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“Fair as the Moon, Resplendent as the Sun”:
An Exposition of the Nature of Feminine Strength and Excellence
A Thesis Submitted to
The Faculty of Thomas Aquinas College
In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirement
For the Degree of Bachelor of Arts
by
Amy Hallas
Advisor: Mr. John Finley
March 15, 2009
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For my mother,
whose strength has overcome every trial
and continues to be my firmest support.
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I. Introduction
In the grand design of human nature, the attainment of virtue has ever been placed before
man as the noblest and surest means to happiness – if not in this life, at least in the next.
However narrow the path of excellence, it is to be traversed with a firm step, a ready wit,
and a submissive heart. The reward to be gained by choosing such a path, according to the
Church, is a life filled by the expectation of divine and eternal love and happiness. Even in
its human form, love – whether hoped for or attained – is a thing man cannot do without, a
thing continuously sought from the moment we first take breath to the moment in which we
take our last. JohnPaul II avers that “Mancannot live without love. He remains a being that
is incomprehensible for himself; his life is senseless, if love is not revealed to him, if he
does not encounter love, if he does not experience it and make it his own, if he does not
participate intimately in it.”1 Love, which is the very thing that enables man to approach a
life of virtue, transforms all who partake of it, perfecting our nature, inspiring compassion
and respect for our fellow man, and allowing us to recognize the Divine Image as it is
reflected in the humblest of beings. This universal desire therefore presents a call to all
mankind, menand womenalike, to seek those virtues which will insure our lasting content.
The manifestation of certain virtues, their modus operandi, however, differs widely
from person to person, and all the more between men and women. Virtues even tend to be
“typecast” in a particularly masculine or feminine light because of the frequency or
strength of their appearance in one sex rather than in the other. Thus, although men and
women alike are called to the pursuit of virtue, nonetheless, there has always been dispute
as to whether certain virtues belong more particularly to one sex than to the other; whether,
1 Pope John Paul II, FamiliarisConsortio,Part III, ¶18 (quoted from his other encyclical, Redemptor
Hominis)
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in the creation of man and woman, there was implanted in each some innate capacity for
the attainment of certain virtues more than others. Courage and magnanimity, for example,
are attributed almost instinctively to a masculine figure, if only because throughout the
course of history the most prominent images of such qualities have belonged to men. This
typical assumption is no slight to women, who, it must be acknowledged, are just as
capable as men of exhibiting great feats of courage. The form of their courage just happens
to manifest itself in different settings and often in more subtle ways and as such is less
often noticed. Similarly, compassion is viewed as a singularly feminine trait, and even
whenappearing in a man it is seen as making him softer and more womanly. Since menand
woman are called upon, on account of their shared human nature, to attain to all of the
moral and theological virtues, this peculiar “possession” of certain virtues more
prominently by one sex than the other leads to an inevitable question: Are there particular
virtues that are essential to the composition of male or female personhood, that are
intrinsically a part of the feminine or masculine identity? Do some virtues really “belong”
more to one sex than to the other, or are there merely different benefits bestowed upon men
and women through the attainment of different virtues? What sort of virtue “makes” a man
or a woman, if the lack of that certain virtue “undoes” the person and causes his or her
moral and psychological decline?
Of course it is granted that the absence of any of the virtues from the character of a
man or woman is a grave thing and one tending toward the proliferation of vice and moral
decay. Nevertheless, upon careful consideration of the natures of the masculine and
feminine personae, it will become clear that certain virtues are more inwardly rooted in the
development and fortification of the male or female characters, and that the lack of these
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particular moral strengths, more so than of others, is bound to fundamentally undermine
the very masculinity or femininity of the person. More specifically, with respect to the
woman, the kind of excellence she embodies as woman results from the constitution of her
character, from the very design imposed upon her by the Creator. A virtuous woman will
incorporate every sort of virtue into her daily actions, but with regard to her growth not
merely as a moral individual, but more particularly as a feminine persona, those virtues that
form the moral and psychological underpinnings of her character must be set forth in order
to illustrate their great importance in her moral actuation and even her psychological
integration. Without limiting the possession of these virtues exclusively to one sex or the
other, therefore, those virtues holding a special place in the development of the feminine
persona will be referred to from here on as feminine virtues.
With this said, it may be posited that the fundamental sources of feminine strength
are fidelity and humility and the unifying principle of the feminine persona, chastity. These
three virtues are the touchstones that enable a woman, as a human being designed by God
with a unique vocation in the course of human activity, to integrate her energies into a
healthy dynamism of body and spirit. The origins of woman’s fallibility are, quite
naturally, the vices opposed to these particular virtues, namely faithlessness, pride and
impurity. These cause the disintegration of personal unity in woman, resulting in
psychological instability and a loss of personal identity.
The purpose of this thesis will be to undertake a theological and philosophical
explication of the “nature” of woman (i.e. of her intrinsic design by God insofar as it is
distinct from that of man) in order to determine the origin of her specific strengths and
weaknesses. The nature of a universal human vocation will be set out first in order to
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facilitate an understanding of the human calling as such, since this applies equally to men
and women. The complementarity of man and woman will then be set out, so that the
innate differences between them may be understood; this will open up a discussion of the
particular vocation of women, which in many ways differs from the particular vocation of
men. The structure of the paper will then generally follow the methodology of the Ethics,
insofar as it will illustrate woman’s nature by looking to her vocation (her “function”), and
subsequently will determine which virtues are central to that nature by observing the way
in which she performs her function well, that is, by observing those virtues in which her
excellence lies.
II. The Universal Human Vocation
The Catechism teaches that man is the only creature willed for its own sake2; that is,
mankind is at the pinnacle of the hierarchy of fleshly creatures and is made in such a way
that he possesses an intrinsic desire to know and love God. John Paul II illustrates the
nature of man’s vocation in his encyclical Familiaris Consortio, saying,
God created man in His own image and likeness: calling himto existence through love, He
called him at the same time for love.God is love and in Himself He lives a mystery of
personal loving communion. Creating the human race in His own image and continually
keeping it in being, God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation,and
thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion. Love is therefore the
fundamental and innate vocation of every human being.3
Hence Christ teaches that the greatest commandment given to man is to love God and one
another. Augustine illustrates that these two loves are inseparable4, that man loves God
through his neighbor, while the Catechism similarly affirms that this very act of love and
service to God is the basis of a fundamental human vocation5. Every other commandment
2 The Catechismof the Catholic Church,¶ 356
3 John Paul II, Familiaris Consortio,Part II, ¶ 11
4 Augustine,On Christian Doctrine, Chs. 26, 27
5 The Catechismof the Catholic Church,¶ 356
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can be resolved into these two, and every virtue springs from this form of self-abnegating
love. In loving God and his neighbor, a man voluntarily steps outside of his native
selfishness and begins to break down the walls of isolation instinctively built out of fear,
jealousy, or hatred. It is in becoming other-oriented rather than self-oriented, and in
directing his focus upon the Divine, that man assumes a kind of magnanimity enabling him
to transcend the habit of sin that ordinarily precludes or severely inhibits his ability to love
fully and freely. In the same encyclical, John Paul specifies the life-styles within which
man can exercise this “fundamental and innate vocation”:
As an incarnate spirit, that is a soulwhich expresses itself in a body and a body informed by
an immortal spirit, man is called to love in his unified totality. Love includes the human
body,and the body is made a sharer in spiritual love. Christian revelation recognizes two
specific ways of realizing the vocation of the human person,in its entirety, to love:
marriage and virginity or celibacy. Either one is, in its own proper form, an actuation of the
most profound truth of man, of his being ‘created in the image of God.’6
Thus there is a common theme uniting these two callings, and that is one of marital love
and fidelity. Each calling requires a man or woman to devote him or herself to another
person, to a mission or cause, and in either case to God with the complete fidelity and the
enduring love and purity due to a spouse. Indeed, God is to be found as the ultimate object
of every true human vocation. A man or woman will encounter the Spirit in their
relationship to their spouse and will see God’s face reflected in the person of their beloved.
Those who elect to live a chaste, single life encounter God in their many activities and
relationships within their community. Priests, monks, and nuns enter into a spiritual
relationship, a divine marriage, with God Himself.
From a more universal perspective, the image of spousal love is mirrored in the love
Christ the Bridegroom bears for his Bride the Church: He “weds” and thus sanctifies all the
men and women who in their devotion to God compose the living Body of Christ.
6 John Paul II, Familiaris Consortio,Part II, ¶ 11
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Marriage, then, is the ideal form of every humanpursuit; that is, it is anexemplar of human
vocations; the objects of devotion may differ, but the motivation is the same. Men and
women run down many paths seeking happiness, but those who find it are the ones who
realize that the means to enduring fulfillment is exclusivity to one’s “spouse”, be it an
actual person or God Himself through holy celibacy; this exclusivity then culminates in a
love and fidelity that extends beyond the object itself to its source in God.
The necessity of exclusivity to the object of one’s devotion, and thus of perfect fidelity
within one’s chosen vocation, is clearly illustrated by Scripture. The symbolism
throughout Isaiah and Revelation emphasizes the grave consequences of infidelity. In the
former, God grieves over Israel as a betrayed husband over a much beloved but faithless
wife:
For your husband is yourMaker,
Whose name is the Lord of hosts;
And your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel,
Who is called the God of all the earth.
For the Lord has called you,
Like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit,
Even like a wife of one’s youth when she is rejected,
Says yourGod.
For a brief moment I forsook you,
But with great compassion I will gather you.
In an outburst of anger
I hid My face from you for a moment,
But with everlasting loving-kindness I will have compassion on you,
Says the Lord your Redeemer.7
Revelation continues this line of imagery, as John in his vision says, “And I saw the holy
city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride
adorned for her husband… Then one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of
the seven last plagues came and spoke with me, saying, ‘Come here, I will show you the
7 Isaiah 54:5-8
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bride, the wife of the Lamb…’”8 And the angel carries John away to a mountain top and
shows him the magnificent city of Jerusalem. Ephesians reinforces this analogy, directly
relating the spousal relationship of a man and woman with that of Christ and His Church.
In the much-quoted passage regarding the subjection of women to their husbands, Paul
says, “The husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He
Himself being the Savior of the body.”9 In this analogy, moreover, the subjection of
woman to man in the marital union is extended metaphorically to all persons within
Christ’s Church, whether male or female, since all the faithful must submit themselves to
the guiding hand of God as they are led to a fuller understanding of their special purpose in
life. In a sense, we are all of us “female” when it comes to opening ourselves and
submitting our wills utterly to the will of God. It is impossible for man to fulfill his
fundamental vocation in any other way than by devoting his heart and mind exclusively to
the Creator. Only through man’s total submission of his heart to God can the Divine will
become clear, and only then will he find fulfillment, as a human being generally, and as
man and woman individually.
III. The Complementarity of Man and Woman
Though universally applicable to all men and women, this fundamental human vocation is
carried out in different ways, two distinct modes of which may be determined by gender.
The inherent complementarity between man and woman, arising from a variation in design
in the being of each, governs the distinct, gender-based manifestations of the human
vocation. It is through an understanding of this distinction that the being and operation of
each sex may be studied apart from the other.
8 Revelation 21:2,9
9 Ephesians 5:23
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Man is a synthesis of physical and spiritual elements, torn by the inevitable
oppositionbetween spirit and flesh. He simultaneously burns with the fire of intellectuality
and the heat of passion and desire. In spite of this duality, however, it is man’s rationality
that accords with his underlying essence. A brute cannot think and a man, even in perfect
disgrace, nevertheless retains the fundamental capacity to reason. Reason is the intrinsic,
species-making difference of man that sets him apart from and above all other earthly
creatures, and as such enables him to lord over the earth and rule all the creatures put there
for his use. This is man as such.
It is not, however, where the complexity of the human species ends. God created
man: male and female he created them. The man Adam, initially created as the sole
governor of the world and caretaker of its inhabitants, yet did not find this state of isolation
to his liking. His lack of a suitable companion, of a “fit helpmate” to help him to keep and
care for Paradise, left him no equal with whom to relate, no face to look into and see his
humanity reflected back to him. He reigned but he did not share; he named all things but
had no one with whom to converse and to exercise his reason. Man is fundamentally
deficient without his natural counterpart, and thus Eve was created – from his rib no less.
The very bone that guards the heart was transformed into the creature with whom man
would from that time on entrust it. Woman is in every respect the completion of man: She
spiritually guides and informs him, physically receives him and brings forth his children,
and psychologically supports and affirms him. Truly, it is not good for man to be alone, as
the Catechism affirms when it says: “The woman God ‘fashions’ from the man’s rib and
brings to him elicits on the man’s part a cry of wonder, an exclamation of love and
communion: ‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.’ Man discovers
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woman as another ‘I,’ sharing the same humanity.”10 It further states:
Everyone, man and woman, should acknowledge and accept his sexual identity.Physical,
moral, and spiritual difference and complementarity are oriented toward the goods of
marriage and the flourishing of family life. The harmony of the couple and of society
depends in part on the way in which the complementarity, needs,and mutual support
between the sexes are lived out.11
These complementary differences, then, are quite necessary to the proper functioning of
the social order, since they give rise to that rudimentary building block of society, the
family.
Further, Scripture lays down that mankind was created in the divine image and
likeness of God. Man and woman were created as equals, each espousing the rational
nature that elevates them above the animals and which lends them a certain resemblance to
the Divine. Nevertheless, men and women couldn’t be alike in all things: Their respective
strengths were made to fill the deficiencies in the other. As such, a man’s very being is
distinct from that of woman, and while both share in the universal vocation set forth by
God to love and be loved, still each does so in a manner specific to his or her modality of
being. “In their ‘being man’ and ‘being woman,’ they reflect the Creator’s wisdom and
goodness.”12 The Imago Dei is cast upon both sexes, but the reflections differ according to
the spiritual and physical peculiarities of each sex. Together, however, these differences
coalesce to form a “communion of persons”13 through which the man and woman grow in
spiritual unity, each strengthening the other’s weakness and leading one another closer to
God. “Thus in the first account of the creation of man, the difference between male and
female is immediately proclaimed. But mutually they are given the threefold vocation:
10 CCC ¶ 371
11 CCC, ¶ 2333
12 CCC, ¶ 369
13 CCC, ¶ 372
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They are to be the image of God, bring forth posterity, and be masters over the earth.”14
Jungian psychoanalyst Ann Belford Ulanov explains:
Theologically, the imago dei has been interpreted to mean the creation of man as a creature
who has the capacity to relate to his Creator although this capacity has either been
diminished or even lost as a result of the Fall. We read in Genesis that ‘God created man in
His own image, in the image of God He created him, male and female He created them’
(Gen. 1:27). This can be interpreted to mean, I think, that God’s image is to be found in the
polarity of male and female and that the primary concretization of the covenant between
God and his creature is to be found in the relationship of man and woman.15
This interpretation, one of many used to illustrate the manner in which the Divine likeness
is impressed upon humanity, is strongly echoed by the Catechism. It states that “eachof the
two sexes is an image of the power and tenderness of God, with equal dignity though in a
different way. The union of man and woman in marriage is a way of imitating in the flesh
the Creator’s generosity and fecundity…”16 Through their intrinsic differences, man and
woman each manifest in a unique way the divine attributes of the Creator; that is, “…the
respective “perfections” of man and woman reflect something of the infinite perfection of
God: those of a mother and those of a father and husband.”17
St. Edith Stein believes that the differences between the sexes correspond to
distinctions in the very animating principles of each. She states,
… it follows also from the Thomistic principle of anima forma corporis that such a
spiritual characteristic does exist. Of course woman shares a basic human nature, but
basically her faculties are different from men; therefore, a differing type of soul must exist
as well.18
This radical assertion of the distinction between male and female souls may be
substantiated through various philosophical and experiential arguments which support the
claim that the complementarity of man and woman is rooted in the inherent diversity of
their souls. Further, this divergent, albeit corresponding, formation of their souls will be
14 St. Edith Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 61
15 Ann Belford Ulanov, The Feminine in Jungian Psychology and in Christian Theology,pg. 293
16 CCC, ¶ 2335
17 CCC, ¶ 370
18 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 45
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seen to result from innate differences in the receptive capacities of the male and female
material principles.
In truth, there doesn’t seem to be anybetter wayto account for the obvious physical
distinctions between men and woman than bypositing a difference in form – it would seem
natural for there to be a male soul belonging to the male body and likewise a female soul
belonging to the female body. Experience relates to us the distinction of gender at an
extremely early age; boys and girls know they are different, and as they age these
differences only seem to multiply. What this physical divide between the sexes points to,
however, is a distinction rooted much deeper within each man and woman than that which
is present to the senses. It is a basic philosophical principle that for every faculty of the
physical body there must be a corresponding faculty in the soul; since, then, there are
certain physical abilities allotted to one sex but not to the other, there must be
corresponding powers of the soul possessed selectively either by men or women, but
certainly not by both. Therefore, thougheveryother power of the soul, suchas sensation or
reason, is shared by men and women in virtue of their human nature, maternity and
paternityare the particular, non-transferable functions that belong uniquely to the feminine
and masculine principles.
