This is my view towards life and i have personally experienced all this.

1. Eleven Proven Ways to Get Along
Better With EVERYONE

2. Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself 3 things:
1. Is it true?
2. Is it kind?
3. Is it necessary?

3. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully

4. Never miss the opportunity to compliment or say something
encouraging to someone

5. Refuse to talk negatively about others; don't gossip and
don't listen to gossip

6. Have a forgiving view of people. Believe that most people
are doing the best they can

7. Keep an open mind; discuss, but don't argue.
(It is possible to disagree without being disagreeable.)

8. Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1,000 before doing
or saying anything that could make matters worse

9. Let your virtues speak for themselves

10. If someone criticizes you, see if there is any TRUTH to what
he is saying; if so, make changes. If there is no truth
to the criticism, ignore it and live so that no one will
believe the negative remark

11. Cultivate your sense of humor; laughter is the shortest distance
between two people.
Do not seek so much to be consoled, as to console; do not seek so
much to be understood, as to understand; do not seek so much to be
loved as to love

12. Don't
compare
yourself with
any one in
this world.
If you compare,
you are insulting
yourself.

13. No one will
manufacture a
lock without a key.
Similarly God won't
give problems without
solutions.

14. Life laughs at
you when you are
unhappy...
Life smiles at you when
you are happy...
Life salutes you when
you make others happy...

15. Every successful person has a
painful story.
Every painful story has a
successful ending.
Accept the pain and get
ready for success.

16. Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes.
It is easier to protect your feet with slippers
than to cover the earth with carpet.

17. No one can go back and
change a bad beginning;
But anyone can start now and
create a successful ending.

18. If a problem can be
solved, no need to
worry about it.
If a problem cannot be
solved what is the use of
worrying?

19. If you miss an
opportunity
don't fill the
eyes with tears.
It will hide
another better
opportunity in
front of you

20. quot;Changing the Facequot; can change nothing.
But quot;Facing the Changequot; can change everything.
Don't complain about others;
Change yourself if you want peace.

21. Mistakes are painful when they happen.
But year's later collection of
mistakes is called experience,
which leads to success.

22. Be bold when you loose
and be calm when you win.
Heated gold becomes
ornament. Beaten copper
becomes wires. Depleted
stone becomes statue. So the
more pain you get in life you
become more valuable.