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What Would the World Look Like Without đồ chơi tình dục vợ chồng?
Needless to say, the time after loss is volatile and confusing for most people. Unresolved issues come to the fore
and questions we have not answered must often be confronted. Along with a sense of abandonment and sorrow,
anger often arises. Most have little understanding of what they are going through, or what to expect in the future.
Facing the unknown can produce additional fear.
Yet crisis means opportunity. When the process of grief is handled properly suffering can be diminished and
symptoms that may appear later, can be forestalled. It is even possible for the individual to grow a great deal
during this time and benefit from the experience.
The more we understand what we are going through, the less out of control we will feel. At a time like this we
need meaning and direction. We need to know what to expect and how to handle the many changes that are
The Dynamics of Loss and Grief
Each person reacts differently to loss and that is fine. Some feel abandoned, others feel betrayed and afraid. Some
reach out for do choi nguoi lon sinhly16 love and comfort, while others withdraw, wanting time alone. Some go
into denial and seem not to register the loss that has happened. These individuals are often unconsciously
processing what has happened, not ready to face reality yet. They may fear they will be overwhelmed if they allow
themselves to register what has gone on. It is best not to pressure a person to react differently. When the
individual is accepted for who they are at the moment, it is easier for them to let go, and move on. This entire
process takes time.
It helps greatly to realize that the pain we go through during grief is normal. It does not mean there is something
wrong with us. We need not feel ashamed of or afraid of our feelings.
What Happens When We Are Grieving
When we are grieving, interest in the outside world subsides, we slow down, sleep more, our social activities seem
less meaningful. This is not necessarily bad. An individual may need more time alone. In the process of grieving
the individual is contemplating the nature of their lives, coming to terms with the person theyve lost. They may be
reviewing that which was left unsaid or undone.
Grief is usually most difficult when the individual has had troubled or incomplete relationship. When there have
been unsolved conflicts left behind, this makes it harder to be at peace. Many spend time blaming themselves for
what they did or didnt do. Others blame doctors, helpers, government or family members. Casting blame is a way
of removing the guilt and sorrow we feel. The sooner they are able to let go of blame and accusations, the sooner
Let Go Of Blame
Blame, self hate and other forms of anger, are common during grief. Although it is important not to repress anger
and disappointment, it is best to feel it and then let it go. Some individuals hold onto anger as a way of keeping
connected to the person or situation they have lost. The truth is that anger always keeps us out of balance. It is a
poison to the one who holds onto it.
Coming To Terms Steps To Take
Ultimately one must reconcile oneself to what happened. Most people do all they can to avoid experiencing their
feelings or situation directly. Many fear that if they face their suffering, it will make them feel small and helpless.
Actually, the opposite is true. Its best not to control or resist the feelings. When these feelings are not resisted,
they simply come to awareness and then fade away.
Feelings that are repressed come out later in different ways, including various physical symptoms, phobias and
unwanted behaviors. If we do not address our feelings in one mode, they will appear in another – physically,
mentally, emotionally, spiritually.
Hopefully, we come to a point where forgiveness can take place, (forgiveness of the person weve lost, forgiveness
of ourselves, the universe, or whatever it is we feel anger with). In order to do this, it is deeply helpful to realize
that all of life is temporary. People possessions, situations are given to us for a short time. As we acknowledge the
transitory nature of life, we can then begin to look deeper and see what it is that we never lose.
Through acceptance of reality, of oneself and the other, one develops the power the affirm life, and to grow. One
can then give to others, and become a source of inspiration, and live a life that is meaningful. The discovery and
experience of value and meaning in ones life and ones losses is the most potent healing of all
Below are a couple of exercises that are helpful in coming to terms with loss and change.
Exercise Giving Gifts
Make a list of the gifts you received from the person youve lost – the ways they taught and inspired you. Now find
ways to give those gifts to others. As you do so, not only will you be acknowledging what you received from that
person, but honoring their memory and keeping their spirit alive.
Exercise It Suffices
Whenever you think of the person and the way they fell short, what they didnt give you, say to yourself, It Suffices.
This is in recognition that they gave all they could, being who they were, and that you can feel satisfied with what
you received. (This is an ancient Buddhist practice)
Prayer, Silence And Meditation
Of course the deepest sense of healing, peace and security can come from our connection to a higher power or
our higher selves. During the process of grieving it is very helpful to be able to connect with that which is
ultimately meaningful to you. Our true security comes from discovering a larger purpose in all that happens, and
our ability to trust it..