This distinction in form, however, may be attributed to an initial difference in the
receptive capacity of the material principle of each sex. In essence, gender distinction
results from the imposition of a generic rational form upon a specifically feminine or
masculine materia, to which the form is fitted and molded accordingly. In De Potentia Dei,
St. Thomas asserts,
The disposition of the rational soul is in keeping with the disposition of the body: both
because it receives something from the body,and because forms are diversified according
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to the diversity of their matter.19
That is, the soul is the form and animating principle of the body, but it is the form of some
matter that is “disposed” to receive it. Far from being an entirely neutral principle, the
matter to a great extent determines the outcome of the resulting composite. The
predisposition of matter to receive this form or that determines what kind of active
principle can be imposed upon it, and the inherent capacities or limitations of the matter
also have an effect on the powers of the soul once it has been joined to the matter. In the
case of man and woman, it is obvious that certain powers are bestowed uponone sex which
are categorically denied to the other. That is, when a rational soul inhabits a male body, it
acquires from that distinct materia the ability to beget. That generic ability possessed by
every soul to generate others like itself is channeled through the male body in such a way
that the man is specifically enabled to father children rather than to carry them. The
specific ability to conceive and bear belongs, on the other hand, to the composite produced
by the imposition of a rational soul upon a feminine material principle. Thus, in the De
Anima, Aristotle asserts,
… Not any subject whatever can receive any form at random. And that such is the case is
confirmed by reason: the act of any one thing is of that which is in potency to it, and it
occurs naturally and fittingly in matter appropriate to it.20
Just as a rational soul cannot be received by the matter belonging to an animalor a plant, so
a male soul can never be the animating formof a female body, nor a female soul the form of
a male body. This notion is reiterated by St. Thomas, who says that,
[T]he actuality of an active principle, such as the form transmitted to matter by an agent,
always appears to exist in what receives it and is adapted to it, i.e., in the subject, whose [is
the] particular active principle, and which is adapted to attain the final term of the
receiving-process, namely the form in question… [It is] natural to any act to be realized in
some definite and appropriate material.21
19 St. Thomas Aquinas, De Potentia Dei, I.3.9 ad. 7
20 Aristotle, De Anima, II.2.414a21-28
21 St. Thomas Aquinas’ Commentary on De Anima , II.2, ¶272, 277
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Thus it may be inferred that the material principles of men and women are of the
greatest importance in the formation of the sexes. This fact, nonetheless, is more
immediately available through our experience with human sensation; that is, it has been
shown that even the modes of sensation – rooted as they are in the corporeality of man and
woman – are not immune to the distinction of sex. A great deal of evidence has been
accumulated by the advances made in the field of neurological science in just the past fifty
years. In his book, family therapist Dr. Leonard Saxprovides a great number of fascinating
case studies in which he details the innate biological differences between the sexes. These
include, but are not limited to, differences in the way men and women see, hear, experience
pain, and respond to various neurological stimuli like anxiety or fear. In the chapter titled
“Female Brains, Male Brains,” he says that “Scientists… have concluded that female brain
tissue and male brain tissue are ‘intrinsically different,’” as a result of “dramatically
different expression[s] of proteins derived from the X chromosome and the Y chromosome
in human female and male brains… Sex differences, then, are genetically programmed...22
These differences are extensive and have been shown to be present from birth and to
continue on through adolescence and adulthood. They affect hearing: “There’s good
evidence now, from several different sources, that newborn baby girls really do hear better
than newborn baby boys… Other studies have demonstrated that teenage girls (for
example) do in fact hear better than boys do. The female-male difference in hearing only
gets bigger as kids get older.”23 These chromosomal differences also affect sight. In the
human eye, there are two different kinds of photoreceptors, rods and cones. Rods are
motion-sensors and cannot detect color. Cones sense color, texture, and the like. The male
22 Dr. Leonard Sax, Why Gender Matters, ch.2, pp. 14-15
23 Sax, Why Gender Matters, ch.2, pg. 17
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eye possesses a greater number of rods than cones, and as such it is more disposed to track
moving objects than to study stationary ones. The opposite holds true with girls. The
female eye has a predominance of cones and thus is predisposed to pick up the finer details
of what it sees – a human face, for instance. Hence, “most girls and women interpret facial
expressions better than most boys and men can.” These facts led researchers to the
conclusion that “sex differences in social interest ‘are, in part, biological in origin.’” Why
are girls social butterflies and boys speed demons? “The results of this experiment suggest
that girls are born prewired to be interested in faces while boys are prewired to be more
interested in moving objects. The reason for that difference has to do with sex differences
in the anatomy of the eye.”24
Aristotle’s claim regarding matter’s predisposition to certain forms is explicitly
upheld by these studies – a remarkable witness to the lucidity of the claim. Put in
philosophical terms, the difference might be expressed thus: Men and women share the
essential components of the rational soul; however, the use of the various powers or
functions of that soul varywidely between the genders and even between the individuals of
each sex, on account of the particularity of the matter and according to certain specific
powers possessed by one sexor the other. Beyond the power to reproduce, it seems that the
powers to see, hear, learn, process emotion, etc., are all mediated by innate biological
differences between the sexes, differences that may be attributed initially to the material
principles of men and women, and consequently to their formal principles as well.
What effect, exactly, does the distinction of gender have upon the immaterial
workings of the human soul? In other words, how or why does the law governing gender
also seem to affect the habitual operation of human thought? Men and women clearly
24 Ibid., ch.2, pp. 18-19
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possess the same rational aspect in virtue of their shared human nature; however, they
differ radically in both the mode in which they channel sensory information and the order
and rate at which they develop cognitively. How is it that they can possess the same
immaterial powers, but that their use of these can be so different? The answer, once again,
depends upon an understanding of the influence matter has upon the form inhabiting it.
According to Aristotle, the intellect has no bodily organ as its special instrument, as the
power of sight has the eyes or hearing the ears; however, it still depends upon the senses
insofar as these provide the phantasms by which the intellect is able to formulate its
concepts. In this way, the intellectual operations of the soul, though higher and more
liberated than the other powers, are tied to the workings of the soul’s vegetative and
animate faculties, which include moving, sensing, eating and reproducing. This is entirely
fitting, given that these “lower” functions of the soul may be said to take on a higher
significance in human beings, where they are subsumed among the powers of the rational
soul and thus endowed with a greater spiritual role than are the vegetative and animative
principles belonging to a plant or animal. This point corresponds to a response given by St.
Thomas his Disputed Questions on the Soul, namely, that “The sensitive soul is nobler in a
human being than in other animals because in a human being it is not merely sensitive but
also rational.” Thus “it is true that some at least of the powers of the sensitive soul, which
are irrational in themselves, nevertheless share in reason to the extent that they are
subservient to reason.25 It makes sense then, that a distinction arising from an irrational
aspect of the soul can nonetheless have an effect on the higher, rational functions, on
account of its participation and thus “spiritualization” within the human soul.
Given the views put forth by Dr. Sax above (and many others that were not
25 St. Thomas Aquinas, Disputed Questions on the Soul,Article 11, Ad. 12 and 15
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mentioned), it isn’t surprising that men and women sense the world around them
differently. The unavoidable result of their distinct physicality is that the phantasms
provided by their varying modes of sensation will differently inform their souls’ rational
aspect. Thus in common experience, when a man and a woman are put into the same
situation, they often notice different things, respond differently, and come away with
completely different viewpoints and memories of the event. Experience also demonstrates
that there exist certain congenital strengths in women which do not appear as prominently
in men, and vice versa, all in correspondence to their gender. Thus, from the same rational
form, in accordance with the peculiar potency of the matter receiving it, a diversity of
strengths or weaknesses appears, all of whichare manifested through the distinct being and
operation of the sexes.
In every respect, then, from the viewpoints of philosophy, theology and biology26,
the innate complementarity of the sexes is shown to be a necessary component of human
existence. Further, therefore, since men and women are so different, one is led to question
the resulting dissimilarities in both operation and being that further distinguish the
feminine modality from the masculine. Given their different principles, they could not but
have distinct purposes, designated and implanted in themby God. A treatment of the nature
of woman’s vocation, therefore, has become necessary and will follow in the next section.
26 The notion of complementarity also persists within psychology,a science which lends it greater depth by
asserting that there is an intrinsic interplay of femininity and masculinity within the psyche of every person.
Carl Jung’s theories regarding the interaction between a man’s ego and his “feminine unconscious” (his
anima) and between a woman’s ego and her “masculine unconscious” (her animus) are an excellent
illustration of the complementary, and necessary,differences that exist between the sexes and, furthermore,
within every individual man and woman. The psyche ofevery individualperson functions like a microcosmic
version of the community of persons John Paul II spoke of: Just as society could never function properly if
men and women stood alone and apart from one another, so in the mind, the separation or disjunction of the
masculine and feminine elements of being results in a fractured personality. This parallel between the sexes
and the sexual division of psychological functions serves to reinforce all the ideas expounded above in
philosophy and theology.An exploration of Jung’s theories would certainly be pursued if they did not require
the inclusion of so many other concepts which, in this case,would prove to be tangential.
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IV. The Feminine Vocation
The essence ofa thing gives rise to its operation27, though in the order ofknowing the latter
precedes the former; that is, we first observe how a thing acts and what its particular
function is, and from this we are able to extrapolate the nature of its inner being. Since,
therefore, the source and quality of feminine excellence are sought, it makes sense to first
define woman’s fundamental vocation as woman and then to draw from this a picture of
her feminine essence. Such a depiction will make clear the virtues in which her excellence
lies and the vices that undermine her development into a mature womanhood.
A woman is called as a human being to love, and woman as woman finds the
objects of her love and devotion through her intrinsic vocation to married or consecrated
life. Taking the first Woman, Eve, and the Mother of God as universal types or models of
the feminine vocation, it becomes perfectly clear that woman’s role is essentially that of
spouse and mother. A woman who embraces her innate vocation will assume these roles
whether or not she actually marries: For the single or celibate woman, her Spouse is Christ
and her children all those to whom she ministers throughout her life.
Considering an individual as a man or woman per se, we see that there exist
gender-based vocations that are universally implanted into the distinct sexual natures of
men and women, and that these involve the inborn capacity and natural desire for
parenthood, whether spiritual or physical. In a series of essays discussing the separate
vocations of men and women and of the means of educating women, Edith Stein proposes
the question, “Is there a natural feminine vocation of woman?” She categorically responds
in the positive, saying that,
…woman in souland body is formed for a particular purpose.The clear and irrevocable
27 Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics,Bk. I, Ch. 7
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word of Scripture declares what daily experience teaches from the beginning of the world:
woman is destined to be wife and mother. 28
Every natural expression of the feminine echoes this maternal predisposition. “Woman
naturally seeks to embrace that which is living, personal, and whole. To cherish, guard,
protect, nourish and advance growth is her natural, maternal yearning… This natural
endowment enables woman to guard and teach her own children.”29 Experience has long
established the fact that a woman is the primary educator of her children, and in any stable
family unit she provides the firmest support and truest counsel for her husband. Woman is
the very root of the family and thus the mainstay of society as a whole. Stein reiterates,
The primary calling of woman is the procreation and raising of children; for this, the man is
given to heras protector.Thus it is suitable that the same gifts occurin both,but in different
proportions and relation…With the woman there are capabilities of caring, protecting, and
promoting that which is becoming and growing. She has the gift thereby to live in an
intimately bound physical compass and to collect her forces in silence; on the otherhand,
she is created to endure pain, to adapt and abnegate herself. She is psychically directed to
the concrete,the individual, and the personal…30
Wherever, then, a woman employs her particular gifts and talents, she will best put these to
use in an environment that encourages her maternal nature and her orientation to the
concrete, personal aspects of things. Thus in typically “masculine” professions, a woman is
capable of humanizing the most mechanized of tasks, of reintroducing those necessary
elements of warmth, intuition, and human regard. Her presence can better prompt the
growth and development of science, technology, or any other profession, insofar as she is
able to employ the duality of strengths and abilities within her – she brings to the table a
universal feminine strength in the form of a concrete, personal approach to things, as well
as her own specific talents in the field, be they more characteristically masculine (and
hence oriented to the abstract) or feminine (oriented to the concrete). Accordingly, Stein
28 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 45
29 Ibid.
30 Ibid., pg. 100
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concludes that,
In using the term, ‘feminine profession’significantly, it can only denote those objective
tasks assigned by the feminine nature. This would mean all vocations depending on
sympathetic rapport such as nursing, education, and social work… In scholarship, it would
be those branches dealing with the concrete, living personalelement, i.e., the arts and
positions wherein one may help and serve,such as translating, editing, and, possibly,
guiding a stranger’s work appreciatively. Basically the same spiritual attitude which the
wife and mother need is needed here too, except that it is extended to a wider working
circle and mostly to a changing area of people; for that reason, the perspective is detached
fromthe vital bond of blood relationship and more highly elevated on the spiritual level.31
Therefore, the responsibilities of wife and mother are the most primary components of the
fundamental feminine vocation. A deeper understanding of this vocation, however,
requires an analysis of these components, three of which are the most essential to woman’s
proper operation. Specifically, women are called to an active maternal and spousal
vocation that involves receiving, mediating, and reciprocating the “advances” of the world
around her. These three aspects enable a woman to function as a physical and spiritual
receptacle whose fecundity of being and strength is the source of the perpetuation of life
and the deepening of man’s grasp of reality. Man strives – reaches outward – to attain;
woman takes all, receives all into herself and ties it all together to form a more perfect,
relatable whole. Through her ability to bring forth and nourish, woman both enlivens and
deepens the growth and development of mankind.
A wife’s receptivity to her husband absorbs his particular strengths, uniting them to
her own, while her specific strengths supply his weakness; her return of these gifts affirms
man in purpose and being. Woman roots man, centers him, interiorly guides him, receives
him, returns his love, and ultimately draws him into a life of greater moral, intellectual, and
spiritual fecundity and strength. In the course of their interactions, man’s initial purpose is
to bestow, woman’s to receive, after whicha woman must reciprocate the gift of man’s self
31 Ibid., pg. 49
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with the offering of her own, in order that the man may then accept it. The acts of giving
and receiving are proper to both man and woman, though the process is symmetrically
reversed between the two. Indeed, the mutual receptivity between man and woman reflects
the fundamental human vocation to love and be loved: “In receiving her, [the man] may
discover how she receives him, which may in turn enlarge his view of himself.”32 This
process is the basis of a continual renewal of marital love and fidelity and is ultimately
concretized through their children. John Donne illustrates the importance of a woman’s
centering and stabilizing influence on her husband in his sonnet, A Valediction: Forbidden
Mourning. The husband who grieves to part from his wife for a time comforts her, saying,
Our two souls therefore, which are one,
Though I must go, endure not yet
A breach, but an expansion,
Like gold to airy thinness beat.
If they be two, they are two so
As stiff twin compasses are two;
Thy soul, the fixed foot, makes no show
To move, but doth,if th’ other do.
And though it in the center sit,
Yet when the other far doth roam,
It leans and hearkens after it,
And grows erect, as that comes home.
Such wilt thou be to me, who must,
Like th’ other foot, obliquely run;
Thy firmness makes my circle just,
And makes me end where I begun.
Woman remains fixed, a paragon of stability and strength, the very source and center of
spousal and familial love. Her strengths are always oriented toward the concrete, her focus
remaining ever on those under her care. Woman is man’s help-mate, whose
self-abnegating love “hearkens” after her husband and children, keeping them rooted to
their task, reminding them of their purpose, rectifying or “making just” the wayward paths
32 Ann Belford Ulanov, Receiving Woman, pg. 82
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upon which they stray. The circle thus described by the woman’s centering presence is a
supremely fitting symbol of the feminine, which encloses and shelters all life within itself
and is present at both its inception and its conclusion.
Woman is both physically and psychologically “built” to receive, but in order to
complete her “feminine function” she must bring to fruition what she has taken into herself,
be it an actual child or some kind of spiritual or intellectual seed that must grow and be
delivered. Only with her bringing forth, her outpouring of what she has allowed to grow
and develop within her, is her task to love and be loved fulfilled. A woman who is actively
receptive of the persons and ideas around her allows herself to be loved; in responding to
these, she actively loves them. Through her spiritual and intellectual mediation, woman
acts upon what she receives, forming it and “bringing it forth” in a process analogous to
physical maternity. On the contrary, a woman who either does not receive, or receives and
does not bring forth is fallow, unfertile. Following the Virgin’s example, each woman’s
fiat allows God to work within and through her in order to bring those around her to greater
awareness of themselves and of their own spiritual callings. “Like Eve initiating
knowledge of good and evil, and like Mary initiating a reconciliation of the human and the
Divine, she shows special insight into the hiddenness of God’s revelation.”33 As such,
woman is uniquely suited to bring about the development of mankind. In the course of
human activity, the feminine constitutes a veritable touchstone of spiritual and
psychological awareness, and accordingly as she acts for the benefit of others or for her
own, woman has the ability to channel great grace or great wickedness into the world.
The feminine vocation and the nature from which it arises may also be understood
by means of an analogy between the progression of woman from man in Creation and the
33 Ibid., pg. 30
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progression of the Holy Spirit from the Son in the Trinity. Edith Stein relates,
Augustine and Thomas and those following in their tradition find a likeness of the Trinity
in the human spirit. Although perceived in many ways, it is accepted by most that the
Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are rendered back in being, knowledge, and love…
The intellect is predominant in masculine nature; on the other hand in woman’s nature, it is
the emotions. We can thus understand why a particular association is being made between
woman’s nature and the Holy Spirit.34
If man is modeled after Christ, after the Son and thus the Procession of the Word35, and if
on the other hand woman is modeled after the Holy Spirit, Who proceeds from the Father
and the Son and is known as the Procession of Love36, then the nature and vocation of both
sexes become exquisitely clear. Christ the Son, as the Verbum Dei, is employed in the
creation of the world and further takes on the role as Savior of mankind: Man, then, who is
patterned after Christ, is naturally disposed through God’s design to create, to establish, to
fight and protect. All he does is ordered toward the fulfillment of God’s commandment to
Adam to subjugate the earth and become its master and caretaker.
