2. All over the world people are looking for other people for
all sorts of reasons that are as diverse as the day is long.
You have single men and women looking for dates and
lifelong partners. Friends looking for their high school
sweet hearts or other classmates. Co-workers and college
buddies trying to once again reconnect. Police looking for
criminals and wanted persons for breaking laws of all
sorts. Separated at birth brothers and sisters looking for
each other and quite often their parents. Detectives trying
to find people and items now in other peoples possession
right down to my mother trying to find me when it's time
to mow her lawn again (:--).
3. Due to demand a pile of new people finder services have
popped up seemingly overnight and most of them are
online. Many of them are people search free type of sites.
I'm sure you've seen the banner ads all over the net about
finding your high school sweet heart and Mr. or Mrs.
popular married the class nerd type ads. Everything from
email people finder to business lead searches are being
conducted online. There are phone number finders and
even address finders.
4. For those of you looking for love or the partner of your
dreams here are some quick simple and common sense
dating tips once you've used one of the free people finder
services I'll mention later.
5. 1) Write it down. Write down what you want in a life long
partner. Basics of looks, hobbies, interests, etc. Simply by
knowing what you like and dislike in a mate will
immediately boost your confidence and help you to know
if a second date is in order or not.
6. 2) Be realistic. Every one has some presumptions about his
or her life long partner. A rich, attractive and dynamic
individual I'm sure (:--). 2 things to keep in mind about
being realistic.
7.
8. B. The second thing you should keep in mind is that if you
find someone perfect for you, it does not mean that you
are also perfect for him or her. Their expectations maybe
even higher than yours or they are not interested. Don't
take it personally.
9. 3) Clean up your act. Now I'm not advocating that you
should not be you. I'm just saying that if you spend a little
time preparing to meet someone it will be noticed that
you regard them as special enough to prepare. Also,
developing your personality and becoming the type of
person you want to marry helps to have things in common
as well.
10. 4) Get Out There and Meet People. How and where is
really up to you, personally I think pubs and nightclubs are
horrible but on the other hand, you may like those places.
If so, that might work for you but chances are it won't or
you wouldn't be still reading this article. You need to go to
a place that attracts the kind of people you'd like to meet.
A couple places that may be of interest to you are internet
dating, social groups, marriage parties, common parks,
libraries, book club or sports clubs.
11. 5) Be yourself. There is usually enough pressure put on a
person within the first few dates that there is really no
need to try and be something you think the other person
is looking for. That is called lying and will cause more pain
down the road when the person doesn't want to be your
friend anymore because you weren't honest and upfront
in the first place. So try to relax and have fun.
12. If you happen to fall into one of the people finder groups
and are looking for someone for whatever possible reason
here are some tips to find some great services online. Do a
Google search in brackets like this "free people finder" or
"free people search"