Relationships have their ups and downs. Couples with successful and long relationships are not exempt from problems, but they know how to manage problems that come along. For more detail about maintaing relationship, please visit our website: http://getbackourlover.com/

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elationships have their ups and downs. Couples who have successfully
kept their relationship strong and relatively smooth-sailing are not
exempt from problems, but they have figured out how to manage issues
that come their way.
Tips on fixing a relationship
Couples fight, become distant, or eventually split up for a variety of reasons. If you
would like to fix your relationship, you should identify the issues that caused it to
weaken in the first place and work from there. Here are common problem areas in
relationships and how you can best address them.
Ineffective communication - Between various distractions and a frantic work
schedule, failing to keep in touch with your partner is always possible. To resolve
this problem or to stop it from even taking place, plan to have time with each other.
This is important even when you live in the same house. Also, some behaviors, like
raising voices when talking and not actively listening, may cause communication
to be unsuccessful. Don't interrupt until your lover is through speaking and try not
to say phrases like “You always…” or “You never…” which generalize errors.
You have to show that you are physically and mentally present during
conversations. Listen actively and make use of body language to show that you
areprocessing the message.
Unmet sexual desires - Having sexual intercourse brings you closer and produces
feel-good hormones. If both or one of you are not getting enough, discontentment
with the relationship gradually builds up. To deal with this predicament, it is often
helpful to make plans. By setting a date when you will have sex, you essentially
build the excitement. Needless to say, you must give some room for spontaneity.
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3. Moreover, nighttime is not the only time when you can be intimate with your
significant other. If you’re like many people, you are already drained from work at
that time. Give some thought to having sex at other times of the day, such as, in the
afternoon or before you go to work. If the sex issues remain in spite of your best
efforts, give some thought to going to a sex therapist.
Conflict - Even visibly content
couples experience occasional
conflicts. To stop quarrels from
significantly affecting your
relationship, try to argue in a more
civil fashion. Examine the reasons
behind the issue and avoid forcing
your perspective to your
significant other. Maintaining an
open mind will help you solve the conflict faster, too. In addition, you need to
know how to differentiate between problems and personal differences. Do not try
to change your significant other, rather, look for ways to ensure that your
dissimilarities become relationship-building assets
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