The Holy Spirit, on the other hand, personifies and encapsulates the love that exists
between the Father and the Son and extends forth to encompass all of creation. It was He
who moved over the surface of the unformed world before Creation, He who swept over
the deep prior to the utterance of the Word on the first day; He it was who spoke to the
prophets, He who descended upon the Apostles at Pentecost, appearing as tongues of flame
before them. It is His divine might and wisdom that helped to form the world and convey
the love of the Father to His creatures. As such, therefore, the Spirit serves as a figure of the
feminine, a paradigm of the impassioned force of a woman’s will and the unquenchable
love she bears for those placed in her care. This may be further understood through the
Marian doctrine of St. Maximilian Kolbe, who in his writings draws a direct parallel
34 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 118
35 Summa Theologiae,fp, q. 27, a. 2
36 Ibid., a. 3
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between the Mother of God and the Holy Spirit. He in fact asserts that the Holy Spirit is the
divine analogof the Immaculata and that the unionbetween the Virgin and her Spouse is so
deep that every act of intercession performed by the Queen of Heaven on behalf of
mankind may be considered as the direct action of the Holy Spirit, of God Himself. He
asks, “Who then are you, O Immaculate Conception?”
Not God of course, because He has no beginning. Not an angel, created directly out of
nothing. Not Adam, formed out of the dust of the earth. Not Eve, molded fromAdam’s rib.
Not the Incarnate Word, Who exists before all ages, and of Whom we should use the word
“conceived” rather than “conception.” Humans do not exist before their conception, so we
might call them “created conceptions.” But you,O Mary, are different from all other
children of Eve. They are conceptions stained by Original Sin, whereas you are the unique
Immaculate Conception.
He then proceeds to ask, “And Who is the Holy Spirit?”
[He is] the flowering of the love of the Father and the Son. If the fruit of created love is a
created conception,then the fruit of Divine love, that prototype of all created love, is
necessarily a Divine “conception.” The Holy Spirit is, therefore, the “uncreated,eternal
conception,” the prototype of all the conceptions that multiply life throughout the whole
universe.37
The Spirit of God Himself bears the same title as the young woman who was sanctified
from birth in preparation for the role she would play in the Incarnation. It’s an incredible
parallel that illustrates the supreme fittingness of the manner in which the Incarnation came
about. The union between Mary and the Holy Spirit is an exemplar of all marital love and
fidelity, thus illuminating woman’s purpose in this life: Because of the sanctifying
presence of God in her, every aspect of a woman’s proper function is exalted and in
extraordinary cases may be put to divine as well as to human use. Her love bridges the
seemingly insurmountable breach between God and man. For the Spirit “…is uncreated
Love in [Mary]; the Love of the Father and of the Son, the Love by which God loves
37 Fr. H.M. Manteau-Bonamy, O.P., IMMACULATE CONCEPTION AND THE HOLY SPIRIT: The Marian
Teachingsof Fr. Maximilian Kolbe,excerpts from catholictradition.org
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Himself, the very Love of the Most Holy Trinity.”38
The Spirit, therefore, receives the love of the Father and of the Son, He mediates
that love to mankind, and He brings forth every kind of spiritual fruit among those who
likewise receive the outpourings of His grace. Just as the Holy Spirit acts as an emissary of
the Father and the Son, transmitting their love and grace to mankind, so woman acts in the
service of God, of her chosen companion, and of her children insofar as she functions as
receptor, mediator, and co-creator of the love and graces poured out by the Father and
intended for those to whom she ministers throughout her life. At last, in whatever way a
woman pursues her most basic calling, it will be seen that the virtues aligning her with her
purpose and serving to reveal her identity and mission as woman are fidelity and humility,
both of which rest upon a foundation of personal chastity. These virtues are absolutely
necessary to woman’s moraland spiritual development and are intrinsic components of her
maternal and spousal roles.
Ultimately these operations reveal that “the deepest longing of woman’s heart is to
give herself lovingly, to belong to another, and to possess this other being completely.”39
Woman attains what she desires – the fruits of her feminine vocation – through this
three-fold manifestation in her nature, which itself consists of a chaste receptivity to others,
a humble mediation of that which she receives, and finally, a complete fidelity toward that
which she brings forth. All these enable her to grow in her role as wife and mother and to
sponsor the development of those under her tutelage or care.
V. The Feminine Nature and Its Excellence
“Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she smiles at the future. She opens her mouth in
38 Ibid.
39 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 53
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wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”40
A corresponding division of the feminine character is manifested through this three-fold
division of woman’s vocation. The feminine modality of being is rooted in these same
three components, and thus the discussion turns to the nature of woman and to her native
excellence, that is, to the virtues requisite for the full development of her natural strengths.
A. Receptivity
“Behold the Handmaid of the Lord. Be it done unto me according to Thy word.”41
The essence of woman, in one respect, is intrinsically receptive, and though receptivity is a
necessary component of both a masculine and a feminine persona, the trait may be
considered as primarily feminine. This quality enables a woman to open herself to
otherness in all its forms – she receives other persons, other ideas, and the otherness of the
Divine – and in doing so she is able to mirror it in her own being. Edith Stein notes that in
the Biblical account of the creation of woman, “the Hebrew expression [for “woman”]… –
Eser kenegdo – …literally means ‘a helper as if vis-à-vis to him.’ One can think here of a
mirror in which man is able to look upon his own nature.”42 The creation of woman as
helpmate explains why she is able to behave so responsively and intuitively to those in her
care – woman is a “mirror” of humanity. Her esse reminds man of his own and the likeness
it bears to the Creator: Man and woman mutually reveal to one another their divine origin
and purpose. This womanly act of reception and the subsequent reflection of being back
upon her companion and those she cares for results in an affirmation of their being, which
is necessary for any healthy relationship, any fruitful contemplation, or any true
development of spirituality: “Mirrored back in the face of the lover, we discover our true
40 Proverbs 31:25-26
41 Luke 1:38
42 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 61
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image.”43
Woman, however, does not merely reflect; she acts. She is called to a life of
sacrifice insofar as she submits her will to God, her autonomy to the marital or celibate
bond, her needs to the needs of those around her. Her nature might well be likened to the
sacrificial offering made by Christ in his Passion; like Him, her dynamism is rooted in
receptivity, in a willing and active acceptance that overcomes all forms of selfishness and
sin. As Christ took on the sufferings of the world in order to purge mankind of the inborn
taint of sin, so a wife cures the sufferings of her husband as he endures the trials of
supporting and protecting his family; so a mother endures every kind of physical and
spiritual affliction in bringing forth and rearing her children. As Christ opened His arms
upon the Cross, so woman opens herself, body and soul, to others in order to reconcile that
otherness and close the divide between the human and the Divine. She thus accepts all
burdens onto herself in what might be considered a specifically feminine form of
atonement. A woman’s fiat becomes her passion, a willingness to undergo the greatest of
miseries in order to insure the salvationof the beloved. St. Paul highlights the critical role a
spouse may play in the salvation of an unsaved husband or wife.
And if any woman hath a husband that believeth not, and he consent to dwell with her, let
her not put away her husband.For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the believing
wife; and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the believing husband:otherwise your
children should be unclean; but now they are holy.44
Thus, in fact, the feminine must be seen as both acting and accepting in its process of
receiving. This feminine acceptance is never totally passive. Rather, the act of accepting
has connotations of voluntary allowance, of selective consent. A woman may just as well
reject as accept the physical and psychological imposition of a man who pursues her, and
43 Ulanov, Receiving Woman, pg. 79
44 1 Corinthians 7:13-14
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just so with the feminine element of being: There is a latent activity present within this
intrinsic component of the feminine principle: “The quality of feminine activity is to accept
a conception, to carryknowledge, to assimilate it, and to allow it to ripen… [it] is a mixture
of attentiveness and contemplation.”45
The analogy to the Holy Spirit referred to above may be employed to illustrate this
component of the feminine being, and later on to affirm the other two as well. It was said
before that the Spirit personifies the love emanating from the Father and the Son and
encompassing the whole world. This occurs through the procession of the Holy Spirit,
which is the Procession of Love46 and which in this context may be understood to mirror
the loving receptivity present in the woman God created for man. The Spirit, and by
analogythe woman as well, acts as emissaryof God’s grace through His perfect expression
of God’s love and, concurrently with that love, His will. Woman’s reception of the world
likewise facilitates the diffusion of grace to God’s people, and it is by means of this
receptivity that others may approach into closer communion with the Divine.
This particular aspect of feminine being is rooted in the virtue of chastity, and it is
specifically undermined by impurity. From experience it appears that promiscuity affects
men and woman differently, seemingly in accordance with their respective physical and
psychological differences; but why does it affect women so much more than it does men? A
woman’s reputation and her psychological equilibrium are adversely affected by her illicit
sexual behavior. This does not seem to be the case – not to the same degree – with men.
The double-standard appears to exist within the verybiological and psychological make-up
of the sexes.
45 Ulanov, The Feminine, pp. 172-173
46 Summa Theologiae,fp, q. 27, a.3
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Stein proposes a response. “Woman’s soul is present and lives more intensely in all
parts of the body, and it is inwardly affected by that which happens to the body; whereas,
with men, the body has more pronouncedly the character of an instrument which serves
them in their work and which is accompanied by a certain detachment.”47 Man by nature
operates in a more objectively external manner than does woman, whose more subjective
interiority serves to deeply embed all the consequences of her actions within her own body
and psyche.
A woman who is unchaste severs herself from the normal functioning of her
feminine nature, literally receiving into herself all the consequences of illicit action. A
woman who is “promiscuously receptive” gives a small part of herself to many, instead of
all of herself to one: This kind of sexual mendacity results in psychological fragmentation
as woman, who is built to receive, makes a mockery out of one of the most fundamental
aspects of her being. John Paul II firmly states:
…Sexuality… is by no means something purely biological, but concerns the innermost
being of the human person as such. It is realized in a truly human way only if it is an
integral part of the love by which a man and woman commit themselves totally to one
another until death… if the person were to withhold something or reserve the possibility of
deciding otherwise in the future, by this very fact he or she would not be giving totally.48
On the other hand, a woman who is “exclusively” or “chastely” receptive is able to give
totally and honestly to her partner in the way that God and nature intended. As Fr. Ronald
Rolheiser explains, “Chastity is respect, reverence, and patience. Its fruits are integration,
gratitude, and joy. Lack of chastity is impatience, irreverence, and violation. Its fruits are
disintegration of soul, bitterness, and cynicism.”49
Sexuality for a woman produces an internal fructification, while for men both the
47 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 95
48 John Paul II, Familiaris Consortio,¶11
49 Fr. Ronald Rolheiser, The Holy Longing,pg. 202
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act and the outcome have a much more extrinsic character, both physically and, thus to a
great extent, psychologically. Women cannot help but be deeply altered by sexual activity,
licit or not, while for men, little alteration occurs unless they are interested in developing
the relationship, in which case they can form the strongest of emotional attachments; many
times, however, this attachment, if but weakly formed, can be broken at will. Since the
advent of the feminist movement, women have gone to every extreme in an attempt to
reinvent their sexuality. They treat it casually, coldly, even frivolously, but the results have
been the opposite of what was intended. Instead of the liberation they sought, they have
engendered acute physical and mental suffering, and further, they have absolutely
transformed the way men approach and treat them.
A man rises or falls to the level of the object of his desire. A man seeking a deeper
spirituality and a greater knowledge of God desires, in a certain sense, to be apotheosized
in order to draw closer to the Divine. His moral state will improve as a result. Conversely,
a man who gives way to base or lewd passions will be degraded both by the pursuit and
especially by the attainment of his desire. When a woman stoops to gratify such a man, she
opens the way for the fulfillment of a morally corruptive act – were she to refuse, the man
would be forced to seek elsewhere or, ideally, to reform. Woman sets the standard. Man
pursues, but woman has the choice to accept or reject, and thus there are many instances
where a man who loves and desires a certain woman will be elevated or brought low,
depending on the moral rectitude or dissolution of that woman. This observation is in no
way intended to lay all the blame at woman’s door; however, in the relations of men and
women there is a clear correspondence between the height at which woman “sets the bar”
and the level to which man must raise himself in order to be worthy of her. Hence, a
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disregard for chastity on the part of woman carries a kind of gravity that isn’t as
immediately obvious in a man’s actions.
Thus a woman’s role as a companion is compromised by her acts of impurity; and
her role as a mother also suffers from this misuse or misunderstanding of her innate desire
to receive another’s love. Insofar as she is responsible for the bearing and is more actively
involved in the rearing of her children, she can be a dangerous and corruptive influence.
Without attempting to deemphasize the vital role the father plays in the overall formation
of a child, it remains that the mother is the first to bond with the child and is the primary
educator of her offspring – she is the first to acknowledge their presence in the world and
she sets the first example for them to follow. Her neglect or negative influence can distort
their understanding of the nature of virtue and vice and thus corrupt the formation of their
value-systems – for life if the example is serious or long-lasting enough. There is a reason
that the religious imagery of the tabernacle and the holy things contained within it are used
to symbolize the sacred act of maternity. Woman carries life within the ark or tabernacle of
her body. That means that the way in which this life is brought about and the manner in
which that life is treated are matters of sacred importance.
The Catechism stresses the great need for every man and woman to embrace his or
her vocation to chastity. It relates a chaste sexuality with personal integration ofbeing; thus
the fundamental importance of this virtue for the spiritual maturation of man and woman
alike is obvious, but especially so for woman, whose sexuality is so deeply related to her
physical being and psychological stability.
Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person and thus the inner
unity of man in his bodily and spiritual being. Sexuality, in which man’s belonging to the
bodily and biological world is expressed, becomes personaland truly human when it is
integrated into the relationship of one person to another, in the complete and lifelong
mutual gift of a man and a woman. The virtue of chastity therefore involves the integrity of
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the person and the integrality of the gift.50
Further, the Catechism asserts that,
The chaste person maintains the integrity of the powers of life and love placed in him. This
integrity ensures the unity of the person; it is opposed to any behavior that would impair it.
It tolerates neither a double life nor duplicity in speech… ‘Indeed it is through chastity that
we are gathered togetherand led back to the unity from which we were fragmented into
multiplicity’ [Augustine,Confessions 10, 29, 40]…51
A woman who lacks this discipline will find that her personal unity – the integrality of the
various psychological, physical, and spiritual components of her being – will slip steadily
away the deeper she involves herself in a life of promiscuity. She will lose contact with her
own identity and she will find herself severed from the moral stability that a chaste
integration of being supplies. She cannot possibly give truly of herself to anyone. She
cannot love and will not be loved, and thus she will find herself utterly outside the sphere of
feminine strength and grace. Thus in Scripture, Jerusalem’s descent into paganism is
likened to the adultery of a fallen woman: “Jerusalem sinned greatly, therefore she has
become an unclean thing. All who honored her despise her because they have seen her
nakedness; even she herself groans and turns away.”52
B. Mediation
“And Mary kept in mind all these things and pondered them in her heart.”53
The second facet of feminine nature is the ability to intercede, to become the “middle term”
as it were in the natural proportions between two persons, between a person and God, or
between a person and his or her spiritual or philosophical growth. The archetypes of
feminine mediation are, of course, the first Woman and the Mother of God. Eve was the
vessel through which evil first came into the world; through her pride, she became the
50 CCC, ¶ 2337
51 CCC, ¶ 2338, 2340
52 Lamentations 1:8
53 Luke 2:19
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gateway for sin and was the catalyst of our fallen nature. “That is why,” Edith Stein
explains, “the foremost sin of pride, in which vanity and desire coincide, is a falling-off
from the spirit of love and a defection from feminine nature itself.”54 The virgin Mother of
God, however, as the “second Eve”became the Mediatrix ofall graces and thus the channel
through which salvation would flow. Stein continues,
Yet, ‘Quod Heva tristis abstulit,tu reddis almo germine.’55 The pure image of feminine
nature stands before our eyes in the Immaculata, the Virgin. She is the perfect temple in
which the Holy Spirit took up his dwelling and deposited as his gift the fullness of grace.
She wanted nothing else than to be the handmaid of the Lord, the gate through which He
could make His entry into humanity; for it was not through herself but through her
‘gracious offspring’ that she was to restore for us our lost salvation.56
The imagery here is quite specific and has application to the nature of woman generally.
Mary is depicted as a “temple”: She, who had as full an enjoyment of God’s graces as a
human being is capable of, physically housed the Son of God within her body. She who at
the Annunciation was directly addressed by the angel as “full of grace” offered up her body
as a temple of the Holy Spirit and her womb as the temple within which Christ would
dwell. She has therefore always been looked upon by those in prayer as the most perfect
intercessor of God’s love and grace. The Ark of the Covenant carried by the Jews through
their wanderings in the desert was a precursor of this image of the Virgin-Mother. The Ark
contained manna, Aaron’s rod, and the tablets upon which were inscribed the Ten
Commandments and was itself perfectly holy. Mary, through her total embodiment of
grace, was destined to carry the Bread of Life, the Divine Shepherd, the personified Word
of God. The wife of the Holy Spirit and the Mother of God is therefore the greatest example
to the female sex of its intrinsic call to take up the crosses of this life as a faithful spouse
54 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 119
55 “What sorrowful Eve took away, you restore with a lovable offspring.” – A line from “O Gloriosa
Virginum”.
56 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 119
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and devoted mother.
Mary is also depicted as the “gate” through which Christ would enter the world:
“And the glory of the Lord came into the house by way of the gate facing toward the
east.”57 The image of woman as a gateway is an old one and not difficult to understand.
With her body, mind, and heart woman fosters the development of humanity at every stage
from birth to death. She acts as the gateway of life, giving birth to children, and for those
entrusted to her care, she is the channel through which graces flow. As Eve was the
gateway to sin, so the Virgin was the gateway to salvation, the gate as it were, to heaven.
