5. #zerosuicide 5
Four Bold New Ideas
1. Include individuals with lived
experience in your leadership and
design
2. Start your goal from the other end
3. Your goal must emanate from the
leader (CEO, etc.)
4. Believe differently. Aspire for Zero.
7. #zerosuicide 7
“Suicide prevention has not been
informed by peers who have
experienced the agony and decision-
making. They can provide support
that can be magic”
Eduardo Vega, MHA of San
Francisco
10. #zerosuicide 10
Four Bold New Ideas
1. Include individuals with lived
experience in your leadership and
design
2. Start your goal from the other end
3. Your goal must emanate from the
leader (CEO, etc.)
4. Believe differently. Aspire for Zero.
14. #zerosuicide 14
Four Bold New Ideas
1. Include individuals with lived
experience in your leadership and
design
2. Start your goal from the other end
3. Your goal must emanate from the
leader (CEO, etc.)
4. Believe differently. Aspire for Zero.
15. #zerosuicide 15
“Over the decades, individual
[mental health] clinicians have
made heroic efforts to save
lives… but systems of care have
done very little.”
Richard McKeon, SAMHSA
17. #zerosuicide 17
Four Bold New Ideas
1. Include individuals with lived
experience in your leadership and
design
2. Start your goal from the other end
3. Your goal must emanate from the
leader (CEO, etc.)
4. Reject myths. Aspire for Zero.
18. #zerosuicide 18
“Suicide represents a worst case
failure in mental health care. We
must work to make it a ‘never
event’ in our programs and
systems of care.”
Mike Hogan, Former State
MH Commissioner
19. #zerosuicide 19
Polling Question #1
Someone who died by hanging with their
hands bound behind their back and feet tied
together was probably a murder, not a
suicide.
A. True
B. False
26. #zerosuicide 26
Depression is a disorder of mood, so
mysteriously painful and elusive in the way
it becomes known to the self — to the
mediating intellect– as to verge close to
being beyond description. It thus remains
nearly incomprehensible to those who have
not experienced it in its extreme mode.
- William Styron
28. #zerosuicide 28
Suicide Can Be Prevented.
A. Never in Those Truly Intent on Suicide
B. Sometimes, but Only in Advance of Acute
Risk
C. Always, but Only in Advance of Acute Risk
D. Always, Even Up to the Last Moment
29. #zerosuicide 29
Four Bold New Ideas
1. Include individuals with lived
experience in your leadership and
design
2. Start your goal from the other end
3. Your goal must emanate from the
leader (CEO, etc.)
4. Reject myths. Aspire for Zero.
But, fear is not always based upon facts. What seemed to get lost in all this was the actual risk of contagion.
Disease researchers use a basic metric to estimate how many people on average each sick person will infect. “[The basic reproductive rate (R nought)] is calculated by estimating the chances of exposure, number of susceptible persons, length of contagious period, how the disease spreads, and how much time passes between exposure and becoming contagious.”
Using this scale, one of the most infectious diseases we know is measles, which is airborne and leads to infection on average of 12 to 18 people for every infected person. The December 2014 event at Disneyland is just now coming to a close, after it infected nearly 150 people in California and five other states.
HIV/AIDS typically spreads to 2 to 5 other persons through sexual contact. The 2003 outbreak of SARS had a similar R nought impact.
By contrast, Ebola, which is communicated only through bodily fluids and only while a person is showing symptoms, is much more difficult to spread, with an estimated reproduction of 1 to 2 persons on average. The goal of public health is to drive the rate of spread for any disease to below 1, which is the difference between it dying out or it becoming more widespread.
These are simply the facts that we Americans missed- Ebola is not less serious than SARS, measles or influenza – it just doesn’t spread as easily as they do. In fact, it’s the least communicable of all well-known infectious diseases.
Despite all the hysteria, only four individuals actually contracted Ebola on American soil.
“Me too” – Brene Brown has suggested that these are some of the most powerful words known to humanity.
But, because of the silence… the courage that has most often been shared in our world around suicide has had to do with ending one’s life.
But what about if? WHAT IF the stories people heard were about those who lived… about those who found a way to hold on a little longer… until the pain subsided…
The Suicide Prevention field has invested a significant amount of time and effort attempting to eliminate negative messages and control media stories after someone dies. Maybe the strongest answer is to instead focus more on those who live.
What if those examples were the ones more readily accessible to those in desperate pain?
Ten years ago, those stories did not seem to exist at all… but courage has emerged! It happened at this conference with:
- Dese’Rae Stage and livethroughthis.org
- Craig Miller and Thisishowitfeels.com
- DeQuincy Lezine and The Way Forward Report
Eric Hipple, Heidi Bryan, Kevin Hines, Kita Curry, Cheryl Sharp, Cara Anna, Siloan Green, William Styron, Terry Wise, Sabrina Strong, Tom Kelly, CW Tillman, Leah Harris, Katie Ayotte, Ursula Whiteside, Marsha Linehan, Eduardo Vega and many others…
Sadly, the answer is False. According to Dr. Thomas Joiner, it is not uncommon for individuals who are attempting to end their life to bind their feet, then their hands and attempt to end their life by hanging. While this is extremely difficult for those of us who have not experienced debilitating psychic pain and suicidal thoughts, we are going to discuss in this presentation what motivates this behavior.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/07/15/body-millionaires-girlfriend-found-hanging-at-mansion-may-be-suicide/
My example references an acute pain, but extend that into a chronic day-over-day anguish that blinds the person to the possibility of a better day tomorrow. Perhaps people do not choose suicide so much as they finally succumb because they just don’t have the strength, supports, resources, hope, etc. to hold on any longer.
My hands were sweaty, slipping on the bar. My muscles began to hurt, intense pain that became stronger and stronger as the seconds passed. I closed my eyes, relaxed my breathing, and repeated to myself, “One more second, one more second.” I wanted to hang on. That was my choice. Yet gravity and fatigue worked against me and I fell, forced to succumb to the pain — but even then, falling was not what I chose to do. I fell a split second after another competitor; he was eliminated, I was not. I had hung on long enough.
Recently, I have been offering a multiple choice question to audiences. Suicide is preventable:
The idea that “suicide is a choice” is central to our disbelief that we could actually save everyone. But, we know we can extend and strengthen a person to hold on, even in spite of desperate pain.