Let me tell you a secret: Its fairly easy
Relationship is a lot of fun (dinners, golf, massages , drinks etc) bit also HARD WORK
they are like kids – if you don’t want to be there or don’t like the food they serve, they will notice it.
Sometime you are tired/busy but if they offer to go to dinner etc, you need to change your sate of mind – to agree and convince yourself that you want to and you will enjoy, and not that is a task that you want to get over with
Examples:
Yuval and I go to KTC after landing from BKK-HK-SZ
Me and jackson at JWM hotel, 23:00, I was tired, he said he is down for coffee
Means taking them home on weekends in Israel and going to trips even the culture here is different
The term “brother” – not too rare, but don’t take lightly.
Relationshisp are for the long term – even if no business, keep in touch, visit them when in the area. They all have many friends!
Give KS buying back controllers at $750,000 from us
All people in the far east treat this as much more important than we do – from where to sit in the meeting room to emails.
Example – I introduced Jackson to Ariel and he said his people will send him the details. I knew right then it wont work. Should have asked jackson for a POC not just add his people on the email.
This is key in China doing business
They pride themselves as being very flexible as opposed to Japanese
Sometime, they take this to extremes. This is where setting expectations is critical. Also having team on site.
Relationship is a lot of fun (dinners, golf, massages , drinks etc) bit also HARD WORK
they are like kids – if you don’t want to be there or don’t like the food they serve, they will notice it.
Sometime you are tired/busy but if they offer to go to dinner etc, you need to change your sate of mind – to agree and convince yourself that you want to and you will enjoy, and not that is a task that you want to get over with
Examples:
Yuval and I go to KTV after landing from BKK-HK-SZ
Me and jackson at JWM hotel, 23:00, I was tired, he said he is down for coffee
Means taking them home on weekends in Israel and going to trips even the culture here is different
The term “brother” – not too rare, but don’t take lightly. They don’t trust you, but they trust other chinese even less
Relationshisp are for the long term – even if no business, keep in touch, visit them when in the area. They all have many friends!
How to start: small talk, eat, don’t put anyone on the spot, brands
Give KS buying back controllers at $750,000 from us
Meaning of this in the far east culture. Mainly Taiwan/china
I hear people say Chinese are liars. That may be so but to them other things are important than the accurate truth or actual facts
Mainly important – try not to send angry email to someone with his boss in cc.
Same for food – if they see you don’t like the food, they will feel not at ease. Its ok, they are used to western people not liking Chinese food, just say what you don’t eat in advance.
Also at home – buy expensive watch, phone to show off – what we can DAWIN. Even fake!
They will cheat companies, but not face
I am not sure this is part of the culture….
But from my experience, they negotiate about everything. And even after, you can be sure they left some things out for later.
We all care about money – but in China (and mainly Taiwan) its very extreme.
First time – a must!
If a small intro meeting, can do without but if coming to a partner – a must
Then, depends on the occasion – usually customary to send something for CNY
what to ring – Hamsa of course, books about israel, wine, whiskey (depends on the people), cigars, anything else that looks expensive.
And you don’t have to be very creative…