007). Additional findings suggest that boys value and desire explicit and specific informa- tion on sex, and feel that sexual education programs should be offered to boys early in their teen years (as opposed to waiting until later adolescence; Buston & Wight, 2006; Hilton, 2007). Given that boys have often been largely overlooked by school- based sexual health programs (due to the framing of sexual and reproductive health content as the primary concern of girls and young women; Quinlan & Bute, 2013), there is an urgent need for school-based programs to not only provide the sexual health content boys want and need but also integrate curriculum that supports exploration of the ways in which tra- ditional masculinity ideologies increase sexual health risks (both for boys themselves and for their partners; Aggleton & Campbell, 2000). Research highlights the need for comprehensive sexual health education to challenge highly gendered expectations of intimacy and include strategies that help students reflect on and challenge these beliefs (Carmody, 2009; Keel, 2005; Schalet et al., 2014). Conceptualization and Implementation of WiseGuyz Although teen pregnancy rates have fallen significantly in the past decade (McKay & Barrett, 2010), reported rates of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) have risen and are highest among youth and young adults (McKay, Bissell, &
  • 22. Sex Information and 154 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2) Education Council of Canada, 2010). Alberta-specific data point to adolescent boys as being the fastest growing group for STIs (Government of Alberta, 2011). These facts prompted a local community-based organization, Calgary Sexual Health Centre (CSHC), to further explore this phenomenon and review how boys have been served by sexual health programming. Their investigations aligned with other research iden- tifying the lack of focus on boys in current iterations of sexual health programming and available resources (Buston & Wight, 2006; Hilton, 2007; Schalet et al., 2014; World Health Organization, 2000). This re-examination of current sexual health pro- gramming prompted the organization to investigate available sexual health curricula to address the lack of focus on boys. Although there was a boys- only sexual health pro- gram identified (Gruchow & Brown, 2011), the organization decided to develop its own program to incorporate curricula that would address gender influences on sexual- ity and relationships. Theoretical Foundation WiseGuyz is a participatory school-based program that strategically targets boys in
  • 23. Grade 9 (ages 13-15). There are several reasons for the focus on these particular boys. In Calgary, many youth start high school in Grade 10, switching schools in the pro- cess. As such, many of the boys are on the cusp of a significant transition in their lives. Research suggests that early adolescence is a key time to address topics such as gender socialization and sexuality because there is a natural curiosity at this age (Wolfe & Jaffe, 2003). Since its inception, there has been a focus within WiseGuyz on the importance of understanding masculinity ideologies and the influence they have on adolescent boys in relation to their sexuality, sexual health, gender equity, and relationships. “Masculinity ideology” refers to “internalized beliefs regarding culturally defined standards or norms for males’ roles and behaviours” (Levant et al., 2012, p. 1). Masculinity is viewed as a cultural construction that is internalized from the surround- ing culture (Levant et al., 2012; Pleck et al., 1993). Social interactions act as either punishment or reinforcement of masculinity ideologies, thereby informing, encourag- ing, and constraining boys and men to adhere to the culturally prevailing masculine norms (Levant et al., 2012). With regard to sexual health, for example, Knight et al. (2012) found that masculine discourses and codes acted to filter, censor, and govern men’s sexual health talk with each other. Furthermore, they found that sexual health
  • 24. disclosures (both in the moment and in the aftermath) risked invoking a subordinate or suspect masculine status (Knight et al., 2012). The WiseGuyz program educates boys to be conscious, critical, and self-aware of the masculinity ideologies contributing to the development of their identity and rela- tionships. Through the pathway of sexual health education, WiseGuyz seeks to change the set of beliefs and expectations about what adolescent boys are like and should do with regard to sexual relationships. By critically examining (through group-based dis- cussions) the dominant forms of masculinity, WiseGuyz seeks to counter damaging influences and stigmatization of sexuality, gender, and relationships that can result in Claussen 155 negative peer and dating relationships and unsafe sexual practices (Hurlock, 2013; Kirby, 2007). This program evaluation is guided by the question of whether WiseGuyz can change boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies. General Method Overview As part of a larger community-based research project examining the impacts of the
