This happened over a recent weekend and believe me it took me quite by surprise. Although some of us...

1. Making Marriage Work - You Can Avoid Divorce If Both
Partners Are Willing
This happened over a recent weekend and believe me it took me quite by surprise. Although some of
us are better prepared than others none of us are immune. My better half told me something that
knocked me off my feet. Of course I reacted improperly and lashed out in my defense. It was a
unnecessary argument over something as insignificant as a misplaced bottle of cologne.
At this point, marriages start to breakdown. As you reflect on the love you once had and think about
all the changes that have occurred in the past few years, you and/or your spouse ask the question,
"Did I marry the right person?" You might even begin to desire the loving experience with someone
else. Usually, this is when people blame their spouse for their unhappiness and start to look outside
their marriage for the loving fulfillment.
Nurture family relationships. All relationships go through ups and downs but keeping them healthy
is a challenge. Try these tips. Respect your partner and others around you. Be supportive of others
and their decisions. Take time to talk and to listen with compassion. If you are married and there is
trouble, consider marriage counseling. Maintain good relationships with your children and value
each child's uniqueness.
marriage counseling Not as much fighting? Before you breathe a sigh of relief that he / she no longer
finds your little quirks annoying, and doesn't seem to give a flying --- what you do, think affair. After
all, unless he / she has joined a new religion, or has otherwise turned over a new leaf, he / she could
just no longer care what you do because he / she has someone new whose faults are more
interesting.
Discuss if both of you are amenable to having children or not. Or, you may want to have a large
family but your spouse has plans of having just one child. Based on your current jobs and how you
plan to save for your future, you will be able to determine how large or small is the family you are
comfortable to keep.
marriage counseling Basically, unless there is some sort of abuse issue present in the marriage
which would then make divorce the optimal choice, you should make it clear that divorce is not
happening. Divorce is a two person process. You can decide that the divorce will not happen while

2. your spouse can see it as a mere delay. In any case, take this time make the effort to do everything
possible to improve the state of the marriage.
Did I ever love this job? If your job were a relationship, is it just on the rocks or was it just a time
filler until Mr. or Miss Right came along? Remembering that in order to have gotten this job in the
first place, at some point you actually asked for it. You actually decided that you had the
qualifications to do it, you would enjoy coming there each day, and you saw some kind of potential
for a future there. Was this a job that you took after a long bout with unemployment or did you
actually see it as a step up from something else?
get your ex wife back, try marriage