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We are very grateful to our parents be-
cause they didn’t discriminate between
genders with education. All of us, three
girls and seven boys, were sent to be
educated equally. My father gave him-
self as a very good model for education.
He used to say, “If I give education to
a son, I’m educating an individual, but
if I give education to a daughter, I’m
educating a nation.”
My family shifted to KL from Klang
when I was three years old. We stayed in
government quarters and the first house
in KL we stayed in was on Travers Road,
which has now been taken over by KL
Sentral. It was a double storey house and
most of our neighbours were Indians.
There were two people that we chil-
dren were afraid of at the time. The
first was the health inspector, because
he went from house to house to check
whether children were being vacci-
nated against small pox. Whenever we
saw the inspector coming, we would
run to hide. The other person we were
so afraid of was the policeman who
accompanied the health inspector. The
way he looked, with his beard, and
the way he carried himself must have
frightened us.
There were no clubs and societies
when I was in school, but we did a lot of
reading, and I played badminton. I was
in charge of the class library so I got all
the new English books first to index and
label them. I was also fond of writing.
I was 15 in 1941 during the Japanese
occupation. The Japanese schools came
up, but I refused to go to school. Only
my younger brothers went to school.
My sisters and I stayed home. My
mother said, “Now is the time for you
to learn housekeeping.”
Why smoke? You are planting the seed
of cancer in your lungs.
I am the third Malay woman to be-
come a doctor in the country. Kuala
Lumpur Hospital was very different
when I was in charge of the children’s
ward. It was a long ward with big
wooden flapping doors. There were
18 beds on the left and 18 beds on the
right full of children with diphtheria
and tuberculosis.
With diphtheria, the bacterium covers
the whole of the throat and the air pipe,
causing the child to turn blue. One of the
senior doctors told me to learn quickly,
as this was a life or death situation—
wrap the child in a towel, place him or
her on the table and stretch his or her
neck out to feel for the trachea; find it
and just stab and twist with a scalpel to
open up an air hole. The child would
splutter and if you didn’t wear a mask,
you’d get all the muck on your face.
One of my postings was in Kedah.
There, villagers were scared to go to
hospitals because those who went
seemed to end up dying. That’s because
they took too long to come. In the rural
areas, if a pregnant woman experienced
trouble during childbirth, she needed
the permission of her parents, the
midwife and the head of the village just
to visit the hospital. Then there was the
issue of transport. In one case, two vil-
lagers had to carry a woman in a cradle
from her house to the roadside to wait
for a car. Some rural areas didn’t even
have roads before Tun Razak opened
up access.
What men should know about child-
bearing is that he is responsible also,
kan? Now that husbands can enter the
labour room, he should see what she
goes through in delivering their baby.
Some are too scared of blood, some are
too scared of this or scared of that. I
would tell them, “Nonsense! You come
and see.”
Even though it was only for a short
time, I’m proud that Mahathir initi-
ated the policy of the sciences being
taught in English. So many new devel-
opments are happening in the health
sciences and it’s all in English. Of
course you can translate, but who will
do the translation? You need someone
who is not only fluent in Bahasa and
English, but also proficient in the sub-
jects. Which physics professor is going
to spend all day doing translations?
One of the things that I had to do as a
prime minister’s wife was to entertain
the wives of foreign dignitaries. If they
were from developing countries that
regarded us as having developed more
than them, they would want to know
how we do things. I always told myself
(and my friends) to be humble when we
spoke. I would thank them for want-
ing to know, and start the conversation
with, “We began just like you.”
I took a play-by ear course for organ
in USJ. I didn’t tell the teacher who I
was; I just went to the studio. I passed
my preliminary and intermediate levels
with them but we had to perform
in a courtyard during the certificate
presentation. Young students had their
parents attend the concert; I brought
my husband.
Our family gatherings are wonder-
ful, especially on the first day of Raya.
The whole family goes to the mosque,
and then visits the palace or the prime
minister’s house before going home
for the family meal. The sitting room
is arranged for the family to greet each
other. My husband will be in his chair,
and I am next to him, ready with the
angpow lah! Being the eldest, Marina
comes first to give respect and seek
forgiveness before she takes her place
beside me. But the adults don’t get ang-
pow; the grandchildren, the friends and
the house staff do.
I am still wondering why I am being
interviewed by a men’s magazine like
Esquire. 