  • 25. WiseGuyz program, this study specifically focuses on whether WiseGuyz is effective in changing boys’ endorsement of masculinity ideologies. The hypothesis is that there will be a significant difference between pre-test and posttest endorsement of tradi- tional masculinity ideology average scores. Qualitative focus group data are discussed as they support quantitative findings. Curriculum and Delivery There are four core modules facilitated over 14 sessions that are 90 min in length, occurring once per week. As a result of school holidays affecting scheduling, these sessions occur over an 8-month span. The sequence of the modules plays a critical role, given that each one builds into the next. The four modules are (a) human rights, (b) sexual health, (c) gender, and (d) healthy relationships (see Table 1 for more infor- mation on sessions within each module). Each module incorporates key activities designed to support boys in critically examining the dominant forms of masculinity. For example, in the Gender component, facilitators use the “Gender Box” activity. This is designed to get the boys thinking about gender socialization and gender roles. Facilitators ask them to list pressures or stereotypes about being a man or a woman. The group compares the lists and discusses how the pressures and stereotypes set up power dynamics, gender inequality, and can lead to bullying, harassment, and vio-
  • 26. lence. Facilitators also work with the boys to explore the insults, put downs, and “gen- der policing” words people use to essentially tell someone to get back in the box or to perform their gender better (Reigeluth & Addis, 2016). The WiseGuyz program was piloted in September 2010 and, since then, a total of 218 participants have completed the program. Since 2010, the program has been implemented in six public junior high schools in Calgary. The program participants join voluntarily after receiving information about the program through teachers, administrators, and presentations by WiseGuyz facilitators in the school. Sample Data from 52 boys in 2014 were collected in all participating schools (three). Boys ranged in age from 13 to 15, with the average age of the boys being 14.5 years. Of the 52 boys, 74% were Caucasian and most identified as heterosexual (10% of the boys identified as not sure with regard to their sexuality, and 4% answered they would 156 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2) rather not say). Although more than half of the boys had begun dating (52%), only 6% stated they were sexually active.
  • 27. Procedure Ethics approval was obtained from both the University of Calgary’s Conjoint Faculties Research Ethics Board and the Calgary Public School Board. Informed consent was obtained from both the boys and their parents prior to data collection. Demographic and pre-test data were collected at the first session of WiseGuyz, and posttest data were collected at the final session of WiseGuyz at the end of the school year (June). Focus group data were collected at the end of the school year after the final session of WiseGuyz. Data collection included the WiseGuyz Intake Form, the MRNI-A-r (Levant et al., 2012), and the Sexual Health Practices Self- Efficacy Scale (Koch, Colaco, & Porter, 2010), as well as focus groups with a sample of boys in the program (N = 15). For the purposes of this report, only data from the Intake Form, the MRNI- A-r, and focus groups are reported. Measures The MRNI-A-r. This instrument was chosen as a result of the WiseGuyz developmental research conducted by CSHC, which pointed to the need for the program to engage adolescent boys in critically thinking about and discussing the construction of mascu- linity ideologies to better understand sexuality, sexual health, gender equity, and healthy relationships. The instrument is used to assess WiseGuyz participants’
  • 28. Table 1. Module Content. Module name Session Content Human rights 1 Program Introduction and Rapport Building (Hang-Out) 2 Values 3 Equality, Equity and Human Rights Sexual health 4 Male and Female Anatomy 5 Pregnancy, Birth Control and Fatherhood 6 Sexually Transmitted Infections Gender 7 Gender Socialization 8 Gender in the Media 9 Gender and Sexual Diversity 10 Gender-Based Violence Healthy relationships 11 Healthy Decision Making and Boundaries 12 Consent and Communication 13 Emotions and Stress Management 14 Conflict Resolution and Healthy Relationships Review Claussen 157 Table 2. Focus Group Question Guide.
