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These three things are areas that can cut a man to the core and leave him wounded,no matter how rough and tough an exterio...
These three things are areas that can cut a man to the core and leave him wounded,no matter how rough and tough an exterio...
3) Never say he does not contribute to the householdYou don’t want to say things like “Can’t you lift a finger to do somet...
3) Never say he does not contribute to the householdYou don’t want to say things like “Can’t you lift a finger to do somet...
Now before I go any further, let me explain something to you…this is not providingcover or excuses for your man’s poor beh...
Now before I go any further, let me explain something to you…this is not providingcover or excuses for your man’s poor beh...
So what can you say instead that may help to motivate your man and get the resultsfrom him that you desire? Let’s take a l...
So what can you say instead that may help to motivate your man and get the resultsfrom him that you desire? Let’s take a l...
So what can you say instead that may help to motivate your man and get the resultsfrom him that you desire? Let’s take a l...
3) You should acknowledge his contribution to the householdYou should say something such as, “I am indeed sensitive to how...
3) You should acknowledge his contribution to the householdYou should say something such as, “I am indeed sensitive to how...
These are just a few initial things that you should never say to your man. To fullyensure that your marriage is strong, re...
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3 Things You Should Never Say to Your Man (and 3 Things You Should!)

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If you have ever had an argument or conflict with your spouse, you have no doubt said some things to your man that you wish you could take back. That is not uncommon. However, when you are trying to either improve your marriage, or worse, recover from infidelity, it is important to be careful about what is said. Let’s touch on three things you should never say to your man.

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3 Things You Should Never Say to Your Man (and 3 Things You Should!)

  1. 1. 3 Things You Should Never Say to Your Man (and 3 Things You Should!) http://www.saving-relationships.comIf you have ever had an argument or conflict with your spouse, you have no doubt saidsome things to your man that you wish you could take back. That is not uncommon.However, when you are trying to either improve your marriage, or worse, recover frominfidelity, it is important to be careful about what is said. Let’s touch on three thingsyou should never say to your man.
  2. 2. These three things are areas that can cut a man to the core and leave him wounded,no matter how rough and tough an exterior he may portray. They are as follows:1) Never say to your man that he cannot provide for his familySaying things like “If you had a real job, we would have a better lifestyle” or “If youweren’t so lazy and went out and made more, we would not be living paycheck topaycheck!”
  3. 3. These three things are areas that can cut a man to the core and leave him wounded,no matter how rough and tough an exterior he may portray. They are as follows:1) Never say to your man that he cannot provide for his familySaying things like “If you had a real job, we would have a better lifestyle” or “If youweren’t so lazy and went out and made more, we would not be living paycheck topaycheck!”2) Never say to your man that he has no interest in time with his familyThings such as “You like to spend more time with your buddies playing golf than youdo with us!” or “You spend so much time at work, your family doesn’t know youanymore.”
  4. 4. 3) Never say he does not contribute to the householdYou don’t want to say things like “Can’t you lift a finger to do something aroundhere!” or “Would it kill you to clean up a dish or two?”
  5. 5. 3) Never say he does not contribute to the householdYou don’t want to say things like “Can’t you lift a finger to do something aroundhere!” or “Would it kill you to clean up a dish or two?”These are three things you should never say to your man because it strikes at the verycore of a man. Men have a deep, often subconscious need to succeed in these areas.If you are finding that your man’s job or occupation is causing challenges for you athome, try to work with him if you want to win his heart and have him give it his all. Ifyou are critical about his abilities to be a breadwinner, your man will often times feeldiscouraged.
  6. 6. Now before I go any further, let me explain something to you…this is not providingcover or excuses for your man’s poor behavior. Nor is it a claim that you should justthrow your hands up and give in. In fact, I will show you that it is quite the opposite.Besides what you should NEVER say to your man, I am about to reveal to you that youhave the ability to make real change here by working with him instead of against him.
  7. 7. Now before I go any further, let me explain something to you…this is not providingcover or excuses for your man’s poor behavior. Nor is it a claim that you should justthrow your hands up and give in. In fact, I will show you that it is quite the opposite.Besides what you should NEVER say to your man, I am about to reveal to you that youhave the ability to make real change here by working with him instead of against him.Men love praise. Especially from the woman that they love. It is often validation forthem that they are appreciated for what they are doing. By encouraging your man,most times you will find that he is willing to try harder. When you cut into him and riphim for his efforts, it is the tendency of a man to simply shut down and go off and “lickhis wounds”, so to speak.
  8. 8. So what can you say instead that may help to motivate your man and get the resultsfrom him that you desire? Let’s take a look…
  9. 9. So what can you say instead that may help to motivate your man and get the resultsfrom him that you desire? Let’s take a look…1) You should tell your man that you acknowledge his ability to provide for hisfamilySomething along the lines of, “I appreciate your efforts and I know you are workinghard. I would like to explore some ways that we can boost our household income andperhaps you and I could look at ways to reduce our household expenses.”
  10. 10. So what can you say instead that may help to motivate your man and get the resultsfrom him that you desire? Let’s take a look…1) You should tell your man that you acknowledge his ability to provide for hisfamilySomething along the lines of, “I appreciate your efforts and I know you are workinghard. I would like to explore some ways that we can boost our household income andperhaps you and I could look at ways to reduce our household expenses.”2) You should tell your man that you know he values his being a member of thefamilySomething like, “I know that work is asking a lot of you right now. The kids and I needtime from you, too, and we miss you. How can we work together to create a win-winsituation here?”
  11. 11. 3) You should acknowledge his contribution to the householdYou should say something such as, “I am indeed sensitive to how many hours you areworking, I know you work hard at the office. But I have a job, too. I really need morehelp from you in doing the household chores.”
  12. 12. 3) You should acknowledge his contribution to the householdYou should say something such as, “I am indeed sensitive to how many hours you areworking, I know you work hard at the office. But I have a job, too. I really need morehelp from you in doing the household chores.”By using a positive and more constructive approach, you will find that your man ismuch more responsive to your needs and you may be surprised at just how mucheffort he puts forth to win your approval.
  13. 13. These are just a few initial things that you should never say to your man. To fullyensure that your marriage is strong, rewarding and affair-proof, I strongly recommendfor you to download this FREE course from Dr. Frank Gunzburg. Click here now forinstant access. Taylor Ranidae is passionate about love and relationships and writes articles focusing on helping people save their relationships and marriages. Her articles are a must read for anyone who is looking to either salvage or further enhance their relationship.

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