1. Causes And Cures For Crimes
The concept of forcible sexual intercourse has been termed rape as is common knowledge. In the
modern times it has increased by leaps and bounds in India and the horrifying fact is that in many
cases, rapes are committed by friends or relatives of the hapless and traumatized victims. In this
content the main focus would be on how to deal with the trauma of having a known and possibly
familiar face assault you.
Nowadays there are even teenage boys involved in this heinous crime which has become an
extreme cause for concern. From the onset of puberty, a natural curiosity in the fairer sex is
awakened in the male mind and often the question of date rape occurs in this aspect when two
teenagers grow out of control and the boy cannot curb his desires.
Date Rape And Its Effects
In a rapid attempt to emulate the western culture, the concept of dating has come up among the
teenagers. Although sex is still spoken of in hushed tones, many growing adolescents tend to
feel the increasing urge to explore the bodies of their friends who belong to the opposite sex.
Out on a date with the prettiest girl in your class and somehow you wind up alone. What is there
to stop you from having a good physical rendezvous ? However at some point, the woman in
question may come to her senses and start screaming her objections but by then the male libido is
out of control and the girl’s future is ruined.
Dressing forms a vital part in arousing a man, although it does sound like a typical example of
male chauvinistic attitudinal problem. If you show up wearing skimpy outfits every time the
person you know is bound to get ideas that you have sexual interests in him. The moment you
feel things are getting out of hand once alone with a person you know, learn how to say no with a
firm emphasis.
Social Repercussions And Shattered Dreams
If you are a lady who has been working in an office for long and engaged to one of your
colleagues whom you have known for ages, you may feel there is nothing to fear since he is a
familiar person. But the truth is in this day and age, no man is worth trusting and women are safe
nowhere in the country. Out with him, your fiancé may have this logic that since both of you are
getting married anyway, why not have an early honeymoon?
The lady’s reply can either have two responses from the man, one of outraged indignation which
may result in an untoward incident or it may create provisions for a gang rape too. The law is
said to favor the women but in most cases the legal proceedings drag on without any real results.
The shattered dreams, bodily injuries and the social impact which a rape victim’s family goes
through are beyond bearing. Generally it is best to avoid secluded places at night even if you are
with the man you would be marrying.

2. Reasons For Rape
There have been a number of laws made against rapists or even for enforcement of female
security in India after the infamous Delhi rape case. There were even questions regarding the
same like the actions and intentions of the girl out so late with a man and the reasons why they
were alone. It is indeed shameful to think in this manner in a country which respects and
reveres goddesses continue to treat ladies so unabashedly .
Now let us take a look at the male mindset as to what functions them to act in such a barbaric
manner. Many men may have had domineering and aggressive mothers which made them feel
negatively towards women in general. Often a man is even capable of raping his wife under the
pretext of their marriage and that it is his birthright to touch his wife whenever he desires.
However that is absolutely wrong. Dragging your screaming wife to bed when she is not willing
is the most inhuman of all crimes and she can easily file a case of marital rape against you.
Often men who have inferiority complexes can have major sexual urges and as such they think
that it is their birthright to possess any woman whom they desire. However women should now
stand up for their rights and stop feeling ashamed to report these perverts. So the law alone can
do nothing unless the women themselves have the right and courage. As for the men out there,
get some respect for the ladies in remembering your own mothers and sisters and female family
members round you.