  • 29. 1. Why did you decide to join WiseGuyz? 2. What do you remember (what stands out for you) most about the WiseGuyz program? (What first comes to mind?) 3. What is the most important thing you learned in WiseGuyz? (What did you learn about yourself through WiseGuyz?) 4. Did the program influence your relationships? If so, how? 5. How has WiseGuyz changed the way you interact with your friends and with other people in your life? 6. Who in your life do you think has benefited most from WiseGuyz? (Prompts: If so, how? Which relationships: friends, romantic, familiar? Did you meet new friends through WiseGuyz?) 7. Do you feel your behavior has changed because of WiseGuyz (Prompts: if so how and if not why?) 8. Did your understanding/beliefs about masculinity change? If so, how? 9. Do you think it is important to have a program like WiseGuyz? (Why, please explain?) What would you say to the boys in Grade 8? endorsements of traditional masculinity ideologies. Permission to use the validated survey was obtained from the survey developer.
  • 30. Recent research points to a robust three-factor structure for the scale, as opposed to the five-factor scale hypothesized in earlier iterations (Levant et al., 2012; Thompson & Bennett, 2015). The three subscales used in the WiseGuyz instrument include Emotionally Detached Dominance, Toughness, and Avoidance of Femininity (Levant et al., 2012). Boys indicate their agreement with statements (e.g., “Guys should play with trucks rather than dolls”) on a 7-point Likert-type scale (e.g., 1 = strongly dis- agree and 7 = strongly agree; Levant et al., 2012). A total MRNI-A-r score is obtained through the averaging of scores on all 29 items. Higher scores indicate more agree- ment with traditional masculinity ideologies, and lower scores indicate less agreement with traditional masculinity ideologies. Focus groups with WiseGuyz. Boys were recruited for focus groups through a recruit- ment notice distributed through their facilitators and through a Facebook group page that participants of the WiseGuyz program can join to be connected to alumni of the program. Three focus groups were held (School A, n = 6, School B, n = 4, and School C, n = 5) with a total of 15 participants. A semi- structured focus group guide (see Table 2 for focus group questions) was developed based on earlier devel- opmental research from the program that qualitatively identified changes in empa- thy and acceptance, finding a voice, and being curious and asking questions
  • 31. (Hurlock, 2013). Questions were related to participants’ perspectives on the Wise- Guyz program, the process of the program, and how their knowledge and behavior may have changed as a result of the WiseGuyz program. Each focus group lasted approximately 60 min. The conversations were audio-recorded and later transcribed verbatim. 158 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2) Analysis For the MRNI-A-r Scale, missing data were removed, resulting in 37 cases with com- plete data. The analysis was twofold. The first part of the analysis used a repeated- measures ANOVA (RM-ANOVA) to determine the effect of time on boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies. The second stage applied a repeated-measures MANOVA (RM-MANOVA) approach to the same data to determine significant differ- ences in the three subscales. Significance was determined at the 0.05 level. Data were analyzed using SPSS Statistics Software (24.0). Unless otherwise noted, data are pre- sented as mean ± standard deviation. For the focus group data, thematic analysis was used, whereby researchers interpret raw text data to apply codes and subsequently develop themes (Namey, Guest, Thairu,
  • 32. & Johnson, 2008). Thematic analysis was chosen because it is a flexible qualitative method that enables exploration of meaningful patterns within a data set (Reigeluth & Addis, 2016). Thematic analysis provided the opportunity to look for patterns in boys’ responses and investigate changes in behavior and beliefs with regard to masculinity. Codes were developed for focus group data based on the patterns of the boys’ responses, and data reduction techniques were utilized to identify key themes (Guest, MacQueen, & Namey, 2012). Results As can be seen in Table 3, the RM-ANOVA results showed that the difference in total average MRNI-A-r scores between the beginning of the program (M = 3.18, SD = 1.03) and the end of the program (M = 2.73, SD = 0.95) was statistically significant, F(1, 36) = 9.61, p = .004, partial η2 = .211. Power to detect the effect was .855. These results support the hypothesis of a significant difference in pre- test and posttest aver- age scores on endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies, thereby suggesting that the WiseGuyz program is lessening adolescent endorsement of traditional mascu- linity ideologies. MRNI-A-r Subscales An RM-MANOVA was conducted with the three subscales as dependent variables. As