Pius XII in his 1943 encyclical Mystici Corporis illustrates the mediating power of
the Virgin Mary, who may be held as every woman’s spiritual exemplar:
…She whose sinless soul was filled with the divine Spirit of Jesus Christ above all other
created souls,and who ‘in the name of the whole human race’ gave her consent ‘for a
spiritual marriage between the Son of God and human nature.’ … It was she,the second
Eve, who, free from all sin, original or personal,and always most intimately united with
her Son, offered Him on Golgotha to the Eternal Father for all the children of Adam,
sin-stained by his unhappy fall, and her mother’s rights and her mother’s love were
included in the holocaust…Thus she who, according to the flesh, was the mother of our
Head, through the added title of pain and glory became, according to the Spirit, the mother
of all His members.58
Most appropriately then is woman held up as an envoy of spiritual and physical blessings.
What woman receives she “ponders in her heart,” turning the accepted content over and
over, meditating upon it and perfecting it, readying it to be returned to the giver enriched
with every grace she has to give.
A final point of interest might be “…the duality of the etymological root of that
traditional symbol of the feminine, the ‘moon.’ The Sanskrit root mas yields ma, meaning
to measure, which leads to metis, cleverness and wisdom, metiesthai, to mediate or to
57 Ezekiel 43:4
58 Pius XII, Mystici Corporis, ¶ 110
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dream or have in mind, and mati-h, knowing…”59 Through her mediation a woman comes
to know intimately that which she has received and subsequently reflected upon, and
because her method of relating to a thing is personal and concrete, dealing primarily with
its subjective value in the realm of human experience, a woman’s mediation is a kind of
“measurement,” anevaluationof a person, thing, or idea. Her contribution, therefore, to the
world ofbeing moves beyond merely reflecting that which she receives; she actively works
upon it as well, molding and developing it, bringing it into the fullness of its purpose and
meaning. Stein says,
According to everything which we learn from personalexperience and the history of
salvation, the Lord’s method is to form persons through otherpersons.Just as the child is
assigned to the care and upbringing of an adult for its natural development, so also is the
life of grace propagated through human mediation. Persons are used as instruments to
awaken and nurture the divine spark. Thus, natural and supernatural factors reveal that
even in the life of grace, ‘it is not good that the man should be alone.’60
The Holy Spirit is another exemplar of the feminine act of mediation. In
conjunction with the intercession of the Virgin, The Holy Spirit transmits God’s graces to
mankind, such that, “through Mary, the Holy Spirit begins to bring men, the objects of
God’s merciful love, into communion with Christ.”61 He makes known the existence and
will of the Divine, and by His movement in men instills in them all the “fruits” of faith
spoken of in Scripture: “Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, self-control.”62 Similarly, woman proceeds through her incomparable love to
nourish and cultivate the spiritual and intellectual growth of her husband, children, and
anyone else who comes within her sphere of activity.
“When pride comes, then comes dishonor, but with the humble is wisdom.”63
59 Ulanov, The Feminine, pg. 178
60 Stein, Essays on Woman, pp. 126-7
61 CCC, ¶ 725
62 CCC, ¶ 736
63 Proverbs 11:2
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This aspect of the feminine nature is rooted in the virtue of humility or selflessness. As the
Catechism says of Mary with regard to her Immaculate Conception,
The Holy Spirit prepared Mary by his grace. It was fitting that the mother of Him in whom
‘the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily’ should herself be ‘full of grace’. She was, by
sheergrace, conceived without sin as the most humble of creatures, the most capable of
welcoming the inexpressible gift of the Almighty.64
It is humility that enables any human being to accept the gifts bestowed upon him or her by
God. An awareness of one’s proper place in the order of things lends perspective and due
modesty concerning both one’s talents and one’s weaknesses; as such it empowers a person
firm in the knowledge of her purpose and place to reach out to others and selflessly guide
them along their path. Pride desires to stand alone, without the beneficence or aid of
anyone – man or God.
A woman who distorts this aspect of her character has a tendency to manipulate
what she receives in order to benefit herself instead of others; she “mistranslates” what she
has received and returns it in a lowered or unfitting state, thereby becoming an impure
channel of the grace that ought to flow from her acts of mediation., if she retains the ability
to properly mediate at all. Proper intercession requires a sort of transparency of self; the
mediator is interested only in closing the divide between two persons or ideas, with no
thought of her own immediate profit or loss. When Eve offered Adam the forbidden fruit,
that is, when she mediated between man and sin, she did so in the interest of elevating
herself to the level of divinity, forgetting that it is through humility and patience that one
attains the transcendence of being that mirrors the Divine. Her mediation thus polluted
the world instead of perfecting it. The purity or “transparency” of humility, therefore, is
fundamental to this particular operation of the feminine.
Vanity, which is often considered a peculiarly feminine flaw, is opposed in every
64 CCC, ¶ 722
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sense to this aspect of woman’s being. Her forgetfulness of the needs of others, her
preoccupation with personal appearance or gain – in short, the willfulness and
self-absorption that eclipse all her other concerns – are a great detriment to the
development of true feminine virtue. These seriously inhibit, or even entirely preclude, the
proper functioning of feminine mediation, and as such restrict the maturation of such a
person into true womanhood. Thus in Scripture it is said that, “…the tongue of the wise
brings healing. Truthful lips will be established forever, but a lying tongue is only for a
moment.” And, “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before stumbling.”65
C. Bringing Forth, or the Feminine Act of Creation
“Now as soon as Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the child leaped in her womb and
Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. She gave a loud cry and said, ‘Of all women you
are the most blessed, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.’”66
The third and final aspect of feminine being is a bringing forth, a yielding, of the fruit that
has been carried, molded, and perfected within the woman. This relates to the physical,
spiritual, and psychological operations of the woman insofar as she literally brings a fortha
child, “gives birth” to greater understanding of a spiritual truth, or through her accepting
and mediating presence – through her counsel and gentle guidance – brings another person
into the fullness of humanity. Ulanov expounds upon this idea, saying,
The personal interiority of a woman is the vesselin which she touches the spirit and is
touched by it, just as her body is the vesselof her physical transformation and all its
openings places of exchange between inner and outer experience. The body symbolism
associated with the female represents her spiritual capacity as well as her material; the
vessel,which contains something for herselfand for the male, ‘is the ‘life-vesselas such’in
which life forms, and which bears all living things and discharges themout of itself and
into the world.’67
The “personal interiority” referred to by Ulanov, along with Stein’s explanation of the
65 Proverbs 12:18-19, 16:18
66 Luke 1:41-42
67 Ulanov, The Feminine, pg. 184
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“more intense” connection of the feminine spirit to the body, both ultimately point to this
fundamental aspect of the feminine nature. A woman’s connection and response to that
which she brings forth may be likened to the exclamation of joy made by Adam at the
creation of woman: “This at last is flesh of my flesh and bone of my bones!” Birth is the
feminine act of creation.
More so than with the processes of receiving and mediating, this final act of
bringing forth is the most obvious indication of woman’s spiritual and physical fertility. In
no other way is woman’s nature most completely fulfilled than through this process of
bringing forth new life, through this ability to bless the world with the riches she carries
within her.
This component of the feminine being may be viewed in two lights: A woman may
be the direct source from which new life, new ideas, or a richer concept of humanity is
brought forth, or she may be an indirect, though necessary, means of bringing these forth
from another person. Women function as both the mothers and the midwives of historical
and spiritual events, and in this way are their acts of mediation and creation intrinsically
linked – the latter is a natural outpouring of the former. Women are the chosen witnesses
and messengers of God’s divine will; their participation is essential in His overall plan for
humanity as well as in the individual plans He has for each person. There are many
examples of this in Scripture: Women are very often the first to witness and the first to
spread the “good news” of some divine episode or miraculous occurrence; many times they
are essential in bringing that very episode about. The Mother of Jesus, in a certain sense,
inaugurates His first miracle at the Wedding at Cana. In her quiet and humble observation
of all that goes on around her, she is the first to notice and to bring to Her Son’s attention
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the shortage of wine at the wedding feast, and, interestingly enough, in addressing her He
appears to speak to women universally. "Woman, how does your concern affect me? My
hour has not yet come." Her reply is not to Him, but rather is directed toward the servants:
“Do whatever He tells you.” So perfectly aware was Mary of the workings of the Divine
Will that she seemed to know instinctively that it was His time, and in His obedience to His
Father’s Will and his mother’s wisdom, Christ allowed the Woman to initiate this period of
preaching and proselytizing in His ministry.
In a similar occurrence, Mary Magdalene takes on a sort of priestly role by
anointing Christ before His Passion. She bathes his feet with her tears and then blesses
them with costly oil – an intimate and holy service that not even His disciples performed
for Him. Neither Peter, the future head of the Church, nor even John, the disciple Jesus
loved, was chosen for this task. A woman, rather, was chosen to prepare Christ for His
Passion: She honored and anointed the Lamb, initiating the very mystery of the Paschal
Sacrifice.
And again, the women who travel to the tomb of Jesus to anoint His Bodyprovide a
third example of the sacred duties allotted to women in Scripture.
But on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they came to the tomb bringing the spices
which they had prepared. And they found the stone rolled away from the tomb, but when
they entered, they did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. While they were perplexed about
this,behold,two men suddenly stood nearthemin dazzling clothing…the men said to them,
“Why do you seek the living One among the dead? He is not here, but He has risen.
Remember how He spoke to you while He was still in Galilee, saying that the Son of Man
must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise
again.” And they remembered His words, and returned from the tomb and reported all these
thingsto the eleven and to all the rest.68
To prepare, to initiate, to witness and to declare are all inborn components of this
component of a woman‘s being. While all the disciples were in hiding, terrified of Roman
68 Luke 24:1-9
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persecution, it was a small group of women who ventured forth to honor and properly bless
the hastily buried Body of Christ. From all these examples it is obvious that women play a
necessary and active role in the life and ministry of those to whom they are bound by flesh
or by oath. Their maternal role, their so-called “midwifery” in Christ’s ministry sets forth a
universal example for all women, whatever their circumstances or particular callings.
Woman as such was designed with these maternal operations in mind, and she was meant
from the beginning to embody them in every aspect of her being, particularly in this last.
Perhaps it is on account of the woman’s role as messenger and initiator that
Scripture attributes feminine characteristics to the Spirit of Wisdom: Sophia is the font of
knowledge and the bearer of all God‘s blessings; she knows the mind and will of God and
pours forth His grace upon those who faithfully and humbly seek His favor. “How blessed
is the man who finds wisdom and the man who gains understanding. For her profit is better
thanthe profit of silver and her gain better than fine gold. She is more precious thanjewels;
and nothing you desire compares with her.”69 Ann Ulanov continues this line of
symbolism, saying, “The flower is the supreme visible form of Sophia, the personification
of wisdom; it is the symbol of Mary...”70 She then goes on to explain,
Feminine wisdomnourishes,supports, and develops the strongest possible ties to reality. It
is the wisdom of feeling and compassion, coordinated to the qualitative moment and the
specific instance rather than to an unrelated code of law. Feminine wisdom in personal,
never impersonal… Such wisdom brings ecstasy and illumination rather than knowledge.
The heart and soulof consciousness are carried beyond themselves into intimations of the
deepest mysteries… The wisdom of the feminine sanctifies what it touches,making [it]
pure and efficient…71
The relation between the Spirit and the feminine is affirmed elsewhere. To refer
once more to the writings of Maximilian Kolbe, we can see more clearly the intimate
69 Proverbs 3:13-15
70 Ulanov, The Feminine, pp. 189-190
71 Ibid., pg. 191
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relation between the fecundity of the Holy Spirit and that of the woman, as well as the
importance of the marital union in bringing such divine and human fruitfulness into being.
With regard to the divine union of the Virgin and the Holy Spirit which brought forth the
Incarnation, he says that the Holy Spirit Himself “…is a fruitful Love, a “Conception.”
Among creatures made in God’s image, the union brought about by married love is the
most intimate of all. In a much more precise, more interior, more essentialmanner, the
Holy Spirit lives in the soulof the Immaculata, in the depths of her very being. He makes
her fruitful, from the very first instance of her existence, all during her life, and for all
eternity. This eternal “Immaculate Conception” [which is the Holy Spirit] produces in an
immaculate manner Divine life itself in the womb or depths of Mary’s soul, making her the
Immaculate Conception, the human Immaculate Conception. And the virginal womb of
Mary’s body is kept sacred for Him; there He conceives in time the human life of the
Man-God.
Universally, then, taking Mary to represent all women, we see that “the Spirit fecundates a
woman’s whole being, and she experiences herself both as subject and object in the
mysterious process.”72
One final analogy with the Holy Spirit may be used to illuminate this aspect of
woman’s being. It has been said already that woman brings forth life and subsequently
affirms those beings to whom she is closely tied through her maternal ministry. This role is
typified by the action of the Holy Spirit during the Creation, Who “by wisdom founded the
earth…”73 and Who subsequently provided an evaluative response to that which had been
created: “…and God saw that it was good.”74 This analogy operates on the supposition that
each member of the Trinity assumed a different role in the act of creation, and that that
which the Holy Spirit played may be viewed as prototypical of the function that woman
was assigned at her creation. The roles were distributed thus: In the beginning, the Father
spoke, the Word fashioned, and the Spirit affirmed. That is, before the creation of the
world, “the earth was formless and void, and darkness was over the surface of the deep,
72 Ibid., pg. 185
73 Proverbs 3:19
74 Genesis 1:10
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and the Spirit of God was moving over the surface of the waters.”75 Then God uttered the
Word, the world took shape, and at the end of every day He pronounced that it was good.
St. Thomas demonstrates in the Summa76 that God’s Will is manifested through the
Procession of Love, which is the Holy Spirit, and so God’s Goodness is personified in that
same Spirit (just as his Word is personified in the Son). The goodness of creation that was
brought forth by the Word is therefore declared and affirmed by this Spirit, and in just the
same way woman is responsible for recognizing, fostering, and reaffirming the good
wherever she encounters it in her ministry.
The Spirit Who receives the Divine Love, Who mediates all graces, Who both
creates and affirms the goodness wrought bycreation, in eachrespect provides a type of the
roles delegated to woman at the very beginning of time. The analogy, then, between
woman’s nature and the operations of the Holy Spirit is complete. These three aspects of
feminine being encapsulate every truly “womanly” action and, if properly developed,
enable a woman to simultaneouslyembrace her own being and the being of others in a total
expression of selfless love and fidelity.
The underlying virtue of this aspect of woman’s nature is, quite naturally, fidelity.
Woman, who becomes so intimately connected to that which she receives, carries, and
produces, cannot but be bound by faith and loyalty to that which she has brought to life. As
God is eternally faithful to His “children,” the works of His creation, so woman, who is a
reflection of these maternal, nurturing aspects of God, adheres faithfully to that which she
has co-created with God and man. For “we have received not the spirit of this world, but
75 Genesis 1:2
76 Summa Theologiae,fp, q. 27, a. 2
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the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things freely given to us from God.”77
Mary, of course, perfectly embodies this virtue. She faithfully followed her Son and
supported Him from the moment of His birth, throughout the course of His ministry, until
and even after His death on the cross: “Near the cross of Jesus stood His mother, and the
disciple He loved.”78 She was told when Jesus was still an infant that “A sword will pierce
your own soul too…”79, but this never weakened her devotion or caused her heart to stray
from her Son; rather, she accepted every trial and bitter sorrow with total confidence in her
Son’s promises, with boundless hope that He would rise again, and with an
all-encompassing love that gave her the strength to witness His crucifixion and still bear
the separation from Him during the three days He lay in the tomb. Taking the Old
Testament figure of Judithas a herald of Mary, the same words said of her may also be said
of the Virgin: “May you be blessed, my daughter, by God Most High, beyond all women
on earth… The trust you have shown shall not pass from the memories of men, but shall
ever remind them of the power of God.”80 A woman’s enduring fidelity, then, is the final
constituent of her feminine strength, without which she could not fully embody true
womanhood.
VI. Conclusion
It cannot be denied, then, that the three virtues of chastity, humility and fidelity are
indispensible qualities of the feminine persona and that the strength they provide
underscores the very integrity of a woman’s being. The moral and psychological decline
women suffer by neglecting to cultivate these qualities is evident from common
77 1 Cor. 2:12
78 John 19:25-26
79 Luke 2:35
80 Judith 13:23,25
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experience; it is also a recurring theme in Scripture and is constantly employed in
literature. The overwhelming number of examples from these sources alone is enough to
convince one of their validity. The analogies drawn between Israel’s infidelity and an
unfaithful wife or a prostitute are too numerous to count, and the warnings against the
corruption of fallen women are present in many works of moral or theological import –
Augustine’s squeamishness about makeup and dyed hair, for instance. Again, where would
Shakespeare be without the macabre ambition and grossly unfeminine pride of Lady
Macbeth? What would have become of Anna Karenina, Edna Pontellier, or Nora Helmer if
they had remained faithful to their husbands and refused to abandon their children? (On
one hand, three broken marriages, two suicides, and the death of a small child would have
been prevented, but on the other three excellent novels would have been drained of their
agonizing forcefulness and emotional vigor.) In any case, illustrations of these virtues and
vices may be readily employed to support the ideas set forth in the preceding sections. In
sum, I have shown that there is an express purpose laid out for each man and woman by
God, universally shared in virtue of their human nature, but more particularly possessed in
virtue of their sex. An explication of the complementary natures of men and women led to
an illustration of the innate gender-based distinctions in operation and being that
fundamentally influence the development of male and female character. Finally, after
having scrutinized the vocation specific to women and after coming to an understanding of
their unique modality of being, I demonstrated that the virtues listed above are those in
which feminine excellence consists and which are the moral and psychological
underpinnings of the female character. I drew frequent analogies to both the Blessed
Mother of God and to the Holy Spirit because of the remarkable resemblance betweentheir
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strengths and their exceptional roles in the course of human history and those of the
feminine. The Virgin and her Spouse are the prime exemplars of the feminine spirit and its
divinely ordained roles in this life and the next; one is a model drawn from creation, the
other from the Most Holy Trinity, but, as St. Maximilian Kolbe so aptly pointed out, the
divine “marital” union into which they entered at the Incarnation gave rise to the
coincidence of their redemptive actions on behalf of mankind, and as such they also serve
as a pattern of the marital roles espoused by all women, regardless of their way of life. On
this account, the very title of this paper was chosen to reflect the fullness of divine grace
that was present in Mary in virtue of her intimate union withthe Spirit. Inthe same way, the
woman who chastely receives, humbly mediates, or faithfully and lovingly brings forth is
filled with the same Spirit Whose gifts magnify her own strengths until she too is a mirror
of the sun’s brightness, a perfect reflection of God’s love and goodness.
