During your divorce settlement, you will probably be dealing with high-stakes issues such as divisio...

1. Dealing with a Spouse Who Commits Perjury
During your divorce settlement, you will probably be dealing with high-stakes issues such as division
of property, debts, assets, child custody, or possibly spousal support. Because divorces are not only
stressful but affect the lifestyles of all parties, a spouse may be tempted to lie to protect his
interests. If your former spouse lies in court during the settlement process and the court discovers
this, he may face criminal prosecution.
Even though dealing with lies during a divorce settlement can be stressful--and in the cases of false
allegations, even lead to emotional trauma--it is important to work within the legal system. This
gives you the best chance of protecting your rights and achieving a fair outcome.
Regardless of whether your spouse simply stretches the truth or blatantly lies to the court during the
divorce settlement, it is crucial that you remain professional. This means avoiding petty attacks
against your spouse or losing your temper in front of the judge or mediator. Even if you have done
nothing wrong and are simply pointing out your spouse's unethical behavior, showing inappropriate
behavior may compromise your case. For example, if you know that your spouse is misrepresenting
his assets, ask him pointed questions about specific bank accounts or holdings. Likewise, if you
spouse devolves into name-calling or attacks your character, state calmly that you will not respond
to those attacks. You may also want to request that he remain professional--if your attorney or
mediator does not do so first.
With the ubiquitous nature of social media such as Facebook and Twitter, it is also important to
remain professional online. If possible, keep all the details of your divorce and separation agreement
off the Internet. If you do make any posts referencing your divorce or soon-to-be ex-spouse, avoid
venting, ranting, or name-calling. These posts can easily reach your spouse or his or her attorney
and be used against you in court. Even trying to defend yourself against false allegations can
backfire if you do not phrase your statements carefully. Ultimately, the details of your divorce are
between you, your spouse, your respective attorneys, and the court. If your spouse is spreading lies
that are damaging your reputation, talk to your attorney about legal recourse rather than trying to
defend yourself online.