  • 33. shown in Table 4, results show a significant multivariate main effect for time, Wilks’ Table 3. Repeated-Measures ANOVA for total MRNI-A-r score changes. Variable Pre-program Post-program F(1, 36) p Partial eta squared Observed powerM (SD) M (SD) MRNI-A-r Score 3.18 1.03 2.73 .95 9.61 .004 .211 .722 Note. MRNI-A-r = Male Role Norms Inventory Scale– Adolescent–revised. Claussen 159 Table 4. Repeated-Measures MANOVA Data for MRNI-A-r. Effect Wilks’ λ F(1, 36) p Partial eta squared Time .817 8.039 .007a .18 F(2, 35)
  • 34. Scales .357 31.47 .000b .64 Time × Scales .991 .162 .851 .009 Note. MRNI-A-r = Male Role Norms Inventory Scale– Adolescent–revised. aSignificant difference (p < .05) for time. bSignificant difference (p < .05) for scales. λ = .817, F(1, 36) = 8.039, p < .05, partial η2 = .18, as well as for Scales, Wilks’ λ = .357, F(2, 35) = 31.46, p < .05, partial η2 = .64. Interaction of scale and time were not found to be significant, Wilks’ λ = .991, F(2, 35) = .152, p > .05, partial η2 = .009. This result suggests the effect of time, overall, is the same across all three of the subscales. Given the significant main effect of time, repeated-measures ANOVA was run on each of the three subscales, and the level of significance was adjusted to take into consideration the running of multiple ANOVAS (0.05/3 = 0.017). As shown in Table 5, the greatest average change in scoring was in the Emotionally Detached Dominance subscale, improving 16% (M = 2.81, SD = 1.11 at pre-test to M = 2.37, SD = .85 at posttest, p = .012). Toughness showed an improvement in scor- ing of 13% (M = 3.65, SD = 1.07 at pre-test to M = 3.16, SD = 1.14 at posttest, p = .007). Avoidance of Femininity, which did decrease 11% (M = 3.58, SD = 1.46 at pre-test to M = 3.18, SD = 1.34 at posttest), was not found to be
  • 35. statistically sig- nificant (p = .071). Focus Groups Given the call for comprehensive sexual health education to challenge highly gendered expectations of intimacy and include strategies that help students reflect on and chal- lenge these beliefs (Carmody, 2009; Keel, 2005; Schalet et al., 2014), the above find- ings suggesting that WiseGuyz could be lessening boys’ endorsement of traditional Table 5. Percentage Change in MRNI-A-r Subscale Scores From Pre-Test to PostTest. Item Pre-program Post-program % changeM (SD) M (SD) Emotionally Detached Dominance 2.81 1.11 2.37 .85 16 Toughness 3.65 1.07 3.16 1.14 13 Avoidance of Femininity 3.58 1.46 3.18 1.34 11 Note. MRNI-A-r = Male Role Norms Inventory Scale– Adolescent–revised. 160 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2) masculinity ideologies are promising. Focus group data support and add to the survey
  • 36. findings by identifying not only qualitative changes in how boys think about masculin- ity but also the process by which the program supports them to do so. In exploring the boys’ thoughts on the importance of a program like WiseGuyz and whether or not the program influenced their behaviors and beliefs about masculinity, several dominant themes emerged, which point to both the process and outcomes of change. Process- related themes include building safe spaces and unpacking traditional masculinity ide- ologies, while opening doors to inclusivity points to the changes supported by the program. Building safe spaces. Data suggest that prior to critically examining how masculinity ideologies contribute to the boys’ identity and relationships, developing a sense of safety with the group is an important pre-condition. Boys discussed how the program structure allowed them to feel “safe” and discuss topics regarding sexuality and mascu- linity without the fear of being judged. Boys valued the fact that they could ask seem- ingly “silly” or uncomfortable questions, and felt that “they could trust the guys in WiseGuyz with anything.” As explained by one of the boys from School B focus group, . . . you’re in an environment with only guys and you don’t have to worry that it might be awkward . . . like another girl [being] in your class, like they might judge you, and so being with just a small group of guys you could express more
  • 37. and talk about more. Creating a sense of safety within the program appears to be critically important, as it supports an environment whereby the boys can begin to openly discuss masculine stereotypes, pressures, and expectations. One of the boys in School A’s focus group likened WiseGuyz to a “therapy group,” explaining “all the guys know what you’re going through and what it’s all about.” The program cultivates a space where the boys can talk and connect without judgment. Unpacking traditional masculinity ideologies. A central focus of the WiseGuyz program is to educate boys to be conscious, critical, and self-aware of the masculinity ideologies that contribute to the development of their identity and relationships. According to the boys in the focus groups, once they began to critically examine masculinity ideologies, they began to understand how they were influenced by them. Several of the boys dis- cussed the importance of the activities used in the program in supporting them to think critically about traditional masculinity ideologies. As described by one boy from the School C focus group, The man box (activity), I found that the most interesting of all of them [in reference to the program modules] . . . it stood out to me because I never really thought about society put[ting] us in a box . . . .
