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Steps on how to FALL INLOVE
By: Elvie Boño
1.Boost your self-esteem
Finding the Right Person?
• Fall in love and find the right person you must
first have confidence and love invested in
yourself. People with self-co...
Consider why you want to fall in
love
There's no right answer for why you
want to fall in love, but there are some
reasons that aren't good and that
indicate a ...
Consider what you are looking for
No, don't make a list of exact specifications
detailing the hair color, job, schooling level,
and personality of your pot...
Meet people
Of course, to be able to find someone with
whom to fall in love, you're going to need to go
out and meet people. This doe...
Open yourself to new
possibilities
 Doing things that
you might not
otherwise have
done can help foster
a sense of
excite...
Give things time
Even if you've been going to parties and your
friends have been introducing you to plenty of
fun, attractive people, you ...
Express interest
So after you've found someone you're interested
in and could see yourself falling in love, you'll need
to talk with them ...
Open yourself up emotionally.
Falling in love means opening
yourself up to the other person
emotionally. It's about taking a risk
and being open and vu...
Check Compatibility
Intimate compatibility is
incredibly important to
ensuring a loving
connection (and this
doesn't mean sex,
necessarily). ...
Don't force it
Trying to force yourself or another person to
fall in love won't work and will simply make
you or them resent the relatio...
Build Trust
Trusting your partner is one of the keys to
staying in love and staying in a relationship.
Without trust, the...
Deal with conflict appropriately
All relationships have conflict.
You aren't going to agree with
your significant other all the
time, but dealing with you...
Recognize the signs of falling in LOVE
There's no tried and true way to know
you're in love. People often say you'll just
'know' if you're love, but there are s...
Have an Honest Discussion
 Honesty is often embarrassing or confronting. It requires
clarity of thought, very carefully chosen words of candor
and ...
Keep it Fresh
Truly appreciate the other
Person
Appreciation is a huge part of a
relationship and having
gratitude for the other person
and telling them that you have
th...
• References:
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Someone-Fall-in-Love-with-You
http://www.wikihow.com/Fall-in-Love
http://www.lif...
Steps on How to Fall IN LOVE
Steps on How to Fall IN LOVE
Steps on How to Fall IN LOVE
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Steps on How to Fall IN LOVE

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Steps on How to Fall IN LOVE

  1. 1. Steps on how to FALL INLOVE By: Elvie Boño
  2. 2. 1.Boost your self-esteem Finding the Right Person?
  3. 3. • Fall in love and find the right person you must first have confidence and love invested in yourself. People with self-confidence tend to have happier and longer lasting relationships than those that don't. It might seem hard to suddenly start loving yourself, but it's an important component of a strong relationship.
  4. 4. Consider why you want to fall in love
  5. 5. There's no right answer for why you want to fall in love, but there are some reasons that aren't good and that indicate a deeper problem. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have a loving relationship, but basing your self worth on the success of such a relationship will place too much pressure on the other person and ultimately doom!
  6. 6. Consider what you are looking for
  7. 7. No, don't make a list of exact specifications detailing the hair color, job, schooling level, and personality of your potential significant other. You're not going to ever find an exact match, but you should acknowledge the basics of what you're looking for.
  8. 8. Meet people
  9. 9. Of course, to be able to find someone with whom to fall in love, you're going to need to go out and meet people. This doesn't mean you have to be a big part animal, or that you have to do things that you're not entirely comfortable with, but it's a good idea to at least try and get out of your comfort zone a little bit.
  10. 10. Open yourself to new possibilities  Doing things that you might not otherwise have done can help foster a sense of excitement for you, as well as take you outside your comfort zone to meet different kinds of people.
  11. 11. Give things time
  12. 12. Even if you've been going to parties and your friends have been introducing you to plenty of fun, attractive people, you should still expect the process to take some time. Be patient. It can take years to find the right person. Along the way, you may find people that you think are right for you, but turn out not to be. Use these opportunities as learning experiences. Eventually, you'll get a sense for the kind of person you're looking for.
  13. 13. Express interest
  14. 14. So after you've found someone you're interested in and could see yourself falling in love, you'll need to talk with them about this. In short, you'll need to ask them out and see if the interest is returned. It might be a little nerve-wracking, since you're opening yourself up, but finding love means taking emotional risks.
  15. 15. Open yourself up emotionally.
  16. 16. Falling in love means opening yourself up to the other person emotionally. It's about taking a risk and being open and vulnerable with another person. It can be scary to lay yourself open like that, but it's the only way to deepen a relationship.
  17. 17. Check Compatibility
  18. 18. Intimate compatibility is incredibly important to ensuring a loving connection (and this doesn't mean sex, necessarily). Look at the person you're with and see how closely connected the two of you are.
  19. 19. Don't force it
  20. 20. Trying to force yourself or another person to fall in love won't work and will simply make you or them resent the relationship, eventually. Falling in love is, in a sense, letting go of control. Be open what the other person is feeling about the relationship, as well as what you want from it.
  21. 21. Build Trust Trusting your partner is one of the keys to staying in love and staying in a relationship. Without trust, the relationship becomes a ticking time bomb and not something you want to be a part of.  Don’t constantly second-guess them or question their motives. Trust them and show them that you trust them. Love can’t exist long-term in a relationship that doesn’t have trust. Show your significant other that you are a safe haven, where they can find and give trust without having to worry that they will get hurt.
  22. 22. Deal with conflict appropriately
  23. 23. All relationships have conflict. You aren't going to agree with your significant other all the time, but dealing with your argument in the right manner will mean that the relationship is more likely to last.
  24. 24. Recognize the signs of falling in LOVE
  25. 25. There's no tried and true way to know you're in love. People often say you'll just 'know' if you're love, but there are some things that indicate you're heading that direction, if not already there.
  26. 26. Have an Honest Discussion
  27. 27.  Honesty is often embarrassing or confronting. It requires clarity of thought, very carefully chosen words of candor and a commitment not to stray from the facts (keeping away from the minefield of emotional interpretations). Other reasons for lying include covering up your own weaknesses, maintaining compromises that make life easier to cope with and avoiding getting into trouble. And many people have been raised to see honesty as too "blunt" or "rude"; yet rather than being an issue of etiquette, this stems from a misunderstanding as to how to put forward honest messages compassionately. There is a world of difference between being tactless and being considerately and respectfully open.
  28. 28. Keep it Fresh
  29. 29. Truly appreciate the other Person
  30. 30. Appreciation is a huge part of a relationship and having gratitude for the other person and telling them that you have that gratitude will strengthen and deepen your relationship.
  31. 31. • References: http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Someone-Fall-in-Love-with-You http://www.wikihow.com/Fall-in-Love http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-ways-keep-your- relationship-exciting-and-fresh.html http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Honest-Without-Being-Harsh -Credits

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