WHAT I’VE LEARNED
Tun Dr Siti Hasmah
Wife of the fourth Malaysian prime minister, 90
Interview by Shermian Lim
Photograph by Delvin Xian
This is an abridged interview, for the full length interview please visit esquire.my

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WILSitiHasmah

  • 1. 68 69 We are very grateful to our parents be- cause they didn’t discriminate between genders with education. All of us, three girls and seven boys, were sent to be educated equally. My father gave him- self as a very good model for education. He used to say, “If I give education to a son, I’m educating an individual, but if I give education to a daughter, I’m educating a nation.” My family shifted to KL from Klang when I was three years old. We stayed in government quarters and the first house in KL we stayed in was on Travers Road, which has now been taken over by KL Sentral. It was a double storey house and most of our neighbours were Indians. There were two people that we chil- dren were afraid of at the time. The first was the health inspector, because he went from house to house to check whether children were being vacci- nated against small pox. Whenever we saw the inspector coming, we would run to hide. The other person we were so afraid of was the policeman who accompanied the health inspector. The way he looked, with his beard, and the way he carried himself must have frightened us. There were no clubs and societies when I was in school, but we did a lot of reading, and I played badminton. I was in charge of the class library so I got all the new English books first to index and label them. I was also fond of writing. I was 15 in 1941 during the Japanese occupation. The Japanese schools came up, but I refused to go to school. Only my younger brothers went to school. My sisters and I stayed home. My mother said, “Now is the time for you to learn housekeeping.” Why smoke? You are planting the seed of cancer in your lungs. I am the third Malay woman to be- come a doctor in the country. Kuala Lumpur Hospital was very different when I was in charge of the children’s ward. It was a long ward with big wooden flapping doors. There were 18 beds on the left and 18 beds on the right full of children with diphtheria and tuberculosis. With diphtheria, the bacterium covers the whole of the throat and the air pipe, causing the child to turn blue. One of the senior doctors told me to learn quickly, as this was a life or death situation— wrap the child in a towel, place him or her on the table and stretch his or her neck out to feel for the trachea; find it and just stab and twist with a scalpel to open up an air hole. The child would splutter and if you didn’t wear a mask, you’d get all the muck on your face. One of my postings was in Kedah. There, villagers were scared to go to hospitals because those who went seemed to end up dying. That’s because they took too long to come. In the rural areas, if a pregnant woman experienced trouble during childbirth, she needed the permission of her parents, the midwife and the head of the village just to visit the hospital. Then there was the issue of transport. In one case, two vil- lagers had to carry a woman in a cradle from her house to the roadside to wait for a car. Some rural areas didn’t even have roads before Tun Razak opened up access. What men should know about child- bearing is that he is responsible also, kan? Now that husbands can enter the labour room, he should see what she goes through in delivering their baby. Some are too scared of blood, some are too scared of this or scared of that. I would tell them, “Nonsense! You come and see.” Even though it was only for a short time, I’m proud that Mahathir initi- ated the policy of the sciences being taught in English. So many new devel- opments are happening in the health sciences and it’s all in English. Of course you can translate, but who will do the translation? You need someone who is not only fluent in Bahasa and English, but also proficient in the sub- jects. Which physics professor is going to spend all day doing translations? One of the things that I had to do as a prime minister’s wife was to entertain the wives of foreign dignitaries. If they were from developing countries that regarded us as having developed more than them, they would want to know how we do things. I always told myself (and my friends) to be humble when we spoke. I would thank them for want- ing to know, and start the conversation with, “We began just like you.” I took a play-by ear course for organ in USJ. I didn’t tell the teacher who I was; I just went to the studio. I passed my preliminary and intermediate levels with them but we had to perform in a courtyard during the certificate presentation. Young students had their parents attend the concert; I brought my husband. Our family gatherings are wonder- ful, especially on the first day of Raya. The whole family goes to the mosque, and then visits the palace or the prime minister’s house before going home for the family meal. The sitting room is arranged for the family to greet each other. My husband will be in his chair, and I am next to him, ready with the angpow lah! Being the eldest, Marina comes first to give respect and seek forgiveness before she takes her place beside me. But the adults don’t get ang- pow; the grandchildren, the friends and the house staff do. I am still wondering why I am being interviewed by a men’s magazine like Esquire.  WHAT I’VE LEARNED Tun Dr Siti Hasmah Wife of the fourth Malaysian prime minister, 90 Interview by Shermian Lim Photograph by Delvin Xian This is an abridged interview, for the full length interview please visit esquire.my