  • 38. This awareness that societal expectations for masculine behavior exist, and that they are potentially harmful, was also discussed by the boys. They specifically referenced damaging discourse and the ways in which language is used to police masculine Claussen 161 behavior. As explained by one boy from the School A focus group, “I’m pretty sure at one point in every guy’s life they’ve been called a pussy or a chicken . . . you don’t realize the destruction that it does.” In spite of an awareness of the harmfulness of certain masculinity ideologies, one of the boys in the School C focus group wanted to emphasize that “not all things about masculinity are bad.” His comments serve as a valuable reminder that there are proso- cial iterations of masculinity, acknowledged in literature exploring male strengths and positive aspects of being a man (Englar-Carlson & Kiselica, 2013; Kiselica & Englar- Carlson, 2010; O’Neil, 2010). Opening doors to inclusivity. Boys discussed how the program allowed them to “see the world differently,” particularly with regard to the differences within masculinities. Many boys discussed how, instead of getting hung up on the differences between the boys participating in WiseGuyz, they came to respect their
  • 39. differences. Focus group participants discussed how everyone came into the program aware of the differences between them, especially in terms of social status. According to the boys from School A, some were recognized as “social giants” or as “social outcasts.” Many of the boys felt that the program created a sense of “inclusion” for everyone. This increased aware- ness of, and respect for, differences between the boys appeared to translate into under- standing and accepting a range of masculinities. As one boy from the School B focus group expressed, I mean, everyone’s different, but my brother he’s a bit nerdy. He likes these video games and all those things. I used to kind of give him heck for it because personally, I was never really into that stuff. But now looking back on it and seeing how that’s how father-son things work. Like where they push them to be something that they don’t wanna be . . . I looked back on it, I totally changed the way I treat him and stuff. Two important points emerge from this participant’s reference: First, he has reflected on his own behavior, and the way in which he placed certain expectations on his brother. Second, he extends his critical thinking to the father– son dynamic, acknowl- edging how fathers consciously and unconsciously shape their son’s identity and behaviors.
  • 40. Another example of boys coming to respect the differences between each other can be seen in the following comment from a boy in School B focus group: At the beginning of every class we do something called the check in and you explain what you did in the past week and the last time you guys saw each other. And explain anything that’s been happening or anything you want to talk about. You go around the circle saying that. That was kind of a big thing because you kind of learned more about the other people who you might not have been as close to. But in our group a lot, most of us we knew each other because we were all in like the French Program, but then there was 2 PLP’s and one English program person and it was kinda interesting like having, like one of the guys had autism and it’s really cool to like see how he learns. Just like, he’s a part just like anyone else. Just like being a part of everyone. 162 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2) In the above quote, the participant explains how the boys in the program are discerning social differences among the group, yet these differences are not separating them. Instead, they are respected differences. Being able to see difference in the world and to understand the power that is at play within difference is critical to the development of a more socially just masculinity (Knight et al., 2012).
