20. Influence
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Ways to Influence
• RECIPROCITY: Ask for more then you need and then negotiate a lower
requirement acceptable to the other party.
• LINKING: Proximity is important – get closer to the other party,
attend one on one’s and use the phone instead of email.
• COMMITMENT: Have voluntary sign-ups for tasks. Also involve team
members in project plan drafts.
• SOCIAL PROOF: Mimic the behavior of others. Try to gain someone’s
agreement and then ask them to state their opinion in a
meeting, as this is a form of social proof.