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Presentación general sobre los cambios en la pre adolescencia y algunas sugerencias a los padres de como abordar este proceso en sus hijos.

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Ppt padres e hijos

  1. 1. PADRES E HIJOS: LA OTRA GUERRA: Cuidados y desvelos Ps Juan E. Barrera Blog: “Contra el mundo a favor del mundo”
  2. 2. No siempre fue así … <ul><li>Cuando la niña es pequeña </li></ul><ul><li>no hay dificultades con los padres. </li></ul><ul><li>ELLA ES LA PRINCESA DE LA CASA </li></ul>
  3. 3. No siempre fue así … ÉL ES EL CAMPEÓN DE LA CASA Cuando el niño es pequeño no hay dificultades con los padres .
  4. 4. LAS “GRACIAS”DE LOS NIÑOS
  5. 5. LAS “GRACIAS”DE LAS NIÑAS
  6. 6. Cerca de los 8 años hay cambios <ul><li>La princesa comienza a comportarse como una plebeya y hay que comenzar a poner reglas: </li></ul><ul><li>De higiene </li></ul><ul><li>De estudio </li></ul><ul><li>De juegos </li></ul><ul><li>De hábitos </li></ul>
  7. 7. Cerca de los 8 años hay cambios <ul><li>El campeón de la casa comienza a querer mandar y hay que poner reglas: </li></ul><ul><li>No molestar ni golpear a la hermana </li></ul><ul><li>No responderle mal a la mamá </li></ul><ul><li>No jugar violentamente </li></ul><ul><li>Hacer tareas </li></ul>
  8. 8. ENTRE LOS 10-14 AÑOS SE DESATA LA GUERRA <ul><li>Los hijos desean </li></ul><ul><li>Libertad </li></ul><ul><li>Dinero </li></ul><ul><li>Independencia </li></ul><ul><li>Arriesgarse </li></ul>
  9. 9. LOS PADRES DESEAN <ul><li>RESPETO </li></ul><ul><li>SUMISIÓN </li></ul><ul><li>CONTROL </li></ul><ul><li>TIEMPO </li></ul>
  10. 10. ¿Por qué hay guerra entre estas dos posiciones? <ul><li>Los adolescentes desarrollan una actitud llamada </li></ul><ul><li>OMNIPOTENCIA </li></ul>
  11. 11. OMNIPOTENCIA <ul><li>“ A mi no me va a pasar nada” así desarrollan conductas peligrosas: </li></ul><ul><li>En los juegos y deportes </li></ul><ul><li>En la calle </li></ul><ul><li>Con las amistades </li></ul><ul><li>Hábitos </li></ul><ul><li>Sexo </li></ul>
  12. 12. ¿Por qué hay guerra entre estas dos posiciones? <ul><li>Los padres conocen información sobre … </li></ul><ul><li>Embarazo precoz </li></ul><ul><li>Muerte por accidentes </li></ul><ul><li>Suicidios </li></ul><ul><li>Homicidios </li></ul>
  13. 13. ¿Por qué hay guerra entre estas dos posiciones? <ul><li>Drogas </li></ul><ul><li>Alcoholismo </li></ul><ul><li>Actividad sexual </li></ul><ul><li>Delincuencia </li></ul><ul><li>Etc, etc, etc </li></ul>
  14. 14. Algunas características de los adolescentes <ul><li>Físicas: </li></ul><ul><li>Desarrollo sexual. </li></ul><ul><li>Cambios en el cuerpo </li></ul><ul><li>Despertar sexual </li></ul>
  15. 15. Algunas características de los adolescentes <ul><li>Sociales </li></ul><ul><li>1. Con los padres: </li></ul><ul><li>pasan menos tiempo </li></ul><ul><li>se sienten menos vinculados a ellos desde el punto de vista emocional </li></ul><ul><li>critican a sus padres y se muestran en desacuerdo con ellos </li></ul><ul><li>se vuelven cada vez más enérgicos y menos dispuestos a someterse a su autoridad. </li></ul>
  16. 16. <ul><li>2. Los amigos: Adquieren mucha relevancia. </li></ul><ul><li>Se identifican con ellos </li></ul><ul><li>Sienten pertenencia </li></ul><ul><li>Pasan mucho tiempo juntos </li></ul><ul><li>Reciben información </li></ul>
  17. 17. <ul><li>ayuda al adolescente a independizarse de los lazos familiares </li></ul><ul><li>Sirve de campo de prueba para el desarrollo de las destrezas adultas, </li></ul><ul><li>ofrece un confidente con quien compartir las experiencias más profundas </li></ul>
