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Antipathetic or sympathetic responses

             My job is terrible!                               I'm sorry to
              I'm mistreated,                                hear it. Perhaps
                misjudged,            Pull yourself
                                        together,                you need
             Underpaid, …!!!                                  another job?
                                     stop whining &
                                      complaining!




                     A. is very excited &
                     Upset. He's almost
                     „not quite himself“.
                     B. wants to calm him
                     down and/or get out
                     of the line of fire.
 Person A.                                            Person B.
                                                       HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 1
Parallel responses

       My job is terrible!                        That is horrible!
        I'm mistreated,        So your job is    How can you stand
          misjudged,            Terrible, they   It! You should quit
       Underpaid, …!!!       mistreat & misjudge     right away!!!
                              & underpay you?




               …by parallel talking
               in a more neutral,
               mirroring way, or in
               a more parallel,
               exaggerating way,
               B. can help A. take a
               good look at himself.
                                                 HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 2
The paradoxical response

      My job is terrible!       I've long wanted
                                                     Okay – where do
       I'm mistreated,         to say something
                                                    you buy your suits?
         misjudged,            about the state of
                                                      I think you look
      Underpaid, …!!!            the restrooms
                                                       Great in black!
                                  In this place!




               ...by talking what from the
               outside may appear like
               nonsense, but is rather
               a calculated paradoxical
               intervention, A. Is even more
               effectively thrown off balance
               and cannot but leave his position.
                                                    HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 3
Forum Feedback & Discussion

 Let's move over to the (now fixed) Opinionator to get a
  view of what the class thinks ofsome gender issue
  statements & then discuss...




                                        ?

                                            HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 4
Poll: I have encountered positive or negative
discrimination based on my gender




                                            HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 5
Poll: I think women and men
perform differently at work




                              HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 6
Poll:I have experienced (positive or negative)
discrimination during my studies at the HWR Berlin.




                                           HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 7
Poll: I think virtual worlds are a gender-free or
less gendered teaching/learning environment.




                                               HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 8

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Parallel and paradoxical interventions

  • 1. Antipathetic or sympathetic responses My job is terrible! I'm sorry to I'm mistreated, hear it. Perhaps misjudged, Pull yourself together, you need Underpaid, …!!! another job? stop whining & complaining! A. is very excited & Upset. He's almost „not quite himself“. B. wants to calm him down and/or get out of the line of fire. Person A. Person B. HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 1
  • 2. Parallel responses My job is terrible! That is horrible! I'm mistreated, So your job is How can you stand misjudged, Terrible, they It! You should quit Underpaid, …!!! mistreat & misjudge right away!!! & underpay you? …by parallel talking in a more neutral, mirroring way, or in a more parallel, exaggerating way, B. can help A. take a good look at himself. HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 2
  • 3. The paradoxical response My job is terrible! I've long wanted Okay – where do I'm mistreated, to say something you buy your suits? misjudged, about the state of I think you look Underpaid, …!!! the restrooms Great in black! In this place! ...by talking what from the outside may appear like nonsense, but is rather a calculated paradoxical intervention, A. Is even more effectively thrown off balance and cannot but leave his position. HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 3
  • 4. Forum Feedback & Discussion  Let's move over to the (now fixed) Opinionator to get a view of what the class thinks ofsome gender issue statements & then discuss... ? HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 4
  • 5. Poll: I have encountered positive or negative discrimination based on my gender HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 5
  • 6. Poll: I think women and men perform differently at work HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 6
  • 7. Poll:I have experienced (positive or negative) discrimination during my studies at the HWR Berlin. HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 7
  • 8. Poll: I think virtual worlds are a gender-free or less gendered teaching/learning environment. HWR Berlin Supervision Internship LV 401591 / 8