  • 41. Discussion This study, which evaluated the WiseGuyz program, indicates that a sexual health promotion program with a central focus on the importance of understanding masculin- ity ideologies, and the ways in which they influence adolescent boys in relation to sexuality, sexual health, gender equity, and relationships, may be an effective pathway for lessening boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies. The format of the program addresses many aspects that have been identified in the literature, such as including a focus on feelings and communication, being open to explicit conversations about sex, and dealing with peer pressure. Qualitative data identify important program pre-conditions that support the pro- gram outcomes toward lessening boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity ideolo- gies. Findings from the focus groups suggest that developing a sense of safety for the boys within the program is one of the most important parts of the program process, allowing them to engage with the program content. Building a sense of safety appears to be an important pre-condition for boys to successfully engage with the curriculum and should be considered when developing other gender- specific programming. The changes in MRNI-A-r average scores seen from pre-test to posttest and focus
  • 42. group findings on opening doors to inclusivity suggest that this sexual health educa- tion program consciously focused on the critical examination of masculinity is sup- porting changes in participants’ beliefs about how adolescent boys ought to behave and what masculinity should “look” like. The focus on and inclusion of tools to address, examine, and challenge beliefs around traditional masculinity ideologies address a noted gap in the literature, which identifies the lack of sexual health pro- gramming that challenges highly gendered expectations of intimacy (Carmody, 2009; Keel, 2005; Schalet et al., 2014). These preliminary findings do suggest that WiseGuyz, one example of a sexual health and healthy relationship program, can lessen boys’ endorsement of traditional masculinity ideologies. This is an important finding, given that research identifies adolescent boys who adhere most strongly to traditional beliefs about masculinity (e.g., toughness, heterosexuality, high status, etc.) as being most at risk of negative consequences such as depression, poor academic achievement, and engaging in unsafe sexual practices (e.g., having more sexual partners and less self- efficacy and consistency in condom use; Pleck et al., 1993; Schalet et al., 2014). The significant differences in pre-test and posttest scores on the MRNI-A-r also suggest that WiseGuyz may be appropriately timed developmentally. Given the research suggesting that as boys move into later adolescence,
  • 43. the struggle to prove manhood and rigidly adhere to exaggerated gendered notions intensifies (Cote & Allahar, 1996; Kimmel, 2008), participation in WiseGuyz during early adolescence Claussen 163 may provide boys with some degree of “inoculation” from this intensification (Crooks, Goodall, Hughes, Jaffe, & Baker, 2007, p. 228). The scoring change seen in the subscales “Emotionally Detached Dominance,” “Toughness,” and “Avoidance of Femininity” are suggestive. Although more recent research shows boys to be more emotional and empathetic than stereotypes portray them to be (Pollack, 2006; Way, 2011), there still exists tremendous pressure for boys to adhere to rigid gender guidelines (Kimmel, 2008; Pollack, 2006). It may be that the WiseGuyz program is providing an opportunity for boys to question traditional gender norms and behaviors, particularly regarding the relational aspects of the boys’ lives. Both the quantitative results and the focus group data for WiseGuyz participants sug- gest there is a definitive change in agreement around emotional vulnerability. Focus group findings suggest boys are questioning traditional masculine norms and reflect- ing on the impact those norms have on their lives. By providing boys with a safe and
  • 44. supportive space to examine gendered expectations around emotionality and vulnera- bility, the program is supporting boys in their journey toward emotionally healthy adulthood. A major focus of the WiseGuyz program is to develop the consciousness required to critically examine the constructions of masculinity. Focus group data highlight how the boys’ critical thinking about the program’s activities (such as the man box) extends to thinking about relationship dynamics that may influence boys’ identities and behav- iors. Supporting boys to see the world differently and understand the power at play is an important aim of the program. Furthermore, focus group data suggest that the program may be encouraging the boys to be more open to a range of masculinities, as indicated by their discussion of respecting each other’s difference and creating a sense of inclusion for everyone. This movement toward a more inclusive masculinity warrants further examination, particu- larly in consideration of other research that suggests boys are moving toward a soft- ened form of heterosexual masculinity (Anderson, 2013, 2016; McCormack, 2012). This study is limited by virtue of the research design used. There is no control group for comparison, which makes it difficult to say with complete confidence that it is the program that is creating the changes in masculinity