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HALLAS TAC THESIS

  • 1. “Fair as the Moon, Resplendent as the Sun”: An Exposition of the Nature of Feminine Strength and Excellence A Thesis Submitted to The Faculty of Thomas Aquinas College In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirement For the Degree of Bachelor of Arts by Amy Hallas Advisor: Mr. John Finley March 15, 2009
  • 2. Hallas 1 For my mother, whose strength has overcome every trial and continues to be my firmest support.
  • 3. Hallas 2 I. Introduction In the grand design of human nature, the attainment of virtue has ever been placed before man as the noblest and surest means to happiness – if not in this life, at least in the next. However narrow the path of excellence, it is to be traversed with a firm step, a ready wit, and a submissive heart. The reward to be gained by choosing such a path, according to the Church, is a life filled by the expectation of divine and eternal love and happiness. Even in its human form, love – whether hoped for or attained – is a thing man cannot do without, a thing continuously sought from the moment we first take breath to the moment in which we take our last. JohnPaul II avers that “Mancannot live without love. He remains a being that is incomprehensible for himself; his life is senseless, if love is not revealed to him, if he does not encounter love, if he does not experience it and make it his own, if he does not participate intimately in it.”1 Love, which is the very thing that enables man to approach a life of virtue, transforms all who partake of it, perfecting our nature, inspiring compassion and respect for our fellow man, and allowing us to recognize the Divine Image as it is reflected in the humblest of beings. This universal desire therefore presents a call to all mankind, menand womenalike, to seek those virtues which will insure our lasting content. The manifestation of certain virtues, their modus operandi, however, differs widely from person to person, and all the more between men and women. Virtues even tend to be “typecast” in a particularly masculine or feminine light because of the frequency or strength of their appearance in one sex rather than in the other. Thus, although men and women alike are called to the pursuit of virtue, nonetheless, there has always been dispute as to whether certain virtues belong more particularly to one sex than to the other; whether, 1 Pope John Paul II, FamiliarisConsortio,Part III, ¶18 (quoted from his other encyclical, Redemptor Hominis)
  • 4. Hallas 3 in the creation of man and woman, there was implanted in each some innate capacity for the attainment of certain virtues more than others. Courage and magnanimity, for example, are attributed almost instinctively to a masculine figure, if only because throughout the course of history the most prominent images of such qualities have belonged to men. This typical assumption is no slight to women, who, it must be acknowledged, are just as capable as men of exhibiting great feats of courage. The form of their courage just happens to manifest itself in different settings and often in more subtle ways and as such is less often noticed. Similarly, compassion is viewed as a singularly feminine trait, and even whenappearing in a man it is seen as making him softer and more womanly. Since menand woman are called upon, on account of their shared human nature, to attain to all of the moral and theological virtues, this peculiar “possession” of certain virtues more prominently by one sex than the other leads to an inevitable question: Are there particular virtues that are essential to the composition of male or female personhood, that are intrinsically a part of the feminine or masculine identity? Do some virtues really “belong” more to one sex than to the other, or are there merely different benefits bestowed upon men and women through the attainment of different virtues? What sort of virtue “makes” a man or a woman, if the lack of that certain virtue “undoes” the person and causes his or her moral and psychological decline? Of course it is granted that the absence of any of the virtues from the character of a man or woman is a grave thing and one tending toward the proliferation of vice and moral decay. Nevertheless, upon careful consideration of the natures of the masculine and feminine personae, it will become clear that certain virtues are more inwardly rooted in the development and fortification of the male or female characters, and that the lack of these
  • 5. Hallas 4 particular moral strengths, more so than of others, is bound to fundamentally undermine the very masculinity or femininity of the person. More specifically, with respect to the woman, the kind of excellence she embodies as woman results from the constitution of her character, from the very design imposed upon her by the Creator. A virtuous woman will incorporate every sort of virtue into her daily actions, but with regard to her growth not merely as a moral individual, but more particularly as a feminine persona, those virtues that form the moral and psychological underpinnings of her character must be set forth in order to illustrate their great importance in her moral actuation and even her psychological integration. Without limiting the possession of these virtues exclusively to one sex or the other, therefore, those virtues holding a special place in the development of the feminine persona will be referred to from here on as feminine virtues. With this said, it may be posited that the fundamental sources of feminine strength are fidelity and humility and the unifying principle of the feminine persona, chastity. These three virtues are the touchstones that enable a woman, as a human being designed by God with a unique vocation in the course of human activity, to integrate her energies into a healthy dynamism of body and spirit. The origins of woman’s fallibility are, quite naturally, the vices opposed to these particular virtues, namely faithlessness, pride and impurity. These cause the disintegration of personal unity in woman, resulting in psychological instability and a loss of personal identity. The purpose of this thesis will be to undertake a theological and philosophical explication of the “nature” of woman (i.e. of her intrinsic design by God insofar as it is distinct from that of man) in order to determine the origin of her specific strengths and weaknesses. The nature of a universal human vocation will be set out first in order to
  • 6. Hallas 5 facilitate an understanding of the human calling as such, since this applies equally to men and women. The complementarity of man and woman will then be set out, so that the innate differences between them may be understood; this will open up a discussion of the particular vocation of women, which in many ways differs from the particular vocation of men. The structure of the paper will then generally follow the methodology of the Ethics, insofar as it will illustrate woman’s nature by looking to her vocation (her “function”), and subsequently will determine which virtues are central to that nature by observing the way in which she performs her function well, that is, by observing those virtues in which her excellence lies. II. The Universal Human Vocation The Catechism teaches that man is the only creature willed for its own sake2; that is, mankind is at the pinnacle of the hierarchy of fleshly creatures and is made in such a way that he possesses an intrinsic desire to know and love God. John Paul II illustrates the nature of man’s vocation in his encyclical Familiaris Consortio, saying, God created man in His own image and likeness: calling himto existence through love, He called him at the same time for love.God is love and in Himself He lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in His own image and continually keeping it in being, God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation,and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion. Love is therefore the fundamental and innate vocation of every human being.3 Hence Christ teaches that the greatest commandment given to man is to love God and one another. Augustine illustrates that these two loves are inseparable4, that man loves God through his neighbor, while the Catechism similarly affirms that this very act of love and service to God is the basis of a fundamental human vocation5. Every other commandment 2 The Catechismof the Catholic Church,¶ 356 3 John Paul II, Familiaris Consortio,Part II, ¶ 11 4 Augustine,On Christian Doctrine, Chs. 26, 27 5 The Catechismof the Catholic Church,¶ 356
  • 7. Hallas 6 can be resolved into these two, and every virtue springs from this form of self-abnegating love. In loving God and his neighbor, a man voluntarily steps outside of his native selfishness and begins to break down the walls of isolation instinctively built out of fear, jealousy, or hatred. It is in becoming other-oriented rather than self-oriented, and in directing his focus upon the Divine, that man assumes a kind of magnanimity enabling him to transcend the habit of sin that ordinarily precludes or severely inhibits his ability to love fully and freely. In the same encyclical, John Paul specifies the life-styles within which man can exercise this “fundamental and innate vocation”: As an incarnate spirit, that is a soulwhich expresses itself in a body and a body informed by an immortal spirit, man is called to love in his unified totality. Love includes the human body,and the body is made a sharer in spiritual love. Christian revelation recognizes two specific ways of realizing the vocation of the human person,in its entirety, to love: marriage and virginity or celibacy. Either one is, in its own proper form, an actuation of the most profound truth of man, of his being ‘created in the image of God.’6 Thus there is a common theme uniting these two callings, and that is one of marital love and fidelity. Each calling requires a man or woman to devote him or herself to another person, to a mission or cause, and in either case to God with the complete fidelity and the enduring love and purity due to a spouse. Indeed, God is to be found as the ultimate object of every true human vocation. A man or woman will encounter the Spirit in their relationship to their spouse and will see God’s face reflected in the person of their beloved. Those who elect to live a chaste, single life encounter God in their many activities and relationships within their community. Priests, monks, and nuns enter into a spiritual relationship, a divine marriage, with God Himself. From a more universal perspective, the image of spousal love is mirrored in the love Christ the Bridegroom bears for his Bride the Church: He “weds” and thus sanctifies all the men and women who in their devotion to God compose the living Body of Christ. 6 John Paul II, Familiaris Consortio,Part II, ¶ 11
  • 8. Hallas 7 Marriage, then, is the ideal form of every humanpursuit; that is, it is anexemplar of human vocations; the objects of devotion may differ, but the motivation is the same. Men and women run down many paths seeking happiness, but those who find it are the ones who realize that the means to enduring fulfillment is exclusivity to one’s “spouse”, be it an actual person or God Himself through holy celibacy; this exclusivity then culminates in a love and fidelity that extends beyond the object itself to its source in God. The necessity of exclusivity to the object of one’s devotion, and thus of perfect fidelity within one’s chosen vocation, is clearly illustrated by Scripture. The symbolism throughout Isaiah and Revelation emphasizes the grave consequences of infidelity. In the former, God grieves over Israel as a betrayed husband over a much beloved but faithless wife: For your husband is yourMaker, Whose name is the Lord of hosts; And your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel, Who is called the God of all the earth. For the Lord has called you, Like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit, Even like a wife of one’s youth when she is rejected, Says yourGod. For a brief moment I forsook you, But with great compassion I will gather you. In an outburst of anger I hid My face from you for a moment, But with everlasting loving-kindness I will have compassion on you, Says the Lord your Redeemer.7 Revelation continues this line of imagery, as John in his vision says, “And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride adorned for her husband… Then one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues came and spoke with me, saying, ‘Come here, I will show you the 7 Isaiah 54:5-8
  • 9. Hallas 8 bride, the wife of the Lamb…’”8 And the angel carries John away to a mountain top and shows him the magnificent city of Jerusalem. Ephesians reinforces this analogy, directly relating the spousal relationship of a man and woman with that of Christ and His Church. In the much-quoted passage regarding the subjection of women to their husbands, Paul says, “The husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body.”9 In this analogy, moreover, the subjection of woman to man in the marital union is extended metaphorically to all persons within Christ’s Church, whether male or female, since all the faithful must submit themselves to the guiding hand of God as they are led to a fuller understanding of their special purpose in life. In a sense, we are all of us “female” when it comes to opening ourselves and submitting our wills utterly to the will of God. It is impossible for man to fulfill his fundamental vocation in any other way than by devoting his heart and mind exclusively to the Creator. Only through man’s total submission of his heart to God can the Divine will become clear, and only then will he find fulfillment, as a human being generally, and as man and woman individually. III. The Complementarity of Man and Woman Though universally applicable to all men and women, this fundamental human vocation is carried out in different ways, two distinct modes of which may be determined by gender. The inherent complementarity between man and woman, arising from a variation in design in the being of each, governs the distinct, gender-based manifestations of the human vocation. It is through an understanding of this distinction that the being and operation of each sex may be studied apart from the other. 8 Revelation 21:2,9 9 Ephesians 5:23
  • 10. Hallas 9 Man is a synthesis of physical and spiritual elements, torn by the inevitable oppositionbetween spirit and flesh. He simultaneously burns with the fire of intellectuality and the heat of passion and desire. In spite of this duality, however, it is man’s rationality that accords with his underlying essence. A brute cannot think and a man, even in perfect disgrace, nevertheless retains the fundamental capacity to reason. Reason is the intrinsic, species-making difference of man that sets him apart from and above all other earthly creatures, and as such enables him to lord over the earth and rule all the creatures put there for his use. This is man as such. It is not, however, where the complexity of the human species ends. God created man: male and female he created them. The man Adam, initially created as the sole governor of the world and caretaker of its inhabitants, yet did not find this state of isolation to his liking. His lack of a suitable companion, of a “fit helpmate” to help him to keep and care for Paradise, left him no equal with whom to relate, no face to look into and see his humanity reflected back to him. He reigned but he did not share; he named all things but had no one with whom to converse and to exercise his reason. Man is fundamentally deficient without his natural counterpart, and thus Eve was created – from his rib no less. The very bone that guards the heart was transformed into the creature with whom man would from that time on entrust it. Woman is in every respect the completion of man: She spiritually guides and informs him, physically receives him and brings forth his children, and psychologically supports and affirms him. Truly, it is not good for man to be alone, as the Catechism affirms when it says: “The woman God ‘fashions’ from the man’s rib and brings to him elicits on the man’s part a cry of wonder, an exclamation of love and communion: ‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.’ Man discovers
  • 11. Hallas 10 woman as another ‘I,’ sharing the same humanity.”10 It further states: Everyone, man and woman, should acknowledge and accept his sexual identity.Physical, moral, and spiritual difference and complementarity are oriented toward the goods of marriage and the flourishing of family life. The harmony of the couple and of society depends in part on the way in which the complementarity, needs,and mutual support between the sexes are lived out.11 These complementary differences, then, are quite necessary to the proper functioning of the social order, since they give rise to that rudimentary building block of society, the family. Further, Scripture lays down that mankind was created in the divine image and likeness of God. Man and woman were created as equals, each espousing the rational nature that elevates them above the animals and which lends them a certain resemblance to the Divine. Nevertheless, men and women couldn’t be alike in all things: Their respective strengths were made to fill the deficiencies in the other. As such, a man’s very being is distinct from that of woman, and while both share in the universal vocation set forth by God to love and be loved, still each does so in a manner specific to his or her modality of being. “In their ‘being man’ and ‘being woman,’ they reflect the Creator’s wisdom and goodness.”12 The Imago Dei is cast upon both sexes, but the reflections differ according to the spiritual and physical peculiarities of each sex. Together, however, these differences coalesce to form a “communion of persons”13 through which the man and woman grow in spiritual unity, each strengthening the other’s weakness and leading one another closer to God. “Thus in the first account of the creation of man, the difference between male and female is immediately proclaimed. But mutually they are given the threefold vocation: 10 CCC ¶ 371 11 CCC, ¶ 2333 12 CCC, ¶ 369 13 CCC, ¶ 372
  • 12. Hallas 11 They are to be the image of God, bring forth posterity, and be masters over the earth.”14 Jungian psychoanalyst Ann Belford Ulanov explains: Theologically, the imago dei has been interpreted to mean the creation of man as a creature who has the capacity to relate to his Creator although this capacity has either been diminished or even lost as a result of the Fall. We read in Genesis that ‘God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him, male and female He created them’ (Gen. 1:27). This can be interpreted to mean, I think, that God’s image is to be found in the polarity of male and female and that the primary concretization of the covenant between God and his creature is to be found in the relationship of man and woman.15 This interpretation, one of many used to illustrate the manner in which the Divine likeness is impressed upon humanity, is strongly echoed by the Catechism. It states that “eachof the two sexes is an image of the power and tenderness of God, with equal dignity though in a different way. The union of man and woman in marriage is a way of imitating in the flesh the Creator’s generosity and fecundity…”16 Through their intrinsic differences, man and woman each manifest in a unique way the divine attributes of the Creator; that is, “…the respective “perfections” of man and woman reflect something of the infinite perfection of God: those of a mother and those of a father and husband.”17 St. Edith Stein believes that the differences between the sexes correspond to distinctions in the very animating principles of each. She states, … it follows also from the Thomistic principle of anima forma corporis that such a spiritual characteristic does exist. Of course woman shares a basic human nature, but basically her faculties are different from men; therefore, a differing type of soul must exist as well.18 This radical assertion of the distinction between male and female souls may be substantiated through various philosophical and experiential arguments which support the claim that the complementarity of man and woman is rooted in the inherent diversity of their souls. Further, this divergent, albeit corresponding, formation of their souls will be 14 St. Edith Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 61 15 Ann Belford Ulanov, The Feminine in Jungian Psychology and in Christian Theology,pg. 293 16 CCC, ¶ 2335 17 CCC, ¶ 370 18 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 45
  • 13. Hallas 12 seen to result from innate differences in the receptive capacities of the male and female material principles. In truth, there doesn’t seem to be anybetter wayto account for the obvious physical distinctions between men and woman than bypositing a difference in form – it would seem natural for there to be a male soul belonging to the male body and likewise a female soul belonging to the female body. Experience relates to us the distinction of gender at an extremely early age; boys and girls know they are different, and as they age these differences only seem to multiply. What this physical divide between the sexes points to, however, is a distinction rooted much deeper within each man and woman than that which is present to the senses. It is a basic philosophical principle that for every faculty of the physical body there must be a corresponding faculty in the soul; since, then, there are certain physical abilities allotted to one sex but not to the other, there must be corresponding powers of the soul possessed selectively either by men or women, but certainly not by both. Therefore, thougheveryother power of the soul, suchas sensation or reason, is shared by men and women in virtue of their human nature, maternity and paternityare the particular, non-transferable functions that belong uniquely to the feminine and masculine principles. This distinction in form, however, may be attributed to an initial difference in the receptive capacity of the material principle of each sex. In essence, gender distinction results from the imposition of a generic rational form upon a specifically feminine or masculine materia, to which the form is fitted and molded accordingly. In De Potentia Dei, St. Thomas asserts, The disposition of the rational soul is in keeping with the disposition of the body: both because it receives something from the body,and because forms are diversified according
