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   A Regional Gathering of the
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     Seattle 2013 | #covnet




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Macklemore - “Same Love”



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Road Map of the
Day
 Prayers
“Same Love” by Macklemore and
Ryan Lewis - featuring Mary
Lambert
Introductions
Marriage
Marriage Equality
Vision and Hopes
Obstacles and Tensions
Directions and Challenges
“Stand Up” by God-dess and She        Photo by allisonhare


Questions and Answers            #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
Who are you?
morning people or night owls
decade: 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, 80’s 90’s,
00’s
ages: under 90, 70, 50, 40, 30, 20
getaway: beach, snow or desert
technology: facebook, twitter,
pinterest, instagram - #covnet
upbringing: presbyterian, methodist,
catholic, non-denom, other . . .
geography to ministry: 10m, 30m, 60m
times at a covenant network event?
1st, 2nd, 3 or more times?
                                       #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
Who is Bruce
                           69X:85Y

                          URBAN:SF

                         TECHIE:SM

                     CREATIVE:BOBO

                    PASTOR:PLANTER

                    BLOGGER:WRITER

                  CONSULTANT:COACH

               #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
Marriage         MARRIAGE IS A CIVIL AND
           SPIRITUAL EXPRESSION OF LOVE
              AND COMMITMENT BETWEEN
             TWO PEOPLE WHERE GROWTH
           INTO WHO GOD INTENDS EACH TO
            BE AND BECOME IS CENTERED.




                 #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
Marriage Equality Vision
        ECCLESIASTICAL LIBERATION - Not just
        about “legal” and “civil” rights but about
        being freed from religious and social
        oppression.
        EXCRUCIATING GRACE - As the church
        and society continue to cluster and
        become polarized by theology and
        ideology, conflict will intensify and the
        need for graciousness will increase.
        GENERATIONAL CONVICTION - While
        great strides have been made, future
        generations must continue to fight the
        fight for equality in society and the church.
                            #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
Generational
Obstacles
Leverage: generational assumptions as a reason for change,
 excuse for calcification or distraction from other issues.
    “For young people this is a non-issue so . . .”
    “For older folks this is a big change, so . . .”
    “The problem with young/old people . . .”

 Leadership: transitions, power and who “gets” to lead.

 Response: to what end and at what expense?
    Boomers = Fight here, fight now.
    GenX’ers = Leave, it’s not worth fighting for.
    Millennials, GenY/Z and Digital Natives = Don’t rock the
    boat, let’s fight but just not here.
                                            #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
Leadership
Age and aging must be embraced.
New leadership must be scouted
and sought out.
Longevity must no longer be the
primary currency of acceptance.
New leadership must be nurtured,
encouraged and trusted.
New leadership must be placed in
contexts for “success.”
New roles must be embraced with          Gladys Burrill, 92
                                      2011 Honolulu Marathon
joy or old roles must be given up          Photo: AP

without resentment.
                                    #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
Response



       Fun Theory Stairs




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Response
Because of culture shifts, new strategies must not only be
sought out and historic ones given worth, but multiplicity of
responses must valued and utilized;




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Leverage



                     Morning Papers




Generations must engage in the nuanced and difficult dance
of seeking raw understanding of one another’s lives.
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Questions and
Comments
Questions, Comments, Reflections
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Covenant Network, Seattle, 2013

  • 1.
    generations A Regional Gathering of the Covenant Network of Presbyterians Seattle 2013 | #covnet Reyes-Chow | @breyeschow www.slideshare.net/breyeschow www.slideshare.net/breyeschow www.slideshare.net/breyeschow www.slideshare.net/breyeschow www.slideshare.net/breyeschow www.slideshare.net/breyeschow www.slideshare.net/breyeschow
  • 2.
    Macklemore - “SameLove” http://youtu.be/hlVBg7_08n0 #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 3.
    Road Map ofthe Day Prayers “Same Love” by Macklemore and Ryan Lewis - featuring Mary Lambert Introductions Marriage Marriage Equality Vision and Hopes Obstacles and Tensions Directions and Challenges “Stand Up” by God-dess and She Photo by allisonhare Questions and Answers #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 4.
    Who are you? morningpeople or night owls decade: 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, 80’s 90’s, 00’s ages: under 90, 70, 50, 40, 30, 20 getaway: beach, snow or desert technology: facebook, twitter, pinterest, instagram - #covnet upbringing: presbyterian, methodist, catholic, non-denom, other . . . geography to ministry: 10m, 30m, 60m times at a covenant network event? 1st, 2nd, 3 or more times? #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 5.
    Who is Bruce 69X:85Y URBAN:SF TECHIE:SM CREATIVE:BOBO PASTOR:PLANTER BLOGGER:WRITER CONSULTANT:COACH #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 6.
    Marriage MARRIAGE IS A CIVIL AND SPIRITUAL EXPRESSION OF LOVE AND COMMITMENT BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE WHERE GROWTH INTO WHO GOD INTENDS EACH TO BE AND BECOME IS CENTERED. #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 7.
    Marriage Equality Vision ECCLESIASTICAL LIBERATION - Not just about “legal” and “civil” rights but about being freed from religious and social oppression. EXCRUCIATING GRACE - As the church and society continue to cluster and become polarized by theology and ideology, conflict will intensify and the need for graciousness will increase. GENERATIONAL CONVICTION - While great strides have been made, future generations must continue to fight the fight for equality in society and the church. #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 8.
    Generational Obstacles Leverage: generational assumptionsas a reason for change, excuse for calcification or distraction from other issues. “For young people this is a non-issue so . . .” “For older folks this is a big change, so . . .” “The problem with young/old people . . .” Leadership: transitions, power and who “gets” to lead. Response: to what end and at what expense? Boomers = Fight here, fight now. GenX’ers = Leave, it’s not worth fighting for. Millennials, GenY/Z and Digital Natives = Don’t rock the boat, let’s fight but just not here. #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 9.
    Leadership Age and agingmust be embraced. New leadership must be scouted and sought out. Longevity must no longer be the primary currency of acceptance. New leadership must be nurtured, encouraged and trusted. New leadership must be placed in contexts for “success.” New roles must be embraced with Gladys Burrill, 92 2011 Honolulu Marathon joy or old roles must be given up Photo: AP without resentment. #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 10.
    Response Fun Theory Stairs #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 11.
    Response Because of cultureshifts, new strategies must not only be sought out and historic ones given worth, but multiplicity of responses must valued and utilized; #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 12.
    Leverage Morning Papers Generations must engage in the nuanced and difficult dance of seeking raw understanding of one another’s lives. #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW
  • 13.
    Questions and Comments Questions, Comments,Reflections Connect with Bruce reyes-chow.com twitter/breyeschow facebook/breyeschowpage linkedin/reyeschow instagram/breyeschow • pinterest/breyeschow • slideshare/breyeschow • bruce’s email list #COVNET | @BREYESCHOW