1. How To Bring Your Ex Back In Your Life
A relationship is meant to be fostered and cherished forever and the magic alliances which
convert themselves into happy marital associations are remembered always. However there are
unhappy instances as well. Just when you think that all is hunky-dory, your boyfriend puts his
foot down and calls the whole thing off.
What is the reaction to such an abrupt and unpleasant ending to a supposedly loving
relationship? You are left shell-shocked in a state of grief and dismay and lamenting the loss of
your special someone. The moments spent together continue to haunt and many women even
attempt suicide in a fit of desperation and anguish.
Well sitting in a corner and crying is of no use actually. It is not going to bring your boyfriend
run back in your arms! If he is a genuine human being and cares for you, the maximum he would
do is to tell you to forget him and find a good man. But the purpose of this article is to make him
come back to you willingly.
First of all wipe the tears away and think logically. Most men won’t like their ex-girlfriends
sobbing and weeping as that’s expected. Be absolutely normal and don’t even call or text him.
This would be the hardest part as your fingers will automatically keep reaching for the cell to
hear that beloved voice again or see the I MISS YOU message.
If your boyfriend pings on chat and says hi, don’t start lamenting about how much you miss him.
Feign complete indifference even though your heart may be breaking and talk in a very causal
manner as you would with a friend. Ask him what’s going on in his life. He may very well
mention a new woman and that is bound to be the hardest part to overcome. But this is the acid
test. Don’t react but just express your happiness and congratulate him. Many men try to make
their ex girlfriends jealous or test their emotions like this.
2. Caring for someone is great but don’t let that person take you for granted. Start dating round and
should you meet your ex with his new flame, don’t show reactions. If he says hi you do the same
and introduce your new guy to him. As you do so, gauge his feelings. If he truly loves you and
wishes for a reconciliation ,you will understand right away. No devoted boyfriend would be able
to see his girlfriend with another man for long.
So these are some of the tips you need to follow post the breakup to ensure the reentry of your
guy in your life. What do you know? He may call you the very night you return from your date
and ask the words you may have been dying to hear ‘ Is there another chance for us?’.
Remember that true love always wins so if your boyfriend doesn’t come back, be sure that a
wonderful person will come along to sweep you off your feet and make you forget the past
miseries!