  • 14. Hallas 13 to the diversity of their matter.19 That is, the soul is the form and animating principle of the body, but it is the form of some matter that is “disposed” to receive it. Far from being an entirely neutral principle, the matter to a great extent determines the outcome of the resulting composite. The predisposition of matter to receive this form or that determines what kind of active principle can be imposed upon it, and the inherent capacities or limitations of the matter also have an effect on the powers of the soul once it has been joined to the matter. In the case of man and woman, it is obvious that certain powers are bestowed uponone sex which are categorically denied to the other. That is, when a rational soul inhabits a male body, it acquires from that distinct materia the ability to beget. That generic ability possessed by every soul to generate others like itself is channeled through the male body in such a way that the man is specifically enabled to father children rather than to carry them. The specific ability to conceive and bear belongs, on the other hand, to the composite produced by the imposition of a rational soul upon a feminine material principle. Thus, in the De Anima, Aristotle asserts, … Not any subject whatever can receive any form at random. And that such is the case is confirmed by reason: the act of any one thing is of that which is in potency to it, and it occurs naturally and fittingly in matter appropriate to it.20 Just as a rational soul cannot be received by the matter belonging to an animalor a plant, so a male soul can never be the animating formof a female body, nor a female soul the form of a male body. This notion is reiterated by St. Thomas, who says that, [T]he actuality of an active principle, such as the form transmitted to matter by an agent, always appears to exist in what receives it and is adapted to it, i.e., in the subject, whose [is the] particular active principle, and which is adapted to attain the final term of the receiving-process, namely the form in question… [It is] natural to any act to be realized in some definite and appropriate material.21 19 St. Thomas Aquinas, De Potentia Dei, I.3.9 ad. 7 20 Aristotle, De Anima, II.2.414a21-28 21 St. Thomas Aquinas’ Commentary on De Anima , II.2, ¶272, 277
  • 15. Hallas 14 Thus it may be inferred that the material principles of men and women are of the greatest importance in the formation of the sexes. This fact, nonetheless, is more immediately available through our experience with human sensation; that is, it has been shown that even the modes of sensation – rooted as they are in the corporeality of man and woman – are not immune to the distinction of sex. A great deal of evidence has been accumulated by the advances made in the field of neurological science in just the past fifty years. In his book, family therapist Dr. Leonard Saxprovides a great number of fascinating case studies in which he details the innate biological differences between the sexes. These include, but are not limited to, differences in the way men and women see, hear, experience pain, and respond to various neurological stimuli like anxiety or fear. In the chapter titled “Female Brains, Male Brains,” he says that “Scientists… have concluded that female brain tissue and male brain tissue are ‘intrinsically different,’” as a result of “dramatically different expression[s] of proteins derived from the X chromosome and the Y chromosome in human female and male brains… Sex differences, then, are genetically programmed...22 These differences are extensive and have been shown to be present from birth and to continue on through adolescence and adulthood. They affect hearing: “There’s good evidence now, from several different sources, that newborn baby girls really do hear better than newborn baby boys… Other studies have demonstrated that teenage girls (for example) do in fact hear better than boys do. The female-male difference in hearing only gets bigger as kids get older.”23 These chromosomal differences also affect sight. In the human eye, there are two different kinds of photoreceptors, rods and cones. Rods are motion-sensors and cannot detect color. Cones sense color, texture, and the like. The male 22 Dr. Leonard Sax, Why Gender Matters, ch.2, pp. 14-15 23 Sax, Why Gender Matters, ch.2, pg. 17
  • 16. Hallas 15 eye possesses a greater number of rods than cones, and as such it is more disposed to track moving objects than to study stationary ones. The opposite holds true with girls. The female eye has a predominance of cones and thus is predisposed to pick up the finer details of what it sees – a human face, for instance. Hence, “most girls and women interpret facial expressions better than most boys and men can.” These facts led researchers to the conclusion that “sex differences in social interest ‘are, in part, biological in origin.’” Why are girls social butterflies and boys speed demons? “The results of this experiment suggest that girls are born prewired to be interested in faces while boys are prewired to be more interested in moving objects. The reason for that difference has to do with sex differences in the anatomy of the eye.”24 Aristotle’s claim regarding matter’s predisposition to certain forms is explicitly upheld by these studies – a remarkable witness to the lucidity of the claim. Put in philosophical terms, the difference might be expressed thus: Men and women share the essential components of the rational soul; however, the use of the various powers or functions of that soul varywidely between the genders and even between the individuals of each sex, on account of the particularity of the matter and according to certain specific powers possessed by one sexor the other. Beyond the power to reproduce, it seems that the powers to see, hear, learn, process emotion, etc., are all mediated by innate biological differences between the sexes, differences that may be attributed initially to the material principles of men and women, and consequently to their formal principles as well. What effect, exactly, does the distinction of gender have upon the immaterial workings of the human soul? In other words, how or why does the law governing gender also seem to affect the habitual operation of human thought? Men and women clearly 24 Ibid., ch.2, pp. 18-19
  • 17. Hallas 16 possess the same rational aspect in virtue of their shared human nature; however, they differ radically in both the mode in which they channel sensory information and the order and rate at which they develop cognitively. How is it that they can possess the same immaterial powers, but that their use of these can be so different? The answer, once again, depends upon an understanding of the influence matter has upon the form inhabiting it. According to Aristotle, the intellect has no bodily organ as its special instrument, as the power of sight has the eyes or hearing the ears; however, it still depends upon the senses insofar as these provide the phantasms by which the intellect is able to formulate its concepts. In this way, the intellectual operations of the soul, though higher and more liberated than the other powers, are tied to the workings of the soul’s vegetative and animate faculties, which include moving, sensing, eating and reproducing. This is entirely fitting, given that these “lower” functions of the soul may be said to take on a higher significance in human beings, where they are subsumed among the powers of the rational soul and thus endowed with a greater spiritual role than are the vegetative and animative principles belonging to a plant or animal. This point corresponds to a response given by St. Thomas his Disputed Questions on the Soul, namely, that “The sensitive soul is nobler in a human being than in other animals because in a human being it is not merely sensitive but also rational.” Thus “it is true that some at least of the powers of the sensitive soul, which are irrational in themselves, nevertheless share in reason to the extent that they are subservient to reason.25 It makes sense then, that a distinction arising from an irrational aspect of the soul can nonetheless have an effect on the higher, rational functions, on account of its participation and thus “spiritualization” within the human soul. Given the views put forth by Dr. Sax above (and many others that were not 25 St. Thomas Aquinas, Disputed Questions on the Soul,Article 11, Ad. 12 and 15
  • 18. Hallas 17 mentioned), it isn’t surprising that men and women sense the world around them differently. The unavoidable result of their distinct physicality is that the phantasms provided by their varying modes of sensation will differently inform their souls’ rational aspect. Thus in common experience, when a man and a woman are put into the same situation, they often notice different things, respond differently, and come away with completely different viewpoints and memories of the event. Experience also demonstrates that there exist certain congenital strengths in women which do not appear as prominently in men, and vice versa, all in correspondence to their gender. Thus, from the same rational form, in accordance with the peculiar potency of the matter receiving it, a diversity of strengths or weaknesses appears, all of whichare manifested through the distinct being and operation of the sexes. In every respect, then, from the viewpoints of philosophy, theology and biology26, the innate complementarity of the sexes is shown to be a necessary component of human existence. Further, therefore, since men and women are so different, one is led to question the resulting dissimilarities in both operation and being that further distinguish the feminine modality from the masculine. Given their different principles, they could not but have distinct purposes, designated and implanted in themby God. A treatment of the nature of woman’s vocation, therefore, has become necessary and will follow in the next section. 26 The notion of complementarity also persists within psychology,a science which lends it greater depth by asserting that there is an intrinsic interplay of femininity and masculinity within the psyche of every person. Carl Jung’s theories regarding the interaction between a man’s ego and his “feminine unconscious” (his anima) and between a woman’s ego and her “masculine unconscious” (her animus) are an excellent illustration of the complementary, and necessary,differences that exist between the sexes and, furthermore, within every individual man and woman. The psyche ofevery individualperson functions like a microcosmic version of the community of persons John Paul II spoke of: Just as society could never function properly if men and women stood alone and apart from one another, so in the mind, the separation or disjunction of the masculine and feminine elements of being results in a fractured personality. This parallel between the sexes and the sexual division of psychological functions serves to reinforce all the ideas expounded above in philosophy and theology.An exploration of Jung’s theories would certainly be pursued if they did not require the inclusion of so many other concepts which, in this case,would prove to be tangential.
  • 19. Hallas 18 IV. The Feminine Vocation The essence ofa thing gives rise to its operation27, though in the order ofknowing the latter precedes the former; that is, we first observe how a thing acts and what its particular function is, and from this we are able to extrapolate the nature of its inner being. Since, therefore, the source and quality of feminine excellence are sought, it makes sense to first define woman’s fundamental vocation as woman and then to draw from this a picture of her feminine essence. Such a depiction will make clear the virtues in which her excellence lies and the vices that undermine her development into a mature womanhood. A woman is called as a human being to love, and woman as woman finds the objects of her love and devotion through her intrinsic vocation to married or consecrated life. Taking the first Woman, Eve, and the Mother of God as universal types or models of the feminine vocation, it becomes perfectly clear that woman’s role is essentially that of spouse and mother. A woman who embraces her innate vocation will assume these roles whether or not she actually marries: For the single or celibate woman, her Spouse is Christ and her children all those to whom she ministers throughout her life. Considering an individual as a man or woman per se, we see that there exist gender-based vocations that are universally implanted into the distinct sexual natures of men and women, and that these involve the inborn capacity and natural desire for parenthood, whether spiritual or physical. In a series of essays discussing the separate vocations of men and women and of the means of educating women, Edith Stein proposes the question, “Is there a natural feminine vocation of woman?” She categorically responds in the positive, saying that, …woman in souland body is formed for a particular purpose.The clear and irrevocable 27 Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics,Bk. I, Ch. 7
  • 20. Hallas 19 word of Scripture declares what daily experience teaches from the beginning of the world: woman is destined to be wife and mother. 28 Every natural expression of the feminine echoes this maternal predisposition. “Woman naturally seeks to embrace that which is living, personal, and whole. To cherish, guard, protect, nourish and advance growth is her natural, maternal yearning… This natural endowment enables woman to guard and teach her own children.”29 Experience has long established the fact that a woman is the primary educator of her children, and in any stable family unit she provides the firmest support and truest counsel for her husband. Woman is the very root of the family and thus the mainstay of society as a whole. Stein reiterates, The primary calling of woman is the procreation and raising of children; for this, the man is given to heras protector.Thus it is suitable that the same gifts occurin both,but in different proportions and relation…With the woman there are capabilities of caring, protecting, and promoting that which is becoming and growing. She has the gift thereby to live in an intimately bound physical compass and to collect her forces in silence; on the otherhand, she is created to endure pain, to adapt and abnegate herself. She is psychically directed to the concrete,the individual, and the personal…30 Wherever, then, a woman employs her particular gifts and talents, she will best put these to use in an environment that encourages her maternal nature and her orientation to the concrete, personal aspects of things. Thus in typically “masculine” professions, a woman is capable of humanizing the most mechanized of tasks, of reintroducing those necessary elements of warmth, intuition, and human regard. Her presence can better prompt the growth and development of science, technology, or any other profession, insofar as she is able to employ the duality of strengths and abilities within her – she brings to the table a universal feminine strength in the form of a concrete, personal approach to things, as well as her own specific talents in the field, be they more characteristically masculine (and hence oriented to the abstract) or feminine (oriented to the concrete). Accordingly, Stein 28 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 45 29 Ibid. 30 Ibid., pg. 100
  • 21. Hallas 20 concludes that, In using the term, ‘feminine profession’significantly, it can only denote those objective tasks assigned by the feminine nature. This would mean all vocations depending on sympathetic rapport such as nursing, education, and social work… In scholarship, it would be those branches dealing with the concrete, living personalelement, i.e., the arts and positions wherein one may help and serve,such as translating, editing, and, possibly, guiding a stranger’s work appreciatively. Basically the same spiritual attitude which the wife and mother need is needed here too, except that it is extended to a wider working circle and mostly to a changing area of people; for that reason, the perspective is detached fromthe vital bond of blood relationship and more highly elevated on the spiritual level.31 Therefore, the responsibilities of wife and mother are the most primary components of the fundamental feminine vocation. A deeper understanding of this vocation, however, requires an analysis of these components, three of which are the most essential to woman’s proper operation. Specifically, women are called to an active maternal and spousal vocation that involves receiving, mediating, and reciprocating the “advances” of the world around her. These three aspects enable a woman to function as a physical and spiritual receptacle whose fecundity of being and strength is the source of the perpetuation of life and the deepening of man’s grasp of reality. Man strives – reaches outward – to attain; woman takes all, receives all into herself and ties it all together to form a more perfect, relatable whole. Through her ability to bring forth and nourish, woman both enlivens and deepens the growth and development of mankind. A wife’s receptivity to her husband absorbs his particular strengths, uniting them to her own, while her specific strengths supply his weakness; her return of these gifts affirms man in purpose and being. Woman roots man, centers him, interiorly guides him, receives him, returns his love, and ultimately draws him into a life of greater moral, intellectual, and spiritual fecundity and strength. In the course of their interactions, man’s initial purpose is to bestow, woman’s to receive, after whicha woman must reciprocate the gift of man’s self 31 Ibid., pg. 49
  • 22. Hallas 21 with the offering of her own, in order that the man may then accept it. The acts of giving and receiving are proper to both man and woman, though the process is symmetrically reversed between the two. Indeed, the mutual receptivity between man and woman reflects the fundamental human vocation to love and be loved: “In receiving her, [the man] may discover how she receives him, which may in turn enlarge his view of himself.”32 This process is the basis of a continual renewal of marital love and fidelity and is ultimately concretized through their children. John Donne illustrates the importance of a woman’s centering and stabilizing influence on her husband in his sonnet, A Valediction: Forbidden Mourning. The husband who grieves to part from his wife for a time comforts her, saying, Our two souls therefore, which are one, Though I must go, endure not yet A breach, but an expansion, Like gold to airy thinness beat. If they be two, they are two so As stiff twin compasses are two; Thy soul, the fixed foot, makes no show To move, but doth,if th’ other do. And though it in the center sit, Yet when the other far doth roam, It leans and hearkens after it, And grows erect, as that comes home. Such wilt thou be to me, who must, Like th’ other foot, obliquely run; Thy firmness makes my circle just, And makes me end where I begun. Woman remains fixed, a paragon of stability and strength, the very source and center of spousal and familial love. Her strengths are always oriented toward the concrete, her focus remaining ever on those under her care. Woman is man’s help-mate, whose self-abnegating love “hearkens” after her husband and children, keeping them rooted to their task, reminding them of their purpose, rectifying or “making just” the wayward paths 32 Ann Belford Ulanov, Receiving Woman, pg. 82
  • 23. Hallas 22 upon which they stray. The circle thus described by the woman’s centering presence is a supremely fitting symbol of the feminine, which encloses and shelters all life within itself and is present at both its inception and its conclusion. Woman is both physically and psychologically “built” to receive, but in order to complete her “feminine function” she must bring to fruition what she has taken into herself, be it an actual child or some kind of spiritual or intellectual seed that must grow and be delivered. Only with her bringing forth, her outpouring of what she has allowed to grow and develop within her, is her task to love and be loved fulfilled. A woman who is actively receptive of the persons and ideas around her allows herself to be loved; in responding to these, she actively loves them. Through her spiritual and intellectual mediation, woman acts upon what she receives, forming it and “bringing it forth” in a process analogous to physical maternity. On the contrary, a woman who either does not receive, or receives and does not bring forth is fallow, unfertile. Following the Virgin’s example, each woman’s fiat allows God to work within and through her in order to bring those around her to greater awareness of themselves and of their own spiritual callings. “Like Eve initiating knowledge of good and evil, and like Mary initiating a reconciliation of the human and the Divine, she shows special insight into the hiddenness of God’s revelation.”33 As such, woman is uniquely suited to bring about the development of mankind. In the course of human activity, the feminine constitutes a veritable touchstone of spiritual and psychological awareness, and accordingly as she acts for the benefit of others or for her own, woman has the ability to channel great grace or great wickedness into the world. The feminine vocation and the nature from which it arises may also be understood by means of an analogy between the progression of woman from man in Creation and the 33 Ibid., pg. 30
  • 24. Hallas 23 progression of the Holy Spirit from the Son in the Trinity. Edith Stein relates, Augustine and Thomas and those following in their tradition find a likeness of the Trinity in the human spirit. Although perceived in many ways, it is accepted by most that the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are rendered back in being, knowledge, and love… The intellect is predominant in masculine nature; on the other hand in woman’s nature, it is the emotions. We can thus understand why a particular association is being made between woman’s nature and the Holy Spirit.34 If man is modeled after Christ, after the Son and thus the Procession of the Word35, and if on the other hand woman is modeled after the Holy Spirit, Who proceeds from the Father and the Son and is known as the Procession of Love36, then the nature and vocation of both sexes become exquisitely clear. Christ the Son, as the Verbum Dei, is employed in the creation of the world and further takes on the role as Savior of mankind: Man, then, who is patterned after Christ, is naturally disposed through God’s design to create, to establish, to fight and protect. All he does is ordered toward the fulfillment of God’s commandment to Adam to subjugate the earth and become its master and caretaker. The Holy Spirit, on the other hand, personifies and encapsulates the love that exists between the Father and the Son and extends forth to encompass all of creation. It was He who moved over the surface of the unformed world before Creation, He who swept over the deep prior to the utterance of the Word on the first day; He it was who spoke to the prophets, He who descended upon the Apostles at Pentecost, appearing as tongues of flame before them. It is His divine might and wisdom that helped to form the world and convey the love of the Father to His creatures. As such, therefore, the Spirit serves as a figure of the feminine, a paradigm of the impassioned force of a woman’s will and the unquenchable love she bears for those placed in her care. This may be further understood through the Marian doctrine of St. Maximilian Kolbe, who in his writings draws a direct parallel 34 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 118 35 Summa Theologiae,fp, q. 27, a. 2 36 Ibid., a. 3