  18. 18. Algunas características de los adolescentes <ul><li>Cognitivas </li></ul><ul><li>1. Desarrollo continuado de habilidades </li></ul><ul><li>2. Habilidades analíticas </li></ul><ul><li>3. Habilidades intuitivas </li></ul>
  19. 19. Algunas características de los adolescentes <ul><li>Emocionales </li></ul><ul><li>Cambios de humor </li></ul><ul><li>Descontrol </li></ul><ul><li>Ataques de risa </li></ul><ul><li>Provocador </li></ul>
  20. 20. Algunas características de los adolescentes <ul><li>Conductuales </li></ul><ul><li>Es violento </li></ul><ul><li>Narcisista </li></ul><ul><li>Inquieto y hablador </li></ul><ul><li>Amurrado </li></ul><ul><li>Amistoso </li></ul>
  21. 21. ¿CÓMO BUSCAR LA PAZ SIN QUE ALGUIEN SALGA HERIDO? <ul><li>ENTENDER BIEN LOS ROLES DE CADA UNO </li></ul><ul><li>DE LOS PADRES </li></ul><ul><li>DE LOS HIJOS </li></ul>
  22. 22. ROLES DE LOS PADRES <ul><li>1. AMAR A SUS HIJOS. </li></ul><ul><li>Amar no es una emoción es una elección que involucra la mente, la voluntad. </li></ul><ul><li>Involucra firmeza </li></ul><ul><li>Involucra autoridad </li></ul><ul><li>Involucra decisión </li></ul>
  23. 23. ROLES DE LOS PADRES <ul><li>Instruir a los hijos </li></ul><ul><li>En todos los ámbitos de la vida </li></ul><ul><li>En la escuela </li></ul><ul><li>En las emociones </li></ul><ul><li>En la sexualidad </li></ul><ul><li>En las relaciones </li></ul><ul><li>EN COMO VIVIR </li></ul>
  24. 24. ROLES DE LOS PADRES <ul><li>Disciplinar a los hijos </li></ul><ul><li>Es sin lugar a dudas una de las tareas más difíciles y dolorosas de ser padres. </li></ul><ul><li>La disciplina involucra: </li></ul><ul><li>Castigos </li></ul><ul><li>Límites </li></ul><ul><li>Normas </li></ul>
  25. 25. ROLES DE LOS PADRES <ul><li>Proteger a los hijos </li></ul><ul><li>Del entorno </li></ul><ul><li>De la internet </li></ul><ul><li>De los medios de comunicación </li></ul><ul><li>De los amigos </li></ul><ul><li>De si mismo </li></ul>
  26. 26. ROL DE LOS HIJOS <ul><li>OBEDECER </li></ul><ul><li>Del latín “Saber escuchar”, no hacer algo a la fuerza. </li></ul><ul><li>“ Si somos atentos y sabemos escuchar , no sólo oír , sino captar, analizar = </li></ul><ul><li>Discernir para escoger lo apropiado </li></ul>
  27. 27. ROL DE LOS HIJOS <ul><li>HONRAR A LOS PADRES </li></ul><ul><li>Mostrar o tratar con un alto nivel de respeto; Conferir honor o distinción </li></ul><ul><li>Respetar a una persona. Premiar por un mérito o virtud. Dar celebridad. </li></ul><ul><li>Mostrar respeto; tratar con amabilidad y cortesía. </li></ul>
  28. 28. CONCLUSIONES <ul><li>1. LOS PADRES RESPONSABLES NO VAN A CAMBIAR SUS ROLES. </li></ul><ul><li>DEJARÍAN DE SER PADRES: </li></ul><ul><li>-Pueden ser amigos </li></ul><ul><li>-Pueden ser confidentes </li></ul><ul><li>-Pueden hacerse los “lesos” pero no renunciarán a sus roles </li></ul><ul><li>¿POR QUÉ? </li></ul>
  29. 29. ¿POR QUÉ? <ul><li>Porque todo padre responsable sabe que sólo puede hacer dos cosas por sus hijos: </li></ul><ul><li>1. Darle raíces </li></ul><ul><li>Para saber vivir </li></ul><ul><li>Para ser independiente </li></ul><ul><li>Para creer en Dios </li></ul>
  30. 30. <ul><li>2. Darle alas </li></ul><ul><li>Para independizarse </li></ul><ul><li>Para formar su propia familia </li></ul><ul><li>Para ser un ciudadano responsable </li></ul><ul><li>Para ser un hijo de Dios comprometido </li></ul>
  31. 31. <ul><li>FIN </li></ul>

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