  • 45. scoring in the boys. Future research on the WiseGuyz program would be well-placed to incorporate a control group of boys, which would allow for the investigation of causal relationships. Maturation of the boys is another factor at play. This can include any psychological and/or physical changes that take place within subjects over time. Given that the pre- test and posttest occur over the course of 8 months, maturation could be a possible explanation for the survey data findings. However, the combination of findings from both quantitative and qualitative data lessens the concern of a maturation effect having taken place. Given the identified lack of gender-specific programming for adolescent boys, the findings of this study are promising. The WiseGuyz program appears to be success- fully engaging selected boys in sexual health education programming. Not only are boys engaged, but they are supported to critically examine masculine norms at a cru- cial period in their sexual and relational development. The program appears to be 164 Journal of Men’s Studies 25(2) lessening boys’ endorsement of traditional masculine ideologies. By changing partici- pants’ beliefs in these ideologies, boys in the program might
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  • 57. around the idea that penis-envy is “natural” to women—though having such an unprotected organ might be said to make men vulnerable, and the power to give birth makes womb-envy at least as logical. In short, the characteristics of the powerful, whatever they may be, are thought to be better than the characteristics of the powerless—and logic has nothing to do with it. What would happen, for instance, if suddenly, magically, men could menstruate and women could not? The answer is clear—menstruation would become an enviable, boast-worthy, masculine event: Men would brag about how long and how much. Boys would mark the onset of menses, that longed-for proof of manhood, with religious ritual and stag parties. Congress would fund a National Institute of Dysmenorrhea to help stamp out monthly discomforts. Sanitary supplies would be federally funded and free. (Of course, some men would still pay for the prestige of commercial brands such as John Wayne Tampons, Muhammad Ali’s Rope-a-dope Pads, Joe Namath Jock Shields—“For Those Light Bachelor Days,” and Robert “Baretta” Blake Maxi-Pads.) Military men, right-wing politicians, and religious fundamentalists would cite menstruation (“men- struation”) as proof that only men could serve in the Army
  • 58. (“you have to give blood to take blood”), occupy political office (“can women be aggressive without that steadfast cycle governed by the planet Mars?”), be priest and ministers (“how could a woman give her blood for our sins?”) or rabbis (“without the monthly loss of impurities, women remain unclean”). Male radicals, left-wing politicians, mystics, however, would insist that women are equal, just different, and that any woman could enter their ranks if she were willing to self-inflict a major wound every month (“you MUST give blood for the revolution”), recognize the preeminence of menstrual issues, or subordinate her selfness to all men in their Cycle of Enlightenment. Street guys would brag (“I’m a three pad man”) or answer praise from a buddy (“Man, you lookin‘ good!”) by giving fives and saying, “Yeah, man, I’m on the rag!” TV shows would treat the subject at length. (“Happy Days”: Richie and Potsie try to convince Fonzie that he is still “The Fonz,” though he has missed two periods in a row.) So would newspapers. (SHARK SCARE THREATENS MENSTRUATING MEN. JUDGE CITES MONTHLY STRESS IN PARDONING RAPIST.) And movies. (Newman and Redford in “Blood Brothers”!) Men would convince women that intercourse was more pleasurable at “that time of the month.” Lesbians would be said to fear blood and therefore life itself— though probably only because they needed a good menstruating man. Of course, male intellectuals would offer the most moral and logical arguments. How could a woman
  • 59. master any discipline that demanded a sense of time, space, mathematics, or measurement, for instance, without that in-built gift for measuring the cycles of the moon and planets—and thus for measuring anything at all? In the rarefied fields of philosophy and religion, could women compensate for missing the rhythm of the universe? Or for their lack of symbolic death-and-resurrection every month? Liberal males in every field would try to be kind: the fact that “these people” have no gift for measuring life or connecting to the universe, the liberals would explain, should be punishment enough. And how would women be trained to react? One can imagine traditional women agreeing to all arguments with a staunch and smiling masochism. (“The ERA would force housewives to wound themselves every month”: Phyllis Schlafly. “Your husband’s blood is as sacred as that of Jesus - and so sexy, too!” Marabel Morgan.) Reformers and Queen Bees would try to imitate men, and pretend to have a monthly cycle. All feminists would explain endlessly that men, too, needed to be liberated from the false idea of Martian aggressiveness, just as women needed to escape the bonds of menses envy. Radical feminists would add that the oppression of the nonmenstrual was the pattern for all other oppressions (“Vampires were our first freedom fighters!”) Cultural feminists would develop a bloodless imagery in art and literature. Socialist feminists would insist that only under capitalism would men be able to monopolize menstrual blood . . . . In fact, if men could menstruate, the power justifications could
  • 60. probably go on forever. If we let them.