  • 25. Hallas 24 between the Mother of God and the Holy Spirit. He in fact asserts that the Holy Spirit is the divine analogof the Immaculata and that the unionbetween the Virgin and her Spouse is so deep that every act of intercession performed by the Queen of Heaven on behalf of mankind may be considered as the direct action of the Holy Spirit, of God Himself. He asks, “Who then are you, O Immaculate Conception?” Not God of course, because He has no beginning. Not an angel, created directly out of nothing. Not Adam, formed out of the dust of the earth. Not Eve, molded fromAdam’s rib. Not the Incarnate Word, Who exists before all ages, and of Whom we should use the word “conceived” rather than “conception.” Humans do not exist before their conception, so we might call them “created conceptions.” But you,O Mary, are different from all other children of Eve. They are conceptions stained by Original Sin, whereas you are the unique Immaculate Conception. He then proceeds to ask, “And Who is the Holy Spirit?” [He is] the flowering of the love of the Father and the Son. If the fruit of created love is a created conception,then the fruit of Divine love, that prototype of all created love, is necessarily a Divine “conception.” The Holy Spirit is, therefore, the “uncreated,eternal conception,” the prototype of all the conceptions that multiply life throughout the whole universe.37 The Spirit of God Himself bears the same title as the young woman who was sanctified from birth in preparation for the role she would play in the Incarnation. It’s an incredible parallel that illustrates the supreme fittingness of the manner in which the Incarnation came about. The union between Mary and the Holy Spirit is an exemplar of all marital love and fidelity, thus illuminating woman’s purpose in this life: Because of the sanctifying presence of God in her, every aspect of a woman’s proper function is exalted and in extraordinary cases may be put to divine as well as to human use. Her love bridges the seemingly insurmountable breach between God and man. For the Spirit “…is uncreated Love in [Mary]; the Love of the Father and of the Son, the Love by which God loves 37 Fr. H.M. Manteau-Bonamy, O.P., IMMACULATE CONCEPTION AND THE HOLY SPIRIT: The Marian Teachingsof Fr. Maximilian Kolbe,excerpts from catholictradition.org
  • 26. Hallas 25 Himself, the very Love of the Most Holy Trinity.”38 The Spirit, therefore, receives the love of the Father and of the Son, He mediates that love to mankind, and He brings forth every kind of spiritual fruit among those who likewise receive the outpourings of His grace. Just as the Holy Spirit acts as an emissary of the Father and the Son, transmitting their love and grace to mankind, so woman acts in the service of God, of her chosen companion, and of her children insofar as she functions as receptor, mediator, and co-creator of the love and graces poured out by the Father and intended for those to whom she ministers throughout her life. At last, in whatever way a woman pursues her most basic calling, it will be seen that the virtues aligning her with her purpose and serving to reveal her identity and mission as woman are fidelity and humility, both of which rest upon a foundation of personal chastity. These virtues are absolutely necessary to woman’s moraland spiritual development and are intrinsic components of her maternal and spousal roles. Ultimately these operations reveal that “the deepest longing of woman’s heart is to give herself lovingly, to belong to another, and to possess this other being completely.”39 Woman attains what she desires – the fruits of her feminine vocation – through this three-fold manifestation in her nature, which itself consists of a chaste receptivity to others, a humble mediation of that which she receives, and finally, a complete fidelity toward that which she brings forth. All these enable her to grow in her role as wife and mother and to sponsor the development of those under her tutelage or care. V. The Feminine Nature and Its Excellence “Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she smiles at the future. She opens her mouth in 38 Ibid. 39 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 53
  • 27. Hallas 26 wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”40 A corresponding division of the feminine character is manifested through this three-fold division of woman’s vocation. The feminine modality of being is rooted in these same three components, and thus the discussion turns to the nature of woman and to her native excellence, that is, to the virtues requisite for the full development of her natural strengths. A. Receptivity “Behold the Handmaid of the Lord. Be it done unto me according to Thy word.”41 The essence of woman, in one respect, is intrinsically receptive, and though receptivity is a necessary component of both a masculine and a feminine persona, the trait may be considered as primarily feminine. This quality enables a woman to open herself to otherness in all its forms – she receives other persons, other ideas, and the otherness of the Divine – and in doing so she is able to mirror it in her own being. Edith Stein notes that in the Biblical account of the creation of woman, “the Hebrew expression [for “woman”]… – Eser kenegdo – …literally means ‘a helper as if vis-à-vis to him.’ One can think here of a mirror in which man is able to look upon his own nature.”42 The creation of woman as helpmate explains why she is able to behave so responsively and intuitively to those in her care – woman is a “mirror” of humanity. Her esse reminds man of his own and the likeness it bears to the Creator: Man and woman mutually reveal to one another their divine origin and purpose. This womanly act of reception and the subsequent reflection of being back upon her companion and those she cares for results in an affirmation of their being, which is necessary for any healthy relationship, any fruitful contemplation, or any true development of spirituality: “Mirrored back in the face of the lover, we discover our true 40 Proverbs 31:25-26 41 Luke 1:38 42 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 61
  • 28. Hallas 27 image.”43 Woman, however, does not merely reflect; she acts. She is called to a life of sacrifice insofar as she submits her will to God, her autonomy to the marital or celibate bond, her needs to the needs of those around her. Her nature might well be likened to the sacrificial offering made by Christ in his Passion; like Him, her dynamism is rooted in receptivity, in a willing and active acceptance that overcomes all forms of selfishness and sin. As Christ took on the sufferings of the world in order to purge mankind of the inborn taint of sin, so a wife cures the sufferings of her husband as he endures the trials of supporting and protecting his family; so a mother endures every kind of physical and spiritual affliction in bringing forth and rearing her children. As Christ opened His arms upon the Cross, so woman opens herself, body and soul, to others in order to reconcile that otherness and close the divide between the human and the Divine. She thus accepts all burdens onto herself in what might be considered a specifically feminine form of atonement. A woman’s fiat becomes her passion, a willingness to undergo the greatest of miseries in order to insure the salvationof the beloved. St. Paul highlights the critical role a spouse may play in the salvation of an unsaved husband or wife. And if any woman hath a husband that believeth not, and he consent to dwell with her, let her not put away her husband.For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the believing wife; and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the believing husband:otherwise your children should be unclean; but now they are holy.44 Thus, in fact, the feminine must be seen as both acting and accepting in its process of receiving. This feminine acceptance is never totally passive. Rather, the act of accepting has connotations of voluntary allowance, of selective consent. A woman may just as well reject as accept the physical and psychological imposition of a man who pursues her, and 43 Ulanov, Receiving Woman, pg. 79 44 1 Corinthians 7:13-14
  • 29. Hallas 28 just so with the feminine element of being: There is a latent activity present within this intrinsic component of the feminine principle: “The quality of feminine activity is to accept a conception, to carryknowledge, to assimilate it, and to allow it to ripen… [it] is a mixture of attentiveness and contemplation.”45 The analogy to the Holy Spirit referred to above may be employed to illustrate this component of the feminine being, and later on to affirm the other two as well. It was said before that the Spirit personifies the love emanating from the Father and the Son and encompassing the whole world. This occurs through the procession of the Holy Spirit, which is the Procession of Love46 and which in this context may be understood to mirror the loving receptivity present in the woman God created for man. The Spirit, and by analogythe woman as well, acts as emissaryof God’s grace through His perfect expression of God’s love and, concurrently with that love, His will. Woman’s reception of the world likewise facilitates the diffusion of grace to God’s people, and it is by means of this receptivity that others may approach into closer communion with the Divine. This particular aspect of feminine being is rooted in the virtue of chastity, and it is specifically undermined by impurity. From experience it appears that promiscuity affects men and woman differently, seemingly in accordance with their respective physical and psychological differences; but why does it affect women so much more than it does men? A woman’s reputation and her psychological equilibrium are adversely affected by her illicit sexual behavior. This does not seem to be the case – not to the same degree – with men. The double-standard appears to exist within the verybiological and psychological make-up of the sexes. 45 Ulanov, The Feminine, pp. 172-173 46 Summa Theologiae,fp, q. 27, a.3
  • 30. Hallas 29 Stein proposes a response. “Woman’s soul is present and lives more intensely in all parts of the body, and it is inwardly affected by that which happens to the body; whereas, with men, the body has more pronouncedly the character of an instrument which serves them in their work and which is accompanied by a certain detachment.”47 Man by nature operates in a more objectively external manner than does woman, whose more subjective interiority serves to deeply embed all the consequences of her actions within her own body and psyche. A woman who is unchaste severs herself from the normal functioning of her feminine nature, literally receiving into herself all the consequences of illicit action. A woman who is “promiscuously receptive” gives a small part of herself to many, instead of all of herself to one: This kind of sexual mendacity results in psychological fragmentation as woman, who is built to receive, makes a mockery out of one of the most fundamental aspects of her being. John Paul II firmly states: …Sexuality… is by no means something purely biological, but concerns the innermost being of the human person as such. It is realized in a truly human way only if it is an integral part of the love by which a man and woman commit themselves totally to one another until death… if the person were to withhold something or reserve the possibility of deciding otherwise in the future, by this very fact he or she would not be giving totally.48 On the other hand, a woman who is “exclusively” or “chastely” receptive is able to give totally and honestly to her partner in the way that God and nature intended. As Fr. Ronald Rolheiser explains, “Chastity is respect, reverence, and patience. Its fruits are integration, gratitude, and joy. Lack of chastity is impatience, irreverence, and violation. Its fruits are disintegration of soul, bitterness, and cynicism.”49 Sexuality for a woman produces an internal fructification, while for men both the 47 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 95 48 John Paul II, Familiaris Consortio,¶11 49 Fr. Ronald Rolheiser, The Holy Longing,pg. 202
  • 31. Hallas 30 act and the outcome have a much more extrinsic character, both physically and, thus to a great extent, psychologically. Women cannot help but be deeply altered by sexual activity, licit or not, while for men, little alteration occurs unless they are interested in developing the relationship, in which case they can form the strongest of emotional attachments; many times, however, this attachment, if but weakly formed, can be broken at will. Since the advent of the feminist movement, women have gone to every extreme in an attempt to reinvent their sexuality. They treat it casually, coldly, even frivolously, but the results have been the opposite of what was intended. Instead of the liberation they sought, they have engendered acute physical and mental suffering, and further, they have absolutely transformed the way men approach and treat them. A man rises or falls to the level of the object of his desire. A man seeking a deeper spirituality and a greater knowledge of God desires, in a certain sense, to be apotheosized in order to draw closer to the Divine. His moral state will improve as a result. Conversely, a man who gives way to base or lewd passions will be degraded both by the pursuit and especially by the attainment of his desire. When a woman stoops to gratify such a man, she opens the way for the fulfillment of a morally corruptive act – were she to refuse, the man would be forced to seek elsewhere or, ideally, to reform. Woman sets the standard. Man pursues, but woman has the choice to accept or reject, and thus there are many instances where a man who loves and desires a certain woman will be elevated or brought low, depending on the moral rectitude or dissolution of that woman. This observation is in no way intended to lay all the blame at woman’s door; however, in the relations of men and women there is a clear correspondence between the height at which woman “sets the bar” and the level to which man must raise himself in order to be worthy of her. Hence, a
  • 32. Hallas 31 disregard for chastity on the part of woman carries a kind of gravity that isn’t as immediately obvious in a man’s actions. Thus a woman’s role as a companion is compromised by her acts of impurity; and her role as a mother also suffers from this misuse or misunderstanding of her innate desire to receive another’s love. Insofar as she is responsible for the bearing and is more actively involved in the rearing of her children, she can be a dangerous and corruptive influence. Without attempting to deemphasize the vital role the father plays in the overall formation of a child, it remains that the mother is the first to bond with the child and is the primary educator of her offspring – she is the first to acknowledge their presence in the world and she sets the first example for them to follow. Her neglect or negative influence can distort their understanding of the nature of virtue and vice and thus corrupt the formation of their value-systems – for life if the example is serious or long-lasting enough. There is a reason that the religious imagery of the tabernacle and the holy things contained within it are used to symbolize the sacred act of maternity. Woman carries life within the ark or tabernacle of her body. That means that the way in which this life is brought about and the manner in which that life is treated are matters of sacred importance. The Catechism stresses the great need for every man and woman to embrace his or her vocation to chastity. It relates a chaste sexuality with personal integration ofbeing; thus the fundamental importance of this virtue for the spiritual maturation of man and woman alike is obvious, but especially so for woman, whose sexuality is so deeply related to her physical being and psychological stability. Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person and thus the inner unity of man in his bodily and spiritual being. Sexuality, in which man’s belonging to the bodily and biological world is expressed, becomes personaland truly human when it is integrated into the relationship of one person to another, in the complete and lifelong mutual gift of a man and a woman. The virtue of chastity therefore involves the integrity of
  • 33. Hallas 32 the person and the integrality of the gift.50 Further, the Catechism asserts that, The chaste person maintains the integrity of the powers of life and love placed in him. This integrity ensures the unity of the person; it is opposed to any behavior that would impair it. It tolerates neither a double life nor duplicity in speech… ‘Indeed it is through chastity that we are gathered togetherand led back to the unity from which we were fragmented into multiplicity’ [Augustine,Confessions 10, 29, 40]…51 A woman who lacks this discipline will find that her personal unity – the integrality of the various psychological, physical, and spiritual components of her being – will slip steadily away the deeper she involves herself in a life of promiscuity. She will lose contact with her own identity and she will find herself severed from the moral stability that a chaste integration of being supplies. She cannot possibly give truly of herself to anyone. She cannot love and will not be loved, and thus she will find herself utterly outside the sphere of feminine strength and grace. Thus in Scripture, Jerusalem’s descent into paganism is likened to the adultery of a fallen woman: “Jerusalem sinned greatly, therefore she has become an unclean thing. All who honored her despise her because they have seen her nakedness; even she herself groans and turns away.”52 B. Mediation “And Mary kept in mind all these things and pondered them in her heart.”53 The second facet of feminine nature is the ability to intercede, to become the “middle term” as it were in the natural proportions between two persons, between a person and God, or between a person and his or her spiritual or philosophical growth. The archetypes of feminine mediation are, of course, the first Woman and the Mother of God. Eve was the vessel through which evil first came into the world; through her pride, she became the 50 CCC, ¶ 2337 51 CCC, ¶ 2338, 2340 52 Lamentations 1:8 53 Luke 2:19
  • 34. Hallas 33 gateway for sin and was the catalyst of our fallen nature. “That is why,” Edith Stein explains, “the foremost sin of pride, in which vanity and desire coincide, is a falling-off from the spirit of love and a defection from feminine nature itself.”54 The virgin Mother of God, however, as the “second Eve”became the Mediatrix ofall graces and thus the channel through which salvation would flow. Stein continues, Yet, ‘Quod Heva tristis abstulit,tu reddis almo germine.’55 The pure image of feminine nature stands before our eyes in the Immaculata, the Virgin. She is the perfect temple in which the Holy Spirit took up his dwelling and deposited as his gift the fullness of grace. She wanted nothing else than to be the handmaid of the Lord, the gate through which He could make His entry into humanity; for it was not through herself but through her ‘gracious offspring’ that she was to restore for us our lost salvation.56 The imagery here is quite specific and has application to the nature of woman generally. Mary is depicted as a “temple”: She, who had as full an enjoyment of God’s graces as a human being is capable of, physically housed the Son of God within her body. She who at the Annunciation was directly addressed by the angel as “full of grace” offered up her body as a temple of the Holy Spirit and her womb as the temple within which Christ would dwell. She has therefore always been looked upon by those in prayer as the most perfect intercessor of God’s love and grace. The Ark of the Covenant carried by the Jews through their wanderings in the desert was a precursor of this image of the Virgin-Mother. The Ark contained manna, Aaron’s rod, and the tablets upon which were inscribed the Ten Commandments and was itself perfectly holy. Mary, through her total embodiment of grace, was destined to carry the Bread of Life, the Divine Shepherd, the personified Word of God. The wife of the Holy Spirit and the Mother of God is therefore the greatest example to the female sex of its intrinsic call to take up the crosses of this life as a faithful spouse 54 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 119 55 “What sorrowful Eve took away, you restore with a lovable offspring.” – A line from “O Gloriosa Virginum”. 56 Stein, Essays on Woman, pg. 119
  • 35. Hallas 34 and devoted mother. Mary is also depicted as the “gate” through which Christ would enter the world: “And the glory of the Lord came into the house by way of the gate facing toward the east.”57 The image of woman as a gateway is an old one and not difficult to understand. With her body, mind, and heart woman fosters the development of humanity at every stage from birth to death. She acts as the gateway of life, giving birth to children, and for those entrusted to her care, she is the channel through which graces flow. As Eve was the gateway to sin, so the Virgin was the gateway to salvation, the gate as it were, to heaven. Pius XII in his 1943 encyclical Mystici Corporis illustrates the mediating power of the Virgin Mary, who may be held as every woman’s spiritual exemplar: …She whose sinless soul was filled with the divine Spirit of Jesus Christ above all other created souls,and who ‘in the name of the whole human race’ gave her consent ‘for a spiritual marriage between the Son of God and human nature.’ … It was she,the second Eve, who, free from all sin, original or personal,and always most intimately united with her Son, offered Him on Golgotha to the Eternal Father for all the children of Adam, sin-stained by his unhappy fall, and her mother’s rights and her mother’s love were included in the holocaust…Thus she who, according to the flesh, was the mother of our Head, through the added title of pain and glory became, according to the Spirit, the mother of all His members.58 Most appropriately then is woman held up as an envoy of spiritual and physical blessings. What woman receives she “ponders in her heart,” turning the accepted content over and over, meditating upon it and perfecting it, readying it to be returned to the giver enriched with every grace she has to give. A final point of interest might be “…the duality of the etymological root of that traditional symbol of the feminine, the ‘moon.’ The Sanskrit root mas yields ma, meaning to measure, which leads to metis, cleverness and wisdom, metiesthai, to mediate or to 57 Ezekiel 43:4 58 Pius XII, Mystici Corporis, ¶ 110
  • 36. Hallas 35 dream or have in mind, and mati-h, knowing…”59 Through her mediation a woman comes to know intimately that which she has received and subsequently reflected upon, and because her method of relating to a thing is personal and concrete, dealing primarily with its subjective value in the realm of human experience, a woman’s mediation is a kind of “measurement,” anevaluationof a person, thing, or idea. Her contribution, therefore, to the world ofbeing moves beyond merely reflecting that which she receives; she actively works upon it as well, molding and developing it, bringing it into the fullness of its purpose and meaning. Stein says, According to everything which we learn from personalexperience and the history of salvation, the Lord’s method is to form persons through otherpersons.Just as the child is assigned to the care and upbringing of an adult for its natural development, so also is the life of grace propagated through human mediation. Persons are used as instruments to awaken and nurture the divine spark. Thus, natural and supernatural factors reveal that even in the life of grace, ‘it is not good that the man should be alone.’60 The Holy Spirit is another exemplar of the feminine act of mediation. In conjunction with the intercession of the Virgin, The Holy Spirit transmits God’s graces to mankind, such that, “through Mary, the Holy Spirit begins to bring men, the objects of God’s merciful love, into communion with Christ.”61 He makes known the existence and will of the Divine, and by His movement in men instills in them all the “fruits” of faith spoken of in Scripture: “Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.”62 Similarly, woman proceeds through her incomparable love to nourish and cultivate the spiritual and intellectual growth of her husband, children, and anyone else who comes within her sphere of activity. “When pride comes, then comes dishonor, but with the humble is wisdom.”63 59 Ulanov, The Feminine, pg. 178 60 Stein, Essays on Woman, pp. 126-7 61 CCC, ¶ 725 62 CCC, ¶ 736 63 Proverbs 11:2
  • 37. Hallas 36 This aspect of the feminine nature is rooted in the virtue of humility or selflessness. As the Catechism says of Mary with regard to her Immaculate Conception, The Holy Spirit prepared Mary by his grace. It was fitting that the mother of Him in whom ‘the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily’ should herself be ‘full of grace’. She was, by sheergrace, conceived without sin as the most humble of creatures, the most capable of welcoming the inexpressible gift of the Almighty.64 It is humility that enables any human being to accept the gifts bestowed upon him or her by God. An awareness of one’s proper place in the order of things lends perspective and due modesty concerning both one’s talents and one’s weaknesses; as such it empowers a person firm in the knowledge of her purpose and place to reach out to others and selflessly guide them along their path. Pride desires to stand alone, without the beneficence or aid of anyone – man or God. A woman who distorts this aspect of her character has a tendency to manipulate what she receives in order to benefit herself instead of others; she “mistranslates” what she has received and returns it in a lowered or unfitting state, thereby becoming an impure channel of the grace that ought to flow from her acts of mediation., if she retains the ability to properly mediate at all. Proper intercession requires a sort of transparency of self; the mediator is interested only in closing the divide between two persons or ideas, with no thought of her own immediate profit or loss. When Eve offered Adam the forbidden fruit, that is, when she mediated between man and sin, she did so in the interest of elevating herself to the level of divinity, forgetting that it is through humility and patience that one attains the transcendence of being that mirrors the Divine. Her mediation thus polluted the world instead of perfecting it. The purity or “transparency” of humility, therefore, is fundamental to this particular operation of the feminine. Vanity, which is often considered a peculiarly feminine flaw, is opposed in every 64 CCC, ¶ 722
  • 38. Hallas 37 sense to this aspect of woman’s being. Her forgetfulness of the needs of others, her preoccupation with personal appearance or gain – in short, the willfulness and self-absorption that eclipse all her other concerns – are a great detriment to the development of true feminine virtue. These seriously inhibit, or even entirely preclude, the proper functioning of feminine mediation, and as such restrict the maturation of such a person into true womanhood. Thus in Scripture it is said that, “…the tongue of the wise brings healing. Truthful lips will be established forever, but a lying tongue is only for a moment.” And, “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before stumbling.”65 C. Bringing Forth, or the Feminine Act of Creation “Now as soon as Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the child leaped in her womb and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. She gave a loud cry and said, ‘Of all women you are the most blessed, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.’”66 The third and final aspect of feminine being is a bringing forth, a yielding, of the fruit that has been carried, molded, and perfected within the woman. This relates to the physical, spiritual, and psychological operations of the woman insofar as she literally brings a fortha child, “gives birth” to greater understanding of a spiritual truth, or through her accepting and mediating presence – through her counsel and gentle guidance – brings another person into the fullness of humanity. Ulanov expounds upon this idea, saying, The personal interiority of a woman is the vesselin which she touches the spirit and is touched by it, just as her body is the vesselof her physical transformation and all its openings places of exchange between inner and outer experience. The body symbolism associated with the female represents her spiritual capacity as well as her material; the vessel,which contains something for herselfand for the male, ‘is the ‘life-vesselas such’in which life forms, and which bears all living things and discharges themout of itself and into the world.’67 The “personal interiority” referred to by Ulanov, along with Stein’s explanation of the 65 Proverbs 12:18-19, 16:18 66 Luke 1:41-42 67 Ulanov, The Feminine, pg. 184
  • 39. Hallas 38 “more intense” connection of the feminine spirit to the body, both ultimately point to this fundamental aspect of the feminine nature. A woman’s connection and response to that which she brings forth may be likened to the exclamation of joy made by Adam at the creation of woman: “This at last is flesh of my flesh and bone of my bones!” Birth is the feminine act of creation. More so than with the processes of receiving and mediating, this final act of bringing forth is the most obvious indication of woman’s spiritual and physical fertility. In no other way is woman’s nature most completely fulfilled than through this process of bringing forth new life, through this ability to bless the world with the riches she carries within her. This component of the feminine being may be viewed in two lights: A woman may be the direct source from which new life, new ideas, or a richer concept of humanity is brought forth, or she may be an indirect, though necessary, means of bringing these forth from another person. Women function as both the mothers and the midwives of historical and spiritual events, and in this way are their acts of mediation and creation intrinsically linked – the latter is a natural outpouring of the former. Women are the chosen witnesses and messengers of God’s divine will; their participation is essential in His overall plan for humanity as well as in the individual plans He has for each person. There are many examples of this in Scripture: Women are very often the first to witness and the first to spread the “good news” of some divine episode or miraculous occurrence; many times they are essential in bringing that very episode about. The Mother of Jesus, in a certain sense, inaugurates His first miracle at the Wedding at Cana. In her quiet and humble observation of all that goes on around her, she is the first to notice and to bring to Her Son’s attention
  • 40. Hallas 39 the shortage of wine at the wedding feast, and, interestingly enough, in addressing her He appears to speak to women universally. "Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has not yet come." Her reply is not to Him, but rather is directed toward the servants: “Do whatever He tells you.” So perfectly aware was Mary of the workings of the Divine Will that she seemed to know instinctively that it was His time, and in His obedience to His Father’s Will and his mother’s wisdom, Christ allowed the Woman to initiate this period of preaching and proselytizing in His ministry. In a similar occurrence, Mary Magdalene takes on a sort of priestly role by anointing Christ before His Passion. She bathes his feet with her tears and then blesses them with costly oil – an intimate and holy service that not even His disciples performed for Him. Neither Peter, the future head of the Church, nor even John, the disciple Jesus loved, was chosen for this task. A woman, rather, was chosen to prepare Christ for His Passion: She honored and anointed the Lamb, initiating the very mystery of the Paschal Sacrifice. And again, the women who travel to the tomb of Jesus to anoint His Bodyprovide a third example of the sacred duties allotted to women in Scripture. But on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they came to the tomb bringing the spices which they had prepared. And they found the stone rolled away from the tomb, but when they entered, they did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. While they were perplexed about this,behold,two men suddenly stood nearthemin dazzling clothing…the men said to them, “Why do you seek the living One among the dead? He is not here, but He has risen. Remember how He spoke to you while He was still in Galilee, saying that the Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise again.” And they remembered His words, and returned from the tomb and reported all these thingsto the eleven and to all the rest.68 To prepare, to initiate, to witness and to declare are all inborn components of this component of a woman‘s being. While all the disciples were in hiding, terrified of Roman 68 Luke 24:1-9
  • 41. Hallas 40 persecution, it was a small group of women who ventured forth to honor and properly bless the hastily buried Body of Christ. From all these examples it is obvious that women play a necessary and active role in the life and ministry of those to whom they are bound by flesh or by oath. Their maternal role, their so-called “midwifery” in Christ’s ministry sets forth a universal example for all women, whatever their circumstances or particular callings. Woman as such was designed with these maternal operations in mind, and she was meant from the beginning to embody them in every aspect of her being, particularly in this last. Perhaps it is on account of the woman’s role as messenger and initiator that Scripture attributes feminine characteristics to the Spirit of Wisdom: Sophia is the font of knowledge and the bearer of all God‘s blessings; she knows the mind and will of God and pours forth His grace upon those who faithfully and humbly seek His favor. “How blessed is the man who finds wisdom and the man who gains understanding. For her profit is better thanthe profit of silver and her gain better than fine gold. She is more precious thanjewels; and nothing you desire compares with her.”69 Ann Ulanov continues this line of symbolism, saying, “The flower is the supreme visible form of Sophia, the personification of wisdom; it is the symbol of Mary...”70 She then goes on to explain, Feminine wisdomnourishes,supports, and develops the strongest possible ties to reality. It is the wisdom of feeling and compassion, coordinated to the qualitative moment and the specific instance rather than to an unrelated code of law. Feminine wisdom in personal, never impersonal… Such wisdom brings ecstasy and illumination rather than knowledge. The heart and soulof consciousness are carried beyond themselves into intimations of the deepest mysteries… The wisdom of the feminine sanctifies what it touches,making [it] pure and efficient…71 The relation between the Spirit and the feminine is affirmed elsewhere. To refer once more to the writings of Maximilian Kolbe, we can see more clearly the intimate 69 Proverbs 3:13-15 70 Ulanov, The Feminine, pp. 189-190 71 Ibid., pg. 191
  • 42. Hallas 41 relation between the fecundity of the Holy Spirit and that of the woman, as well as the importance of the marital union in bringing such divine and human fruitfulness into being. With regard to the divine union of the Virgin and the Holy Spirit which brought forth the Incarnation, he says that the Holy Spirit Himself “…is a fruitful Love, a “Conception.” Among creatures made in God’s image, the union brought about by married love is the most intimate of all. In a much more precise, more interior, more essentialmanner, the Holy Spirit lives in the soulof the Immaculata, in the depths of her very being. He makes her fruitful, from the very first instance of her existence, all during her life, and for all eternity. This eternal “Immaculate Conception” [which is the Holy Spirit] produces in an immaculate manner Divine life itself in the womb or depths of Mary’s soul, making her the Immaculate Conception, the human Immaculate Conception. And the virginal womb of Mary’s body is kept sacred for Him; there He conceives in time the human life of the Man-God. Universally, then, taking Mary to represent all women, we see that “the Spirit fecundates a woman’s whole being, and she experiences herself both as subject and object in the mysterious process.”72 One final analogy with the Holy Spirit may be used to illuminate this aspect of woman’s being. It has been said already that woman brings forth life and subsequently affirms those beings to whom she is closely tied through her maternal ministry. This role is typified by the action of the Holy Spirit during the Creation, Who “by wisdom founded the earth…”73 and Who subsequently provided an evaluative response to that which had been created: “…and God saw that it was good.”74 This analogy operates on the supposition that each member of the Trinity assumed a different role in the act of creation, and that that which the Holy Spirit played may be viewed as prototypical of the function that woman was assigned at her creation. The roles were distributed thus: In the beginning, the Father spoke, the Word fashioned, and the Spirit affirmed. That is, before the creation of the world, “the earth was formless and void, and darkness was over the surface of the deep, 72 Ibid., pg. 185 73 Proverbs 3:19 74 Genesis 1:10
  • 43. Hallas 42 and the Spirit of God was moving over the surface of the waters.”75 Then God uttered the Word, the world took shape, and at the end of every day He pronounced that it was good. St. Thomas demonstrates in the Summa76 that God’s Will is manifested through the Procession of Love, which is the Holy Spirit, and so God’s Goodness is personified in that same Spirit (just as his Word is personified in the Son). The goodness of creation that was brought forth by the Word is therefore declared and affirmed by this Spirit, and in just the same way woman is responsible for recognizing, fostering, and reaffirming the good wherever she encounters it in her ministry. The Spirit Who receives the Divine Love, Who mediates all graces, Who both creates and affirms the goodness wrought bycreation, in eachrespect provides a type of the roles delegated to woman at the very beginning of time. The analogy, then, between woman’s nature and the operations of the Holy Spirit is complete. These three aspects of feminine being encapsulate every truly “womanly” action and, if properly developed, enable a woman to simultaneouslyembrace her own being and the being of others in a total expression of selfless love and fidelity. The underlying virtue of this aspect of woman’s nature is, quite naturally, fidelity. Woman, who becomes so intimately connected to that which she receives, carries, and produces, cannot but be bound by faith and loyalty to that which she has brought to life. As God is eternally faithful to His “children,” the works of His creation, so woman, who is a reflection of these maternal, nurturing aspects of God, adheres faithfully to that which she has co-created with God and man. For “we have received not the spirit of this world, but 75 Genesis 1:2 76 Summa Theologiae,fp, q. 27, a. 2
  • 44. Hallas 43 the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things freely given to us from God.”77 Mary, of course, perfectly embodies this virtue. She faithfully followed her Son and supported Him from the moment of His birth, throughout the course of His ministry, until and even after His death on the cross: “Near the cross of Jesus stood His mother, and the disciple He loved.”78 She was told when Jesus was still an infant that “A sword will pierce your own soul too…”79, but this never weakened her devotion or caused her heart to stray from her Son; rather, she accepted every trial and bitter sorrow with total confidence in her Son’s promises, with boundless hope that He would rise again, and with an all-encompassing love that gave her the strength to witness His crucifixion and still bear the separation from Him during the three days He lay in the tomb. Taking the Old Testament figure of Judithas a herald of Mary, the same words said of her may also be said of the Virgin: “May you be blessed, my daughter, by God Most High, beyond all women on earth… The trust you have shown shall not pass from the memories of men, but shall ever remind them of the power of God.”80 A woman’s enduring fidelity, then, is the final constituent of her feminine strength, without which she could not fully embody true womanhood. VI. Conclusion It cannot be denied, then, that the three virtues of chastity, humility and fidelity are indispensible qualities of the feminine persona and that the strength they provide underscores the very integrity of a woman’s being. The moral and psychological decline women suffer by neglecting to cultivate these qualities is evident from common 77 1 Cor. 2:12 78 John 19:25-26 79 Luke 2:35 80 Judith 13:23,25
  • 45. Hallas 44 experience; it is also a recurring theme in Scripture and is constantly employed in literature. The overwhelming number of examples from these sources alone is enough to convince one of their validity. The analogies drawn between Israel’s infidelity and an unfaithful wife or a prostitute are too numerous to count, and the warnings against the corruption of fallen women are present in many works of moral or theological import – Augustine’s squeamishness about makeup and dyed hair, for instance. Again, where would Shakespeare be without the macabre ambition and grossly unfeminine pride of Lady Macbeth? What would have become of Anna Karenina, Edna Pontellier, or Nora Helmer if they had remained faithful to their husbands and refused to abandon their children? (On one hand, three broken marriages, two suicides, and the death of a small child would have been prevented, but on the other three excellent novels would have been drained of their agonizing forcefulness and emotional vigor.) In any case, illustrations of these virtues and vices may be readily employed to support the ideas set forth in the preceding sections. In sum, I have shown that there is an express purpose laid out for each man and woman by God, universally shared in virtue of their human nature, but more particularly possessed in virtue of their sex. An explication of the complementary natures of men and women led to an illustration of the innate gender-based distinctions in operation and being that fundamentally influence the development of male and female character. Finally, after having scrutinized the vocation specific to women and after coming to an understanding of their unique modality of being, I demonstrated that the virtues listed above are those in which feminine excellence consists and which are the moral and psychological underpinnings of the female character. I drew frequent analogies to both the Blessed Mother of God and to the Holy Spirit because of the remarkable resemblance betweentheir
  • 46. Hallas 45 strengths and their exceptional roles in the course of human history and those of the feminine. The Virgin and her Spouse are the prime exemplars of the feminine spirit and its divinely ordained roles in this life and the next; one is a model drawn from creation, the other from the Most Holy Trinity, but, as St. Maximilian Kolbe so aptly pointed out, the divine “marital” union into which they entered at the Incarnation gave rise to the coincidence of their redemptive actions on behalf of mankind, and as such they also serve as a pattern of the marital roles espoused by all women, regardless of their way of life. On this account, the very title of this paper was chosen to reflect the fullness of divine grace that was present in Mary in virtue of her intimate union withthe Spirit. Inthe same way, the woman who chastely receives, humbly mediates, or faithfully and lovingly brings forth is filled with the same Spirit Whose gifts magnify her own strengths until she too is a mirror of the sun’s brightness, a perfect reflection of God’s love and goodness.
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